When it's love part 2

[milredr]

Yes, Milredr, they are like the beautiful flower 'Rose', which has thorns too. If I marry one of that type, it will be all about tremedous fights, with senti. patch ups, all through life.

Very cliched Basab...One thing Basab, nothing in life is perfect. What is life after all, if everything was perfect, dont u think?

[Basab]

Ramaman ji,

Aries and Libra are sitting opposite to each other in a zodiac chart: isn't that enough to show that they are completely opposite personalities, and so they dislike each other so much!

Libra is an air sign, not a water sign, as per what I have learned.

The librans and the ariens (lagnas) generally dont gel well simply bcos of the reasons that one person's badakesh is another ones yogakaraka and viceversa. In this case of libra and aries relative position of sun and saturn and the strengths need to be focused much more in matching apart from the nakshtra in the position of the moon.

See, the cool indecisive libran's water content when merges with the fiery dynamism of Mars's fire, the net resultant is lot of smoke, which is unpleasant. But after sometime once the smoke vanishes (i can tell u that this takes quite a while) then life becomes more meaningful. As Mars takes rest after his stormy adventure in the cool shade of libra and the ever indecisive cool libran sees the protective energy of the Mars.

[milredr]

Aries and Libra are sitting opposite to each other in a zodiac chart: isn't that enough to show that they are complete opposite personalities and so they dislike each other! Even in Sun sign, I don't like people of the zodiac Aries, though there I am a Cancerian.

As per synastery, 7-7 is good Basab. After all, opp attract each other........

[Basab]

Milredr,

Very cliched! I thought, I gave a beautiful comparison! Yes, I agree, nothing in life is perfect, and nothing can ever be perfect, but we always end up trying to be perfect, and till we achieve perfection in anything and everything, we can't rest.

I will definitely prefer a chart with strong Moon and Venus and Mars than a chart with just a strong Mars. I don't know why, but I hate the planet Mars. But here comes the irony: how much I hate Mars, I will end up marrying someone with a strong Mars, and I know that very well because that is very clearly indicated in my chart: 7th lord Mars aspects the 7th house--a strong Martian influence for my spouse. And my married life is not good as I see it in my chart--no wonder about that. Maybe it's some punishment for some bad karma in past life.

Very cliched Basab...One thing Basab, nothing in life is perfect. What is life after all, if everything was perfect, dont u think?

[swamykool]

Ramanan ji,

And one more thing. The 12th lord for Mesh lagna is Guru. And you know how expansive by nature Guru is. So they think money is like holy water. Meant to be sprinkled around. Well, high maintenance. Have no doubt about it.

swamykool

[Basab]

As per synastery, 7-7 is good Basab. After all, opp attract each other........

Milredr,

I don't think it is so when charts are matched as per Indian astrology. 5-9 is good, 3-11 is good, but 7-7 is not that good. See, opposites definitely attracts each other, but it doesn't give a long lasting stable relation. I remember reading on this particular point told by a psychiatrist that there maybe will be a tremendous attraction initially when two people of opposite personalities meet, but when it comes to stable relation, it doesn't work one bit. Most of the time it fails. It's always people with similar nature and interests, who have stable relations. I love watching movies and television, and if my wife hates that, we will have a Mahabharata war on that issue at home everyday.

[milredr]

I don't think it is so when charts are matched as per Indian astrology. 5-9 is good, 3-11 is good, but 7-7 is not that good.

Basab, this is news to me. As per parashara 7-7 is considered auspicious.

[Basab]

Milredr,

I also thought always that 7-7 is good, but then, I read long back here only that 7-7 relation is not that good when it comes to match making of charts. Otherwise, 7-7 is definitely good. I remember this much that a discussion on matching charts was going on where it was mentioned that 7-7 is not good.

About Parashar, I have read, 'Brihat Parashar Hora Shastra', and it doesn't utter a word about match-making if I am remembering correctly as I have read the book long back. Our senior members will be able to confirm or deny this.

I don't think it is so when charts are matched as per Indian astrology. 5-9 is good, 3-11 is good, but 7-7 is not that good.

Basab, this is news to me. As per parashara 7-7 is considered auspicious.

[milredr]

Basab i am talking about matching charts only. If u have the software, do it and c. u will know.

Regards,

[lovacrs]

Deepak ji,

The 23rd nakshatra is called a "Vinashka Nakshatra " . Vinasha means ( The destroyer )

Look like you have gone by 28 Nakshatra scheme (including Abhijit). JHora shows "Vainashika" nakshatra in the Sarvotobadra chakra.
But this is not the 23rd. Are these two terminologies different?

[Basab]

Milredr,

I use Jhora software, and it doesn't have match-making option. Otherwise, I don't have any other software, which does match-making, so I can't check. As you are saying so confidently, you must be right, then. I told you what I have read on this discussion board long back when there was a discussion going on, on how to match charts, but then, I don't remember this, how much learned the person, who was discussing the topic, was. If you are saying it is right, and are so confident about it, then I am sure, it is right.

Basab i am talking about matching charts only. If u have the software, do it and c. u will know.

Regards,

[milredr]

Anyway Basab, i think we should wait for the senior astrologers to reply.......But this is what parashara software says.

[Basab]

Okay, MIlredr, let's wait for what the senior astrologer says. If Parashar software, which is a professional software, I think, is saying that, then it must be right.

Anyway Basab, i think we should wait for the senior astrologers to reply.......But this is what parashara software says.

[kunalbhardwaj27]

by swamykool » Mon Mar 28, 2011 1:03 am
Ramanan ji,

And one more thing. The 12th lord for Mesh lagna is Guru. And you know how expansive by nature Guru is. So they think money is like holy water. Meant to be sprinkled around. Well, high maintenance. Have no doubt about it.

swamykool

Dear Swamykool,

Can u please elaborate on the above. If i am not wrong 12th lord is for expenses. And guru if lord of the 12th house then as per his expansive nature would be more extravagant in spending. Am i right in interpreting what you have said. Please corrct me if i am wrong.


Regards
Kunal

[swamykool]

Basab and Milred,

The BPHS doesn't say anything about matchmaking. The most revered book on this is Prashna Marga. Prashna Marga states that 1/7 (samasaptaka), 5/9 (navapanchaka) and 3/11 (tritiyekadasha) all three are excellent. It even goes to say that samasaptaka position counter balances the ill effects even if the rashi lords are enemies (this is said in reference to Simha/Kumbha).

However it will be totally hunky-dory only if the rashi and nakashatra lords are also friends. For instance in the case of Libra/Aries, Mars and Venus are neutral to each other (and these two are inherently troublesome) so there will be some problems. However if the nakshatras are swati/bharani things will be good as rahu and venus are friends. If chitra/bharani - trouble as mars/ven neutral to each other. Swati/krittika - bad, as sun/rahu are dire enemies.

swamykool

[swamykool]

Kunal,

On the dot.

[Nitin21]

Kunal,

On the dot.

Kunal tera bad luckij kharab hai.. itna likhne ke baad ek dot hee mila tujhe

[Basab]

Swamykool,

Thank you for writing in details about it. You have explained it nicely, but I still have some confusions:

1.Is 1-7 very good when we see the planetary relation between two charts. For example if Venus in both the charts are in 1-7 to each other, is that good too?

2. Why is Venus and Mars relation troublesome even when they are neutral in relation?

So I have to get married to someone with Aries lagna with Kritika nakshatra (Sun) as I am Libra lagna with Vishaka nakshatra (Jupiter). Thanks for the tip. I will now find out that girl with Aries lagna and Krittika nakshatra. She will be my soulmate.

Milredr,

You were right.

[swamykool]

Basab,

1.Is 1-7 very good when we see the planetary relation between two charts. For example if Venus in both the charts are in 1-7 to each other, is that good too?

Depends on the planets, Ven 1/7 in both charts means you have different tastes but find each other intriguing rather than distasteful.

2. Why is Venus and Mars relation troublesome even when are neutral in relation?

Venus rules sensuality, Mars rules passion. Venus rules essence, Mars rules blood. Put these together and you will know.

It'll be easier to understand once you get into the Mars-Ven thing, otherwise writing 10000 lines may not suffice.

swamykool

[Nitin21]

Venus rules attention to detail and Mars rules logic. If these two are placed well in the chart i mean trines or kendras where Venus is Exalted, negative effects of sensuality are not felt. The person is not as given into arms around the waists above and below, as much is being reproduced here

[Basab]

Venus rules sensuality, Mars rules passion. Venus rules essence, Mars rules blood. Put these together and you will know.

It'll be easier to understand once you get into the Mars-Ven thing, otherwise writing 10000 lines may not suffice.

Swami,

You didn't get my point. I said if Venus-Mars relation is so bitter, then why do they get a neutral status in the planetary relationship chart? Shouldn't they have had a 'bitter enemies' status then?

My cousing brother has Venus-Mars-Rahu together in his 2nd house Capricorn, and he is not what you are saying, even one bit, though I agree that he is just 21 years old and has a whole life ahead, and maybe, he will change later on from what he is now.

[kunalbhardwaj27]

by astrosonu » Mon Mar 28, 2011 5:04 am
The person is not as given into arms around the waists above and below, as much is being reproduced here

[R V RAMANAN]

dear swamy cool

i am sorry for using the word yoga karaka.i shud have used the word benefic for the lagna,tx for pointing it out.one more thing against this aries libra combo.the benefics for this sign sun mars and jupiter dont do well for libra lagna people.

Dear Basab

More than libra, the airy sign no doubt, I meant a watery planet venus.

Regards
Ramanan

[Basab]

Thank you, Ramanan ji, for clearing it up.

[swamykool]

Basab,

You didn't get my point. I said if Venus-Mars relation is so bitter, then why do they get a neutral status in the planetary relationship chart? Shouldn't they have had a 'bitter enemies' status then?

Mars Ven are not bitter towards each other. They just upset things when put together. Its like fire and fuel. Are they enemies? No. They just burn the house down when put together in large enough quantities.

swamykool