Cursing

[Vel]

Hi All,
If someone curses you, will that effect you in this life are next life?
Is it possible to find out, if you have been cursed by your grand parents in this life in your birth chart?
Is there a remedy we can follow, if you have been cursed?
Thanks
Vel

[shilpa]

Hi All,
If someone curses you, will that effect you in this life are next life?

yes, depending on the severity of th curse and your karmik balance, it may get carried over into the next life

Is it possible to find out, if you have been cursed by your grand parents in this life in your birth chart?
your concscience should tell you

Is there a remedy we can follow, if you have been cursed?

from a karmik penance point of veiw, serve the aged in a destitute or old age home if possible
Thanks
Vel

[Saindhavi]

I don't know about the grandparents' curse. I don't think grandparents curse their own grandchildren.

It's just that if you don't treat your elders well, you carry the sin of mistreating them. And you have to suffer the consequences of that sin - even if they don't curse you.

As for cursing, we should never curse or wish ill for even our worst enemies - even if they have caused great harm to us. If the curse or ill-wish comes true, the person cursing will also suffer, because his/her words caused ill fortune to befall on someone else.

We should leave the fate of a wrongdoer to God to decide, rather than wishing him/her ill or cursing.

As for remedy for any hurt feelings you may have cause to grandparents, serve old people and take their blessings. If grandparents are alive, set the wrong right by treating them well.

[Vel]

Thanks Shilpa ji and Saindhavi ji,
I understand from which angle you guys are seeing my question.
This is my in-laws way of taking their frustration. Whenever they get upset they curse everyone who is involved in that.
When my daughter was year old my MIL cursed her and said to me that she will also ..... like ......(I don't want to repeat it)
Same way, when my daughter is 19 years old my FIL cursed and said .............
He keeps repeating it to everyone. I once told him she is your granddaughter, you shouldn't say such things, but he says she is not my grand daughter any more etc..

To my horror -- may be the curse is happening.


PS (May be, I should stop thinking and be positive, and to believe that all my problems are not because of someone frustration)
Thanks for listening.
Vel

[shilpa]

Thanks Shilpa ji and Saindhavi ji,
I understand from which angle you guys are seeing my question.
This is my in-laws way of taking their frustration. Whenever they get upset they curse everyone who is involved in that.
When my daughter was year old my MIL cursed her and said to me that she will also ..... like ......(I don't want to repeat it)
Same way, when my daughter is 19 years old my FIL cursed and said .............
He keeps repeating it to everyone. I once told him she is your granddaughter, you shouldn't say such things, but he says she is not my grand daughter any more etc..

To my horror -- may be the curse is happening.


PS (May be, I should stop thinking and be positive, and to believe that all my problems are not because of someone frustration)
Thanks for listening.
Vel

there has to be a genuine worng-doing for the curse to be affected

[Vel]

Thanks shilpa ji,
It is a re-leave to know that all the curses will not come true. It really worries me that my daughter's grand parents always says mean stuffs about near and dear peoples.
Vel

[Saindhavi]

Vel,

You can post your daughter's chart details on this site and ask for readings. Perhaps there are some afflictions in her chart.

Besides, tell your in-laws curses always revert to the person who curses and s/he carries the sin of cursing, hence they should bless her rather than cursing.

[Vel]

I have posted her chart couple of times in LOVA anyway.

[shilpa]

Vel,


Besides, tell your in-laws curses always revert to the person who curses and s/he carries the sin of cursing, hence they should bless her rather than cursing.

That is very true....curses hurled without a real reason or feeling of hurt...rebound to hit the native...sometimes in this world...often times as accrued negative karma

[Vel]

Thanks shilpa ji,
Would you please read her chart, and let me know how is her future? marriage? career?
Vel

[shilpa]

Thanks shilpa ji,
Would you please read her chart, and let me know how is her future? marriage? career?
Vel

yes I would be glad to

[Dhanvanta]

Namaste,

Here are some suggestions to deal with this and similar situations:

1) In the first place, It is very important to not worry about it since when you constantly worry you make the situation even worse instead of solving it.

2) Then, a powerful solution is a heartfelt prayer and asking the Divine to solve the issue the best way possible. This alone works wonders. The most powerful friend who can always help is already within you!

3) Some mantras have a very strong protective power. One could chant them to ward off negativity directed at him/her. One could also chant the mantra of his/her Ishta Devata for this purpose.

4) You could send your loved one (or anyone) positive vibrations by regular sincere prayer for their overall well being. Just pray and leave the mechanism to the Cosmic Consciousness.

Warmly,
Dhanvanta

[Vel]

Thanks Dhanvanta.
I really appreciate your input.
Vel

[krishnagopal1968]

Dear Dhanvanta ji,

Your reply is a wonderful one. All the four suggestions and your final point,'leave it to cosmic consciousness" shows the depth.

Very sad that people like you have contributed less in this forum.

I can't say "appreciate you" but '"love you for this insights". Let existence give you peace and happiness.

[Dhanvanta]

Dear Vel and dear Krishnagopal1968,

Thank you very much for your kind words.

Warmly,
Dhanvanta

[Bhimaparakrama]

Dear Simn,

That is a very sad story. This is indeed possible with the help of a tantrik or some aghori.
There is even a historical account of something like this happening. In the Adi Parva of Mahabharata there is the story of King Yayati, an ancestor of the Pandavas. He was cursed by shukracharya to become old and stripped of his youth ( you can find the details and reason of the curse in Mahabharata), Yayati begged Shukracharya to withdraw his curse, however he didn't but said that he could transfer it to someone else. Yayati asked his five sons to accept the curse, only his youngest son Puru accepted it, and Yayati became young again, Puru became old at once due to the curse.
The transfer part is a prime example of what could have happened with your family. A transfer of curse is indeed possible.

[Naresh]

Hello all,

I think transfer of curse used to happen in the times of great Rishis in satyug but in Kalyug which is karam pradhan this can not happen. EVerybody has to go through their karmas and pay for any bad deeds or karma they have done in this life. Tantrik or aghoris (I do not know much about them) esp tantriks are after money and they will take out all your money, jewellery from your pockets as much as possible and person gives because he is unable to see or feel that inspite of in an anger he cursed somebody he should learn to forgive others and wish others well. The problems in this yug is all rakshas and devata like people have come together on earth after satyug is over as before they used to live in pataal. That is why this yug is made karam pradhaan so that each and everyone should pay for their deeds here only.

This is what I think.... and do not worry about the person who died of skin disease although we wish him well and pray to god to give him peace as we do not know much about that person. Even your MIL did contact some tantrik to transfer the curse, all the bad deeds that her brother had to go through now you MIL is going to get it and you do not know how many lives she is going to live and in what circumstances just to exhaust that karma. if you think that the brother is innocent then his all the bad karmas in previous or this lives has been consumed by your MIL and he should be fine in next life or may be got the salvation.

GOD NEVER DO ANY INJUSTICE TO ANYBODY SOMETIMES IT DOES NOT LOOK LIKE THAT BUT THIS IS THE FACT.

so next time when your fIL or MIL curses you or say something just pity at them that what kind of people they are that in the body of human they are behaving like animals. so do not argue with people like those as they are the sufferers, if you argue with them then all their negative energy will transfer in you and all your positivity will be transfer in them. this is why they are doing to achieve that. i know it is very hard to remain positive in that situation but with practice you will be able to learn that. as soon as they start talking negative just pray to any lord or start chanting shri ram shri ram shri ram.... and ask god to give you patience and wisdom so that it does not have any affect on you or go outside and do not pay any attention to what they are saying... have full faith in GOD and pray to god... as far as your daughter is concern ask her to chant devi strotra or worship durga as devi is the one who is going to protect her.

[Vel]

Thanks Naresh,
I am touched by your advice. I cross my finger and hope and wish that my FIL and MIL's cursing doesn't effect my kids.
Thanks
shri ram shri ram
Vel

[Dev]

Hi Krishnagopal and Dhanwantha:

Can a person younger curse an elder say both are not related but were friends. What would be the effect provided the younger one was irritated by the other.