Marriage - Time, type and longevity

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Dearest friends,

Please provide analysis for my marriage and married life. I got out of a relationship in June this year and got into another at the same time.

When will I get married and how will my married life be? What type of marriage will I have and how will my partner be? Will my marriage last?

My details(Female) : 31/March/1991, Time : 1:07 PM, Place, Cochin(Kochi), Kerela, India

Thanks in advance.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Any guidance will be very helpful. Thank you.

[vedicmaths]

hello dhivyaraamkuma,

Seventh house is under severe stress. Relationships will always be
under stress. Your moon is free with no graha to lean upon and this
adds to the problem. You may concentrate in building your profession
as an exercise to understand relationships.

truly yours,
vedicmaths

[karthik1984]

Hi, You are not suitable for marriage. Spirituality is better.

[AstroDrAnjna]

jup transit in Sagittarius will give you marriage
you have make efforts to make married life happy

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you vedicmaths ji, karthik1984 ji, Dr. Anjana ji. Thank you for the analysis. This helps a lot. Truly appreciate it.

I have a few more questions. Can the marriage be good if the horoscope of my partner matches my horoscope? Once married, will the marriage last or is there a possibility of separation(even if the horoscope of the person I marry matches my horoscope)? Also, will it be an arranged marriage or a love marriage and how will my partner be?

Thank you so much in advance.

[astrolover2017]

31/March/1991, Time : 1:07 PM, Place, Cochin(Kochi), Kerela, India

Your rasi is Kanya and Lagna is Gemini. Your lagna lord is in 11th house with Venus and 11th house lord is in lagna itself.

Jup is exalted, Moon has got digbala in 4th house, Sat is in own house, sun is in 10th house with digbala, you have pournami yoga. You will have good stable career, strong mind and clever.

Marriage is seen from 2,5,7,8 houses. Your 7th house lord is with ketu and has mars aspect, 2nd house has ketu and aspected by sani, 5th house has sani aspect. 8th house has sani and ragu. Lots of bad aspects so thats why it ended.

Second marriage is seen from 11th house. You have mer and venus sitting there. Mercury is your lagna lord and will always save you. venus is marriage karaka and god of love. Your second marriage will be a loving one as there are no bad aspects. Your husband will be loving. pray to Shiva for best husband as he is the best husband among the Gods.

goodluck

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you Astrolover2017 for the detailed explanation.

I am still unmarried. I had a failed love relationship. So, based on your analysis does it mean that I will have two marriages and my first marriage will not last, but second will be good?

I would also like to know, if for my first marriage, the horoscope of my partner matches with my horoscope( as per Nakshatra match, Lagna/Asc alignment check, Planetary alignment check and Navamsa check) can the negative aspects in the individual charts get nullified? Or, if my partner has a very strong horoscope for a happy married life, will it compensate for my weaknesses and will we be able to lead a good life together?

Also, is it possible to predict if I'll have a love marriage or an arranged marriage.

Thank you so much in advance. The help truly means a lot.

[Suresh_Chauhan]

This is not to discourage you but happiness of marital life has been eclipsed by conjunction of Saturn/Rahu in the 8th house. Mars in lagna makes you Maangalik. Jupiter maybe exalted but under aspect of 8th lord Saturn and disturbed by Rahu-Katu.

Based on these 3 things alone, horoscope match is a must before tying the knot.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you for the analysis Suresh Chauhan ji.

Can you please check if my current relationship partner's horoscope matches with mine and if I will be able to lead a good married life with him? I did a nakshatra match and lagna/asc alignment check and to my knowledge and understanding it appears to be a good match. I am not aware on how to check the other factors.

His details(Male) : 02/September/1986, Time : 8:04 AM, Place: Manjeri, Kerela

I understood that married life is difficult based on my horoscope, but I am trying to understand if that can be balanced/nullified if a good match can be found for my horoscope.

Thank you so much in advance.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

I have just started learning astrology and request expert guidance and support. Request an analysis for the above match. Can the negative aspects in my horoscope be nullified or balanced with this match? Any guidance will be very helpful. Thank you.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Any guidance will be very helpful. Thank you.

[Suresh_Chauhan]

As per horoscope boy is also Mangalik. Mars in 4th house, thus aspects 7th house of marriage. He is Kanya (Virgo) ascendant, Karka rasshi (moon is in Cancer, own house in 11th). Ketu-Rahu are on 1-7 axis, this is going to make all relationships difficult, including marriage. Lagnesh mercury has gone to 12th house, and 7th lord Jupiter is retrograde in 6th. Both indicate loss of significations of those houses, the 1st and 7th.

Means that there is affliction to his marriage lord, and marital life as well. The marriage lord Jupiter is in his own Purvabhadrapada nakshatra, an aggressive one. His Venus is in paap-kartari between two neutral planets Ketu and Saturn. Physical relations may not be of much interest to him.

Ascendant and Moon sign relation looks OK. Birth nakshatras are Chitra for you, and Aslesha for him. His Venus the Bhagyesh and Dhanesh is in 2nd house.On the surface, it seems like match. I suggest you still get a professional astro to review all particulars before marriage.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you Suresh Chauhan ji for the analysis.

I just have one more question. I want to know, that as per astrology, if both the partners in marriage have similar negatives - like his horoscope has bad relationships and difficult marriage due to Rahu-Ketu on 1-7 axis and my 7 th house is also under severe stress, if we get married, will the negatives in the 7 th house of relationships and marriage cancel out each other or will they add up and make things more difficult.

Thank you so much in advance. Truly appreciate the support.

[Suresh_Chauhan]

Yes, to some extent there is cancellation, esp. if its Mangalik dosh. Which means you, your chart is strong enough to withstand him, his chart

However -- and this is a Caution - do not expect the ongoing daily life to be peaceful, or without acrimony. The key is to keep the "long-term goals" in mind. What do I want from this, do I want to go abroad, do I want to start my own family, have children. Do I want to retire into old age with this person, can I help in his business or he help my career .... and so forth.

When there are shared goals, leads to shared expereinces and joys, and then the sorrows are muted.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you Suresh Chauhan ji for the analysis. This is very helpful.

I would like to learn how one should also check for the risk/possibility of separation/divorce from the horoscopes. How to check regarding the planet transits and their negative effects that can cause a possible risk of separation? Is it possible to check for this combination? I would like to understand the longevity of the marriage if we choose to get married. Any advise will be very helpful.

Thank you so much in advance.

[Suresh_Chauhan]

Mostly during transits of negative planets over natal negative planets, it can trigger these events. E.g. if Rahu is transiting over natal ketu, or natal Mars. Now if this ketu in 7th or 8th, or with Mars, or aspect 7th where another malefic such as Saturn. So there any number of combinations that can trigger it.

[joyd]

out of 12 houses,8 houses are severely damaged in your chart.Avoid marriage and relationships.They will give you severe disappointments and a kind of vexation on life.concentrate on something which gives peace and profits to you and society too.

joyd.

[anuradha]

8th lord in 8th house with Rahu aspected by Mars[6L]. So all malefic in 8th house but the aspect of exalted Jupiter is the saving grace.In D-9 Rahu[Vargottama ] again in 8H but under the aspect of Jupiter again. Full Moon in 4H under Kemdrum is the issue.Time is on for marriage .

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Thank you Suresh Chauhan ji, Jyod ji and Anuradha ji. Appreciate the help in getting some clarity.

@ Anuradha ji - So, according to your analysis, will/can exalted Jupiter save me from the malefics and give me a good married life?

Thank you so much in advance.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Dearest friends,

I thank you all for the analysis. I have an issue that needs to be addressed. While most have advised to stay away from marriage or have said that married life will be a struggle/take efforts to stay happy. But, I am finding it difficult to convince my parents for the same. They believe that if I marry someone whose horoscope is a "good match", I will be able to have a good and happy married life. Now, my concern is that I do not want to get married and end up with a divorce. Because, that will be a lot more painful than not getting married.

While I am willing to compromise and make adjustments to have a successful married life, I am not sure if that will be sufficient to make the marriage last. Can anyone advise if exalted Jupiter will/can save me from the malefics and give me a good married life?

Please advise if there is hope and a chance of having a successful marriage or if I will end up with a divorce if I get married.

Also, can a horoscope that is a "good match" ensure a good and lasting marriage for me or will a matching horoscope not make it any better for me?

Any guidance will be very helpful.

Thank you so much in advance.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Dearest friends,

I understand that several experts have advised against marriage and I am grateful to all of you for the analysis.

The reason to ask the above question is only because I am having difficulty in convincing my parents. I understand that it is not advised to get married, but my parents strongly believe that a "good match" will ensure a good married life. I don't know how to convince them or address their belief. Any guidance will be very helpful.

Thank you so much in advance.

[dhivyaraamkumar]

Dearest friends,

Please tell me if there are any strong signs of divorce separation indicated in my chart.

Thank you so much in advance.

[Sujit]

Dearest friends,

Please tell me if there are any strong signs of divorce separation indicated in my chart.

Thank you so much in advance.

There are no signs of separation or divorce in your chart. You will get chances for marry during the next antara of Mercury placed in 11th from March 2018 onwards. Good luck.

Regards,
Sujit

[joyd]

dhi-your 7th lord is in 8th from the 7th with ketu.so no happy married life.There is no divorce as sujith observed but the problem is your husband treats you as a slave or maid..This mars is in 6th house in navamsa.so your marriage will be far delayed and it wont happens in Mercury antara as sujith observed.so the marriage will happen only in venus anthara and not in mercury's anthra[ in between 10-5-2021 to 11-01-2024].

joyd.