Do 2nd marriage possible? if yes, when?

[GodGrace]

At the verge of Divorce/in Court since 5 years.

Do 2nd marriage possible? if yes, when?
where will I found next partner, if any ?

Male:
07.feb.1981, 01:15 am, Koderma Jharkhand.

(Date of marriage was: 29 may 2013.)
Living completely seperate since June, 2020.

[Sishya]

Hi,

It looks like you are in the midst of 8th & 11th lord Mercury/Budha Maha-Dasha, since mid-2017 (and lasting until mid-2034) and Antara of Moon/Chandra, followed by that of Mars/Kuja... all placed in the 4th house of Homely Comforts and by nature are at odds with each-other.

On the sidelines, Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra (as also the combination in the 4th house) had probably made things difficult, the past few years.

Anyways, back to your query... I'm sure you'll understand if I'm being skeptical of your chances for a second shot at a happy and successful spousal relationship, without factoring in "Desha-Kaala-Patra" and other such factors.

Sincerely...

[GodGrace]

Dear Sishya Ji,

Thanks a lot for your analysis.
Your doubt is genuine as I am also afraid of next marriage.
What I have seen in first marriage, I don't want it be repeated, so I always discourage talks about 2nd marriage in my family.
But my parents have a strong desire for it as usual, they use to say what will happen to you after us.

Not going into very deep I have seen some strong connections between planets that might shows some possibilities !!!

I use 9th for 2nd marriage,

InD1: 9th house have rahu which being also co-lord of 4th house in exchange with moon.
And 9th house is aspected by 7th lord Venus.
2nd house lord Ju in 11th aspecting Venus making relation between 2, 11 and 7 strong.

In D9: 7th lord of D1, Venus, is placed in 7th house of D9, with enemy moon in dual sign, so Moon-Ve is again connected. There is also exchange between Venus and Jupiter of 9th house. 9th house lord Venus is again exalted in 7th house of D9, connected with 7th here.
Mahadasha lord Me is lagna lord in D9.

How you look these things.
Any further light will be appreciated.

Waiting for some more learned Astrologers for their take....

Regards.
GodGrace.

[GodGrace]

I will request Senior members
for their analysis.

Thanks in Advance
Regards.

[Sujit]

I will request Senior members
for their analysis.

Thanks in Advance
Regards.

Could you share wife's birth detail.

[GodGrace]

Could you share wife's birth detail.

Thanks for your Query.

Birth Details of Wife:
02.02.1987
23:58 hrs
Patna.

Regards.
God Grace.

[Sujit]

Thanks for your Query.

Birth Details of Wife:
02.02.1987
23:58 hrs
Patna.

Regards.
God Grace.

Do you have children.

[GodGrace]

Do you have children.

Yes, two
Girl: 13.12.2014
Boy: 04.02.2019

Since 4 years I haven't met them as she has tendency to provoke me to fight so as she can push me into several other cases. Already domestic violence, 125 and 498 cases are there. I am just not giving her chance to add more cases so keeping distance. She can do anything and I can't take risk.

Thanks for you query.

Regards
GodGrace.

[Sishya]

Hi,

What I have seen in first marriage, I don't want it be repeated, so I always discourage talks about 2nd marriage in my family.

I'd encourage you give some thought to what the other person/party might have endured as well. I'm inclined to think your contribution has been as much... if not more.

But my parents have a strong desire for it as usual, they use to say what will happen to you after us.

I can understand and relate to your parents' concerns. But then, I'm also drawn to the Sukshma Parivarthana at Nakshatra level between Mercury/Budha and Rahu and the influence they've had on your thinking. So, kindly bear with me if I were not to take you and/or your stated position at face value (I'm not necessarily judging you... but more drawn to the Planetary influences).

I use 9th for 2nd marriage,

InD1: 9th house have rahu which being also co-lord of 4th house in exchange with moon.
And 9th house is aspected by 7th lord Venus.
2nd house lord Ju in 11th aspecting Venus making relation between 2, 11 and 7 strong.

In D9: 7th lord of D1, Venus, is placed in 7th house of D9, with enemy moon in dual sign, so Moon-Ve is again connected. There is also exchange between Venus and Jupiter of 9th house. 9th house lord Venus is again exalted in 7th house of D9, connected with 7th here.
Mahadasha lord Me is lagna lord in D9.

Rahu is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 9th house of Dharma-Sthana and will be detrimental for related significance. Further, the Sukshma Parivarthana at Nakshatra level with current Maha-Dasha lord has contributed to your plight... apart from other afflictions.

Jupiter/Guru-dev seems to be preoccupied dealing with his disciplined disciple - not to mention he has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga. Sun/Ravi also has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga. Venus/Shukra posited in the Lunar Constellation of Uttarashada Nakshatra, ruled by Sun/Ravi has been weakened... not to mention Ketu being right there in the middle.

All said and done, I'm not ruling out unconventional alliance or relationship/s... just being skeptical of a happy and fulfilling Dharmic/Conventional marriage.

Sincerely...

[Sishya]

Hi,

Already domestic violence, 125 and 498 cases are there.

Please let me/us know if there is no truth whatsoever and you are denying those allegations/charges.

PS: Would be nice if a good/capable counsellor were to pose some tough questions to your wife as well...

Sincerely...

[GodGrace]

Dear
Sishya Ji

I am also a student of Astrology, so without hesitation I truthfully making clear comments so as this will help you in your journey of Astrology.

"I'd encourage you give some thought to what the other person/party might have endured as well. I'm inclined to think your contribution has been as much... if not more."

My contribution was only that I left a cruel women without giving her a single slap on her heinous blame that i cannot even write here.

"So, kindly bear with me if I were not to take you and/or your stated position at face value (I'm not necessarily judging you... but more drawn to the Planetary influences)."

I never care about people judging me, or lawyers asking me, the only judge for me is the god who cannot make mistake. I do believe in karma only.

"Please let me/us know if there is no truth whatsoever and you are denying those allegations/charges."

You r absolutely wrong here 1000% fake allegations she has made.

"Would be nice if a good/capable counsellor were to pose some tough questions to your wife as well"

10 years of painful relationship do not need more counsellors in my views.

"unconventional alliance or relationship/s... just being skeptical of a happy and fulfilling Dharmic/Conventional marriage"

I don't think My rahu will make me to go into Adharmic /Unconventional ways.

May my inputs will help and make you to research and explore more.

Thanks for your precious time.

Regards
GodGrace

[GodGrace]

Dear All,

Here my question was not why this happen?
whom to blame?

Everything cannot be written here to make someone understand my situation and what happened since last 10 years. I know what is karma part and what is Prarabdh.

I just wanted to know what may happen next as per relationship is concerned??
Is some prarabdh in relationship is waiting for me?? That was it...

It is very easy to co-relate Planets Dasha's Nakshatra, Co- lord, Sub Lords etc, etc ... when you know past events to justify or to judge, but the real astrology lies in predictions for future or to amaze some one telling their past events.

If any Senior member has some say about my actual query, it will be highly appreciated and welcomed.

Regards
GodGrace.

[Sishya]

Hi,

Your response has been on anticipated lines... I did not expect anything different. It would be nice though if you were to reflect a bit on this turn of events and share Astrological reasoning.

Sincerely...

[GodGrace]

Sir,

Sorry, I dont have divine powers to revise past events that have already occurred to make anyone's predictions right.
When someone's prediction says that an actually dead person is alive, then one should stop there. Astrology is not play of words.
No further discussion with you, sorry. Thanks for your time.

Regards
GodGrace

[Sishya]

Hi,

It looks like my understanding and assessment (the basis of my opinion) of your birth-charts have hurt you. Please accept my sincere and unconditional apologies (without any hesitation - whatsoever) for the same.

All said and done, I'm sure you'll understand if I were to hold on to my understanding, until I come across something more compelling.

Sincerely...

[OmGuraveNamah]

Difficult to get married before 2029.

[hamid]

I use a little different Ayanamsa so periods of MD n AD differ a little.
The Antardasa of Jupiter does not give divorce between 20/08/2021 to 17/04/2024.
The present Antardasa of Saturn will finalise divorce period 17/04/2024 to 19/06/2027.
Divide this Antardasa of Saturn into three parts, then the middle 1/3rd will be from 08/05/2025 to 29/05/2026.
Saturn will act as Samdharmi to Venus Lord of your Ascendant to finalise divorce matters.
When the Sun transits in Anuradha Nakshatra ruled by Saturn between 20th November to 2nd December 2025.

This reading is from your wife chart.

LESSON: When the Sun transits in a nakshatra who has the same lordship as that of the Antardasa giving the event is important for date.

Since your Antardasa giving the event may be different therefore the date may vary upto 6 weeks approximately.

Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.

[hamid]

ASK ABOUT 2nd MARRIAGE AFTER DIVORCE .

[hamid]

When I looked up at your chart [male]
My reading:

" THE COUPLE REMAIN SEPARATED WITHOUT FULFILLING THE FORMALITIES OF LAW, THIS SEPARATION IS WELL KNOWN IN SOCIETY BUT A LEGAL DIVORCE DOES NOT TAKE PLACE".


Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.

Therefore the reading of female chart will not be effective.
MALE: Take care of your aggressive and that I am always right type of attitude.