Celestial Drama in Libra

[deeps]

Saindhavi ji

I looked at your chart again and found another reason why no marriage yet.

See your 8th lord is in 7th house which is 12th house from 8th house. This is the common factor in break up in relations or divorces. Now see that Venus is again afflicted by conjunction with malefic rahu and aspected by another malefics I.e. Mars and ketu. Only malefics influence on 7th house which destroys live beings. Hence no marriage yet. These are all negative karmic connections carried from past lives.

[milredr]

aseem,

Hi. Welcome back

Was just going through your horoscope. The asc is Dhanu but in a Sandhi. how did you figure that your lagna is Dhanu? Is it a case of mentally reassuring yourself that you have a exalted budha in a Kendra in the 10th house?

If the lagna is indeed Dhanu then you have a serious problem at hand because you have the lagna with two malefics and to add to it, a aspect from Saturn . to compound that, you have the moon caught between Ketu and Rahu .

Just wondering......Would love to analyse ur horoscope in totality. but on second thoughts ........forget it

[deeps]

Well Milred, I don’t know why you are still talking to me or continue to have special interest in me along with your fake gang. You have taken great pains to analyse my chart, with complete poor knowledge without my permission. I know your and husband details but won’t comment ever.

I know your intention is to take revenge on me. I know you deliberately used my chart to attack me when you have greater worries from your husband and your 7 year old child's charts. So look at your problems first before commenting on mine.

I don’t need an astrologer certificate from you and false praises from you. Carry on with your astrology. Bye.

[manya]

Skp,

Again, writing, just look around yourself and check how many have a perfect married life? Your mom, relatives, friends, neighbours...just that the intensity varies.

Rahu, Ketu and Saturn is there in everyone's chart, and one of the areas in every one's chart is affected. Even God when they were incarnated as humans they also suffered...

[basab14]

Rahu, Ketu and Saturn is there in everyone's chart, and one of the areas in every one's chart is affected. Even God when they were incarnated as humans they also suffered...

Akansha ji,

This is very, very true, what you have said. Everyone, without a single exception, has some problem or other in their lives. In my years in astrology (as a learner, of course), reading charts of numerous people, and observing their lives, as I always try to understand whether the law of karma is working in everyday life, I have noticed this that everyone suffers. Some try to hide their sufferings behind smiling faces, while others shares their problems openly, being naive. But everyone suffers. Even God, when he incarnated in this world, whether as Jesus Christ or as Rama, had to suffer. In this world of maya, no one can escape misery in some form or the other. I liked that line of yours specially that everyone has Rahu, Ketu and Saturn in their charts. You missed the greatest goon of all, though: Mars.

[Saindhavi]

Aseem,

Even seen from the Moon, if Saturn and Venus are combust, Malavya and Shasha yogas won't give effect.

Combustion of the Rashi lord can create problems sometimes.

As for why no marriage for me so far, the single most factor is that I crossed the years when I should have got married going though Rahu Mahadasha and this was complicated by my combust Rashi lord in 6th house of conflicts.

If you will know the details of my life, you will realise that this is the only problem - no other combination is bad for me. The periods of Ketu, Mars, Venus etc are never bad for me.

Ketu-Mars have made me short-tempered, but they have given me no other malefic effects.

Mars protects my 7th house - it's his own house. So, Mars aspect on 7th is not bad in my case. In fact, during Mars periods I have received some good opportunities.

But now, when I look back at my Rahu years, I realise that perhaps it was just as well that I didn't get married to all those people from whom I received marriage proposals. I would have suffered badly if I had got into any of those marriages.

So, I have no regrets.

The only regret I have is that I didn't get this wisdom during Rahu Mahadasha and I wasted a lot of years of my life in unnecessary emotional tensions. If only I had got this wisdom then, I wouldn't have gone through this unnecessary turmoil and would have planned my life very differently.

But one has to wait till Jupiter Mahadasha to get this wisdom.

So, now I am planning my life very differently, responding to situations differently and not getting into unnecessary emotional tensions.

If I can have the kind of marriage I want, I'll get married. If I don't get it, no problem. I will not have any regrets.

Yes, I can get married to a foreigner or to someone from another community.

[milredr]

Aseem

Forget abt me worrying abt my husband nd my sons chart, ur worried enuf nd written enuf for my sake. You have also written about my chart with poor knowledge and without my permission in the past i was just returning the favour. God bless u

[Saindhavi]

Akanksha,

The more i read about how you are handling your marital problems, the more I get impressed by you!

An IIT Graduate with so much of courage - your husband and in-laws don't know the worth of what they have got.

[manya]

You missed the greatest goon of all, though: Mars.

Yellow ji,

Yes, actually when I was writing, I wrote Mars first and deleted it. People told me that my Mars is good, so I thought Mars can be good also, but then Saturn and Rahu/Ketu can also be good. I have read if Saturn is good that means person is not very truthful and all and same goes for Rahu/Ketu, so teh next question which comes to my mind is that means the person will suffer in next birth then if Sat, Rahu/ Ket is good....

Tooooooooo much of confusion, aadha gyan is always dangerous and I really do not know anything about these planets ...: -)

[basab14]

Saindhavi ji,

You have talked about Rahu MD giving you unnecessary tensions, and Jupiter MD after that giving you wisdom and making you look at life in a new light. I understand this statement of yours very well because I have experienced the same in my own life--in a small scale, though--and the reasons for the irritations and anxieties being different.

I used to have terrible irritation and anger and anxiety and restlessness in my Rahu AD, but when I started my Jupiter AD after that I found a marked difference in myself. I was more calm and relaxed and happy and peaceful and could accept things better than I could in my Rahu AD.

[manya]

Akanksha,

The more i read about how you are handling your marital problems, the more I get impressed by you!

An IIT Graduate with so much of courage - your husband and in-laws don't know the worth of what they have got.

Thank you Saindhavi ji,

My mom is my biggest strength and whatever I am (and whatever not even), it is just because of her. She is the nucleus behind my existence!

[manya]

Saindhavi ji,

Feedback for the last few days-

1. My husband is also doing Karwachaut vrata along with me ( he says he is doing for me which i doubt though , and this makes me think that all men are ....... u know what )
2. I managed to get some work in my friend's company , which i had thought that I will not get because when i tried earlier there were people who were against me and blocked my progress. So in a way I am employed, except the monetary part which I need to sort out.
3. One interview is scheduled tomorrow.

[deeps]

Yes Saindhavi ji, I know what you are talking about when you talk about your life.

Akanksha ji,

You are an IIT graduate and people from such institute are supposed to be the most brilliant. They have brains to come out of any situation. I sometimes wonder why you are not using your brains to come out of the mess

With a strong 9th house, you should have come out of it easily.

[deeps]

My husband is also doing Karwachaut vrata along with me ( he says he is doing for me which i doubt though , and this makes me think that all men are ....... u know what )

Wow what a loving husband he is!!!

[manya]

My husband is also doing Karwachaut vrata along with me ( he says he is doing for me which i doubt though , and this makes me think that all men are ....... u know what )

Wow what a loving husband he is!!!

Aseem,

You very well know how loving he is.... But anyways, as you said, I think i should use my brain and get a BIGGGGGG gift for myself today...who knows this day will come again or not . What do u say????

[basab14]

and this makes me think that all men are ....... u know what )

Akanshaji,

I will avoid replying your astrological queries from now on as I know what you think of me.

[Saindhavi]

Akanksha,

That's good news!

Moon is exalted in your 10th house with Jupiter - this makes Gaja Kesari yoga in current transit, so it should be good for career. Only, presence of Ketu there is a problem, but I think you should get a good deal.

For whom is he doing Karva Chauth?

[basab14]

I am glad I have got to know how Indian men think before getting into a marriage.

Saindhavi ji,

Don't forget that the Indian men are also getting to know what the women of their country think. It's not just like that that I said I will go for arranged marriage--I will need to check the birth chart of the person I get married to very carefully. Can't take chances when it comes to marriage... a wrong choice can spoil my whole life.

[deeps]

Well said dada

[basab14]

If I am enjoying life through them, then it is my destiny. No need to feel jealous!

No, man, I am not feeling jealous of you. Whatever is destined will definitely happen, but then, does that mean one can't wish for anything? Even wishing for something is in one's destiny. I feel as you ran Rahu's MD, with Rahu placed in the 7th house of opposite sex, in your teens and youth, you became a huge craze among girls.

[basab14]

Thanks man.

Well said dada

[Saindhavi]

A Facebook Status Update I just read -

"Love is much deeper than a feeling. Love is a commitment we make to people to always treat that person right and honorably." -- Jim Rohn

[miav]

I see a lot of people going through Rahu mahadasha and suffering. I myself have been through 5 years of it and its pure torture. I see Saindhvi ji that you have been through it. It would be great if you could tell what is that you learnt from Rahu MD.. And any special warnings.. Things one should not be caught up in etc.. I myself have over 13 years of this torture left... And i hope your experience will be very useful..

[basab14]

I wish I knew what love means. With the planet of love, Venus, in the house of death, in my chart, and the 7th lord of romantic relations in the 12th house of loss, I have no understanding of that emotion. Will have to take birth again to understand this quote on love as in this life I have not been born with an understanding of the queen of emotions, love.

A Facebook Status Update I just read -

"Love is much deeper than a feeling. Love is a commitment we make to people to always treat that person right and honorably." -- Jim Rohn

[Saindhavi]

Miav,

You can read my Rahu Mahadasha experiences in the beginning of Rahu Mahadasha thread.

Basab,

Add to this "Marriage" as well and it would be just as relevant.