Love issue.. .please help

[morbid.lamentations]

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[subu137]

My dear friend
i am in the same situation you are in now. My best friend left me too. been friends for 4yrs 7mnths then started our relation spend 5yrs 7 mnths together when she realised that i controlled her too much. the truth is i stopped her from getting into trouble. and untill this very moment she hasnt had a loss or bad incident happen to her cos of me, only good things have happend listening to me. she used to listen to me very well wen v were friends. but now ppl around her fed things into her head and she has thrown me out of her life. my relationship ended at around end of feb also. Been just lik you sleepless and screwd. My girl says she loves me too but theres no point unless she starts trusting me.

Sad part is i was willing to let everything go for her, my parnts would never agree to our marriage as she was a divorcee. i was there to walk her through her emotional breakdowns, her health issues, she had hair growing on her face lik men. i never bothered cos she was my friend i lovd her. now shes all fine, pretty, happy. Now she says some other guy supported her more than i did. i fought with everyone who z she was wrong for me including my parnts. Now here i am looking for help just like you in astrology. I cant discuss this wit my astrologer also. My health is also just recovering from the past surgeries

i know this long sad story didnt help you and i know it wont make u feel good. i just pray as i cant do anything else. Horoscope explorer Pro is a software u might get some answers using it. it wont make u feel any good trust me

take care. dont wish for death and all. been there done that. it will only hurt the ones who really love you lik parnts friends. my friends dosnt like crying ppl (their words). so i stopped contacting them also. right now just lonliness, pain, health issue, my pet fish, internet etc are my friends. Recite hanuman chalisa daily it makes me feel better. also jobless and living wit parents at age 27

all da best i hope she comes back realising what u are truely

[morbid.lamentations]

I feel sad for you Subu. Astrologers here someone help me please.

[astroboy]

by morbid.lamentations » Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:47 am As per the birth records, my time of birth is 11:51 AM, but my personality traits and the life till now don't match with the horoscope when 11: 51 AM is taken into consideration, but match exactly when 12:14 PM is taken into account)

On what basis do you claim that the 12: 14 B.T. matches your traits ?

[astroboy]

Subu 137,
DoB:13th July 1985 Time: 7:45 am Place:Muharraq, Kingdom of Bahrain Girl DoB:10th Feb 1985 Time: 5:45am Place: kannanore, Kerala,

Nice.

[morbid.lamentations]

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[morbid.lamentations]

This correction in time is verified both by my family astrologer which he did about 8 years ago and recently when I submitted my data to an astrology site Astrobix.

[astroboy]

Subu - Viparita Raja Yoga.jpg

Subu, This is the first time I am seen three dustana lords aspecting the 7th from the Lagna. This is also the first time I am seeing a conjunction between the 12th and the 8th, 12th and the 6th, 6th and the 12th, 6th and the 8th, 8th and the 12th, 8th and the 6th lords in the Lagna itself. Nice.

[morbid.lamentations]

what about me Astroboy ji

[ChandraLagna]

Hi Morbid -

To confirm the time, are you the eldest and have one [at least], or two younger brothers?

[morbid.lamentations]

no ChandraLagna Ji I'm the younger of two brothers. I have an elder brother ten years older to me

[morbid.lamentations]

Astroboy Ji, ChandraLagna Ji and other senior astrologers here, please help me out, I on brink of losing the last scintilla of hope inside me I can't live without her, it's been over a month now that I havn't slept properly

[Kunal]

I think Astroboyji can perhaps explain the event.
I'm positing here because your story and the one that followed in the second post provoked me to.Why or how?For I too have had a similar if not exact situation.Friends,in love,finally she asks me to move on as she found someone who supported her more.I supported her when she needed emotional support the most.This started shaping up in December/Jan and finally received the blow in Feb/March.Was running through Rahu-Mars-Ketu and Rahu-Mars-Venus.

I was broken as well,tried finding the answers in astrology.Thing is ,with time,I've realized that whatever happened ,happened for the best.Its not worth going against people who have sustained you for someone who doesn't care about how you sustained them.Like care for the people who care for you ,I mean your parents.My friends didnt really support me either.They got bored listening to me.Though I got one or two ears.

Now things that helped me
Hanuman Chalisa
Reading about our vedas (astrological and other stories)
Extracts from Bhagvat Gita

Trust me,they have the power to introduce optimism in your mind.

The rectified time you gave seemed quite sensitive as the lagna would change had it been 30 secs earlier I believe.From the original birth time,I see Mars as lagna lord and Venus as Lord of 7H both placed in 11H of friends and desire under aspect from Rahu placed in 5H.Rahu is famous for creating illusions and deceiving.In Feb,you were running Mars-Venus-Rahu and further - Ketu * from 18th to 21st of Feb.

[morbid.lamentations]

thanks Kunal Ji. About the time issue, I submitted my data to some astrology sites. When I entered 12:14 PM it showed 11:51 AM as the 'Local Mean Time', the one which was recorded at the hospital. Regarding the second post which followed up, well mine case is bit different and the circumstances were also different. She still says she loves me a lot, and she would be there for me for whole life as a best buddy but not as a life partner. She says she had some of the best moments of her life with me. But some things couldn't be controlled. But still I have some hope dwelling in me. The thing is are those hopes or dreams dwelling in me rational, are they practical ? But since I'm in love these two words 'rational' and 'practical' are non-existent in my dictionary. I will wait for her till the end of the time. But I'm afraid of my end, I really don't want to die alone.

[morbid.lamentations]

and Kunal Ji I wasn't deceived. It was just bad luck and the event was unstoppable.

[ChandraLagna]

Morbid:

I asked you the sibling question to verify a particular aspect based on the supposed birth time. Your answer did not confirm, so just makes it harder.

[morbid.lamentations]

ChandraLagna Ji, my knowledge on Astrology is null. I know only about the time of birth as per the official records and the one which my family astrologer found out through his calculations.

[subu137]

Dear all
I posted so it can help morbid.lamentations. I know how he feels. and like kunal pointed out friends do get bored. My friend since the year 2000, said he was getting pissd at the way i am.and that he dosnt like me. The same person whom i had supported wen he was in heart issues(None that lasted longer than a year). I was even in a car accident with him the day he was hurting. Never blamed him was by his side wen his dad took care of the situation in 2002 wen we just joined college. Not bragging but the ears i found were the ones i was never that attached to.

Just told myself that ppl are diff they behave diff in different situation. i have reached a point were prayer or chalisa or vedas are not soothing the pain. I am jobless right now trying to move on. And its really difficult wen u dont have an aim. Really confused. I am really happy i found some support and ears here.

i feel my life has no meaning now. Just living for my parnts.

[subu137]

Dear astroboy.

Thanks for the analysis. but i didnt understand anything. What is vipreet rajyoga. Is it good or bad? u have seen her birth details also. do u see us get back together?

Thank you for your time

[morbid.lamentations]

19 posts, out of which 9 are mine. Still got no clue of my future with her Is my fate too ugly to be told Please I have high hopes on this forum

[subu137]

Dear Morbid

Dont loose hope. Have patience. someone will help you. Just that they need to know what time is your right time. I kno how you feel. I am not an astrologer if it helps make u feel better i will pray for u 2 to be one again.

[morbid.lamentations]

thansk Subu, the feelings are mutual.. I'll too pray for you

[morbid.lamentations]

????

[subu137]

Subu - Viparita Raja Yoga.jpg

Subu, This is the first time I am seen three dustana lords aspecting the 7th from the Lagna. This is also the first time I am seeing a conjunction between the 12th and the 8th, 12th and the 6th, 6th and the 12th, 6th and the 8th, 8th and the 12th, 8th and the 6th lords in the Lagna itself. Nice.

Dear Astroboyji

U have actually analysed the girls chart. The following is my girls (now broken apart) chart.

Feb 10th 1985
5:45am
Kannur, Kerala, India

My Details
13th july 1985
7:45am
Manama, Bahrain

Could u please analyse my chart as well. and if possible could u please tell me if there is any chance of me getting back with her ever again.

Thanks

[morbid.lamentations]

is there any hope for me ?