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Dear Astroboy ji,

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Astroboy,

Good day to you! Not certain about major decisions from July 2011 to date. Perhaps this: I'm in a long running divorce and representing myself in court against my attorney husband. And, I'm doing a good job althoug it is a bit frightening at times. Nothing at all contentious on my part just trying to find a fair separation of property, around September/October 2011 he wanted me to sign away my rights to our properties to give to him in exchange for nothing. Not being well versed in financial matters, and struggling for money, I thought I would take his offer and be done with the concerns. However, something deep within prompted me to think differently in September/October and I chose not to take his offer and instead actively work with the bank to remodify my mortgage and let him keep the other property. I'm still working on this massive effort and In a nutshell this has been the most intense decision I made.

Prior, I've been a dedicated wife and mother, a hardworking professional, and one who lives consciously with compassion and kindness. Prior to that I was a student. I've made mistakes a long the way of course, but I've never ever treated others unkindly and wonder at times if I'm cursed given some of the issues I've mentioned: ending marriage, difficulties finding employment , difficulties making ends meet. Physically I seem to have great vitality and very pleasant appearance, appearing strikingly much younger than I am, and exhibiting a kind and genuine personality which bodes well for me in life. Why I contacted you is that I rely on jyotish insight and wisdom and particularly enjoy your wisdom/analysis and I just need advice on what remedies are necessary, ideas about what I can do differently, etc. I do give, and always have, to those with fewer resources than I, and I've prayed and meditated for friends and foes, and have recognized my errors and have asked for forgiveness for those I might hurt along the way.

Btw, my ex is 11/4/59; 1:20pm; Canton, OH
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Astroboy,

Good day to you! Not certain about major decisions from July 2011 to date. Perhaps this: I'm in a long running divorce and representing myself in court against my attorney husband. And, I'm doing a good job althoug it is a bit frightening at times. Nothing at all contentious on my part just trying to find a fair separation of property, around September/October 2011 he wanted me to sign away my rights to our properties to give to him in exchange for nothing. Not being well versed in financial matters, and struggling for money, I thought I would take his offer and be done with the concerns. However, something deep within prompted me to think differently in September/October and I chose not to take his offer and instead actively work with the bank to remodify my mortgage and let him keep the other property. I'm still working on this massive effort and In a nutshell this has been the most intense decision I made.

Prior, I've been a dedicated wife and mother, a hardworking professional, and one who lives consciously with compassion and kindness. Prior to that I was a student. I've made mistakes a long the way of course, but I've never ever treated others unkindly and wonder at times if I'm cursed given some of the issues I've mentioned: ending marriage, difficulties finding employment , difficulties making ends meet. Physically I seem to have great vitality and very pleasant appearance, appearing strikingly much younger than I am, and exhibiting a kind and genuine personality which bodes well for me in life. Why I contacted you is that I rely on jyotish insight and wisdom and particularly enjoy your wisdom/analysis and I just need advice on what remedies are necessary, ideas about what I can do differently, etc. I do give, and always have, to those with fewer resources than I, and I've prayed and meditated for friends and foes, and have recognized my errors and have asked for forgiveness for those I might hurt along the way.

Btw, my ex is 11/4/59; 1:20pm; Canton, OH
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Good day to you Lilly,

Its the dasha of Budha and the AD of Rahu. 2011 / 07 - 2014 / 02 Budha being the 9th lord and the 12th lord should have been a relatively peaceful dasha for you. But that was not to be. Budha is in a Mrityu Bhaga and is in a fateful trimsamsa degree. Rahu on the other hand is in the nakshatra of Ravi who is himself weak due to being in a Gandanta in the Nakshatra of Ketu. The saving grace is that Ravi is exalted in the Navamsha. One effect does not cancel the other out. Ravi is the 11th lord. The 11th house stands for ""Gains and income from career"". If you look back in history you will find that gains and income did not come easy.

Ketu is in the 6th house which is the significator for ""litigations"" and ""court cases"". Rahu will also give the results of the 6th house due to the aspect of ketu on him. Budha aspects the 8th house. The 8th house stands for ""longitivity of the Marriage"", as well as ""long drawn court cases"". As you can see, the marriage fell into disarray and you landed in court.

If you sit back and think carefully you will find that life started slipping from 2002. This is because of the vulnerability of Budha, who is the dasha lord.

But on the flip side, you will live to fight all these downsides and manage to salvage most of what you have lost. Shukra the lagna lord is in the lagna, and is exalted in the Navamsha. This is the single biggest blessing you have recieved in life. This placement will ensure that you will be able to withstand any assault that comes your way. There is a excellent Dharma - Karmadipathi yoga which will ensure that there will be lucky breaks in career.

Now a word of caution
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To be continued
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Look at the degrees of Saturn and Mars and then the Moon. The Moon is at 14, Shani at 14 and Kuja at 15.

Both Shani and Kuja are natural Malefics.To add to this, the Moon is caught between Rahu and Ketu - Both first class Malefics. Thus all the Malefics in the sky hammer the Moon. Shani is slow, sluggish, and is methodical. He can induce depression, rigidity, loneliness, resignation melancholy and Suspicion.

Mars on the other hand can induce anger, irritability, haste, impatience, inconstancy and a ""all or nothing attitude.

This push pull effect on the Mind {Moon} is least desired. The mental vacillations are immense. In the coming days, do not take any hasty or rash decisions. Some of your decisions taken in the past - In a flash - have brought crashing down, things that you have taken years and years to build.

From now on, take your time before you arrive at a decision. Procrastination is good, contrary to what people say :roll: . Heavens will not fall if decisions are delayed. Take as much advice as you from friends and family and then act on it.

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Thank you Astroboy for taking the time to review my chart and to offer some explanation. The push/pull effect you describe is very familiar and one that I have strived to balance and place into perspective for much of my adult life once. Given your analysis do you believe my current budha dasha and rahu ad will be mitigated by the karmadipathi yoga or some other combination? Will this yoga give results intermittently and unexpectedly or strictly on some particular timeline?

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Lilly , the DK yoga is caused by the Moon. Moon is the 10th lord posited in the 9th house. That causes a DarmaKarmadipati yoga. Any yoga will act at all times. But a dasha or Antar Dasha of the planet involved in the formation of the yoga will give great emphasis on the effects of the yoga. In other words, the effects of the yoga are felt greatly during the Antardasha and Dasha of the planets involved in the Yoga. How were things for you career wise and affluence wise {appart from your marriage} from 2010 feb - 2010 July?

A point to note, if you did not get any effects of the DK yoga during the above period, its because Budha and Chandra are in a 6/8 relationship with each other. More over they are natural enemies.
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Very interesting Astroboy and thank you again.

The negative impact of 6/8 relationships and natural enemies must indeed be strong for the moon Antar Dasha you reference was particularly difficult.

Very kind regards,

Lily
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Dear astroboy,

kindly tell my reading with remedies if possible.....

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kindly tell me sumthng about my married life too??

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Good day Palvi,

The Antar Dasha of Ketu starting in Feb this year is capable of granting marriage. The Maha dasha is also favourable to grant marriage. This AD will last till 2013 March.

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Dear Astroboy ji, Kindly please consider my request & Please reply. Looking forward for your valuable predictions & guidance
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Dear sir,

My lagna lord venus is in seventh house with rahu, and in navansh its is in vargottam,
my age is 26, i m unmarried, can u tell my about my marriage life. because i m happy to alone type and i dont want to marry, but my family is forcing me to do that, so can u help me about this.


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Good day Sujit,

Your decision to not get married is right. Shani and Ketu are in the Lagna. Both planets would love it if they are left alone. No doubt you are the "alone type" . The 1/7 axis is highly afflicted. The moon lagna is also highly afflicted. I suggest that fight the pressure that is being put on you by your family and ensure that you dont succumb to their pressure. Ketu is in MB and can destroy your marriage when you least expect it.

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thanks for the reply astroboy......please tell that rahu in my 7th house is bad for married life in my case??
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Good day to you,

Since your husband's T.O.B. is unavailable, it would be difficult to make a fair assessment of the situation. All I can talk about is the afflictions present in your chart. I can offer no remedy or solution. I can just give you a astrological reason for your troubles.

The lagna is Dhanur. The 7th lord is Budha. Budha is in the 12th house of ""the end of everything" and "loss" is conjunct with Ketu who is known to cause sudden and violent situations for the native. The lagna is the Microcosm of all the 12 houses. Guru the lagna lord { who is debilitated in the Navamsha } is involved with a Planetary war which Guru has lost {As per J hora}. Ketu thus gains the right to cause diasters when they are least expected. This power to induce disaster is amplified even more due to Ketu's conjunction with the lagna lord in the 12th.

Ketu is known as the "Agadha / Agata" karaka. In Sanskrit "Agadha" means ""unfantomable "" or ""profound "". Change the spelling of "Agadha" to "Agata" and Agata means ""Not yet frequented"" or ""Dominion of Death"". Ketu is known to give sudden unfantomable, profound, not yet frequented grief and misery. What can induce more grief agony and misery than a bad marriage, or in a worse comes to worse situation, a divorce.

The Moon lagna confirms the above. A exalted Saturn aspects the Moon ( not good for marriage ). Kuja is in the 6th house aspecting the Chandra lagna. Shukra the 7th lord is debilitated in the 6th house. The 2/8 axis is heavily afflicted.

The Dasha is of Rahu and Shani. Shani is in Swati Nakshatra ruled by Rahu. Shani and Rahu will give the effects of The nakshatra they are in, The lord of their house Shukra - who is debilitated - and will give the effects of all the planets who aspect them. Ketu's aspect of Rahu will trigger off all of Ketu's significations.

The comming AD's { till 2020 } dont look promising because they are all related to Ketu and the 12th house in some way or the other { except Shukra AD. But he is debilitated with no decent Neecha Bhanga to speak of}. A lot of effort needs to be put in to the marriage if it has to be saved
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