Apart from my career woes, as I approach the marriageable age and my parents insist I should get married this year.
I don't know if I am capable of marriage. I have not seen any successful marriage growing up including my parents. I hope to get married , if I should, around 31 to 34 yrs of age by when I would have saved money.
Since I was a child I have had major depressive episodes which peaked from class 10 and still continues now and then. The period from 2020 to 2023 were some of the darkest in terms of my mental Health. So I question my ability to be able to Care for another and build a happy family in the institution of marriage.
Kindly share Some insights,
dob 27th september 1998, at 7.43 pm, Bangalore, female
I am so worried if marriage is for me at all
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in my view, Ariès ascendant chart, marriage is weak in the chart and could land you in trouble. Your health would need more attention.Frozenmystic wrote: 25 Feb 2025 Apart from my career woes, as I approach the marriageable age and my parents insist I should get married this year.
I don't know if I am capable of marriage. I have not seen any successful marriage growing up including my parents. I hope to get married , if I should, around 31 to 34 yrs of age by when I would have saved money.
Since I was a child I have had major depressive episodes which peaked from class 10 and still continues now and then. The period from 2020 to 2023 were some of the darkest in terms of my mental Health. So I question my ability to be able to Care for another and build a happy family in the institution of marriage.
Kindly share Some insights,
dob 27th september 1998, at 7.43 pm, Bangalore, female
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But does weak marriage imply late marriage or no marriage, or a short-lived one
Kindly let me know
Kindly let me know
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There are some points needing attention in your chart with regard to marriage:
1. Rahu in the 5th sign associated with Kuja is a Sarpa dosha and needs a Sarpa Samskara Puja to be performed. This can be done at Kukke Subramanya or Ghati Subramanya by your father in your name and nakshatra.
2. You were born on a Saptami tithi. This makes Kataka and Dhanus as Dagdha (burnt) rasis. Their lords Moon and Jupiter will not give good results. Kataka rasi has a cancellation of Dagdha effect but there is no cancellation for Dhanus rasi and Jupiter. Dasa lord Venus sits in the 6th sign (its debilitation sign) though it moves to the 5th bhava to be with rahu. No wonder your Venus dasa Jupiter antardasa was bad (Venus and Jupiter are also in 6-8 positions in the rasi chart). You need to wear a Yellow Saphire to increase the strength of Jupiter.
3. Your 7th lord is also Venus and his placement in the 6th in rasi chart is not very good for marriage. But since he moves to the 5th in the Bhava chart, some good results can also be expected. Nakshatra lord defining the 7th bhava is Rahu who is a contributor of Sarpa Dosha. The 7th house is aspected by retrograde Saturn and Jupiter apart from Ketu.
Navamsa Lagna is afflicted by Retrograde Jupiter, Saturn and Rahu. The Navamsa Lagna lord is with Mars and Sun. This gives a disinclination to marry. The 7th lord of Navamsa is Jupiter who is in Lagna. The 7th house is occupied by Ketu. The break giving planet Ketu in the 7th is also a reason for your not desiring to marry.
The 10th house of bhava chart (4th to 7th – sukha from marriage) is aspected by its lord, retro Saturn. The 4th lord of Navamsa is similarly afflicted. Sukha from marriage is low and needs a lot of patience and struggle.
Still marriage can happen in Ketu bhukti of Venus dasa (Dec 2029 to Feb 2031).
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1. Rahu in the 5th sign associated with Kuja is a Sarpa dosha and needs a Sarpa Samskara Puja to be performed. This can be done at Kukke Subramanya or Ghati Subramanya by your father in your name and nakshatra.
2. You were born on a Saptami tithi. This makes Kataka and Dhanus as Dagdha (burnt) rasis. Their lords Moon and Jupiter will not give good results. Kataka rasi has a cancellation of Dagdha effect but there is no cancellation for Dhanus rasi and Jupiter. Dasa lord Venus sits in the 6th sign (its debilitation sign) though it moves to the 5th bhava to be with rahu. No wonder your Venus dasa Jupiter antardasa was bad (Venus and Jupiter are also in 6-8 positions in the rasi chart). You need to wear a Yellow Saphire to increase the strength of Jupiter.
3. Your 7th lord is also Venus and his placement in the 6th in rasi chart is not very good for marriage. But since he moves to the 5th in the Bhava chart, some good results can also be expected. Nakshatra lord defining the 7th bhava is Rahu who is a contributor of Sarpa Dosha. The 7th house is aspected by retrograde Saturn and Jupiter apart from Ketu.
Navamsa Lagna is afflicted by Retrograde Jupiter, Saturn and Rahu. The Navamsa Lagna lord is with Mars and Sun. This gives a disinclination to marry. The 7th lord of Navamsa is Jupiter who is in Lagna. The 7th house is occupied by Ketu. The break giving planet Ketu in the 7th is also a reason for your not desiring to marry.
The 10th house of bhava chart (4th to 7th – sukha from marriage) is aspected by its lord, retro Saturn. The 4th lord of Navamsa is similarly afflicted. Sukha from marriage is low and needs a lot of patience and struggle.
Still marriage can happen in Ketu bhukti of Venus dasa (Dec 2029 to Feb 2031).
TKC
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Frozenmystic
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I will work toward my career and higher education and moving to another country for the same.
I think marriage or no marriage shouldn't bother me as a strong career makes a lot of things easier.
I hope to make money and concentrate my efforts on my startup and other Such endeavors.
I think marriage or no marriage shouldn't bother me as a strong career makes a lot of things easier.
I hope to make money and concentrate my efforts on my startup and other Such endeavors.
Short lived one and you can face difficulty in getting married.Frozenmystic wrote: 25 Feb 2025 But does weak marriage imply late marriage or no marriage, or a short-lived one
Kindly let me know
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Grahavidya
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Namaste,
As an Indian I can understand the pressure that builds up for getting marriage by the age of 25 or 26. And since you are born in South India there is even more pressure. However as the times have changed so have preferences and the average age at which lots of girls want to secure a future by working and saving money so they are not financially dependent when they get married.
I examined your birth chart and found some interesting features :
1. You have an Aries Lagna - a sign of action and fire. Aries is all about going out there and getting things done.
2. Your Lagna Lord Mars is placed in Leo a Fire sign. This give you the desire to achieve and be like a king.
3. Saturn Occupies the Lagna - Saturn a slow, structure and detail seeking planet is in a Fire sign and so this laziness of Saturn is pushed and it become active.
4. You have Ashwini Nakshatra rising - Ashwini are the fast footed, moving with speed.
All of this says that you are an action oriented person, you would rather quickly get things done rather than postpone them. You have big dreams and like to be with people. You may have a creative flair, and could be fod of reading / writing or design of some nature. However there is a side of you that keeps their own needs after the needs of othrs are met. This makes you a person who would not express their emotions and feeling and needs to others easily. It makes you possibly uncomfortable doing so.
You would have run your Sadde Satti from 2013/14 to 2019/20. This period must have created a lot of mental pressures and emotional upsekts causing anxiety and depression maybe.
On account of Marriage there is some delay as factor related to 7th house are not indicating ease of marriage. The delay is to the age of early to mid 30's.
Currently you are in Venus Mahadasha. Venus is the natural Karaka for marriage, but is Neecha and hence does not possess enough power to be effictive. This is follows by Sun Mahadasha. Sun is fine, It is with Venus and 7th lord, but is Neecha Sambandhi. It Gets exalted in D9 and hence retains it power to deliver. So its after 2031 that the possibilities will arise.
Since there is time fo that, so its good that you focus of building your career. You can plan to appear in some competitive examinations to secure some jobs.
As an Indian I can understand the pressure that builds up for getting marriage by the age of 25 or 26. And since you are born in South India there is even more pressure. However as the times have changed so have preferences and the average age at which lots of girls want to secure a future by working and saving money so they are not financially dependent when they get married.
I examined your birth chart and found some interesting features :
1. You have an Aries Lagna - a sign of action and fire. Aries is all about going out there and getting things done.
2. Your Lagna Lord Mars is placed in Leo a Fire sign. This give you the desire to achieve and be like a king.
3. Saturn Occupies the Lagna - Saturn a slow, structure and detail seeking planet is in a Fire sign and so this laziness of Saturn is pushed and it become active.
4. You have Ashwini Nakshatra rising - Ashwini are the fast footed, moving with speed.
All of this says that you are an action oriented person, you would rather quickly get things done rather than postpone them. You have big dreams and like to be with people. You may have a creative flair, and could be fod of reading / writing or design of some nature. However there is a side of you that keeps their own needs after the needs of othrs are met. This makes you a person who would not express their emotions and feeling and needs to others easily. It makes you possibly uncomfortable doing so.
You would have run your Sadde Satti from 2013/14 to 2019/20. This period must have created a lot of mental pressures and emotional upsekts causing anxiety and depression maybe.
On account of Marriage there is some delay as factor related to 7th house are not indicating ease of marriage. The delay is to the age of early to mid 30's.
Currently you are in Venus Mahadasha. Venus is the natural Karaka for marriage, but is Neecha and hence does not possess enough power to be effictive. This is follows by Sun Mahadasha. Sun is fine, It is with Venus and 7th lord, but is Neecha Sambandhi. It Gets exalted in D9 and hence retains it power to deliver. So its after 2031 that the possibilities will arise.
Since there is time fo that, so its good that you focus of building your career. You can plan to appear in some competitive examinations to secure some jobs.
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Frozenmystic
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Grahavidya wrote:
> Namaste,
>
> As an Indian I can understand the pressure that builds up for getting
> marriage by the age of 25 or 26. And since you are born in South India
> there is even more pressure. However as the times have changed so have
> preferences and the average age at which lots of girls want to secure a
> future by working and saving money so they are not financially dependent
> when they get married.
>
> I examined your birth chart and found some interesting features :
> 1. You have an Aries Lagna - a sign of action and fire. Aries is all about
> going out there and getting things done.
> 2. Your Lagna Lord Mars is placed in Leo a Fire sign. This give you the
> desire to achieve and be like a king.
> 3. Saturn Occupies the Lagna - Saturn a slow, structure and detail seeking
> planet is in a Fire sign and so this laziness of Saturn is pushed and it
> become active.
> 4. You have Ashwini Nakshatra rising - Ashwini are the fast footed, moving
> with speed.
> All of this says that you are an action oriented person, you would rather
> quickly get things done rather than postpone them. You have big dreams and
> like to be with people. You may have a creative flair, and could be fod of
> reading / writing or design of some nature. However there is a side of you
> that keeps their own needs after the needs of othrs are met. This makes you
> a person who would not express their emotions and feeling and needs to
> others easily. It makes you possibly uncomfortable doing so.
>
> You would have run your Sadde Satti from 2013/14 to 2019/20. This period
> must have created a lot of mental pressures and emotional upsekts causing
> anxiety and depression maybe.
>
> On account of Marriage there is some delay as factor related to 7th house
> are not indicating ease of marriage. The delay is to the age of early to
> mid 30's.
>
> Currently you are in Venus Mahadasha. Venus is the natural Karaka for
> marriage, but is Neecha and hence does not possess enough power to be
> effictive. This is follows by Sun Mahadasha. Sun is fine, It is with Venus
> and 7th lord, but is Neecha Sambandhi. It Gets exalted in D9 and hence
> retains it power to deliver. So its after 2031 that the possibilities will
> arise.
>
> Since there is time fo that, so its good that you focus of building your
> career. You can plan to appear in some competitive examinations to secure
> some jobs.
Thank you so much
> Namaste,
>
> As an Indian I can understand the pressure that builds up for getting
> marriage by the age of 25 or 26. And since you are born in South India
> there is even more pressure. However as the times have changed so have
> preferences and the average age at which lots of girls want to secure a
> future by working and saving money so they are not financially dependent
> when they get married.
>
> I examined your birth chart and found some interesting features :
> 1. You have an Aries Lagna - a sign of action and fire. Aries is all about
> going out there and getting things done.
> 2. Your Lagna Lord Mars is placed in Leo a Fire sign. This give you the
> desire to achieve and be like a king.
> 3. Saturn Occupies the Lagna - Saturn a slow, structure and detail seeking
> planet is in a Fire sign and so this laziness of Saturn is pushed and it
> become active.
> 4. You have Ashwini Nakshatra rising - Ashwini are the fast footed, moving
> with speed.
> All of this says that you are an action oriented person, you would rather
> quickly get things done rather than postpone them. You have big dreams and
> like to be with people. You may have a creative flair, and could be fod of
> reading / writing or design of some nature. However there is a side of you
> that keeps their own needs after the needs of othrs are met. This makes you
> a person who would not express their emotions and feeling and needs to
> others easily. It makes you possibly uncomfortable doing so.
>
> You would have run your Sadde Satti from 2013/14 to 2019/20. This period
> must have created a lot of mental pressures and emotional upsekts causing
> anxiety and depression maybe.
>
> On account of Marriage there is some delay as factor related to 7th house
> are not indicating ease of marriage. The delay is to the age of early to
> mid 30's.
>
> Currently you are in Venus Mahadasha. Venus is the natural Karaka for
> marriage, but is Neecha and hence does not possess enough power to be
> effictive. This is follows by Sun Mahadasha. Sun is fine, It is with Venus
> and 7th lord, but is Neecha Sambandhi. It Gets exalted in D9 and hence
> retains it power to deliver. So its after 2031 that the possibilities will
> arise.
>
> Since there is time fo that, so its good that you focus of building your
> career. You can plan to appear in some competitive examinations to secure
> some jobs.
Thank you so much
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Astroprabhakar
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Frozenmystic wrote:
> Apart from my career woes, as I approach the marriageable age and my
> parents insist I should get married this year.
>
> I don't know if I am capable of marriage. I have not seen any successful
> marriage growing up including my parents. I hope to get married , if I
> should, around 31 to 34 yrs of age by when I would have saved money.
>
> Since I was a child I have had major depressive episodes which peaked from
> class 10 and still continues now and then. The period from 2020 to 2023
> were some of the darkest in terms of my mental Health. So I question my
> ability to be able to Care for another and build a happy family in the
> institution of marriage.
> Kindly share Some insights,
> dob 27th september 1998, at 7.43 pm, Bangalore, female
Marriage is possible at the age of 28 and 31 years. The first year of marriage will be problematic. Then after every alternate year there will be issues/conflicts in married life.
> Apart from my career woes, as I approach the marriageable age and my
> parents insist I should get married this year.
>
> I don't know if I am capable of marriage. I have not seen any successful
> marriage growing up including my parents. I hope to get married , if I
> should, around 31 to 34 yrs of age by when I would have saved money.
>
> Since I was a child I have had major depressive episodes which peaked from
> class 10 and still continues now and then. The period from 2020 to 2023
> were some of the darkest in terms of my mental Health. So I question my
> ability to be able to Care for another and build a happy family in the
> institution of marriage.
> Kindly share Some insights,
> dob 27th september 1998, at 7.43 pm, Bangalore, female
Marriage is possible at the age of 28 and 31 years. The first year of marriage will be problematic. Then after every alternate year there will be issues/conflicts in married life.
