Deleted

[sumyramasamy]

Deleted

[astroboy]

Good day Sumyaramaswamy,


There is a saying in sanskrit, "Vinasha kale vipareeta buddhi" which means when its time for a man's destruction he starts thinking in a twisted way. I think you husband is asking for trouble, trouble he is bringing upon himself. This will eventually destroy him.

The first point is that the man's 7.5 years of Lord Shani has started. The 7th house is caught between two deadly malefics showing that he is not destined to know what a good married life is. The lagna lord is in the 12th house of bed pleasures. this is a least desired combination. The lagna lord is aspected by lord Shani, Shani is in debilitation in the Navamsha. the Navamsha's affliction has to be seen to be believed. if we move the time back by 2 minutes the navamsha lagna will be Mesha. A debilitated lord Shani in the lagna aspecting the 7th house is a sure killer. Moon lagna in Navamsha is also afflicted heavily. as such i do not see any hope that the situation will improve. There would have been some hope if there would have been a dasha change, but the fact that he was married in Shani dasha, and the fact that the dasha is still running, I don't see any chance of him changing ever.

Yes there is a affliction in his horoscope that indicates that married life will be a uphill task, but what is stupid on his part is that he does not want to put some effort to make it work. I mean the free will is not being used at all. this is wrong on his part.

After having a look at your horoscope I can preety much confirm that there is nothing left to repair here.

I think you should be bold enough to call it a day, may be then he will see the light. some times sepraration makes the heart grow fonder. I have seen many cases where seperation has worked and the man has realised his mistake and come back a better man.

To be honest i just wish that all this would just go away and that the two of you could be happy, but I dont see that happening here. So at the cost of be pessimestic and negative i suggest that you seperate for a while and see if he changes.


trust this helps,

[revribhav]

Aries moon is vargottama,I hope it becomes stable relationship from last quarter of novemeber 2011.

[sumyramasamy]

Hi astroboy,

Thank you for the detailed explanation. Though it gives me such despair to read thru your post but I believe that what u have said is the truth. Truth hurts & it hurts real bad in my case. Thank you again for assisting me & giving me a peace of mind. At least now I am in a clearer state of mind of what to expect out of this relationship & to know where it's heading (or unheading).

Hi revribhai,
Thank you for replying.

[astroboy]

Madam, please do not despair. there is a God above who is watching everything, your tears and your pain will go no where but land on your husband's head, it's just a matter of time trust me, it is then that he will may be realise his folly and like Revribhavji said come back to you and form a stable relationship. there is a nice line sung by Craig David "you dont miss the water till the well runs dry" I think you get my point, it's only when you are thirsty that you realise the importance of water. some seperation time should restore his sense of duty.



God bless you,and may he give you the strength to bear what is in store for you.