Hello Everyone
My name is jyothi
DOB 12 Jun 1984
Time 10.25 AM
Place Chennai
We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
Is there a possibility of divorce and can I go for it. Pls advice.
Marriage Issues and divorce
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Fortius28 wrote:
> Hello Everyone
>
> My name is jyothi
>
> DOB 12 Jun 1984
> Time 10.25 AM
> Place Chennai
>
> We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill
> with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are
> totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and
> married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an
> independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated
> since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
>
> Is there a possibility of divorce and can I go for it. Pls advice.
There are lot of status issues, no domestic happiness seen in the chart. There is a possibility of the disturbance in the relationship in the last two months of 2027 and mid of 2028. Remedies for Mars, Sun and Ketu along with some marriage counselling can save the marriage.
As per the chart next 2-3 months will be not so good for the relationship.
> Hello Everyone
>
> My name is jyothi
>
> DOB 12 Jun 1984
> Time 10.25 AM
> Place Chennai
>
> We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill
> with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are
> totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and
> married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an
> independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated
> since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
>
> Is there a possibility of divorce and can I go for it. Pls advice.
There are lot of status issues, no domestic happiness seen in the chart. There is a possibility of the disturbance in the relationship in the last two months of 2027 and mid of 2028. Remedies for Mars, Sun and Ketu along with some marriage counselling can save the marriage.
As per the chart next 2-3 months will be not so good for the relationship.
Thans Arv55.. I think i am facing inner insecurity issues which makes me not to take step towards anything.. Can I confidently go for divorce as my marriage is draining me and seek out profession in future? I don't have problem with finances..
Fortius28 wrote:
> Hello Everyone
>
> My name is jyothi
>
> DOB 12 Jun 1984
> Time 10.25 AM
> Place Chennai
>
> We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill
> with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are
> totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and
> married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an
> independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated
> since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
>
> Is there a possibility of divorce and can I go for it. Pls advice.
HI jyothi,
I am Vedic astrology researcher, since in your chart having moon and ketu in d9 chart in 7th house, moon = Emotional but Moody
and Restless nature dose he having this nature and the second planet was ketu dose he havevery good at numbers, calculations and mathematics. He might also have a good hold of computers. And in some case, he might even like the spiritual practices like yoga ,Always doubtful
Indecisive,Lacking firmness, Analytical due to ketu
dose anything will right about your current in husband ?
kindly share your husband birth detail as well ?
> Hello Everyone
>
> My name is jyothi
>
> DOB 12 Jun 1984
> Time 10.25 AM
> Place Chennai
>
> We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill
> with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are
> totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and
> married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an
> independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated
> since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
>
> Is there a possibility of divorce and can I go for it. Pls advice.
HI jyothi,
I am Vedic astrology researcher, since in your chart having moon and ketu in d9 chart in 7th house, moon = Emotional but Moody
and Restless nature dose he having this nature and the second planet was ketu dose he havevery good at numbers, calculations and mathematics. He might also have a good hold of computers. And in some case, he might even like the spiritual practices like yoga ,Always doubtful
Indecisive,Lacking firmness, Analytical due to ketu
dose anything will right about your current in husband ?
kindly share your husband birth detail as well ?
Hii VVIP.. yes he is good at numbers and computers. He is a mechanical engineer. Yes he is indecisive, lacks firmness sometimes but logical and patient. He is materialistic, talks about saving wealth for kids and doesn't care that much about my feelings.
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tylorechandra
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Your chart has Grahana dosha w.r.t Moon and Pitru dosha w.r.t Sun. Since the dasa lord Venus is in the nakshatra of Mars, all the nine planets are active.
Coupled with the fact that Venus is in its debilitation house and in the 6th (12th from 7th) in Navamsa, you are facing these problems.
Chances of break of marriage exists in your chart but the same is to be checked in your spouse's chart as well.
Try performing a Shanti for Sun, Moon, Rahu and Ketu. Things may improve.
TKC
Coupled with the fact that Venus is in its debilitation house and in the 6th (12th from 7th) in Navamsa, you are facing these problems.
Chances of break of marriage exists in your chart but the same is to be checked in your spouse's chart as well.
Try performing a Shanti for Sun, Moon, Rahu and Ketu. Things may improve.
TKC
Fortius28 wrote:
> Hii VVIP.. yes he is good at numbers and computers. He is a mechanical
> engineer. Yes he is indecisive, lacks firmness sometimes but logical and
> patient. He is materialistic, talks about saving wealth for kids and
> doesn't care that much about my feelings.
hi Fortius28
Kindly share your husband's birth details
> Hii VVIP.. yes he is good at numbers and computers. He is a mechanical
> engineer. Yes he is indecisive, lacks firmness sometimes but logical and
> patient. He is materialistic, talks about saving wealth for kids and
> doesn't care that much about my feelings.
hi Fortius28
Kindly share your husband's birth details
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prasanna1978
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Keeping two kids and looking for divorce it is not advisable
In my opinion, reciting one Sarga of Sundarkandam daily for the rest of your life is a very good parihara for such kinds of doshas.
Surrender your problem to almighty
In my opinion, reciting one Sarga of Sundarkandam daily for the rest of your life is a very good parihara for such kinds of doshas.
Surrender your problem to almighty
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tylorechandra
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In his chart, your husband has a weak Moon aspected by Mars, Rahu and Saturn. He also has a Kalasarpa dosha with both Rahu and Ketu active. The 7th lord Saturn is in the 2nd sign in the rasi chart but moves to Lagna in the bhava chart.
In Navamsa, the 7th lord Venus occupies the 6th house (12th from 7th). The 7th lord of Rasi chart is badly afflicted in Navamsa.
Chances of break does exist in his chart.
TKC
In Navamsa, the 7th lord Venus occupies the 6th house (12th from 7th). The 7th lord of Rasi chart is badly afflicted in Navamsa.
Chances of break does exist in his chart.
TKC
Hi,
On my part, I wonder what is going on, what is being sought and what each of you have been doing about the current situation, what is stopping you from pursuing your individual or collective destiny.. It would help if both of you were to elaborate and consider taking appropriate action.
If it would help in anyway, it is easy for you to comment and blame your husband to be disinterested in you... (obviously, he seems to be detached...given the precarious situation and placement/position of Venus/Shukra - not to mention the influence of Ketu, unpleasant planetary transits etc.). But then, your anger/temper issues that often make you a different person (a dual personality of sorts, whenever you get triggered for whatever reasons) has not helped the cause. Incidentally, his Mars/Kuja has an ability to fight back and hence the acrimonious relationship. And then, there have obviously been some trust issues etc. But the funny thing is... both of you have been through tougher times (nasty transits) and now want to separate - to what end is something I've wondered.
Sincerely...
I've shared my observations and understanding of both birth-charts previously. I've observed the same handle-name being used while posting similar queries, as the other party (as the husband) in another virtual platform.Fortius28 wrote: 19 Mar 2025 DOB 12 Jun 1984
Time 10.25 AM
Place Chennai
We have been married since 2009. Have 2 kids. My marriage is going downhill with lot of diaagreements, miscommunication and trust issues. Our views are totally different. He is stubborn, and always shown disinterest in me and married life in general. He has always complained that i am not an independent woman and dependent on him for everything. It has aggrevated since 2020 and I am mentally disturbed and i cant take it anymore.
On my part, I wonder what is going on, what is being sought and what each of you have been doing about the current situation, what is stopping you from pursuing your individual or collective destiny.. It would help if both of you were to elaborate and consider taking appropriate action.
If it would help in anyway, it is easy for you to comment and blame your husband to be disinterested in you... (obviously, he seems to be detached...given the precarious situation and placement/position of Venus/Shukra - not to mention the influence of Ketu, unpleasant planetary transits etc.). But then, your anger/temper issues that often make you a different person (a dual personality of sorts, whenever you get triggered for whatever reasons) has not helped the cause. Incidentally, his Mars/Kuja has an ability to fight back and hence the acrimonious relationship. And then, there have obviously been some trust issues etc. But the funny thing is... both of you have been through tougher times (nasty transits) and now want to separate - to what end is something I've wondered.
Sincerely...
We want different ways becos neither of us is happy.. there seems to no end.. its now difficult to go through.. you are right about my anger triggers..
All I want to know is idea about what is in store for me in future.. tough times good times or even testing times
All I want to know is idea about what is in store for me in future.. tough times good times or even testing times
Hi,
Pitru Dosha is supposedly associated with pending karmic debt/s of the native's ancestors, involving their past misdeeds, an indication of unsettled souls, or sinful acts in their lives. Please consider a quick/simple Google search, to get a better understanding of Pitru Dosha.
In my humble understanding and opinion, this dosha will affect multiple aspects of the native's life – including marriage/children, quality of, success / achievements in life, education, career growth/progression, accomplishments etc. So, it would make sense to consider addressing the same with appropriate Vedic/Dharmic remedial measures, on priority basis.
Thereafter, I'd like to draw your attention to Yogakaraka Mars/Kuja being distracted and perhaps preoccupied in chasing Saturn/Shani-dev (both are Vakra or Retrograde), Jupiter/Guru-dev another Karaka is placed in his Swasthana is a bit of saving grace, even though he is placed very close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees - for the records, he too is Vakra or Retrograde (hopefully, you realize the impact your situation is having on your progeny). Saturn/Shani-dev and Rahu co-lord the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana and both are precariously placed - not to mention your anger / temper issues.
Further, you are in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha and Antara of Rahu. You seem to have a fascination for unconventional things - including relationship, which is perhaps on a overdrive currently, more so at work-place. If I may take the liberty, I'd suggest that you exercise a bit of caution.
Sincerely...
Fair enough... just that having clarity on who the querent is and what is being sought in the circumstances helps.Fortius28 wrote: 07 Apr 2025 I was never interested in astrology before.. I saw him using a forum and he told me to consult if I was interested.. So I logged in with his email and id..
If is it of any help, the association of Sun/Ravi and 9th lord with Rahu as an indication of Pitru Dosha. In your case, both Naisargika as well as Chara Atma-Karaka and Lagna Lord Sun/Ravi is conjunct Rahu in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana and 9th lord Mars/Kuja is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Swathi Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu. So, there is a clear indication of and my suggestion for validation / remedial action to address Pitru Dosha.Fortius28 wrote: 07 Apr 2025 We want different ways becos neither of us is happy.. there seems to no end.. its now difficult to go through.. you are right about my anger triggers..
All I want to know is idea about what is in store for me in future.. tough times good times or even testing times
Pitru Dosha is supposedly associated with pending karmic debt/s of the native's ancestors, involving their past misdeeds, an indication of unsettled souls, or sinful acts in their lives. Please consider a quick/simple Google search, to get a better understanding of Pitru Dosha.
In my humble understanding and opinion, this dosha will affect multiple aspects of the native's life – including marriage/children, quality of, success / achievements in life, education, career growth/progression, accomplishments etc. So, it would make sense to consider addressing the same with appropriate Vedic/Dharmic remedial measures, on priority basis.
Thereafter, I'd like to draw your attention to Yogakaraka Mars/Kuja being distracted and perhaps preoccupied in chasing Saturn/Shani-dev (both are Vakra or Retrograde), Jupiter/Guru-dev another Karaka is placed in his Swasthana is a bit of saving grace, even though he is placed very close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees - for the records, he too is Vakra or Retrograde (hopefully, you realize the impact your situation is having on your progeny). Saturn/Shani-dev and Rahu co-lord the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana and both are precariously placed - not to mention your anger / temper issues.
Further, you are in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha and Antara of Rahu. You seem to have a fascination for unconventional things - including relationship, which is perhaps on a overdrive currently, more so at work-place. If I may take the liberty, I'd suggest that you exercise a bit of caution.
Sincerely...
Fortius;
Give date of marriage
Date of birth of children for birth time rectification.
Give date of marriage
Date of birth of children for birth time rectification.
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
Thank you Sishya.. While I couldn't understand everything in full.. some of it I could gather... Yet thank you..
For Mr Hamid
Date of Marriage 03 May 09, Kannur Kerala
Child 1: 08 Nov 2011, 1725 , Kochi
Child 2: 08 Nov 2017, 0745, New Delhi
PS: both date and month are same 6 yrs apart
For Mr Hamid
Date of Marriage 03 May 09, Kannur Kerala
Child 1: 08 Nov 2011, 1725 , Kochi
Child 2: 08 Nov 2017, 0745, New Delhi
PS: both date and month are same 6 yrs apart
DIVORCE INEVITABLE.
You are justified in complaining about the attitude of your husband.
But you are also strong headed, and poor in taking care of your husband physical sex needs.
ACCORDING TO MY RESEARCH:
All marriages for this male before he is 33 years and 7 months old ...end in separation.
All marriages for this female before she is 32 years and 6 months old also has the same fate.
Since both of you married before attaining this age therefore the couple will get separated.
MY READINGS ARE NOT VALID FOR PREMATURE/C-SECTION/TWIN BIRTHS.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer
You are justified in complaining about the attitude of your husband.
But you are also strong headed, and poor in taking care of your husband physical sex needs.
ACCORDING TO MY RESEARCH:
All marriages for this male before he is 33 years and 7 months old ...end in separation.
All marriages for this female before she is 32 years and 6 months old also has the same fate.
Since both of you married before attaining this age therefore the couple will get separated.
MY READINGS ARE NOT VALID FOR PREMATURE/C-SECTION/TWIN BIRTHS.
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
