Can the 2nd Marriage survive ?

[vedam33]

Child birth was it occured during the period 2001 jul to 2003 dec

[praved]

ok.

But, as I said,

Incidentally, she suddenly took a decision to go back to his muslim husband.
The divorce case which she had filed, she took it back and decided to move in with the 2nd husband (after a 2 year stint with an other friend).

Do you see if the marriage sustains for a longer period of time ?

[vedam33]

Was birth of child occured during the above mentioned period, she having extra marital relations

[praved]

Not sure.

[vedam33]

Can you share any important issues or her parents ,i sent mail pl.check

[vedam33]

She might be having good memory,intelligent,daring ,moody ,interested in enjoyment of life ,music,spicy foods etc arguing nature

[Dev]

Is she your sister?
After filing for divorce, she took it back and decided to move in with the 2nd husband (after a 2 year stint with an other friend). She also married out of religion & went back to muslim husband.
So how desperate she is, it shows? What is the fun in changing partners often?
I think she is more interested in changing partners than in having a sustained marriage.
If she is so desparate, who can prevent her from falling?
Even people who as individuals are decent and comitted end up having marriage failures due to some misunderstanding, how can a lady who enjoys multiple partners with no committment to ethics be happy?

[vedam33]

Dev ji
Can you share in Astro format ,what made her to go that extreme ,here we are more concerned about why that occured in astrological parlance.sorry if i have hurt with my message.

[praved]

I agree with Vedam.

She is not related to me any which way. There are can be different reasons with different people. Eventually, our interests is mostly, what combinations make such controversies and see if can suggest them to come out of the situations. What advice can we give ? Thats it.

Vedam, "She might be having good memory,intelligent,daring ,moody ,interested in enjoyment of life ,music,spicy foods etc arguing nature"....all of these are fine. YES. true.

[vedam33]

I sent private message pl check

[Dev]

Mars venus conjunction also with sun, that too in 5th house love affairs but not fruitful
venus, sun debilitated in navamsa
11th lord mercury strong vargottama adamant
Moon in 12th unstable mind
Ju and sa both retrograde from 11 th aspecting 3 planets past life connectection seems there
Ra also aspecting the 3 planets making one live in fantasy
7th lord of rasi conjunct with two hot planets both natural enemies, ve 7th lord debilitated in navamsa, 7th lord of navamsa in 6th conjunct ketu
All these are not favouring sustained relationship.

[vedam33]

Mars venus conjunction makes inter caste or inter religious .6th lord (it is black hole) if it aspects second house or second lord definitely multiple relations ships or marraige . Lagna lord and 7th lord 6:8 relationship etc so with all these quality gone .venus totally spoiled

[vedam33]

More points in lagna very adamant jup aspecting sun then divorce

[Dev]

I know cases of mars venus at work place, somehow the one having this is trapped by other and they fall prey. In fact due to one such case, two families are ruined.
Another case with mars venus in lagna, the person looks ok but no job, married and wife brings money and everything but he is flirting in spite of having devoted earning wife, absolutely has no control of his desires

[Dev]

Also mars venus both are combust and as such weak in astavarga just 2 bindus. So affairs would be there which would not sustain.

[vedam33]

Her 6th lord is aspecting 2nd lord so multiple relationships ,can you share the birth details , for the cases mentioned by you for studying purpose by me if you don’t have objection

[vedam33]

I know cases of mars venus at work place, somehow the one having this is trapped by other and they fall prey. In fact due to one such case, two families are ruined.
Another case with mars venus in lagna, the person looks ok but no job, married and wife brings money and everything but he is flirting in spite of having devoted earning wife, absolutely has no control of his desires

Can you share the birth details of the above mentioned cases if you don’t have objection,for my study purpose only

[Dev]

The first case happened long back. The lady was working in my neigbouring lab. She was poor and frustrated in not getting results and never looked happy. She used to show me her horoscope and I found this mars venus, one of them was weak, so I thought to myself, love affair would be there but would not succeed. Actually all of a sudden she was trapped by this male of another caste, then he got married to his caste lady, she also got married to her caste and even had a kid, but then she left her husband and started staying alone, I think she continued her relations with him. Her husband came and fell at my feet though I was younger and requested to get his wife back, he said he would accept at any cost even though she erred. But she was too adamant and did not want to live with him at all. I did not contact them after that since I could not get them united. I felt bad for him and for her.

The other case, is a man's horoscope who has a devoted wife, earning and loyal but he is not loyal. He is having affairs it seems even with elder ladies, dresses well, and still likes his wife.
I will try to get this horoscope.

[vedam33]

I think extra marital relationships will occur due to the following reasons
A venus sun distance more than 43 degrees
B sat aspecting luminaries (sun and moon )
C venus in sun stars
D 6th lord especially Jupiter if it aspects 2nd house
E venus if it is aspected by jup then negative qualities of venus get controlled
F lagna if it is spoiled
The above were some pointers ,and the chart should be seen holistically not due to one combination,but 6th lord aspect on second house is very dangerous , extra marital issues can occur immediately or after some time .
I saw one chart in other group of a lady where in after 10 years of marraige and having one girl ,she started relation ship ,and i asked whether it occured during the specific period or antardasa and the person who posted the chart agreed that it started during the month i predicted .All depends on the period it was running

[Dev]

As far as I have seen before, just the mars venus combination alone in most cases worked. If they have reasonable strength then alone love flourishes. I saw this in numerous cases.

[vedam33]

Ok pl.i shared my opinion no issues

[vedam33]

Dev
in your chart also it seems mars is with venus and cluster of 4 to 5 planets plus moon in Scorpio so you might be having very sharp tongue ,speaks harshly etcit seems

[Dev]

Yes mars and venus but with 5 other powerful planets, I said mars venus alone with one more planet could have that effect not when all are together.
Scorpio lagna and rasi so you are saying.
Answer is yes and no, usually I am soft by nature but when irritated, I can be sharp and blunt because I do not know or like to please others to get benefit. However many do this to get rewards nowadays.

[vedam33]

Just shared my views pl , but as per astakavarga 47 points means adamant , never allows injustice to any body , shared about 4planets in your chart also not about that aspect

[Dev]

You mean 47 means adamant that is all, nothing good? I dont think so. It shd be good in some ways too. first house means self, popularity, health, everything, so self may mean ego but what about other good things with 47?
I dont like injustice.
All aspecting 9th house from 3rd except moon in lagna.
Ju with ve ma so they are softened. So many conjunctions mean you cant take two conjunction serious since effects modified due to other planets.