Dasha of moon in 8th house

[new_astro]

Hi All,
I am experiencing many small disturbances and problems in my life because
of a dominating MIL and my husband's PHD
My details 5-11-1986/7.43PM/Mandya, Karnataka, India
He is trying hard, but his guide is not very cooperating.Our whole life is
totally dependent on him. Its already 6.5 yrs since he has started.
We have a lot of small but very irritating problems in way. Sometimes its
very frustrating, but really dont know how to solve them where as we cannot
ignore them also..
Nothing is in our favor ..he has lot of things to handle..

Please suggest if these will get resolved. If we trying solving one, we get
another commitment.,and it delays our work.
and we have a small kid to bring up also.He needs to finish his PHD and
join a job.
Both inlaws are aged and they have their complexities and insecurities.
Dont know how to manage with all these.
Please suggest some remedies.
It is very frustrating for both of us and we end up with arguments.
His details:
27-4-1983/8.40PM/Bangalore

I have my eluvare shani also going..and moon dasha in 8th house coming too.
I am actually very scared how to handle all these things if things
go even worse.
Now my Father in law is not feeling well and he is diagnosed with cancer and is under treatment.This is further adding to our difficulties and my husband's PHD is again delayed.There is a lot of uncertainity about his job and our future.Please let me know if ever our future will be decided or this is goign to be like this only..
Please help

[new_astro]

I request the respected astrologers to give some suggestions on this post.

[karthik1984]

Hi, praying lord shiva could help. Your husband is an aggressive person with lots of ego and temper, complexities.

In your chart it shows that there is difficulty with your mother.

Performing Rudra Homam Or Maha Mrityunjay Homam will be a savior for you .