Dear Guruji,
I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be possible.
Personal Information:
Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
Wife's Information:
Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
Time: 15:30 PM IST
Marriage Date: 27th April 2008
Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's decision for a divorce.
It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts to involve family and community members to mediate the situation. Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on this matter.
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Hi,
A quick look at your birth-chart seems to showcase you to be excessively angry, short-tempered individual with very low patience and tolerance, specially when you get triggered. You might very well be a bit of a dual personality who is not himself when you lose your cool/calm composure. Further, I'm inclined to think you are violent by nature and have subjected your wife to domestic violence/abuse. And, if we consider your birth-time to be before 22:15 hours or 10:15 PM, Lagna Lord Venus/Shukra's placement in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana calls for validation of the concept of "Karaka Bhava Nashaya"... which you seem to have successfully proved.
In spite of everything, it looks like she might have bottled up her feelings and was bearing with your tantrums, as also the abusive relationship - perhaps not expressing herself. Alternately, there is a good chance you might have conveniently ignored her pleas and hints of her plight. But then, the onset of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra in her birth-chart would have made it unbearable for her.
In fact, I'm inclined to think she has developed a bit of detached feeling/bonding with you in the Antara of Mars/Kuja (while you haven't had much of it yourself) and the feeling might have strengthened with the onset of Jupiter/Guru-dev Antara. In other words Ketu slowly but steadily driving a wedge between the two of you and the unwanted stress/tension has not helped her cause. There is a good possibility of upcoming Ketu Maha-Dasha (starting early next year) driving a permanent wedge in your relationship.
Sincerely...
Request you to kindly bear with me and feel free to ignore any part of my response (see below) that is not to your taste or liking. Please rest assured I'm not being judgmental of you (although my response would sound/feel that way). Instead, I'm merely judging the planetary disposition.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 Personal Information:
Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
Wife's Information:
Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
Time: 15:30 PM IST
A quick look at your birth-chart seems to showcase you to be excessively angry, short-tempered individual with very low patience and tolerance, specially when you get triggered. You might very well be a bit of a dual personality who is not himself when you lose your cool/calm composure. Further, I'm inclined to think you are violent by nature and have subjected your wife to domestic violence/abuse. And, if we consider your birth-time to be before 22:15 hours or 10:15 PM, Lagna Lord Venus/Shukra's placement in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana calls for validation of the concept of "Karaka Bhava Nashaya"... which you seem to have successfully proved.
In spite of everything, it looks like she might have bottled up her feelings and was bearing with your tantrums, as also the abusive relationship - perhaps not expressing herself. Alternately, there is a good chance you might have conveniently ignored her pleas and hints of her plight. But then, the onset of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra in her birth-chart would have made it unbearable for her.
In fact, I'm inclined to think she has developed a bit of detached feeling/bonding with you in the Antara of Mars/Kuja (while you haven't had much of it yourself) and the feeling might have strengthened with the onset of Jupiter/Guru-dev Antara. In other words Ketu slowly but steadily driving a wedge between the two of you and the unwanted stress/tension has not helped her cause. There is a good possibility of upcoming Ketu Maha-Dasha (starting early next year) driving a permanent wedge in your relationship.
Sincerely...
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itzshiv203
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Sir , i agree i used to become excessively angry during my Rahu MD , but again she use to understand the job related stress i was undergoing , Even though she use to be calm all the time. And my anger issue used to be for a short time and it never went that serious. and we lived normal life ( better than normal to be precise) for 12 years ..
You rightly said at Starting of my JU-JU (MD-AD) and at the starting of her Sadesati , things went beyond control as we were working in different cities ( during corona times , where there was no way to travel across different countries) and as per other's my MIL influenced her for this , as she and her brother's have monetary dependency on her ( not sure what to believe and what not ) .
Anyways we have to reap our portion of karma yields and hence no blame game on anyone..
permanent wedge : Does that mean permanent separation ? Lets accept the karma rules..
thanks sir...
You rightly said at Starting of my JU-JU (MD-AD) and at the starting of her Sadesati , things went beyond control as we were working in different cities ( during corona times , where there was no way to travel across different countries) and as per other's my MIL influenced her for this , as she and her brother's have monetary dependency on her ( not sure what to believe and what not ) .
Anyways we have to reap our portion of karma yields and hence no blame game on anyone..
permanent wedge : Does that mean permanent separation ? Lets accept the karma rules..
thanks sir...
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itzshiv203
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- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Lord Venus/Shukra's placement in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana calls for validation of the concept of "Karaka Bhava Nashaya"... which you seem to have successfully proved.
Can you please explain this sir..
Can you please explain this sir..
Hello!itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 Dear Guruji,
I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be possible.
Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's decision for a divorce.
It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts to involve family and community members to mediate the situation. Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on this matter.
It is difficult to comment on your chart as time of birth covers two ascendant and birth time rectification is required based on life past events.
Her Sagittarius sign ascendant has difficulties for continuity of married life.
Would you share a brief on her parent's health/ life as some stress is indicated there.
Good luck.
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Sujit wrote:
> Hello!
> It is difficult to comment on your chart as time of birth covers two
> ascendant and birth time rectification is required based on life past
> events.
>
> Her Sagittarius sign ascendant has difficulties for continuity of married
> life.
> Would you share a brief on her parent's health/ life as some stress is
> indicated there.
> Good luck.
Hello Sir,
Her father ( FIL : he was Gem of a person ) is no more and her mom is somewhat healthy. My wife started working after marriage until then their life was not that good financially..now i guess it must be rocking as they all dependent on my still wife's earning
> Hello!
> It is difficult to comment on your chart as time of birth covers two
> ascendant and birth time rectification is required based on life past
> events.
>
> Her Sagittarius sign ascendant has difficulties for continuity of married
> life.
> Would you share a brief on her parent's health/ life as some stress is
> indicated there.
> Good luck.
Hello Sir,
Her father ( FIL : he was Gem of a person ) is no more and her mom is somewhat healthy. My wife started working after marriage until then their life was not that good financially..now i guess it must be rocking as they all dependent on my still wife's earning
Hi,
Incidentally, you are in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha. He rules the 3rd & 6th houses, placed in Badhaka-Sthana and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (not to mention 7th lord Mars/Kuja and Rahu also being posited there - in fact, they are too close for comfort and engage in a planetary war or Graha Yudha). For the records, Jupiter/Guru-dev is not a benefic for the birth-chart. Thereafter, the Rashi Parivartha between Jupiter/Guru-dev and Sun/Ravi is also an indication of you being the target of envy and being susceptible to Evil Eye and/or Black Magic.
Sincerely...
Your wife has a strong Mars/Kuja, placed in his Swasthana in the Zodiac sign of Scorpio or Vrischika Rashi and his close conjunction with Ketu in the 12th house is an indication of her ability to take as well or as much as she can give back... even though strongly placed Lagna Lord (alongside Udaya Lagna) Jupiter/Guru-dev, in his Swasthana and Moola-Trikona in the Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi would make her a bit of a noble person. So, kindly bear with me... if I were to give her some benefit of doubt (and apologies, if my earlier response made you look like a villain). That said, I'd suggest that you try and understanding planetary influences...by reading below.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 i agree i used to become excessively angry during my Rahu MD , but again she use to understand the job related stress i was undergoing , Even though she use to be calm all the time. And my anger issue used to be for a short time and it never went that serious. and we lived normal life ( better than normal to be precise) for 12 years ..
I'd request you to kindly restrain yourself from blaming anybody - including your wife or her mother. A close look at your wife's birth-chart shows a strong influence of Ketu - both on Jupiter/Guru-dev and Mars/Kuja, the Karakas for husband in a female birth-chart, not to mention the influence on Saturn/Shani-dev. Ketu is naturally playing his part.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 You rightly said at Starting of my JU-JU (MD-AD) and at the starting of her Sadesati , things went beyond control as we were working in different cities ( during corona times , where there was no way to travel across different countries) and as per other's my MIL influenced her for this , as she and her brother's have monetary dependency on her ( not sure what to believe and what not ) .
Anyways we have to reap our portion of karma yields and hence no blame game on anyone..
Incidentally, you are in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha. He rules the 3rd & 6th houses, placed in Badhaka-Sthana and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (not to mention 7th lord Mars/Kuja and Rahu also being posited there - in fact, they are too close for comfort and engage in a planetary war or Graha Yudha). For the records, Jupiter/Guru-dev is not a benefic for the birth-chart. Thereafter, the Rashi Parivartha between Jupiter/Guru-dev and Sun/Ravi is also an indication of you being the target of envy and being susceptible to Evil Eye and/or Black Magic.
There is a good chance of separation for a longer period/duration - if not permanent separation, in case both of you don't work on salvaging the situation by propitiating the Lunar Nodes.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 permanent wedge : Does that mean permanent separation ? Lets accept the karma rules..
Sincerely...
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Thanks for the details.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 Sujit wrote:
> Hello!
> It is difficult to comment on your chart as time of birth covers two
> ascendant and birth time rectification is required based on life past
> events.
>
> Her Sagittarius sign ascendant has difficulties for continuity of married
> life.
> Would you share a brief on her parent's health/ life as some stress is
> indicated there.
> Good luck.
Hello Sir,
Her father ( FIL : he was Gem of a person ) is no more and her mom is somewhat healthy. My wife started working after marriage until then their life was not that good financially..now i guess it must be rocking as they all dependent on my still wife's earning
Good luck.
https://www.facebook.com/astrologer.sujit
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
Hi,
In short, placement of Venus/Shukra in the 7th house/bhava of Kalathra-Sthana or house of spousal relationship calls for validation of the concept called Karako-Bhava-Nashaya. In other words, there is a very good possibility of the native getting into a relationship with somebody who is exceptionally good (or may be out of the individual's league, due to looks/beauty, wealth or other such attributes)... but then, the native will have a tendency to make a mess of the relationship.
For example, a native would have craved for a very beautiful or wealthy wife. He might get married to one who might even exceed his own expectation...but later, the native might start doubting his wife (just cause she is good looking and attracting attention of most other folk) or start feeling inferior (by looks/wealth etc.) and make a mess of their relationship, to the extent of breaking the relationship.
Sincerely...
There is a lot of information freely available on the internet - including quite a bit within this forum. I'd encourage you to look them up and get a better understanding of this concept - more so, with regards to Venus/Shukra, when placed in the 7th house/bhava.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 Lord Venus/Shukra's placement in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana calls for validation of the concept of "Karaka Bhava Nashaya"... which you seem to have successfully proved.
Can you please explain this sir..
In short, placement of Venus/Shukra in the 7th house/bhava of Kalathra-Sthana or house of spousal relationship calls for validation of the concept called Karako-Bhava-Nashaya. In other words, there is a very good possibility of the native getting into a relationship with somebody who is exceptionally good (or may be out of the individual's league, due to looks/beauty, wealth or other such attributes)... but then, the native will have a tendency to make a mess of the relationship.
For example, a native would have craved for a very beautiful or wealthy wife. He might get married to one who might even exceed his own expectation...but later, the native might start doubting his wife (just cause she is good looking and attracting attention of most other folk) or start feeling inferior (by looks/wealth etc.) and make a mess of their relationship, to the extent of breaking the relationship.
Sincerely...
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itzshiv203
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- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Sishya wrote:
> Hi,
>
>
>
> Your wife has a strong Mars/Kuja, placed in his Swasthana in the Zodiac
> sign of Scorpio or Vrischika Rashi and his close conjunction with Ketu in
> the 12th house is an indication of her ability to take as well or as much
> as she can give back... even though strongly placed Lagna Lord (alongside
> Udaya Lagna) Jupiter/Guru-dev, in his Swasthana and Moola-Trikona in the
> Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi would make her a bit of a noble
> person. So, kindly bear with me... if I were to give her some benefit of
> doubt (and apologies, if my earlier response made you look like a villain).
> That said, I'd suggest that you try and understanding planetary
> influences...by reading below.
>
>
>
> I'd request you to kindly restrain yourself from blaming anybody -
> including your wife or her mother. A close look at your wife's birth-chart
> shows a strong influence of Ketu - both on Jupiter/Guru-dev and Mars/Kuja,
> the Karakas for husband in a female birth-chart, not to mention the
> influence on Saturn/Shani-dev. Ketu is naturally playing his part.
>
> Incidentally, you are in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha. He
> rules the 3rd & 6th houses, placed in Badhaka-Sthana and posited in the
> Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (not to mention 7th
> lord Mars/Kuja and Rahu also being posited there - in fact, they are too
> close for comfort and engage in a planetary war or Graha Yudha). For the
> records, Jupiter/Guru-dev is not a benefic for the birth-chart. Thereafter,
> the Rashi Parivartha between Jupiter/Guru-dev and Sun/Ravi is also an
> indication of you being the target of envy and being susceptible to Evil
> Eye and/or Black Magic.
>
>
>
> There is a good chance of separation for a longer period/duration - if not
> permanent separation, in case both of you don't work on salvaging the
> situation by propitiating the Lunar Nodes.
>
> Sincerely...
Sir , I appreciate your thorough explanation, Sir. As mentioned, she was indeed a noble individual and never raised her voice, even towards my parents or others, as I observed during our time together. I am uncertain about her overall current situation.
It seems that the influence of Sadesati is adversely affecting her career and reputation, as I have heard from others.
Anyways, astrology is a complex field that can be challenging for ordinary individuals like myself to understand and digest , hence we conclude always by saying karma never forgets the adress.
I can just hope that this situation shouldn't affect my only daughter's future and her mental health and overall life..
Thank you once again for your thoughtful guidance, Sir.
> Hi,
>
>
>
> Your wife has a strong Mars/Kuja, placed in his Swasthana in the Zodiac
> sign of Scorpio or Vrischika Rashi and his close conjunction with Ketu in
> the 12th house is an indication of her ability to take as well or as much
> as she can give back... even though strongly placed Lagna Lord (alongside
> Udaya Lagna) Jupiter/Guru-dev, in his Swasthana and Moola-Trikona in the
> Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi would make her a bit of a noble
> person. So, kindly bear with me... if I were to give her some benefit of
> doubt (and apologies, if my earlier response made you look like a villain).
> That said, I'd suggest that you try and understanding planetary
> influences...by reading below.
>
>
>
> I'd request you to kindly restrain yourself from blaming anybody -
> including your wife or her mother. A close look at your wife's birth-chart
> shows a strong influence of Ketu - both on Jupiter/Guru-dev and Mars/Kuja,
> the Karakas for husband in a female birth-chart, not to mention the
> influence on Saturn/Shani-dev. Ketu is naturally playing his part.
>
> Incidentally, you are in the midst of Jupiter/Guru-dev's Maha-Dasha. He
> rules the 3rd & 6th houses, placed in Badhaka-Sthana and posited in the
> Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (not to mention 7th
> lord Mars/Kuja and Rahu also being posited there - in fact, they are too
> close for comfort and engage in a planetary war or Graha Yudha). For the
> records, Jupiter/Guru-dev is not a benefic for the birth-chart. Thereafter,
> the Rashi Parivartha between Jupiter/Guru-dev and Sun/Ravi is also an
> indication of you being the target of envy and being susceptible to Evil
> Eye and/or Black Magic.
>
>
>
> There is a good chance of separation for a longer period/duration - if not
> permanent separation, in case both of you don't work on salvaging the
> situation by propitiating the Lunar Nodes.
>
> Sincerely...
Sir , I appreciate your thorough explanation, Sir. As mentioned, she was indeed a noble individual and never raised her voice, even towards my parents or others, as I observed during our time together. I am uncertain about her overall current situation.
It seems that the influence of Sadesati is adversely affecting her career and reputation, as I have heard from others.
Anyways, astrology is a complex field that can be challenging for ordinary individuals like myself to understand and digest , hence we conclude always by saying karma never forgets the adress.
I can just hope that this situation shouldn't affect my only daughter's future and her mental health and overall life..
Thank you once again for your thoughtful guidance, Sir.
-
itzshiv203
- Registered User
- Posts: 10
- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Sujit wrote:
> Thanks for the details.
> Good luck.
Thanks sir..let's hope for best for each individual in this universe.
> Thanks for the details.
> Good luck.
Thanks sir..let's hope for best for each individual in this universe.
Hi,
In the interim, please consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord Ganesha with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong sankalpa.
Sincerely...
It would perhaps help for you to consider seeking help/guidance from experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable remedies - both for Vedic/Dharmic remedies, as also a good family counsellor, to salvage the situation.itzshiv203 wrote: 11 Feb 2025 Anyways, astrology is a complex field that can be challenging for ordinary individuals like myself to understand and digest , hence we conclude always by saying karma never forgets the adress.
I can just hope that this situation shouldn't affect my only daughter's future and her mental health and overall life..
In the interim, please consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord Ganesha with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong sankalpa.
Sincerely...
Hi,
The one saving grace is you are running Maha-Dasha of Jupiter/Guru-dev and your wife has a strong Jupiter/Guru-dev. I'm hoping the wisdom of Brihaspati will not let you guys take hasty or immature decision. Please consider chanting simple mantras to appease him as well.
Sincerely...
The one saving grace is you are running Maha-Dasha of Jupiter/Guru-dev and your wife has a strong Jupiter/Guru-dev. I'm hoping the wisdom of Brihaspati will not let you guys take hasty or immature decision. Please consider chanting simple mantras to appease him as well.
Sincerely...
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itzshiv203 wrote:
> Dear Guruji,
>
> I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances
> surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any
> insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution
> moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be
> possible.
>
> Personal Information:
> Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
> Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
> Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
>
> Wife's Information:
> Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
> Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
> Time: 15:30 PM IST
>
> Marriage Date: 27th April 2008
>
> Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an
> abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's
> decision for a divorce.
>
> It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts
> to involve family and community members to mediate the situation.
> Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
>
> My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over
> four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
>
> I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential
> solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on
> this matter.
Wife's chart
Navamsha chart has some issues resulting in separation.
-Lagna lord is under affliction and has no benefic relation.
-7th lord retrograde aspecting 7th house.
-Some desires are not fulfilled.
I have not analyzed the husband's chart.
This marriage is difficult to survive.
> Dear Guruji,
>
> I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances
> surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any
> insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution
> moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be
> possible.
>
> Personal Information:
> Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
> Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
> Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
>
> Wife's Information:
> Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
> Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
> Time: 15:30 PM IST
>
> Marriage Date: 27th April 2008
>
> Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an
> abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's
> decision for a divorce.
>
> It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts
> to involve family and community members to mediate the situation.
> Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
>
> My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over
> four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
>
> I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential
> solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on
> this matter.
Wife's chart
Navamsha chart has some issues resulting in separation.
-Lagna lord is under affliction and has no benefic relation.
-7th lord retrograde aspecting 7th house.
-Some desires are not fulfilled.
I have not analyzed the husband's chart.
This marriage is difficult to survive.
-
itzshiv203
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- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Sishya wrote:
> Hi,
>
> The one saving grace is you are running Maha-Dasha of Jupiter/Guru-dev and
> your wife has a strong Jupiter/Guru-dev. I'm hoping the wisdom of
> Brihaspati will not let you guys take hasty or immature decision. Please
> consider chanting simple mantras to appease him as well.
>
> Sincerely...
I can just hope for better days ahead in mine aswell in her and my daughter's life . When can i expect some peace in life sir..since 4 years feeling very lonely and isolated from the world.
> Hi,
>
> The one saving grace is you are running Maha-Dasha of Jupiter/Guru-dev and
> your wife has a strong Jupiter/Guru-dev. I'm hoping the wisdom of
> Brihaspati will not let you guys take hasty or immature decision. Please
> consider chanting simple mantras to appease him as well.
>
> Sincerely...
I can just hope for better days ahead in mine aswell in her and my daughter's life . When can i expect some peace in life sir..since 4 years feeling very lonely and isolated from the world.
-
itzshiv203
- Registered User
- Posts: 10
- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Sishya wrote:
> Hi,
>
>
>
> It would perhaps help for you to consider seeking help/guidance from
> experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable remedies - both for
> Vedic/Dharmic remedies, as also a good family counsellor, to salvage the
> situation.
>
> In the interim, please consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord
> Ganesha with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong sankalpa.
>
> Sincerely...
All efforts done sir and all went in vein with no much impact. Tentatively when can i expect some relief in terms of my life and my daughter's life.. I am sure we trios are mentally suffering because of someone's greed / unethical expectations in life.
> Hi,
>
>
>
> It would perhaps help for you to consider seeking help/guidance from
> experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable remedies - both for
> Vedic/Dharmic remedies, as also a good family counsellor, to salvage the
> situation.
>
> In the interim, please consider offering special prayers regularly to Lord
> Ganesha with unwavering faith, bhakti/devotion and a strong sankalpa.
>
> Sincerely...
All efforts done sir and all went in vein with no much impact. Tentatively when can i expect some relief in terms of my life and my daughter's life.. I am sure we trios are mentally suffering because of someone's greed / unethical expectations in life.
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itzshiv203
- Registered User
- Posts: 10
- Joined: 10 Feb 2025
Astroprabhakar wrote:
> itzshiv203 wrote:
> > Dear Guruji,
> >
> > I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances
> > surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any
> > insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution
> > moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be
> > possible.
> >
> > Personal Information:
> > Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
> > Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
> > Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
> >
> > Wife's Information:
> > Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
> > Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
> > Time: 15:30 PM IST
> >
> > Marriage Date: 27th April 2008
> >
> > Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an
> > abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's
> > decision for a divorce.
> >
> > It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts
> > to involve family and community members to mediate the situation.
> > Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
> >
> > My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over
> > four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
> >
> > I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential
> > solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on
> > this matter.
>
> Wife's chart
> Navamsha chart has some issues resulting in separation.
> -Lagna lord is under affliction and has no benefic relation.
> -7th lord retrograde aspecting 7th house.
> -Some desires are not fulfilled.
> I have not analyzed the husband's chart.
> This marriage is difficult to survive.
Sir as mentioned , its already collapsed beyond repair. But literally it is at halt since 4+ years. No communication and nothing, not even with my only daughter as they are controlling her fully. When can be some relief time for me!
> itzshiv203 wrote:
> > Dear Guruji,
> >
> > I kindly request your assistance in understanding the circumstances
> > surrounding my life and the challenges I am currently facing. I seek any
> > insights that may provide a glimmer of hope for a feasible resolution
> > moving forward, as well as an indication of when such a resolution might be
> > possible.
> >
> > Personal Information:
> > Date of Birth: 20th March 1980
> > Location: Shahapur, Karnataka (16.6957° N, 76.8432° E)
> > Time: Between 21:30 and 22:30 PM IST
> >
> > Wife's Information:
> > Date of Birth: 14th August 1984
> > Location: Bagalkot, Karnataka (16.1691° N, 75.6615° E)
> > Time: 15:30 PM IST
> >
> > Marriage Date: 27th April 2008
> >
> > Our married life, which had been relatively stable for 12 years, came to an
> > abrupt halt in 2019- 2020. I remain unaware of the reasons behind my wife's
> > decision for a divorce.
> >
> > It has been over four years since we last communicated, despite my efforts
> > to involve family and community members to mediate the situation.
> > Unfortunately, there has been no progress.
> >
> > My wife has neither returned nor filed for divorce, and it has been over
> > four years since I last spoke to or saw my daughter.
> >
> > I am uncertain about the duration of this situation and the potential
> > solutions available. I would greatly appreciate your esteemed guidance on
> > this matter.
>
> Wife's chart
> Navamsha chart has some issues resulting in separation.
> -Lagna lord is under affliction and has no benefic relation.
> -7th lord retrograde aspecting 7th house.
> -Some desires are not fulfilled.
> I have not analyzed the husband's chart.
> This marriage is difficult to survive.
Sir as mentioned , its already collapsed beyond repair. But literally it is at halt since 4+ years. No communication and nothing, not even with my only daughter as they are controlling her fully. When can be some relief time for me!
As said earlier your time of birth is a range and covers 2 ascendants so difficult to make a reading and is likely to go wrong.
She does not have a good chart for marriage.
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Sujit wrote:
> As said earlier your time of birth is a range and covers 2 ascendants so
> difficult to make a reading and is likely to go wrong.
> She does not have a good chart for marriage.
Sir I read your 1st response.
was waiting for sishya sir and astroprabhakar sir response if they could guide anything further on this
> As said earlier your time of birth is a range and covers 2 ascendants so
> difficult to make a reading and is likely to go wrong.
> She does not have a good chart for marriage.
Sir I read your 1st response.
was waiting for sishya sir and astroprabhakar sir response if they could guide anything further on this
Hi,
Sincerely...
I'm not quite what all has been done. But then, given Grahachara or Planetary influence, I'm inclined to think seeking God's Grace/Blessing is the best way forward. If not, there could be inordinate delay the situation to change.itzshiv203 wrote: 13 Feb 2025 All efforts done sir and all went in vein with no much impact. Tentatively when can i expect some relief in terms of my life and my daughter's life.. I am sure we trios are mentally suffering because of someone's greed / unethical expectations in life.
Sincerely...
Hi,
I'm not quite what all has been done. But then, given Grahachara or Planetary influence (not to mention the prevailing time/periods), I'm inclined to think seeking God's Grace/Blessing is the best way forward. If not, there could be inordinate delay for the situation to change.
Sincerely...
I'm not quite what all has been done. But then, given Grahachara or Planetary influence (not to mention the prevailing time/periods), I'm inclined to think seeking God's Grace/Blessing is the best way forward. If not, there could be inordinate delay for the situation to change.
Sincerely...
