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nvaidya112
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Hello. I have been married since 2021 and I have had many difficulties in experiencing a healthy sexual life. My husband and I have had many problems related to this. I have a lot of desire but my husband does not. I feel very disappointed and disatisfied because of this. Does my chart show any conjugal happiness? Will my marriage survive this or will I find someone else in the future? Please kindly help and advise. Thank you!

Birthdate - February 11, 1995
Birth Time - 7:38 PM (19:38)
Birth Place - Mumbai, Maharashtra.
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Your chart shows average behavior towards sexual urge.
Give Husband details. ... Seems he has affliction.
EXAMPLE: Ketu in the 7th house gives premature ejaculation.
The distance between the Sun and Venus is also very important. Venus very close to the Sun [say within 3degrees and 20 minutes] affects the sexual urge of a native. They do not go for sex for pleasure.
In this case if Venus is ahead of the Sun then the affliction is severe however, if Venus is behind the Sun then such native would like to have sex specifically for the purpose of having children.

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Thank you so much for the response.

Husband’s details are:
Birthday - October 29, 1991
Birth Time - 8:30 AM
Birthplace - Mumbai, Maharashtra

Could you explain the sexual compatibility and if there is any remedy? Thank you so much, I really appreciate it🙏🏾
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Hi,

I'm inclined to think you guys have anger/temper issues and seem to have made a habit of having arguments and cat fights in the bedroom. Inherent weakness of mind or mental weakness is not helping your cause either.

Lastly, it might not be bad idea for you guys to consider get a through medical examination done to check if there are any underlying health conditions.

Sincerely...
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I think your husband details are incorrect.
He may be Sagittarius having Moon and Ketu in the 7th house.
This chart then shows frequency of having sex on the higher side but could not satisfy you because of premature ejaculation.
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nvaidya112 wrote: 28 Apr 2025 Hello. I have been married since 2021

Could you share date of marriage.
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Our court marriage was on June 3, 2021. Our Vedic ritual marriage ceremony happened on November 17, 2022.
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The date of marriage does not justify your birth details.
Are you premature/C-section or twin born.

HOWEVER: [Female]
You have Saturn n Rahu together in the Navamsa chart, this means no matter how many times a native marries till he /she is 32/33 years old.....all end up in separation.

AYANAMSA USED: 22:54:09

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Please remember VEDIC ASTROLOGY is a divine science and excellent in prediction.
BUT
Totally dependent upon the exact birth details [when a child first cries and the birth is normal, this means completing 9 months]. You need to know the exact time plus the GPS of the exact place of birth.

With incorrect birth details the answers will not be reliable.


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AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-3 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 300 events].
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nvaidya112 wrote: 08 May 2025 Our court marriage was on June 3, 2021. Our Vedic ritual marriage ceremony happened on November 17, 2022.
Before you got married I gave you few replies on your chart. You may visit the below link and read my reply. Good luck.

viewtopic.php?p=299671#p299671
viewtopic.php?p=285521#p285521
http://astrologer.Sujit.tripod.com
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance and one should take note of the energies of changing dasa lords.
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