Hello. I have been married since 2021 and I have had many difficulties in experiencing a healthy sexual life. My husband and I have had many problems related to this. I have a lot of desire but my husband does not. I feel very disappointed and disatisfied because of this. Does my chart show any conjugal happiness? Will my marriage survive this or will I find someone else in the future? Please kindly help and advise. Thank you!
Birthdate - February 11, 1995
Birth Time - 7:38 PM (19:38)
Birth Place - Mumbai, Maharashtra.
Unhappy sex life
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Your chart shows average behavior towards sexual urge.
Give Husband details. ... Seems he has affliction.
EXAMPLE: Ketu in the 7th house gives premature ejaculation.
The distance between the Sun and Venus is also very important. Venus very close to the Sun [say within 3degrees and 20 minutes] affects the sexual urge of a native. They do not go for sex for pleasure.
In this case if Venus is ahead of the Sun then the affliction is severe however, if Venus is behind the Sun then such native would like to have sex specifically for the purpose of having children.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
Give Husband details. ... Seems he has affliction.
EXAMPLE: Ketu in the 7th house gives premature ejaculation.
The distance between the Sun and Venus is also very important. Venus very close to the Sun [say within 3degrees and 20 minutes] affects the sexual urge of a native. They do not go for sex for pleasure.
In this case if Venus is ahead of the Sun then the affliction is severe however, if Venus is behind the Sun then such native would like to have sex specifically for the purpose of having children.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
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nvaidya112
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Thank you so much for the response.
Husband’s details are:
Birthday - October 29, 1991
Birth Time - 8:30 AM
Birthplace - Mumbai, Maharashtra
Could you explain the sexual compatibility and if there is any remedy? Thank you so much, I really appreciate it
Husband’s details are:
Birthday - October 29, 1991
Birth Time - 8:30 AM
Birthplace - Mumbai, Maharashtra
Could you explain the sexual compatibility and if there is any remedy? Thank you so much, I really appreciate it
Hi,
I'm inclined to think you guys have anger/temper issues and seem to have made a habit of having arguments and cat fights in the bedroom. Inherent weakness of mind or mental weakness is not helping your cause either.
Lastly, it might not be bad idea for you guys to consider get a through medical examination done to check if there are any underlying health conditions.
Sincerely...
I'm inclined to think you guys have anger/temper issues and seem to have made a habit of having arguments and cat fights in the bedroom. Inherent weakness of mind or mental weakness is not helping your cause either.
Lastly, it might not be bad idea for you guys to consider get a through medical examination done to check if there are any underlying health conditions.
Sincerely...
I think your husband details are incorrect.
He may be Sagittarius having Moon and Ketu in the 7th house.
This chart then shows frequency of having sex on the higher side but could not satisfy you because of premature ejaculation.
He may be Sagittarius having Moon and Ketu in the 7th house.
This chart then shows frequency of having sex on the higher side but could not satisfy you because of premature ejaculation.
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
Could you share date of marriage.
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
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nvaidya112
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Our court marriage was on June 3, 2021. Our Vedic ritual marriage ceremony happened on November 17, 2022.
The date of marriage does not justify your birth details.
Are you premature/C-section or twin born.
HOWEVER: [Female]
You have Saturn n Rahu together in the Navamsa chart, this means no matter how many times a native marries till he /she is 32/33 years old.....all end up in separation.
AYANAMSA USED: 22:54:09
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer
Are you premature/C-section or twin born.
HOWEVER: [Female]
You have Saturn n Rahu together in the Navamsa chart, this means no matter how many times a native marries till he /she is 32/33 years old.....all end up in separation.
AYANAMSA USED: 22:54:09
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
Please remember VEDIC ASTROLOGY is a divine science and excellent in prediction.
BUT
Totally dependent upon the exact birth details [when a child first cries and the birth is normal, this means completing 9 months]. You need to know the exact time plus the GPS of the exact place of birth.
With incorrect birth details the answers will not be reliable.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
BUT
Totally dependent upon the exact birth details [when a child first cries and the birth is normal, this means completing 9 months]. You need to know the exact time plus the GPS of the exact place of birth.
With incorrect birth details the answers will not be reliable.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
Before you got married I gave you few replies on your chart. You may visit the below link and read my reply. Good luck.nvaidya112 wrote: 08 May 2025 Our court marriage was on June 3, 2021. Our Vedic ritual marriage ceremony happened on November 17, 2022.
viewtopic.php?p=299671#p299671
viewtopic.php?p=285521#p285521
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
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Im not an astrologer but ive dabbled a lot into sex drive in relation to astrology. You have purvaphalguni rising, ardra moon and dhanista sun. All of which are highly sexual. Esp purva phalguni. Also venus directly opposite the moon, hence you greatly desire sensuality.
Your husband has anuradha, punarvasu, and swati. I'm not too sure about anuradha but from what I've heard, punarvasu and swati men are timid in nature. Also he has mars in libra d1 and aquarius d9 both of which I'd assume isn't strong for mars. How is his testosterone levels? Is he more of a passive individual or aggressive?
Your husband has anuradha, punarvasu, and swati. I'm not too sure about anuradha but from what I've heard, punarvasu and swati men are timid in nature. Also he has mars in libra d1 and aquarius d9 both of which I'd assume isn't strong for mars. How is his testosterone levels? Is he more of a passive individual or aggressive?
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In the chart of your husband, both Sun and Moon are in their respective Marana Karaka Sthanas. Sun is further afflicted by Lagna and 6th lord Mars, 8th and 11th lord Mercury, Ketu and Saturn. Sun is also the cuspal lord of the 7th house. Moon is afflicted by Ketu, Saturn and is involved in a Grahana Yoga. He is under the dasa of Mercury and antara of Mercury leading to activation of both Sun and Moon. Hence both mentally and physically, he is not active in sexual matters.
In your chart, Rahu is the cuspal lord of the 7th house, Saturn in the 7th house is in Rahu’s nakshatra and the 7th house is aspected by both Mars and Rahu. You are also running the dasa of Saturn, leading to an increased urge for sex.
Your husband needs to perform a shanti for Moon and Ketu. He should also wear a Ruby in the form of a ring in the ring finger or a pendant.
TKC
In your chart, Rahu is the cuspal lord of the 7th house, Saturn in the 7th house is in Rahu’s nakshatra and the 7th house is aspected by both Mars and Rahu. You are also running the dasa of Saturn, leading to an increased urge for sex.
Your husband needs to perform a shanti for Moon and Ketu. He should also wear a Ruby in the form of a ring in the ring finger or a pendant.
TKC
nvaidya112 wrote:
> Hello. I have been married since 2021 and I have had many difficulties in
> experiencing a healthy sexual life. My husband and I have had many problems
> related to this. I have a lot of desire but my husband does not. I feel
> very disappointed and disatisfied because of this. Does my chart show any
> conjugal happiness? Will my marriage survive this or will I find someone
> else in the future? Please kindly help and advise. Thank you!
>
> Birthdate - February 11, 1995
> Birth Time - 7:38 PM (19:38)
> Birth Place - Mumba- Maharashtra.
"I am an astrology researcher. Can you tell me if what I mentioned below is correct?"
Dose you husband nature's are Emotional
Moody,
Restless or Hasty,Confused,Secretive
Abstract thinker.
> Hello. I have been married since 2021 and I have had many difficulties in
> experiencing a healthy sexual life. My husband and I have had many problems
> related to this. I have a lot of desire but my husband does not. I feel
> very disappointed and disatisfied because of this. Does my chart show any
> conjugal happiness? Will my marriage survive this or will I find someone
> else in the future? Please kindly help and advise. Thank you!
>
> Birthdate - February 11, 1995
> Birth Time - 7:38 PM (19:38)
> Birth Place - Mumba- Maharashtra.
"I am an astrology researcher. Can you tell me if what I mentioned below is correct?"
Dose you husband nature's are Emotional
Moody,
Restless or Hasty,Confused,Secretive
Abstract thinker.
nvaidya112 wrote:
> Thank you so much for the response.
>
> Husband’s details are:
> Birthday - October 29, 1991
> Birth Time - 8:30 AM
> Birthplace - Mumbai, Maharashtra
>
> Could you explain the sexual compatibility and if there is any remedy?
> Thank you so much, I really appreciate it
"I am an astrology researcher. Can you tell me if what I mentioned below is correct?"
Since Mars in the 7th house in d9 chart wife might have a hot temper and she can be aggressive in nature.now, about sexual intimacy or desire is higher in the wife due to mars is there. In some cases, she may also be a sports lover, Physical traits of wife - Big ears, board shoulders, lazy but intelligent, talkative.
> Thank you so much for the response.
>
> Husband’s details are:
> Birthday - October 29, 1991
> Birth Time - 8:30 AM
> Birthplace - Mumbai, Maharashtra
>
> Could you explain the sexual compatibility and if there is any remedy?
> Thank you so much, I really appreciate it
"I am an astrology researcher. Can you tell me if what I mentioned below is correct?"
Since Mars in the 7th house in d9 chart wife might have a hot temper and she can be aggressive in nature.now, about sexual intimacy or desire is higher in the wife due to mars is there. In some cases, she may also be a sports lover, Physical traits of wife - Big ears, board shoulders, lazy but intelligent, talkative.
You have to understand that few days you are dealing with a wall. This way you know when to step forward and when not to. This it self can help a lot.nvaidya112 wrote: 28 Apr 2025 Hello. I have been married since 2021 and I have had many difficulties in experiencing a healthy sexual life. My husband and I have had many problems related to this. I have a lot of desire but my husband does not. I feel very disappointed and disatisfied because of this. Does my chart show any conjugal happiness? Will my marriage survive this or will I find someone else in the future? Please kindly help and advise. Thank you!
Birthdate - February 11, 1995
Birth Time - 7:38 PM (19:38)
Birth Place - Mumbai, Maharashtra.


