Can this marriage be saved?

[djoe]

Dear Gurus,
These are birth details of a close family friend
20 May 1971
10:28 AM
New Delhi
She had a love marriage, with a colleague who is from another religion in July 1995. Marriage flourished well for many years with 2 male children and both doing extremely well in respective careers. However, for the past 3-4 years, they had lot of forced separations due to both their careers and as a result, their marriage is passing through a very rough patch, and also the husband is suspected of illicit affair with a colleague. He wants to divorce the lady, but she is desperately trying to save the marriage and even willing to leave her job. He is presently living separately due to his job.

The lady requests whether marriage can be saved and what prayers , etc are to be done.
Regards

[Nagesh Rao]

I cannot see any problem with the marriage apart from the usual hoo-hah that goes on with all marriages. BUT the only worrying thing is that the seventh house from Venus has one bindu from a Asc. In other words, she is keen on keeping the marriage going but none of the other planets are so keen.
Upapada lagna is aspected by saturn but the second from UL is aspected by Jupiter. So marriage can I think be saved.
Tithi lord is Mars with Rahu in a Earth sign. Watery tithi in a earth sign is good. Good. But Mars with Rahu indicates problems within marriage.
7th house afflicted by mars [exaltation rasi] in rahu in frinedly house. Lord is Saturn in excellent position whose lord venus is in friend house in neural navamsa in aries.

Remedies
a) Fast on Saturdays. b) Chant mantra number 10 for Saturn every day 108 times every day in the evening after sunset which is when Saturn will listen to you .......
ॐ सुखासनोपविष्टाय नम:।

BEST OF LUCK.

Nagesh

[anuradha]

Can this marriage be saved?
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Unread post by djoe » 26 Oct 2017, 18:54

Dear Gurus,
These are birth details of a close family friend
20 May 1971
10:28 AM
New Delhi
She had a love marriage, with a colleague who is from another religion in July 1995. Marriage flourished well for many years with 2 male children and both doing extremely well in respective careers. However, for the past 3-4 years, they had lot of forced separations due to both their careers and as a result, their marriage is passing through a very rough patch, and also the husband is suspected of illicit affair with a colleague. He wants to divorce the lady, but she is desperately trying to save the marriage and even willing to leave her job. He is presently living separately due to his job.

The lady requests whether marriage can be saved and what prayers , etc are to be done.
Regards

As per Tamil Jyotish, if 5th lord is a malefic and Rahu joins the 5th lord in the 3rd house. Spouse pick up the quarrel and run out of the home. A wicked person and many women/men are after him/her and he/she has ruined many.[ Pulippani Jothidam, By Mr N.S Natrajan]. This Yoga is applicable here liberally not literally.

[joyd]

critical to save.It seems the problem earthed out from 21-2-2017[very intensely].Nodes are key players and 5th lord exaltation,saturn-sun conjunction in 11th,7th lord venus in 8th in D-9,Mars in 7th in D-9, are secondary key factors for this present problem.From 25-11-2018,onwards the problem furtherly under more intensification and bond breaks before 26-01-2019.Destiny is great.

joyd.

[vedicmaths]

hello djoe,

the break could occur around the second half of 2018. That is the time when
things could flare up more. If she passes through, the marriage will survive.

truly yours,
vedicmaths

[joyd]

As per Karma Vipaka,if her father is alive,ask her to offer her sevas[services,not money helping.she has to help him in his daily routine activities and offering new clothes,tasty food etc, to him]/if not alive ask her to offer shraddha kriyas using one of her children as kartha.These things reduce the pain and intensity of the situation.

joyd.

[ChandraLagna]

@Djoe, would you know if the woman had an affair outside the marriage? It does not appear that just the husband is the one having an affair outside marriage.

[djoe]

[quote="Nagesh Rao" post_id=246183 time=1509054047 user_id=18520]


Nagesh
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Thanks Sir, but problem is very serious, not just an ordinary quarrel . Your remedies have been conveyed to her.
Regards

[djoe]

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Thanks ma'am

[djoe]

vedicmaths

Thanks Sir, much obliged
Regards

[djoe]

[quote=joyd post_id=246202 time=1509097035 user_id=18243]
As per Karma Vipaka,if her father is alive,ask her to offer her sevas[services,not money helping.she has to help him in his daily routine activities and offering new clothes,tasty food etc, to him]/if not alive ask her to offer shraddha kriyas using one of her children as kartha.These things reduce the pain and intensity of the situation.

joyd.
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Sir,
Her father is not alive. Will convey the remedy to her. Her children have been brought up in fathers religion, I really don't know if that can be done.
Thanks and regards

[djoe]

[quote=ChandraLagna post_id=246217 time=1509111649 user_id=4509]
@Djoe, would you know if the woman had an affair outside the marriage? It does not appear that just the husband is the one having an affair outside marriage.
[/quote]

Dear Sir,
I don't know that, and cant ask her that question.
Regards

[ChandraLagna]

Well, not asking & knowing that means just one side of the story is known. In any case, the oncoming period is challenging, all the way till 2020.

[Rakz1986]

I think she will leave her job to be with her husband hence married will be saved next year.

[AstroDrAnjna]

malefics in 7th house gives problems in married life
there is mangalik effect also
mars in kendra from venus
venus with dual sign
problem here is due to illicit relationship
current dasha of venus-rahu not favourable

[djoe]

[quote=ChandraLagna post_id=246265 time=1509177693 user_id=4509]
Well, not asking & knowing that means just one side of the story is known. In any case, the oncoming period is challenging, all the way till 2020.
[/quote]

Dear Sir,
You are right. We only know the Lady's side of the story.
Regards

[djoe]

[quote=Rakz1986 post_id=246272 time=1509189363 user_id=11236]
I think she will leave her job to be with her husband hence married will be saved next year.
[/quote]

Dear Sir,
Thanks, in fact she has said so to her husband that she is willing to leave her job. However, husband stlll wants divorce and has contacted some lawyer. However, no case filed till now.
Regards

[djoe]

Dear Ma'am,
Can you suggest any remedies? The lady is desperate to save her marriage
Regards

[anuradha]

She has Cancer Lagna and Mars Rahu in 7H. It looks she is a Hindu married a Muslim. Presently she is under Venus-Rahu-Jupiter. Venus -Rahu started from March[ 1-03-2017] this year and husband is under the illusions[ Maya] since Mars + Rahu in 7H. If religion permits ask her to do Hanuman Chalisa seven times in a day.

[djoe]

[quote=anuradha post_id=246400 time=1509382471 user_id=1778]
She has Cancer Lagna and Mars Rahu in 7H. It looks she is a Hindu married a Muslim. Presently she is under Venus-Rahu-Jupiter. Venus -Rahu started from March[ 1-03-2017] this year and husband is under the illusions[ Maya] since Mars + Rahu in 7H. If religion permits ask her to do Hanuman Chalisa seven times in a day.
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Dear Ma'am,
You are right. Will tell her that.
Thanks and regards

[djoe]

[quote=djoe post_id=246385 time=1509373201 user_id=15536]
[quote=ChandraLagna post_id=246265 time=1509177693 user_id=4509]
Well, not asking & knowing that means just one side of the story is known. In any case, the oncoming period is challenging, all the way till 2020.
[/quote]

Dear Sir,
We asked the question. You were right. There was a brief affair from her side in 2007, more like infatuation she says, no physical relations.
Regards

[astrolover2017]

Rasi is Meena, Lagna is Cancer and Lagna lord Moon is well placed that will help her to get what she wants.
Seventh house is afflicted by mars and ragu. Mars will give abusive or angry husband and ragu will surely create illict affairs.
If 11th house is stronger than 7th it means 2 marriage chances. her 11th house has jupiter aspect and sun and sani. so looks like 11th house is also afflicted but it has jupiter aspect. Mars exalted will make her have anger issues and she might be too energetic and aggressive herself than husband which will drive him away. Marriage karaka is in enemy house. her second marriage will be better but to save this marriage, best to pray to lord shiva

Lord shiva is best husband among gods and he is the controller of all planets

[Poojaramakrishna]

Hi Gurus,

One of my close relative horoscopes, please tell how their married life will be, below are there details.
It's quite urgent please

harini
Time:28/03/1988
Place: Hassan, Karnataka
Time: 1:58am

Abin

Time:05/05/1988
Place: Mysore, Karnataka
Time: 12:30am

[astrolover2017]

Please post separate thread for each reading and do not hijack existing thread

[djoe]

Dear Gurus,
Situation of the lady has not yet fully resolved despite several attempts at reconciliation. Husband continues to stay away from her. Any further advice for her?
Regards