Dear Rajath ,
I want to say only 3 points here,
Your parents must have also gone to some astrologers who must have pointed the following
Shani and Kuja in the 7th ( Most dangerious )
Lagna lord vakri in 8th ( swayamkrita aparada Jataka . you will cause pain and suffering to your self by your own deeds )
You have mentioned that your astrologer's have told you about second marriage . I do not support that view . Even if there is a 2nd marriage will you be happy ? No . . Shani and Kuja will always be there in the 7th house . a change in the girl wont change their position .
As a senior man , I suggest you to meet the girl and explain in a proper manner that she must behaving in a proper manner . You have to try to patch it up at any cost . I am sure in the long run , if chance is given to her she will make you happy . There is a good reason why marriage is matched from chandra . if the minds meet , every thing will be ok . thsi is why your parents insisted that you marry her . they have a lot of experience . they know what is good for you .
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Swamykool,
Let me tell u the synastery matching between my husband and I. lagna 2/12, moon 6/8, venus 6/8. I finished my 12th anniversary on the 15th of April. What do u have to say to this synastery now? I mean if the guy has decided in 6 months the matching is horribly screwed up, even God cant save the marriage. Dint the parents know the cultural difference? What is 6 months in a marriage that too an arranged marriage. One imbibes so many qualities from the other and then slowly there comes about a balance. However if one starts deciphering every bit of the horoscope as a postmortem and then decide in 6 months, God help the woman.
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Let me tell u the synastery matching between my husband and I. lagna 2/12, moon 6/8, venus 6/8. I finished my 12th anniversary on the 15th of April. What do u have to say to this synastery now? I mean if the guy has decided in 6 months the matching is horribly screwed up, even God cant save the marriage. Dint the parents know the cultural difference? What is 6 months in a marriage that too an arranged marriage. One imbibes so many qualities from the other and then slowly there comes about a balance. However if one starts deciphering every bit of the horoscope as a postmortem and then decide in 6 months, God help the woman.
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Milred,
The wife has left the husband and flew back over 2 continents within 4 to 6 months. I think this validates the situation. I did not have an opportunity to match yours and your husband's chart. So reserve comments. But happy 12 yrs - the subtle points must agree. Congratulations.
PS - Look at the subtle points I've mentioned and the very important gandanta factor Srinivas ji has mentioned. Just remember every individual is unique, no two charts are ever the same.
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The wife has left the husband and flew back over 2 continents within 4 to 6 months. I think this validates the situation. I did not have an opportunity to match yours and your husband's chart. So reserve comments. But happy 12 yrs - the subtle points must agree. Congratulations.
PS - Look at the subtle points I've mentioned and the very important gandanta factor Srinivas ji has mentioned. Just remember every individual is unique, no two charts are ever the same.
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Agree with u Swamykool that no two individual horoscopes r the same. But there is no point in doing a postmorten of the horoscope now, is there? The deed is done. What is the use of looking at the finer points now? 6 months is too short a time to give it all up......is the point i am trying to making, keeping astrology aside.
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The days of your grandma are over. If you wanted some mild and meek mannered woman then your parents should have picked one from the villages. someone from financially and socially lower strata ie a glorified maid and you'd have been happpy.
HEY BUDDY
WHATS WRONG WITH YOU WHY YOU SO OFFENSIVE?. THIS GUY CAME HERE FOR SOME ADVICE IF YOU CANT GIVE ANY ADVICE ATLEAST DONT DEMORALISE HIM...
HOPE U UNDERSTAND
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Dineshji, I do not agree, second marriage is seen from the 9H, 3rd from the 7H. regardsOtherwise, the SECOND-MARRIAGE is seen from the 8th from the 7th house that is the SECOND-HOUSE
• The THIRD-MARRIAGE, is seen from the 8th from the 2nd house, that is the NINTH – HOUSE
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Dineshji, I nobody to teach him but I have seen and researched in more than hundred charts. Please give why the first marriage was broken , if it was the first marriage. regards
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Please explain.• Please remember that in this case , the DARA-KAARAKA which is MARS does not represents the HUSBAND {The Second Marriage}, as clearly established by the points given in favor of the first Relationship {The GANDHARV-VIVAH}
I do not want to say anything. regardsBTW .... seeing and researching without a proper foundation is useless .... its a hap hazard way of trying to fit the logic to explain the event .........whenever i say something i give logic .... 6th is the house of accumulation {a part of arth trikone } thats why used for multiple wives simultaneously ....
A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first.
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
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Dear dinesh can u tel me more about the weekly courses by PVR pl. How does one enrol. Thanks
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Dinesh.srivastava wrote :
NOTE : as I have wrote in some other post that , It is not necessary that SOUL-MATE and the SPOUSE are the same person ,in such a case while considering the subsequent marriages the importance is to be given to the lord of that house which represents that marriage
It can't be more crystal clear then this ......
In this case the DARA-KAARAKA represents the SOUL-MATE , that is the guy with the first relationship .... have you not noticed the strong karmic connection
you were yourself talking about the karmic connection in rajath case ..... how come you not recognize it in this chart ??????
I again urge you to read again without bias very very slowly
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Dineshji, From Jaimini point of view DK is used for wife. Marriage is seen by taking into Darakarka Navmansha, Up Pada, 7H from Karkamsha lagna , any relation in terms of aspect or conjunction of Atmakarka and DK. This again should be verified in navmansha , along with the char dasha for the exact timing. DK remains the same for second , third------- marriages.5Lord and Putrakarka also give subtle hints. regards
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Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
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[quote]f you are hell bend on not understanding the distinction between the first and the second marriage and how the first hurt the second .... then i cant help you .
BTW ..... I don't wanna quote the scriptures , because that would be childish , their exists always some to cancel the other , BTW have you noticed the closeness in terms of degree of mars and mercury . and what exactly are your thoughts on chara -kaaraka replacement {i am just asking in general ..... curious to know that whether you are aware of its implementations and implications or not ????? }
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Dineshji, I am understanding the first and second marriage, but Jaimini Karka remains the same i.e DK. To prove the truth books are quoted even if you say it is childish. When Jaimini is used why the other Karkas are not used to explain your point along with Char Dasha.regards
BTW ..... I don't wanna quote the scriptures , because that would be childish , their exists always some to cancel the other , BTW have you noticed the closeness in terms of degree of mars and mercury . and what exactly are your thoughts on chara -kaaraka replacement {i am just asking in general ..... curious to know that whether you are aware of its implementations and implications or not ????? }
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Dineshji, I am understanding the first and second marriage, but Jaimini Karka remains the same i.e DK. To prove the truth books are quoted even if you say it is childish. When Jaimini is used why the other Karkas are not used to explain your point along with Char Dasha.regards
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Dineshji, Please do not write any thing which is not relevant here, it is like mixing two issues . It requires to read it again and again and see the others posts there, you will understand.Hints are present there. regardsPostby anuradha » Sun Apr 17, 2011 5:16 pm
Deeapakji, Purva Janam Sambandh is present, no matching is required. Excellent for each other. Regards
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BTW ..... WHAT's THIS ????? ...... IS THIS HOW YOU MATCH CHARTS ????
I fail to understand , would you please care to explain ?????
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Dineshji, O.K, every thing cannot be spoon fed . regards
A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first.
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
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Dineshji, Yes I learned, how to write irrelevant things. regardse: Request for horoscope compatibility analysis
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That's Exactly what I meant .........
I do not have the patience to teach you even the basics
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A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first.
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
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you were yourself talking about the karmic connection in rajath case ..... how come you not recognize it in this chart ??????
I again urge you to read again without bias very very slowly
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.BTW ..... WHAT's THIS ????? ...... IS THIS HOW YOU MATCH CHARTS ????
I fail to understand , would you please care to explain ?????
Dineshji, Mutually Exclusive. Regards
A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first.
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
“Reasoning with a drunkard is like
Going under water with a torch to seek for a drowning man.”
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Dineshji - You have good attention to detail I must say. But without Navamsa into consideration, can we infer correctly ? BTW PVR school of thought is correct, because 8th house to anything signifies death of it. And the new born(here marriage) is the result of the death(relationship) of first one. So, atleast from Rasi perspective, can we say mercury caused the break in first marriage, since it is 8th from 7th and in 7th with 7th lord ?
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