Shrikanthji astoboy pls help

[nichas73]

my dob is 28th dec 1973 place is delhi time 8.20 am
hers is 17 th april 1978 place delhi time 7.45 ieshtkal=4:32:53

we got married on the 15 april 2001

Ours has been a rocky marriage from day 1 first we thought with kids coming in things will change but that has not been the case it got worse and worse, it got to point of separation last year around march april .

then this January she left on the 24 and after many meeting came back on the 15th feb both tried but on sunday the 11 march she said she is leaving for good and will not come back and not to have any type of contacts with her she has taken all her belonging sending a very clear message that there is no turning back. i love her but now i am also fed up of the constant fights. do my charts show second marriage. or i just have to live it up alone (she is not coming back)

we have 2 children

how long should i wait to proceed with any kind of legal action even the legal proceeding will ask for 6 months before divorce