Very well said Nirmalaji. Talibji mentioned somewhere about difference between ATTITUDE and GRATITUDE. Looks like the latter is missing with some members.nirmala wrote:its imp to note that if this forum the queriests can "request" for help .. not "demand" it.
Just because some one's queries go unanswered doesnt mean that they start degrading other forum members. I believe that a query gets answered only when god wants you to get an answer
). One should follow what they say. I have done it myself and its helped. Sonu u know what I am talking about. We Indians are very peculiar(not sure if this is applicable to all race). We think the more we pay better the quality 
. I second that!milredr wrote: I really miss P.S.Rao here. He was doing such an awesome job and is such an experienced and knowledgeable person.
Dear SoulsearchMy own father has done abhichara on us. My family has not seen happiness in a very long time. Is it a sin to ask when my brother or I will get married as those are the only events that my mother looks forward to. And then to see there are so many back handed comments dealt out. If I was self-centered I wouldn't have initially posted queries for my brother and mother. Seeing how time consuming it was to get replies to the threads I sought out a professional. If I didn't feel gratitude towards the forum I wouldn't have donated towards the forum and have my username in a pink color.
Without going into merits of the contentitous posts, I think all queryists would benefit from this line of yours.remedywise. You can go on asking 6,7,8,9 or more astrologers but you will only get yourself confused.
So true.anuI would like to share my point: I have noticed this that no one wants to miss a chance to get free predictions. Anything that comes for free is welcome. I am sure 90% of the people in this discussion board can afford to show their chart to professional astrologers, but then, why go for that when they can get the predictions free? This is the kind of mentality that most people have. Well, if the person is genuinely having financial problems, if he can't afford to consult an astrologer, it is fine, but then, I don't think a person, who has got access to Internet 24-7, doesn't have money to pay to an astrologer. And after all that, they make complaints that their questions have not been answered. I find it amazing. One of the reasons I left astrology was, that was one of the ways I could escape giving readings to people. Even though I have limited knowledge in astrology, no one minded that. They just didn't want the chance to miss a free prediction. Many people became my online friends because they knew that that way they will have them an astrologer in their hand, whom they would be able to consult anytime! And it is not restricted to the Internet world. It is so cheap a mentality, I feel. How can someone ask for free predictions? The astrologer maybe is nice enough to give you free prediction, but doesn't it pinch you that you are asking for a service, but not giving something in return. When we are invited to someone's house, don't we take some sweets for them, same way, why doesn't the querist think of giving something as gift to the astrologer, even though he refuses it? Some people may tell me that I have consulted many people here, and I have not gifted them anything, yes, that is true, but I have given free service, too: I have given hundreds of predictions to people online and offline.
I will tell you one story. A person, who was our tenant once came to me a few months back. He had from somewhere heard that I do astrology. He told me that he wants me to check his chart and see how the last few years of his life will be like. I have given up astrology, but still, I said okay as he had only one question to ask from his chart. I asked him to bring his birth details the next day as he had not brought it that day. Next day he came with 4 charts: his chart, his wife's chart, his son's chart and his son's wife's chart!!! He asked me to see all 4 charts and tell him what I saw in them!! He wanted me to do a detailed reading of all the charts!! My blood was boiling, hearing that, as first he approached me with one question from his chart, and then, it turned to asking for detailed analysis of all aspects of life of 4 charts. These are the kind of people you come across when you do astrology. He asked me how much I will charge? He knew I won't charge anything, as I was an amateur astrologer, and I said no, as he expected me to, I am sure. Now let me tell you, this person was a government officer, who earned well, throughout, his son and his daughter-in-law are doing exceptionally well in career, earning a lot of money, which he himself said, but when it came to consulting an astrologer he chose me, who will not charge a single penny than go to a professional astrologer. Now what does one say in regard to this? I have many strories like this to say, of people I have met, who have not hesitated to take the chance of getting free predictions from me. So those guys who ask for free predictions, don't think that we are fools, that we don't understand anything. We have brains, too.
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Kudos to youThis is the kind of mentality that most people have. Well, if the person is genuinely having financial problems, if he can't afford to consult an astrologer, it is fine, but then, I don't think a person, who has got access to Internet 24-7, doesn't have money to pay to an astrologer. And after all that, they make complaints that their questions have not been answered. I find it amazing. One of the reasons I left astrology was, that was one of the ways I could escape giving readings to people. Even though I have limited knowledge in astrology, no one minded that. They just didn't want the chance to miss a free prediction. Many people became my online friends because they knew that that way they will have them an astrologer in their hand, whom they would be able to consult anytime! And it is not restricted to the Internet world. It is so cheap a mentality, I feel. How can someone ask for free predictions? The astrologer maybe is nice enough to give you free prediction, but doesn't it pinch you that you are asking for a service, but not giving something in return. When we are invited to someone's house, don't we take some sweets for them, same way, why doesn't the querist think of giving something as gift to the astrologer, even though he refuses it? Some people may tell me that I have consulted many people here, and I have not gifted them anything, yes, that is true, but I have given free service, too: I have given hundreds of predictions to people online and offline.
I will tell you one story. A person, who was our tenant once came to me a few months back. He had from somewhere heard that I do astrology. He told me that he wants me to check his chart and see how the last few years of his life will be like. I have given up astrology, but still, I said okay as he had only one question to ask from his chart. I asked him to bring his birth details the next day as he had not brought it that day. Next day he came with 4 charts: his chart, his wife's chart, his son's chart and his son's wife's chart!!! He asked me to see all 4 charts and tell him what I saw in them!! He wanted me to do a detailed reading of all the charts!! My blood was boiling, hearing that, as first he approached me with one question from his chart, and then, it turned to asking for detailed analysis of all aspects of life of 4 charts. These are the kind of people you come across when you do astrology. He asked me how much I will charge? He knew I won't charge anything, as I was an amateur astrologer, and I said no, as he expected me to, I am sure. Now let me tell you, this person was a government officer, who earned well, throughout, his son and his daughter-in-law are doing exceptionally well in career, earning a lot of money, which he himself said, but when it came to consulting an astrologer he chose me, who will not charge a single penny than go to a professional astrologer. Now what does one say in regard to this? I have many strories like this to say, of people I have met, who have not hesitated to take the chance of getting free predictions from me. So those guys who ask for free predictions, don't think that we are fools, that we don't understand anything. We have brains, too.
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This is reality where people who are well placed and financially sound seek for free readings. The more i will say, those who are not financially sound, even those people too, will spend 1000 rupees for a dinner at a restaurant but will not pay 3000/- for reading which can change something in their life.astrosonu wrote:Kandhanji's signature is very much wanted on this thread
btw did anyone see the link i posted earlier http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqw9TT1kM54 .
..I luv this...wanna more 
heheheastrosonu wrote:On demand one more... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3OKRsAUcbI ..
..thnx...u r awesome 
