Celestial Drama in Libra

[manya]

Neelkumar ji,

Is your rahu in scorpio too? My rahu is in scorpio in 4th house and I am telling you it is terribly bad. Last one and half year was horrible and it has effected all parts of my life-health, wealth, career, job, family. What is left? I sometimes feel it would be better if I die because it is not at all worth living like this.

[basab14]

Akansha ji,

The next half Rahu-return will be after 9 years. It will be for 1.5 years.

[neelkumar]

Neelkumar ji,

Is your rahu in scorpio too? My rahu is in scorpio in 4th house and I am telling you it is terribly bad. Last one and half year was horrible and it has effected all parts of my life-health, wealth, career, job, family. What is left? I sometimes feel it would be better if I die because it is not at all worth living like this.

Akanksha: If you read my posts (today's), you will understand how much I have suffered during these periods.
But you know what's the most disappointing part in all these periods: it's the complete lack of support (let alone financial), it's emotional support. They are the first ones to criticize and discourage me. And my father is in the forefront and my mother joins in his tirades. My father behaves like my biggest ill-wisher during my trying times.
And when (if I have had any, as he retorts) good times, they act like dogs licking my feet.

[manya]

Neelkumar ji,

Is your rahu in scorpio too? My rahu is in scorpio in 4th house and I am telling you it is terribly bad. Last one and half year was horrible and it has effected all parts of my life-health, wealth, career, job, family. What is left? I sometimes feel it would be better if I die because it is not at all worth living like this.

Akanksha: If you read my posts (today's), you will understand how much I have suffered during these periods.
But you know what's the most disappointing part in all these periods: it's the complete lack of support (let alone financial), it's emotional support. They are the first ones to criticize and discourage me. And my father is in the forefront and my mother joins in his tirades. My father behaves like my biggest ill-wisher during my trying times.
And when (if I have had any, as he retorts) good times, they act like dogs licking my feet.

I completely agree with you. You said it right, it is "lack of support". My mom who is my only support and biggest support through out my life, she also turned her head ( whatever be the circumstances, i still feel if she wanted she could have understood me) during these periods, especially this time and now she is frequently falling sick also. She mocks me and at times she said - you have iit degree and now it is time u prove it", i ish she understands, i am running a difficult phase and i need her support. Actually the worst part is this only, that she does not understand me now...which was completely unacceptable to me one year back but after one year on running this period, i now put the blame on rahu and not on her.

[vikram_ultimate]

Now that the topic of jobs and interviews is already being discussed here ,just wanted to let people know that Aditya Hridayam is the best remedy as far as jobs are concerned,I was in search of a job long back last year September ,chanted Aditya Hridayam continously and when Sun transited through the 10th house from the Moon got a great job ,the company is very good and got a very good package which I had not asked for to the HR,so please chant it and reap the rewards,

One more brilliant remedy would be to visit place like Mantralaya where the great Saint Raghavendra Swami is still blessing his devotees to this day,or if travelling is a constraint there are so many Raghavendra Swami Brindavan Mutts where the "Mrithika" of raghavendra swami is placed and the temple is constructed which is equally powerful,

So i think these remedies would do very good for getting a good job !

[vikram_ultimate]

neelkumar,if you dont mind me saying better not to call parents with such names,at times during your bad periods there is a test which all of us have to go through so at times parents do scold us ,as far as I know better to accept criticism and other things spoken about us positively so that we can change our nature and become perfect,why I say this is after the bad period is over and you face that day which you have been waiting for ,that day will actually make you feel like stronger (mentally),patience is the key here this is what I have learnt from the ongoing Saturn Mahadasha,


Sorry if I have hurt your feelings but still feel parents have to be given the position that they require even if they hate us because according to our scriptures we have to be thankful to them for bringing us down to this earth and giving us a physical body so that we can also completely learn our lessons and get freedom from this bondage

All the Best !Everything happens for a reason which generally people realize after the good period starts

Bye for now

[manya]

Yes Neelkumar ji,

Dont think of your parents like that, I understand it pains that when we need their support they are not understanding us, but above all they are parents and for me my mom is my God. It is my own karni that i am getting this kind of rahu periods in my life and not hers and my first duty is to take care of my parents hen they are old.

[neelkumar]

I strongly believe in the phrase " A friend in need is a friend indeed". That's all..period.

[basab14]

But I can see why all those girls went crazy after you - you are a very attractive young man - and with your name in TOI etc - you'll never have a shortage of girls falling for you, whether Venus Antardasha or not.

Saindhavi ji,

What planetary combination made Aseem so attractive? I am asking this because I would pray for such a planetary combination in my next life--this life having gone waste.

[skp23]

I am writing back after surviving the weather hurricane but since last 3 days, there is a severe hurricane at home. My husband is back in his form & asked me today morning to leave again. I am tired of this. In 2 yrs, my career & earning has come to zero while i did every possible remedy to save my marriage. I can never think of having child/future in this kind of his behavior & its no good being a servant just to be called married.
I donot believe this is due to any planet beacuse its like this in every transit.

[Saindhavi]

Basab,

But you are not so bad looking - Venus is your ruler.

Well, with Jupiter as Aseem's ruler, he has to be attractive.

But I didn't really look at his planets.

I looked at his Facebook profile photo and said he was quite attractive. He does look pretty good in that photo - both pretty and good.

SKP23,

We all said to you that you have to tell him this is your house as much as his so he is not supposed to talk like this to you.

If you treat yourself as an outsider in your house, no remedies can help you.

You have to assert your claim and status in that house.

Leaving is not the solution. Staying there and firmly telling him to behave properly with you is the solution.

He talks like that to you because he knows you will take it from him.

[janaki]

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[neelkumar]

Janaki..I am writing from my fone. Please watch this space till I add more reponses to what you have written to me.
I went to US during Rahu-Mars with full scholarship! Though I had got both US and UK student visa at the same time that time. Then that damn Rahu-Ketu period started!
What is rahukalam?

[skp23]

Saindhavi ji,
I donot indicate him that. He is saying lot of bad & yesterday evening when he asked me to respond, i denied clearly saying that i will not participate & if can continue on his own if he want. I remained quite till morning & was aware that he felt 'defeated' since he could not make me join him so & could not blame me of saying any bad to him, he probably decide to spoil my day by asking me to leave so that i will remain upset all the day.
I wont be surrised if he will come back in 2 days saying he never said or meant anything & i should forget & behave normal.
What do you all want me to do? Fight back? Thats what he also wants.

[janaki]

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[Saindhavi]

Janaki,

If you are calculating from Capricorn Moon sign (Makar Rashi), then I am also a Capricorn Moon sign, though Libra Ascendant.

Calculating from Capricorn, Leo is 8th in my chart too, but it is always good for me especially professionally - Leo is 11th house of financial gains for me.

Moon in Leo is bad for very few people - Capricorn Lagna is one, where Moon in Leo falls in 8th house - as moon gives good effect in Leo.

Besides, in Aquarian chart, Leo is 7th, so Leo Moon can't be bad for them.

There may be some other reasons for your getting negative effects. If you give feedback about it next time it happens, perhaps we can calculate about it.

There is no need to be so anxious about Rahu Kalam etc. It's not always bad.

What I have found is that if Rahu is malefic in a chart, it causes maximum trouble on Wednesdays. Since my Rahu is malefic, I don't do anything important such as appearing for interviews on Wednesdays if I can help it.

But on other days, I have even got gains during Rahu Kalam, so I don't follow it, eventhough my Rahu is malefic.

But your Rahu is benefic, so you can actually use Wednesdays to your maximum advantage.

SKP23,

Note that yesterday was Wednesday - read my comment to Janaki above.

But what I am saying is that you should not remain quiet. Just tell him that he is not supposed to talk to you like that. This is your house and he can't tell you to go anywhere.

[anuradha]

Re: Celestial Drama in Libra
by skp23 » 011112

I am writing back after surviving the weather hurricane but since last 3 days, there is a severe hurricane at home. My husband is back in his form & asked me today morning to leave again. I am tired of this & now feel that i should just leave him permanently. In 2 yrs, my career & earning has come to zero while i did every possible remedy to save my marriage. I feel that its not worth spending any more time, i can never think of having child/future in this kind of his behavior & its no good being a servant just to be called married.
I donot believe this is due to any planet beacuse its like this in every transit.

If anyone would like to comment on my foriegn stay & earning from abroad beacuse once i will go back (in 2-3 weeks), i will permanently leave astrology, remedies & gem stones as i have seen nothing is more powerful & can never change or modify real life.

Please start doing Hanuman Chalisa seven times a day by lighting a Diya . You will understand the power of Hanumanji. regards

[skp23]

Anuradha ji, i have done 100 recitations of Hanuman chalisa myself in a single day, trust me every single remedy i have tried from puja & mantra to vaastu of house & bedroom to fengshui to lal kitab remedies to hanging pictures on walls to quartz crystals & gems. I have tried all i ever heard of in last 1.5 yrs with no long term change or improvement.
I really feel why did i marry once & that was gay who forcebly divorced me, that failure made me marry again just because i couldnt accept being divoced.
Saindhavi ji,
You can tag me a stupid but i only know how i have pulled it till here & never giving up rather trying everything from remedies to understanding his temper to changing myself & keeping quiet. If you say that i should stand for myself, do you think that i would have not tried that? And do you think a person like him will 'listen' to my saying that he should behave properly or treat me well ??

[anuradha]

Re: Celestial Drama in Libra
by skp23 » 011112

Anuradha ji, i have done 100 recitations of Hanuman chalisa myself , trust me every single remedy i have tried from puja & mantra to vaastu of house & bedroom to fengshui to lal kitab remedies to hanging pictures on walls to quartz crystals. I have tried all i ever heard of in last 1.5 yrs with no long term change or improvemen

O.K, please start it once again from today. Also give your birth details, if possible. regards

[skp23]

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[basab14]

Anuradha ji, i have done 100 recitations of Hanuman chalisa myself in a single day, trust me every single remedy i have tried from puja & mantra to vaastu of house & bedroom to fengshui to lal kitab remedies to hanging pictures on walls to quartz crystals & gems. I have tried all i ever heard of in last 1.5 yrs with no long term change or improvement.

Skp ji,

This is why I always say remedies don't work. What is fated will happen. One can't change it. You have used your free will also, and you have seen you couldn't change your destiny. The wisest thing is to accept your destiny and move ahead.

[janaki]

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[skp23]

I wonder if i will continue to live here abroad, and if at all i will get any paid job here or will only do payless servant job in future.
Someone asked me if i was topper, yes i was all india topper in research exam but just living as a servant for 2 yrs who doesnt get anything other than torture & threatening. I really feel i should contact president's campaign & inform to media about the cruelity women are facing in US.

[basab14]

Janaki,

I have only said what I have seen in case of a few charts. And the theory says that Jupiter is a functional malefic for Aquarius ascendant. It's not my view. It surprises me too when I see people having Aquarius ascendant and running Jupiter period struggle during its period because logically it should give good results. The theory for why it is not good is, 2nd house is a maraka house and 11th house a trishadaya house, which is an evil house.

[janaki]

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