My fiancee career? (Under Depression) Plz Help

[indyan]

Namaste Guru ji,
First of all i would like to thanks for reading my query .
Guru ji, My fiancée is struggling to achieve her career goals. She has very good academic and just completed her MBA from one the best college. She also got placed in Campus in march but the profile was not so good so she left it in between and back to her home. Now she is preparing for bank PO and pursuing banking operation course which will end in December.
She is very hard working and her aggregate are above 70-80% throughout from board to MBA. Her all friends are placed with good companies and this thing making her restless. I am really worried about her, coz she is very much depressed.
Guru ji she is currently wearing Diamond (Since august 2008).
Due to career problem she her behavior become unacceptable for me. Everytime she shout at me and try to end up the relation. We are planing to get married in coming feb -march. If everything works good then this auspicious fest will occur.
I request all guru ji to please please help me out. She is good in tarot reading but now she left everything, She is spoiling her life by watching TV and hanging out with friends. When i/we interrupt to not do these all rubbish thing, concentrate on your studies she just ignore me/us. She always tell that what i get even after doing so much effort in my studies. I lost my happy days due to my studies but what i got? nothing.
She is MBA in Finance and she is trying to make her career in Finance/Operation/Analyst. She is getting opportunities from sales profile but we dont prefer it for her.

Guru ji please Analise her horoscope and enlighten us with your knowledge. I will be highly obliged .

Her birth details.

Name : Priya
Date of Birth : 19 April 1987
Place : Bhopal (Madhya Pradesh) INDIA
Time : 13.11



Respect and Regards.

[astroboy]

Good day to you,


You wrote,

Due to career problem she her behavior become unacceptable for me. Everytime she shout at me and try to end up the relation. She is spoiling her life by watching TV and hanging out with friends. When i/we interrupt to not do these all rubbish thing, concentrate on your studies she just ignore me/us. She always tell that what i get even after doing so much effort in my studies. I lost my happy days due to my studies but what i got? nothing.


A simple dictum of astrology " when the lagna lord falls in a Dusthana the native will create problems by their own actions and deeds."This is a swayam Aparada Jataka.

Another point to note is that the person is born with lagna in the Nakshatra of Aslesha. This is a tough Nakshatra to be in. Budha the Nakshatra lord is debilitated.

The dasha is of Ravi. the AD is of Budha. This is going to be a tough period for her because Budha is in a state of debilitation, and is in a 2/12 position from Ravi. Things will be fine after 2011 May.

please match your horoscopes before you get married. This is not a ordinary woman. she will have you for break fast and spit you out for dinner.


Best regards,

[indyan]

Dear Astroboy,
Thanks a lot guru ji for your quick reply. Guru ji i love this girl since 2006 and we are into long distance relationship. Our caste are same and our family accepted our love relationship and we are planing to get married in 2011.

I know she has dominating nature and i was/am having bad times with her. But i think when you love someone accept it as s/he is. She is very generous and kind when accepting my faults and my mistakes, She has always forgiven me and my mistake by just showing like nothing happened. But these days due to her career stress she is becoming more unbearable. Everything i say to do she just refuse and all the time she do those things which hurts me. I am not bothered about what she do with me and how much she hurts me (I accepted that i have to live with her with her dominating nature and with her arguments ). May be her frustration is the cause fer her irritating behavior.

I am worried about her career only. Guru ji, her local astrologer told her to wear gomed,but i dont trust him and told to first let me ask on forum. Well i want to point out one more thing that she is like a child, if you push her to do anything she dont do it at any cost. but if you tell her to do it politely then she MAY do it . Her life is totally in her hands. She don't accept anyones suggestion/advice.

If i/we try to tell her bad part or try to show her the right and wrong differences she just shout on us and all the time this all things are happening.I am really frustrated and dont want to loose her at any cost. If she have any issue we can sort it out. But deceiving is not the only way which i think or i need to think on it.

She is just making her life hell. She broke with every person who try to advice her. She only wants her freedom. If you accept her thoughts then you are her prince else you are dumb. She dont try to understand that what is wrong and what is right. She lives on her values only.

Anyways i request you guru ji to please advice us some remedy so that she become silent and understanding and also predict about her career. Will she crack the Bank PO, which is going to be held on 24th of july and another one in September 2010. Results may come out in between oct-nov.

And for our matchmaking our ashtkoot milan score is 27. Only Gun dosh was present in our match making. else score was good.

Sorry for pointing out but according to her horoscope her born nakshtra is PURWASADHA- Charan 1... and you are saying guru ji that her born nakshtra is ASHLESH . Please throw some light upon it.

Please help us...
Respect and regards,

PS: Guru ji can i PM/Mail you our personal problems?

[sbmagar]

1) Present period is good for clearing bank exam.
2) There is no direct relation bet. talent and carrer.Here you will see Mars(10L) is in opposition with Saturn(7/8L) also 1L/10L in 6/8 relation.Due to this carrer journey is not likly to be smooth, sucess will come after many struggle. So advice is to take up the job which is coming in hand.Good job as per liking is difficult for this chart.
3) This chart do indicate Love marriage. But after lot of waiting/struggle/oppostion.
4) Shouting behaviour is due to 1L in 6H aspected by Mars, so can't do anything for this , but to accept as it is.
5) Finance related carrer is suitable for this chart.
6) Marriage is possible as you stated in 2011

[indyan]

1) Present period is good for clearing bank exam.
2) There is no direct relation bet. talent and carrer.Here you will see Mars(10L) is in opposition with Saturn(7/8L) also 1L/10L in 6/8 relation.Due to this carrer journey is not likly to be smooth, sucess will come after many struggle. So advice is to take up the job which is coming in hand.Good job as per liking is difficult for this chart.
3) This chart do indicate Love marriage. But after lot of waiting/struggle/oppostion.
4) Shouting behaviour is due to 1L in 6H aspected by Mars, so can't do anything for this , but to accept as it is.
5) Finance related carrer is suitable for this chart.
6) Marriage is possible as you stated in 2011

Thank you guru ji for your interpretation.
Guru ji can you please tell us some remedies to achieve her career goals. She is good in academic but these days she is not concentrating on her studies much.
She is currently wearing diamond. Any other stone recommended or any mantra or upay?
For her shouting behaviour i am enjoying it coz i accepted it as a part of my life. No one is perfect so if i love her then i have to accept her as it is. She try to become cool but suddenly she change her mind.
I just want to see her happy.

Lots of respect and regards.

[sbmagar]

1) My personel exp. regarding Mantra,tantra , stone is it will help you at sicological level (This is my opinion, other may have objection ). Real problem remains as it is. Real Problem will get solve only when you act according to what the the planets want from you , which i have stated very clearly.
2) To act according to planet requires hard working and struggle which one don't like.
3) Remember to achive long lasting result there is no short cut.

[indyan]

Thanks once again guru ji,
ya there is no short cut in life. But as we know we can reduce/strength the malefic/beneficial effects of planets.
So do you advice anything for her? Also she is having PCOD (Thyroid problem since 2 years but she is slim )
I want to know guru ji what can be done to make her goals. She is really aimless or can say she cant keep promises. Today she tell you that she will do everything to achieve it but on next day she say i dont want to study coz what i will get.
MOOD SWING...
Please tell us what can be done by which she can concentrate on her studies.

Respect and regards.

[astroboy]

Good day to you Indyan ji,

I am not talking about her Chandra Nakshatra which like you rightly pointed out is indeed Poorvashada, I am talking about her Lagna Nakshatra Aslesha. I appreciate the fact that you care for her and love her the way you do, but ............... she is not a easy candidate to win over. I suggest that you give her some time to understand the facts of life. Forget about all this lovey dovey stuff, once she gets married to you, you will see all the true colours in full hue. dont be a fool. you have been warned.

regards,

[indyan]

Good day to you Indyan ji,

I am not talking about her Chandra Nakshatra which like you rightly pointed out is indeed Poorvashada, I am talking about her Lagna Nakshatra Aslesha. I appreciate the fact that you care for her and love her the way you do, but ............... she is not a easy candidate to win over. I suggest that you give her some time to understand the facts of life. Forget about all this lovey dovey stuff, once she gets married to you, you will see all the true colours in full hue. dont be a fool. you have been warned.

regards,

Astroboy ji,
Thank you for trowing your light on my issue once again.
Guru ji i am in mid way of life and dont want to leave her (i already had very bad times ). I respect your advice and accept your intelligence. But I cant help it. I have really accepted the things as it is. I know she is dominating and out going nature girl but at the same time she loves me like hell. I know its difficult to live with her but its IMPOSSIBLE to live without her. So i have only one choice to accept her as she is.
I need your blessing and any remedy which can low down her attitude and ego. She understand that she will hurt me after marriage and thats the reason she dont want to be with me. If i leave her then she again become depressed. I dont say that she will end her life but my life (Happiness) will sure end here. My happiness is with her only. Astroboy guru ji, I respect your warning and guidance but i dont have any other way. I dont want her to become cool or become respectful for me. i want her to smile always .
As you said guru ji that she have some dominating nature and ..... but guru ji any guy who will marry her have to face her dominating nature and her ego. isint? here i am accepting her nature but what will happen if the other guy have same attitude? He must ruin her life.
I am really sorry for disobeying your advice
Guru ji please tell us some remedy which may low down her temper and bad habits (Her lying habit). And also tell us about what are things which she can do to crack Bank PO and achieve her career goals.

Please i need your help... Help us !!!

Respect and regards.

[astroboy]

My dear Indyan,

The Great Kalil Gibran once said "We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them."

I am really proud of you. This shows that true love does exist. May god be with you always. Let him guide her and give her his blessing's. I am really really proud of you my friend. She is indeed a lucky girl to have a man like you in her life. God bless you both. I dont say things like this often. But today I see a little bit of me in you. I too loved a girl with my heart and soul like this once................... but now............. never again. God bless you. You are a true Romeo.


best regards,


P.S. there are no remedies for her. You just need to pray and wear a bullet proof vest.

[indyan]

My dear Indyan,

The Great Kalil Gibran once said "We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them."

I am really proud of you. This shows that true love does exist. May god be with you always. Let him guide her and give her his blessing's. I am really really proud of you my friend. She is indeed a lucky girl to have a man like you in her life. God bless you both. I dont say things like this often. But today I see a little bit of me in you. I too loved a girl with my heart and soul like this once................... but now............. never again. God bless you. You are a true Romeo.


best regards,

Thank you Guru ji for such lovely words . I am feeling blessed. With your grace and blessing we live together and will enjoy our every moment of life

Respect and regards,

P.S. there are no remedies for her. You just need to pray and wear a bullet proof vest.

LOL... Sure i will wear it

[indyan]

Thanks astroboy for your words, and i really feel blessed by your comment.

She is changing now and doing her best to become a good love, She always try to make me happy.

Well the most sad part is that she met with an accident on 1st september 2010 in which her left hand is fractured.

But i must say, Your blessing changed her. I never imagined so much change in her.


THANKS ASTROBOY

[vidhyanine]

Astroboy,

please match your horoscopes before you get married. This is not a ordinary woman. she will have you for break fast and spit you out for dinner.

You are just too funny! I couldn't stop laughing. Not laughing at that man's love for her, but just your words that you come up with.

You're a Shakespeare in the 21st century!

Vidya