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Sowkad
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Hello learned astrologers,
My life has stopped from all directions. I don't have no respect from any relations. My marriage is getting delayed even after many attempts. Im crying while writing this, even my father doesn't five value my single opinion, constantly degrades me saying I'm unemployed and don't have any other work and keep on giving my suggestion which is totally a frack. I will never get a good life. He never protects whenever me and my mother is degraded mentally by his brothers or any other person. When I argue over the matter, he shouts and says, it's not his responsibility and we shouldn't ask him to react. Im making the things worse. From childhood only Im facing a kind of his ignorance because I inherit the personality of my mother. I thought the day will come when he will change his mind, but it never happened. I want to get out of this life, want a life partner who respect my views. Will this ever happen? When will I get out of this problems? Can anyone tell me please.
Dob: 19-06-1987 time: 04:03 am place: Mangalore.
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The unknown things which happens in our life is because of karma, and the best remedy to over come this is to ignore those who hurt you, be it your friends, family or relative, just ignore them and follow the path of spiritual life, just pray God.put the burden on his shoulder, do your duty and when the time comes you will get good results.
Sowkad
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@Aishwarya: Thank you so much for your positive words.
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@sowkad Going by the given details your ascendant is in Taurus with venus in own house lagna.

You must be above average/good looking person with inclination of indulgence in food & sensual pleasures.With some weight issues surfacing due to indulgence.

You are running Ketu dasha since 2015 & all issues mentioned would have started post that it would have been a period of feelings of detachments.
Mercury MD period before 2014 that time would have been much better compared to 2015 onwards.

Now the good news is you will start Venus MD 2022 onwards which will prove to be the best 20 years of your life going by venus rulership & position in your chart.

Saturn sitting in 7th invariably delays marriage.
Marriage to a serious more matured partner & period after 2022 is when you can expect it to happen.

Rgds,
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@Agog : Thank you for your response. Yes I am good looking person but I don't have weight issues. Infact I have under weight problem. People think that I'm on a diet, advice me but that is not the case. I like all pleasures but in a limit. I am running through ketu Dasha since 2014 and it is going to end in October 2021 if I'm not wrong. And yes, there is a kind of detatchment in every area of life. I'm seeking the real meaning of life, meaning of relations because I came to know the true colours of people. I fear to enter into the marital relationship sonetimes because of that. Mercury Dasha was not happiest part, but it was a kind of easy going Dasha where I was immature without much worries about future. I'm happy to know that my future would be full of happiness. But again a kind of doubt still there in a mind. Is it real? Will it happen ever these are the every day question that arise in my mind. Can you tell what would be the profession my spouse? I'm quite worried because the kind of proposals I get now a days is below average in All aspects. Is his career related to oil and gas industry? Could you please elaborate a little bit about my spouse please? Thank you in advance.
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Hi Sowkad

Sorry to learn the details about your personal struggles.
In my humble opinion yes I understand your pain and your duties for your mother at the same time see in family everyone responsible for own karma ...and until your uncles are not doing bad for you ,u need not to be in bad terms...

However coming to your chart..Taurus ascendant and lagna lord is in lagna looks awesome on surface ,the yoga karka saturn aspecting it and lagna which is definitely a good thing...but as you know Venus rules relationships and a careful inspection will reveal this Venus is in Mrityu Bhaga degree (otherwise venus in own sign never harm relationships) Mrityu bhaga means the dead portion of degree where planets brings pain in those area which they rules...mrityu is not literally mrityu but death like pains and other thibgs like insults shame fear health issues or anything...
Mars being 12th lord in 2nd house is somewhere keep finance up n down and 2nd house also rules family and speech, and I can vouch for your anger and frustration in speech.
I believe the problem diagnosed is half done...it will be great that you keep a emotion balance and improve your relationship with each member. Praying Shiva is specially useful for planet in MB.
Hooe this helps
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Venus75 wrote: 30 Jun 2020 Hi Sowkad

Sorry to learn the details about your personal struggles.
In my humble opinion yes I understand your pain and your duties for your mother at the same time see in family everyone responsible for own karma ...and until your uncles are not doing bad for you ,u need not to be in bad terms...

However coming to your chart..Taurus ascendant and lagna lord is in lagna looks awesome on surface ,the yoga karka saturn aspecting it and lagna which is definitely a good thing...but as you know Venus rules relationships and a careful inspection will reveal this Venus is in Mrityu Bhaga degree (otherwise venus in own sign never harm relationships) Mrityu bhaga means the dead portion of degree where planets brings pain in those area which they rules...mrityu is not literally mrityu but death like pains and other thibgs like insults shame fear health issues or anything...
Mars being 12th lord in 2nd house is somewhere keep finance up n down and 2nd house also rules family and speech, and I can vouch for your anger and frustration in speech.
I believe the problem diagnosed is half done...it will be great that you keep a emotion balance and improve your relationship with each member. Praying Shiva is specially useful for planet in MB.
Hooe this helps
@venus75. Thank you for your advice. I'll try to do the same from now onwards. Yes, my words becomes harsh whenever people try to put down me or my family members. I mean my family is very straight forward and we always do good, think good for others. But instead of keeping the gratitude, they take us for granted. Thats what makes me irritating the most. People tell me that I'm going to have a fabulous 20 years of Venus Dasha with all kind of happiness. Could you tell me how will my life partner be like? How is he in terms of appearance, nature, profession? I read somewhere that Saturn means oil and gas related profession. Is this true? Please advice, Thank you in advance.
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My suggestion will be only that you should match charts before marrige and by saying that I do not mean the 36 guna milan ,some one who can check the quality of houses rather than a quantitative analysis...

Venus dasha itself is a marrige giver so yes as your ketu ends you will feel relief in the sense of detachment, separation and other ketu effects.Saying that keep in mind Venus is in Mrityu bhaga ...plus saturn in 7th has to do nothing with oil or gas industry working spouse...all who has mars in 7th do not marry soldier and likewise...keep your mind open for selction match making is the only tool I see here can be helpful.
All d best
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Hi,

I've had a chance to cast the birth-chart using True Lahiri/Chitrapaksha Ayanamsa and coordinates of 74E 53' - 12N 52' (for Mangalore) and observed planetary positions/conditions. As per the stated setting, following notes might be relevant for your situation/experience and this thread:
1. Lord of 3rd house Moon/Chandra and lord of 7th (&12th) house Mars/Kuja are in Mrityu Bhaga and within Trimsamsa degree. Moon/Chandra is further afflicted by being placed in close proximity with Rahu.
2. Jupiter/Guru is in Sandhi/Cusp and caught in transition at the deep Gandanta degree. Further, it is posited in the Lunar Mansion of Ashwini Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu.
3. Lagna Lord Venus/Shukra is posited in the Lunar Mansion of Rohini Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra and malefic influence on Lagna is a cause for concern.
4. Likewise a few other Grahas/Planets are directly or indirectly connected to the week/afflicted ones as called out in #1 and #2.
5. Current Maha-Dasha of Ketu, posited in the Lunar Mansion of Hasta Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra has perhaps been trying - for obvious reasons.
6. Although Venus/Shukar is Yogakarak and placed in his Swasthana, please be reminded that he is posited in the Lunar Mansion of Rohini Nakshatra, ruled again by Moon/Chandra. So, the fortunes of upcoming Maha-Dasha can be deciphered.

Please consider seeking help/guidance from experienced and knowledgeable experts for appropriate Vedic/Dharmic remedies for early relief.

Sincerely...
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@sisya : Thank you for the analysis. I don't know the deeper knowledge of astrology. But I have shown my chart to almost 10,15 members everyone's reply is same. My Venus Dasha would be greater. And also I have yogakaraka Saturn in 7th house, my life after marriage is good. There is a delay but not deny of marriage. But everyone predicts different marriage time. Some say I have ketu in 5th house, that is putra bhava, hence marriage should happen in ketu Dasha only. Some say after commencement of shukra Dasha. Can you tell me about my Venus Dasha because this is the last hope I have right now. A hope for tomorrow is keeping me postive, happy till date. Can anyone tell me please? Thank you
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