Speech & communication delay in 2.5 year old

[Tikabi]

Hi Sir,

My son is 2.5 years old but not communicating much yet.
From last month we are sending him to play school. From 2-3 months, we can see lite improvement in his speech. He is repeating some words which we Speak to him. he says and identifies the alphabets, numbers, tells animals names & their sounds etc... Whatever we teach he learns n answers then when questioned. But the problem is he doesn't communicate with us, he doesn't even call us amma & dad. If he wants something, he takes me to that point and Keeps my palm on it. Otherwise he is active & healthy child. He understands mostly whatever we say.
Can you please tell me when will he talk like kids of his age. When will he communicate. We showed his horoscope to our family astrologer who says there is a little delay but he will talk and everything will be fine. I am really tensed to know by when he will Converse normally. Kindly help me in telling this.

We are scared to go to doctor as many are commercial and just tell us to go for speech therapy , autism etc

His details are as below.
DOB : 15-01-2017
Time : 05:48 AM
Place : Kakinada, Andhra Pradesh, India

Thanks

[Sujit]

At birth he is in stressful maha dasa of unfavorable Ketu till december 2021.
Current forecast has some hurdles for him to express properly which will show some improvement towards end of year and in 2020. There is nothing wrong if the child goes to one hour speech therapy classes and does not cost much. It will speed up things. Current time is also difficult for mother of the child.
Good luck

Sujit

[Tikabi]

Hi Sujit sir,

Thanks for your reply. Feeling relieved that he will show improvement soon.

[Tikabi]

Hi ,

Please let me know when can I expect my child to talk normally like the kids of his age. As mentioned above by Sujit sir, there can be little improvement from this year end. But I am anxious to know when he will be talking normally.
Now he repeats many words, learns everything we teach and answers them when questioned. But all those are databased questions to which he responds. He doesn't communicate at all.

Waiting for reply, thank you

DOB : 15-01-2017
Time : 05:48 AM
Place : Kakinada, Andhra Pradesh, India

[Tikabi]

Respected members,
Request any of the astrologers to respond.

Thanks again!

[tylorechandra]

Full improvement can be expected in the dasa of Venus starting from end 2021. Meanwhile you can donate curd rice to some needy persons (or may be at a temple for e.g) on at least two sukla paksha Monday nights with a sankalp for early cure. It will help.

TKC

[Tikabi]

Respected astrologers,

My son is now 5.8 years old. He is on the ASD spectrum. He is undergoing the required therapies from past 2.5 years. I have earlier posted a query regarding him 3 years ago. There is definitely improvement in his communication than before but still it's not a conversational communication . He also exhibits social delay. He is attending school and is in UKG now. Now and then , we get complaints on his behaviour in school.
Truly worried and depressed thinking about our future. Will my kid ever overcome these ASD issues and converse fluently and understand everything. Will he have a formal education? Do you see him living a good life independently ? Please guide me.
Also we have performed many remedies suggested by astrologers whoever has suggested us.

His details
Abhiram
15- Jan-2017
05:48 AM ( one astrologer rectified it to 5:47 AM)
Kakinada, Andhra Pradesh.

Please reply .
Thank you,
Manjula

[Sishya]

Namaste TKC,

Full improvement can be expected in the dasa of Venus starting from end 2021. Meanwhile you can donate curd rice to some needy persons (or may be at a temple for e.g) on at least two sukla paksha Monday nights with a sankalp for early cure. It will help.

TKC

A quick observation of the birth-chart shows Udaya Lagna to be placed in Dhanur Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purvashada Nakshatra. Mercury/Budha is placed alongside and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra. Mano-Karaka Moon/Chandra is placed in the 9th house of Simha Rashi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu and hence the child has started his life in Ketu Maha-Dasha. Moon/Chandra is in close conjunction with Rahu.

On the sidelines, both Ketu and Venus/Shukra are placed in the 3rd house (Kumbha Rashi) and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Satabisha Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu. Mars/Kuja the (5th &) 12th lord is lurking around.

Now, it's been a while since the child has started his Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha, who happens to be a nasty Roga-Karaka. So, in my understanding, the same set of Grahas/Planets seem to be active. This has made me wonder how and what might bring in the much needed relief to the child and his family.

Kindly share your thoughts, when you get a chance...

Sincerely...

[Sishya]

Hi,

For the records, Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev is placed in the 10th house and 10th lord Mercury/Budha is placed in the alongside Udaya Lagna. So, there is Rashi Parivarthana. This, when activated could bring about a some change - although it would call for validation of Kendradipathya Dosha.

Sincerely...

[Tikabi]

Hi Sishya

Can you kindly tell how my child's education and life will be? Are the days only going to be tough . Can we expect him to lead a regular independent life. Pls help.

Thank you

[Tikabi]

Respected astrologers

Below are my son's details
15 jan 2017
05.48 AM
Kakinada, Andhra Pradesh

In the past , most of you were kind enough to reply me.
My son has autism. And goes to regular school with the support of shadow teacher. He is in 3 rd grade. There is improvement in communication and understanding but still not upto his age. His main challenges are emotional dysregulation along with conversational speech and socialisation.
Will he be like this always? What can we expect about his future when he grows up ? Kindly help me to know what's in store when he becomes an adult . Can he lead a normal regular life with autism ??

Thanks،
Manja

[Sishya]

Hi,

It is said that the basis of Hindu Astrology is KARMAPHALA and the initial 4+4 years of the child’s life is said to be influenced by the KARMAPHALAS of parents and the subsequent 4 years is influenced by the child’s own KARMASHESHA (residual or pending KARMAPHALAS), from previous birth’s.

In other words, the Karmic burden of parents is supposed to get passed on to the kid. In the first 4 years, the child is supposed to bear or reap benefits of mother’s Karma. Thereafter, next 4 years (or age till 8 years) the child is supposed to bear or reap benefits of father’s Karma. Subsequent 4 years or till 12 year, the child will bear or reap benefits from his/her own Sanchitha Karma (from past). In my understanding, the Nadis are seen only after 12 years for individual. This probably means their Prarabdha Karma manifests only after 12 years.

Further, it is advised not to assess or share an assessment of a child’s birth-chart…unless there are inherent and obvious health or other such qualifying reasons. Thought I’d share my 2 bits here…for whatever they are worth.

Sincerely...

[Tikabi]

Namaste Sir,

I understand what you said but the journey seems to be tough as parents and feel hopeless at times. Out of immense worry, we seek astrological opinions.

I know there are issues in the horoscope but just wanted to know if there will be any improvement going forward. What future holds for him when he becomes an adult. From the time of diagnosis till today, there is improvement in terms of understanding and communication but he did not outgrow it and leading a regular life like any other kid of his age. He doesn't have friends, he goes to school with support, but he studies well. So as a mother out of much worry, wanted to know how his future will turn out . 

Note : we have done all the pariharams and remedies suggested by each and every astrologer so far. Like rahu ketu pooja in kalahasthi, naga pratishtha in kukke, many homams , danams for the planets afflicted , visited  many temples and will continue to do so in our capacity.

Seeking astrological advice as we don't have a clear road map about future and it worries a lot sometimes. 

Hope you can understand my pain.

Thank you.

[Sishya]

Hi,

I can try and understand / imagine your plight / pain... in reality though folk who experience can only relate to your situation. Kindly bear with me and feel free to ignore anything that is not to your taste/liking. I also hope you (mother/parents) are strong and hence will focus your energies on supporting your child, instead of losing hope.
Beyond whatever has been shared previously, I would like to draw your attention to the following observations:
1. Moon/Chandra is too closely conjunct Rahu in the 9th house of Bhagya/Dharma-sthana, while being caught in the Rahu-Ketu axis. Aspects or Drishti of 12th lord Mars/Kuja, Roga-Karaka Venus/Shukra and Saturn/Shani-dev does not seem to bode well.
2. Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev participates in Sukshma Parivarthana (at Nakshatra level) with 12th lord Mars/Kuja is not a good sign.
3. Saturn/Shani-dev, the lord of 2nd house being placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses; not to mention being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Jyestha Nakshatra ruled by Mercury/Budha is not a good sign either.
4. Current Maha-Dasha lord Venus/Shukra being caught between 2 hardcore malefics, while being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Satabisha Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu is not preferred... nor Udaya Lagna or Ascendent and Mercury/Budha being caught between malefics.
5. Currently, the child and in-turn parents/family are probably experiencing the effects of Ashtama-Shani or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across the 8th house from natal placement of Moon/Chandra.
All said and done, Venus/Shukra (is a natural benefic). So, his Maha-Dasha should help for things to improve slowly. But then, please try to understand the impact/implications of whatever has been shared now and kindly consider addressing them.

Sincerely...

[Sishya]

Hi,

I understand what you said but the journey seems to be tough as parents and feel hopeless at times. Out of immense worry, we seek astrological opinions.

As stated earlier, I can try to imagine the anxiety and anguish. On my part, I'm inclined to think your experience is a test of your resilience. So, stay and be strong... is my request to you.

I know there are issues in the horoscope but just wanted to know if there will be any improvement going forward. What future holds for him when he becomes an adult. From the time of diagnosis till today, there is improvement in terms of understanding and communication but he did not outgrow it and leading a regular life like any other kid of his age. He doesn't have friends, he goes to school with support, but he studies well. So as a mother out of much worry, wanted to know how his future will turn out . 

Please trust me... I've seen and observed far worse cases, as also witnessed things that are nothing short of what I consider to be miracles. But then, the miracles did not always happen all by themselves. In some cases, I believe due credit goes to parents... who've literally toiled the prime years of their lives - not to mention the effect of collective Karma.

Note : we have done all the pariharams and remedies suggested by each and every astrologer so far. Like rahu ketu pooja in kalahasthi, naga pratishtha in kukke, many homams , danams for the planets afflicted , visited  many temples and will continue to do so in our capacity.

It is indeed heartening to know of your commitment. But then, I'd urge you to think and validate suggestions/guidance and not blindly follow whatever is told.

Seeking astrological advice as we don't have a clear road map about future and it worries a lot sometimes. 

All of us are unique in our own sweet way... as is your son. But then, it does not make much sense for you to force fit and expect the child to feel comfortable or react like other kids would do. Instead, it would make sense for you to recognize and accept his ways (thinking, acting, reacting etc.) may be different. Thereafter, learning to understand and connect with him would be the way forward. If I were to take the liberty, I'd suggest that you consider watching the Netflix series called "The Good Doctor"... wherein, apart from regular masala to entice the viewer attention, the makers have done a pretty good job of highlighting / showcasing various aspects of autism.

Sincerely....