Marriage Compatibility - Divorce?

[iseek]

Respected and Learned Members,

I have a marriage match with me, which under my analysis I had advised against, however the concerned people consulted another astrologer who has given them a go ahead saying it's positive. I wanted to have the opinion of the community experts on this and learn if I have gone wrong in my assessment.

Boy :
DOB: 14-04-1981
TOB: 00:38 am
Place : Nashik, Maharashtra

Girl:
DOB : 23-11-1984
TOB: 02.30 am
Place: Ambernath, Maharashtra

Please let me know your opinions. The marriage for them has been fixed for 19th November, 2018. Will it sustain and will there be happiness? I felt not but would like to correct myself if am wrong.

[vedam33]

I shared how to see charts about compatability go through that

[vedam33]

I just checked the chart of boy .his lagna is sagg .there is a delay in marriage .sat aspecting sun and moon Venus to sun distance less-than 3degrees so happiness from marriage less .some proposals for marriage might have been received during the period 2015 jul to 2016 Nov .pl find out .was engagement during may 2018 .
I think nothing harm will happen in there marriage

[vedam33]

Casted the chart of girl her lagna is virgo .sixth lord sat is in second and aspects 7th lord jup which is bad for marriage .sixth lord in second shows family might be knowing each other .there is delay in marriage upto 33years age approx the lady might be over intelligence and argues much very difficult to adjust with her might be adamant .jup is in libra in D 9 .so lot of adjustment is required will she adjust is big doubt ? Happiness from marriage is very very less .she has to adjust a lot for sustainability of marriage ?

[vedam33]

for good attraction between male and female the following is to seen in both the charts.Sa and Ra of Male if it aspects Mars of female then there will be
attraction, means here Mars is the sexual barometer of female. Next, Venus
is the sexual barometer for a male and Mars for female, so if both of them
are aspecting each other then too there is attraction.
Now if u reverse it, say take Venus of female and also Sa and Ra of male
then too there will be attraction.
the above should also be seen in Navamsa too.
Comparing two charts should be done 1) Asc on Asc and 2) sign
on sign, Both should be checked.
For comparing 2 chart i.e. overlapping Ascendent over Ascendent OR
Sign over Sign both are valid we check
1) Male Venus with Female Mars.
2) Saturn of one chart with Venus of the other
3) Rahu of one chart with venus of the other
4) Venus and Mars in same navamsha or if the navamsa lords are the
same then that also can show close relationship
5) Sun and Moon of 2 charts should be checked. Mars of female and Venus of male.
the above were the points to be checked for compatability for marraige

[ProfessorPyareLal]

Hello,
To start with, your attitude of being open to other opinions is admirable - it's shows confidence and flexibility - frankly a rarety to find because many astrologers are stubborn in their POVs - maybe because of insecurities and disinterest in learning further, besides limiting themselves to only positive predictions (even though there isn't) because few prefer hearing the honest negatives.
I too at this age am enthusiastic to new concepts, permutations and combinations and exceptions.

Coming to the 2 data that you have presented - I agree with your POV on them. Please also check the longetivity of the spouse in her horoscope should they decide to get married based upon Dasha.

Thank you,
P.PyareL

[iseek]

Thank you for your views professor.

I had not looked at the longetivity aspect. Would you share your views on the same as well.

Thank you.

[tylorechandra]

@iseek,
For the same girl's chart, another boys chart (yours?) is also linked in the prasna forum. Are the two cases same ?
TKC

[iseek]

@tylorechandra
Yes the two cases are same. Things are a little complicated, the prashna forum post has some details. Not divulging much on the public forum though.

[tylorechandra]

Different birth times for boy ? Which is correct ?

TKC

[iseek]

As I mentioned earlier, it's a little complicated, there are two boys hence different details. The details of the boy in this post are of a proposal that was recieved. Hence the question on their compatibility and sustenance of the marriage. The marriage is fixed now, in November.

The Prashna post has the details of the boy that the girl is in relationship with and where both want to marry each other but are helpless in the current circumstances now.

[tylorechandra]

The marriage, if it happens in Nov this year, is more likely to be a difficult one to sustain. The girl's chart shows two marriages. The boy's chart shows kuja dosha too, though its effects are assumed to reduce after crossing 28 years of age. The same dosha is in your chart too.

TKC

[iseek]

@tylorechandra

Thank you for your feedback. The marriage with this boy is now fixed and is set to happen in this November. The girl is not happy and doesn't want that but can't help it now cos of family situations and moving ahead accepting this as destiny. Let's see now what and how the destiny unfolds.

[iseek]

@tylorechandra

On another note, can you elaborate a bit on the reason for your observation on the marriage sustenance. Would like to understand the astrological assessment.

[iseek]

[quote=tylorechandra post_id=270608 time=1540218474 user_id=7882]
The marriage, if it happens in Nov this year, is more likely to be a difficult one to sustain. The girl's chart shows two marriages. The boy's chart shows kuja dosha too, though its effects are assumed to reduce after crossing 28 years of age. The same dosha is in your chart too.

TKC
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@tylorechandra, can you please elaborate on this observation as to the reasons for this view. Just trying to add to my learnings on astrology here.