aseem82 wrote:Well, in my next life I will be born with Venus in the 7th house and in own sign ...
I Hope Rahu also sit along with her ....
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Basab
Yeah, definitely!
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Basab
No, yaar. I don't want to play with anyone's emotions. I don't wish to be a flirt. I want to be a Romeo.
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Basab
Aseem,
I am not the least bit interested in passion and kama sutra. I only am interested in the emotion called 'love'. By the way, I have the book Kama Sutra. I have never bothered to read it though.
I am not the least bit interested in passion and kama sutra. I only am interested in the emotion called 'love'. By the way, I have the book Kama Sutra. I have never bothered to read it though.
aseem82 wrote:Well Man imagine this combo Venus and Mercury in 7th house- lots of passions and Kama Sutra!!!!...I am yet to read this book!!!
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Basab
Aseem,
Okay, we can stop joking now because this site is about discussing the emotion called 'love', and love is a serious topic. I hope before this thread ends I will get to know the reason why I am romantic in my dream world and unromantic in the real world.
I never said Internet is a place where beastly instincts come out. No beastly instinct has come out for me on the net. I never wrote anything wrong here, and I am what I write here. I don't pretend to be someone different than what I am.
Okay, we can stop joking now because this site is about discussing the emotion called 'love', and love is a serious topic. I hope before this thread ends I will get to know the reason why I am romantic in my dream world and unromantic in the real world.
I never said Internet is a place where beastly instincts come out. No beastly instinct has come out for me on the net.
I never wrote anything wrong here, and I am what I write here. I don't pretend to be someone different than what I am. aseem82 wrote:Well basabji, let's wrap here and end silly jokes. Well we know what we are in real life as you rightly said internet is the place where hidden beastly instincts come out!. I will never do what I write here in real life. I have to go.!!!
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Basab
Aseem,
I definitely am an honest person here, don't know about others, but I have an ego!
I definitely am an honest person here, don't know about others, but I have an ego!
aseem82 wrote:Yeah you are the only honest person here without any ego.!!!!...
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Basab
Aseem,
Very good joke. The first portion of it is a story I have read when I was a kid, the second part is a new addition to it, spoiling the story completely.
Very good joke. The first portion of it is a story I have read when I was a kid, the second part is a new addition to it, spoiling the story completely.
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Basab
No, I will not say 'yes' to Jennifer Lopez because you know there is only one person I adore, and even God knows that, so He will not make the mistake of bringing Jennifer Lopez in front of me. And about my fav. actress, if God brings her in front of me, I will say to Him that I see her the same way I see Him. She is my Goddess!!
aseem82 wrote:well coming to the second part, if it happens with you, then will you say "yes " to Jennifer Lopez!!!!
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Basab
Aseem,
Yes, I am a senti. person, but it is God who has made me like this, so if He gets bored hearing my senti. stuff, I have nothing more to say. Yes, He better gives me back my wife because I am not interested in any other actress.
Yes, I am a senti. person, but it is God who has made me like this, so if He gets bored hearing my senti. stuff, I have nothing more to say. Yes, He better gives me back my wife because I am not interested in any other actress.
aseem82 wrote:hehehehehehe...God will get bored by your senti stuffs and dreamy nature and will only give you back your wife!!!
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Basab
Aseem,
If you want to maintain celibacy after marriage, make sure that the girl you get married to have taken a vow of celibacy, too...
If you want to maintain celibacy after marriage, make sure that the girl you get married to have taken a vow of celibacy, too...
aseem82 wrote:I will always believe in celibacy and will maintain celibacy even after marriage except for creation of progeny.
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Basab
Shinu,
We both want to live as Romeos, not die as he did: so early, so young, with his dream of marrying Juliet unfulfilled.
We both want to live as Romeos, not die as he did: so early, so young, with his dream of marrying Juliet unfulfilled. shinu.mehrotra wrote:You guys are mad and daring!!! Bet both of you will die as Romeos
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Basab
Anupamji,
You have explained all the points very beautifully. Yes, I agree with you that there is no point going about wasting our time on intellectual discussion on whether dvaita is correct or advaita is correct. When I read Prabhupada's Gita, I was convinced that Dvaita is the ultimate Truth, and now that I am reading Swami Vivekananda's book, I am feeling Advaita is the ultimate Truth. I don't know what is the Truth, and that is why I told you a few months back when you were discussing spirituality that I am like a child, who comes in a room where elders are sitting discussing a serious topic about God, and makes this remark that what is there to discuss about God, I know who God is. That is the simplicity in my belief about God. Otherwise, when I read spiritual books, it is just to gain more knowledge, nothing more than that. I will never try to analyze God.
About you, Anupamji, you asked for knowledge from God, but everyone is not like you. I am not that great a person, and nor is many people whom I know, so to people like us it is simply being cheated by God, forced by Him to take up spirituality as we don't have any choice.
Anupamji, I too take interest in understanding life, in understanding spirituality, in understanding people's mind, but I find it difficult to accept this that it suddenly dawns in a person's mind that running after material things is not the reality--running after God is. I have talked to a few people about this, and I also have thought about it a lot and my experience is there too, and I feel that if suffering gets one to spirituality, it can't make a person spiritual in the true sense. It can never be like that. The person may take to spirituality and talk about spirituality, but deep within he is not that. A kind of abimaan develops in him with God, and the thought which goes through the person's mind is, 'Okay, God if this is what you wish for me, then so be it. I will become spiritual'. But that is not true spirituality. And if snatching away material things from a person makes one spiritual, then that is not the right way, even if God thinks it right. You can never force one into something, and even if you make him get into that, he is not interested in that--plain and simple.
How many spiritual books I read, how much I understand God now, I know, deep within me I have this feeling of deep hurt, this feeling of abhimaan that God has forced me into something, which I never wanted to get into. So though I am reading nothing but spiritual books now, I know deep within that this is not the life I ever wanted, and even if God gives me more misery and makes me leave everything to become a saint someday, I know that regret will be there in my mind that I couldn't be what I wished to be, couldn't lead a life that I wished to lead. So how has God achieved what He wanted to achieve? And I can tell you this for sure that it is not me, but a thousand people there for whom I am speaking here.
Anupamji, what most people are doing when they are taking to spirituality is compromising with life, taking spirituality as a medicine for their grief. Anyone will prefer to take to spirituality than take sleeping pills to relax themselves. But none of these people are truly spiritual. They can never be that. The desire will always remain in their subconcious mind. The little that I have read on spirituality, I can only say this that it is impractical. But that said there are genuine people definitely--those who are sincere about their spiritual pursuit, those who really wants to understand life. But even among them there are many who don't know that their sincerity is nothing more than a sincere effort in saving themselves from misery than finding God, and they don't know this conciously but that is what is there in their subconcious mind.
You have explained all the points very beautifully. Yes, I agree with you that there is no point going about wasting our time on intellectual discussion on whether dvaita is correct or advaita is correct. When I read Prabhupada's Gita, I was convinced that Dvaita is the ultimate Truth, and now that I am reading Swami Vivekananda's book, I am feeling Advaita is the ultimate Truth. I don't know what is the Truth, and that is why I told you a few months back when you were discussing spirituality that I am like a child, who comes in a room where elders are sitting discussing a serious topic about God, and makes this remark that what is there to discuss about God, I know who God is. That is the simplicity in my belief about God. Otherwise, when I read spiritual books, it is just to gain more knowledge, nothing more than that. I will never try to analyze God.
About you, Anupamji, you asked for knowledge from God, but everyone is not like you. I am not that great a person, and nor is many people whom I know, so to people like us it is simply being cheated by God, forced by Him to take up spirituality as we don't have any choice.
Anupamji, I too take interest in understanding life, in understanding spirituality, in understanding people's mind, but I find it difficult to accept this that it suddenly dawns in a person's mind that running after material things is not the reality--running after God is. I have talked to a few people about this, and I also have thought about it a lot and my experience is there too, and I feel that if suffering gets one to spirituality, it can't make a person spiritual in the true sense. It can never be like that. The person may take to spirituality and talk about spirituality, but deep within he is not that. A kind of abimaan develops in him with God, and the thought which goes through the person's mind is, 'Okay, God if this is what you wish for me, then so be it. I will become spiritual'. But that is not true spirituality. And if snatching away material things from a person makes one spiritual, then that is not the right way, even if God thinks it right. You can never force one into something, and even if you make him get into that, he is not interested in that--plain and simple.
How many spiritual books I read, how much I understand God now, I know, deep within me I have this feeling of deep hurt, this feeling of abhimaan that God has forced me into something, which I never wanted to get into. So though I am reading nothing but spiritual books now, I know deep within that this is not the life I ever wanted, and even if God gives me more misery and makes me leave everything to become a saint someday, I know that regret will be there in my mind that I couldn't be what I wished to be, couldn't lead a life that I wished to lead. So how has God achieved what He wanted to achieve? And I can tell you this for sure that it is not me, but a thousand people there for whom I am speaking here.
Anupamji, what most people are doing when they are taking to spirituality is compromising with life, taking spirituality as a medicine for their grief. Anyone will prefer to take to spirituality than take sleeping pills to relax themselves. But none of these people are truly spiritual. They can never be that. The desire will always remain in their subconcious mind. The little that I have read on spirituality, I can only say this that it is impractical. But that said there are genuine people definitely--those who are sincere about their spiritual pursuit, those who really wants to understand life. But even among them there are many who don't know that their sincerity is nothing more than a sincere effort in saving themselves from misery than finding God, and they don't know this conciously but that is what is there in their subconcious mind.
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Basab
Aseem,
You know what? You are a crazy guy! I don't think much time is left before you get banned by the moderators of this db.
You know what? You are a crazy guy! I don't think much time is left before you get banned by the moderators of this db.
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Basab
Thanks, Aseem. This is my recent picture. Yeah, I am a very jolly person.
aseem82 wrote:OMG, you have put up a new photo again!!!!...Wow smart guy!!!!...You look so happy!!!!
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Abhijit Muhurta !!!
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Hi Basab ! nice pic....but the Sai baba wig had its own charm
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Basab
Thank you, Abhijit. I agree that the pic with the wig was a good one, but then, these days I am looking for my valentine, so thought of putting a proper picture of mine.
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Basab
Aseem,
Why do you make an issue about a small thing like virginity!
Why do you make an issue about a small thing like virginity!
aseem82 wrote:Just imagine a situation, I am about to give final affirmative to her parents. There are around family members.
I say "Hello uncle, Yes I have found my soul mate. I will be glad to be her partner. Hey wait a minute, i forgot one final question to her!!!"
All members looked into each other eyes as if surprised.
I turned to my prospective soul mate " Hey will you maintain the vow of celibacy after marriage? Are you a virgin?
This surprises her and her father faints.
But instead she barks at me "woof! woof!..grrrr"...Well this is sure sign of not being virgin!!!
But if she looks into my eyes, I sense her innocence in her eyes and comes forward to hold my hands. Wow, finally my real soulmate!!!
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Basab
Keep your standard to yourself because this discussion board has a standard of its own, which it will stick to.
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Basab
I hope the daring man will get a caring wife.
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Basab
Thanks, buddy. I hope I get a caring wife. I really wish I get married to someone who has a strong influence of Moon on her chart.
About combinations for love marriage, there is only one combination I know of, and that is, the connection between the 5th and 7th house/lord.
About connections for multiple affairs and arranged marriage, well, difficult to say. I mean, I don't know the specific combinations. I see a chart overall and give my prediction.
About combinations for love marriage, there is only one combination I know of, and that is, the connection between the 5th and 7th house/lord.
About connections for multiple affairs and arranged marriage, well, difficult to say. I mean, I don't know the specific combinations. I see a chart overall and give my prediction.
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shinu.mehrotra
Dear Romeos,
Love is only perishable item if looked from the physical aspects of it but very enriching, happiness and feelings of completeness from the heart point of view. Everyone should get married from heart point of view and it is only then one knows the love of God. It is in perfecting love between a couple that they can see what God's love is like.
Love is only perishable item if looked from the physical aspects of it but very enriching, happiness and feelings of completeness from the heart point of view. Everyone should get married from heart point of view and it is only then one knows the love of God. It is in perfecting love between a couple that they can see what God's love is like.
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Basab
Hi Shinu,
I believe in 'love at first sight' like a true Romeo, but in first sight, you just get to see how the person looks, not how she is nature-wise.
I believe in 'love at first sight' like a true Romeo, but in first sight, you just get to see how the person looks, not how she is nature-wise.
shinu.mehrotra wrote:Dear Romeos,
Love is only perishable item if looked from the physical aspects of it but very enriching, happiness and feelings of completeness from the heart point of view. Everyone should get married from heart point of view and it is only then one knows the love of God. It is in perfecting love between a couple that they can see what God's love is like.
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