While contemplating on the subject of marriage, I asked myself two questions - Why I want to get married and what kind of guy will be right for me?
With first question I got the answer, the two reasons I wanted to get married was -1. Love and 2. Childrens. Love, I dont believe in it anymore. And children one not necessarily need to get married for that, I can always adopt.
And now I am thinking if to make this decision or not, end all the trails of marriage abd stop investing my energy on a meaningless pursuit.
The reason I am in this forum is that I want to think it through in all directions. I know the struggle of a single lady parent in Indian society, but that is okay, society dont comes to save a wife when her husband beats her or cheat on her. And I have been lonely soul since childhood, so guess I can take that pang. My parents disappointment will be also deep but last, rather than go through same ordeal again and again.
But what I want is not other, relatives or family point if view, I want to know myself. Can I carry the weight of this decision, is this my true calling. I want to be true to myself and need help of astrology in self discovery if it can. Once set I can not go back, so it has to come right place.
Marry or not to marry
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astrolover2017
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Please provide your birthday, time, place to see your horoscope and true calling and life purpose and why you originated in this world.
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shweta_554
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Sorry, I forgot to add birth details,
Birth Date: 10/8/1985
Birth Time: 00:12 (midnight)
Birth Place: Bhilai, Chattisgarh, India
Birth Date: 10/8/1985
Birth Time: 00:12 (midnight)
Birth Place: Bhilai, Chattisgarh, India
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astrolover2017
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Birth Date: 10/8/1985
Birth Time: 00:12 (midnight)
Birth Place: Bhilai, Chattisgarh, India
Hi
Your rasi is Rishaba, Lagna is also Rishba. Your lagna lord Venus is in 2nd house (friend house). Your Moon is exalted which will give clear mind and strong support from mom (financially or emotionally etc). Your Mars and Jupiter are debilitated. You will make wrong decisions and will be under the assumption that you are right and very wise. Which might go against you. Jupiter is planet for wisdom and learning, Mars is for energy and passion. But have lost their strength. Your energy and passion will be wasted on unnecessary fights and conflicts in your life. dont waster energy on petty things.
Sani is exalted with Ketu, you will have to work hard for everything and will be disciplined and principled. Coming to why you were born on earth, Ketu represents all things we experienced in last birth and will not focus in this birth. Your ketu is in 6th place with exalted sani. 6th house is daily routine, debts, diseases, disputes. You will try to get away from all these and these will tire you but you will be pulled into it as Sani is sitting there. Your sani and ketu and mars aspecting 6th house and no benefic aspect is present, so praying to god to protect you from debt, disease, disputes is best solution.
Ragu shows what desires you want to fulfil in this life which you couldnt in last birth. Your ragu is in 12 place of bed pleasures, foreign travel, moksha, isolation, secret life etc. You must be very interested in these things in this life and your mind will try to focus on achieving this. again be sure you are going in good path for achieve.
Coming to your marriage - your 7th house lord mars in debilitated and with enemy mercury, problematic combo. Deb Jupiter aspecting and exalted moon aspecting it. With Jup deb, chances are you will get husband who thinks he knows everything and wants you to obey him always and wont give you equal importance.
Raghu Venus 24 - 10 - 2016 24 - 10 - 2019
You are running ragu dasa and venus bhukti. 12th house will be activated, 2nd house of wealth will be activated since venus is sitting there. Venus owned lagna and 6th house will get activated.
Pray to lord Shiva to help you make right decisiions.
Birth Time: 00:12 (midnight)
Birth Place: Bhilai, Chattisgarh, India
Hi
Your rasi is Rishaba, Lagna is also Rishba. Your lagna lord Venus is in 2nd house (friend house). Your Moon is exalted which will give clear mind and strong support from mom (financially or emotionally etc). Your Mars and Jupiter are debilitated. You will make wrong decisions and will be under the assumption that you are right and very wise. Which might go against you. Jupiter is planet for wisdom and learning, Mars is for energy and passion. But have lost their strength. Your energy and passion will be wasted on unnecessary fights and conflicts in your life. dont waster energy on petty things.
Sani is exalted with Ketu, you will have to work hard for everything and will be disciplined and principled. Coming to why you were born on earth, Ketu represents all things we experienced in last birth and will not focus in this birth. Your ketu is in 6th place with exalted sani. 6th house is daily routine, debts, diseases, disputes. You will try to get away from all these and these will tire you but you will be pulled into it as Sani is sitting there. Your sani and ketu and mars aspecting 6th house and no benefic aspect is present, so praying to god to protect you from debt, disease, disputes is best solution.
Ragu shows what desires you want to fulfil in this life which you couldnt in last birth. Your ragu is in 12 place of bed pleasures, foreign travel, moksha, isolation, secret life etc. You must be very interested in these things in this life and your mind will try to focus on achieving this. again be sure you are going in good path for achieve.
Coming to your marriage - your 7th house lord mars in debilitated and with enemy mercury, problematic combo. Deb Jupiter aspecting and exalted moon aspecting it. With Jup deb, chances are you will get husband who thinks he knows everything and wants you to obey him always and wont give you equal importance.
Raghu Venus 24 - 10 - 2016 24 - 10 - 2019
You are running ragu dasa and venus bhukti. 12th house will be activated, 2nd house of wealth will be activated since venus is sitting there. Venus owned lagna and 6th house will get activated.
Pray to lord Shiva to help you make right decisiions.
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shweta_554
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Hi astrlover2017,
Thank you for taking time and looking into my chart.
"Your Moon is exalted which will give clear mind and strong game independent, support from mom (financially or emotionally etc)"- I am not sure if get support from my mother, infant our relationship has been kind of complicated. When I was a child, before birth of my brother she was affectionate and loving, but after that I was just an emotional sink for her outburst and that made me reserved and turn towards God. After I became independent, our relationship improved, but again it is having its high and low because of marriage issue. At times, I thank God for such loving and supportive parents, who has not forced me to any person, but at times her desperation to get me married get me married goes so high, I feel falling apart.
"You will make wrong decisions and will be under the assumption that you are right and very wise"- I have made wrong decisions, have put my trust where should not have. But if I knew they are wrong, I would have never made them. I think I am wise, as I learn deeply from my mistakes or atleast try to.
"Your energy and passion will be wasted on unnecessary fights and conflicts in your life. dont waster energy on petty things."- I really don't have much left and don't like to fight, I am never comfortable with any sort of aggression or anger issues.
" 6th house is daily routine, debts, diseases, disputes. You will try to get away from all these and these will tire you but you will be pulled into it as Sani is sitting there. "- I am never comfortable being on receiving end, even in financial situation and don't carry a credit card also as I don't like the idea of living on debt.Disputes, ofcourse never liked them, disease, who wants them? But by God's grace hasn't faced any of these so far.
"Your ragu is in 12 place of bed pleasures, foreign travel, moksha, isolation, secret life etc." - I like sleeping, specially when sad. I am not fond of foreign stay, love my country, but yes just travel is fine, I like to have it once in a while, but not some extreme wanderlust for travel. Moksha, I find life hard and who wants to suffer but rather than running away will like to serve and help others who can be helped, whatever small part I have to play in story written by God, I will like to play. That way feel more close to God.
"With Jup deb, chances are you will get husband who thinks he knows everything and wants you to obey him always and wont give you equal importance." - That is one big reason of thinking in line not to marry, have been in unhealthy relationships and will not like to waste my life and energy over someone who don't add value to my life and just drain me of energy, leaves me broken to heal myself and take care of me at my own.
"Pray to lord Shiva to help you make right decisiions." - I am very close of Krishan since childhood. Respect shiva a lot and fond of Devi. But my true devotion lies to Krishna, but he is not talking to me for long time, can't understand his silence, it's on purpose, or I have distanced, don't know.
Thank you for taking time and looking into my chart.
"Your Moon is exalted which will give clear mind and strong game independent, support from mom (financially or emotionally etc)"- I am not sure if get support from my mother, infant our relationship has been kind of complicated. When I was a child, before birth of my brother she was affectionate and loving, but after that I was just an emotional sink for her outburst and that made me reserved and turn towards God. After I became independent, our relationship improved, but again it is having its high and low because of marriage issue. At times, I thank God for such loving and supportive parents, who has not forced me to any person, but at times her desperation to get me married get me married goes so high, I feel falling apart.
"You will make wrong decisions and will be under the assumption that you are right and very wise"- I have made wrong decisions, have put my trust where should not have. But if I knew they are wrong, I would have never made them. I think I am wise, as I learn deeply from my mistakes or atleast try to.
"Your energy and passion will be wasted on unnecessary fights and conflicts in your life. dont waster energy on petty things."- I really don't have much left and don't like to fight, I am never comfortable with any sort of aggression or anger issues.
" 6th house is daily routine, debts, diseases, disputes. You will try to get away from all these and these will tire you but you will be pulled into it as Sani is sitting there. "- I am never comfortable being on receiving end, even in financial situation and don't carry a credit card also as I don't like the idea of living on debt.Disputes, ofcourse never liked them, disease, who wants them? But by God's grace hasn't faced any of these so far.
"Your ragu is in 12 place of bed pleasures, foreign travel, moksha, isolation, secret life etc." - I like sleeping, specially when sad. I am not fond of foreign stay, love my country, but yes just travel is fine, I like to have it once in a while, but not some extreme wanderlust for travel. Moksha, I find life hard and who wants to suffer but rather than running away will like to serve and help others who can be helped, whatever small part I have to play in story written by God, I will like to play. That way feel more close to God.
"With Jup deb, chances are you will get husband who thinks he knows everything and wants you to obey him always and wont give you equal importance." - That is one big reason of thinking in line not to marry, have been in unhealthy relationships and will not like to waste my life and energy over someone who don't add value to my life and just drain me of energy, leaves me broken to heal myself and take care of me at my own.
"Pray to lord Shiva to help you make right decisiions." - I am very close of Krishan since childhood. Respect shiva a lot and fond of Devi. But my true devotion lies to Krishna, but he is not talking to me for long time, can't understand his silence, it's on purpose, or I have distanced, don't know.
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astrolover2017
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You are 32 years old and very much matured for your age. You are running ragu dasa who is in 12th house. so you will crave isolation and want to alone. Next is your jupiter dasa which is karaka for husband, so somehow you will get into marriage. But as you age, you will pick right partner. Your horoscope is not your exact blueprint for life, you can change your life through good deeds, prayers. Lord shiva is the controller of all planets, he is the best husband among gods. he gave his wife complete love, equality, power and loyalty. So the energy of lord Shiva will help you immensely.
goodluck.
goodluck.
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shweta_554
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Thank you astrolover2017. Will pray to Lord Shiva and hope well.
