Hello,
I am in the cross junction in life regarding to marriage.the thing is i am not very interested in marriage as i didn't settled down,mood swings a lot which affects the decisions i make and results in up and downs in life and don't want another person to suffer because of my decisions.but my parents pressuring for marriage believing every thing settles down after.
so , please advice which is good for me to marry or not.
Time - 11-sep -1988 (16:20)
place - Tenali,Andhra pradesh , India
Thanks
Om namah sivaya
To Marry or Not to Marry
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Hi,
I've had a chance to cast your birth-chart and observe planetary positions and their conditions. Below are a few notes that are relevant for your situation and this thread:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Makara Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Shravana Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra - the 7th lord is awkwardly placed.
2. Lagna being hounded by malefics (including low profile miscreants Mandi and Gulika who seem to be chasing Lagna towards the dreaded Rahu) is not a good sign.
3. Lagna Lord Saturn/Shani-dev is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya or Losses in Dhanur Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu - who has a notorious reputation for inducing detachment or triggering spirituality and yogic thoughts. For the records, he is in Sandhi/Cusp and caught up in transition.
4. Moon/Chandra the 7th lord or Kalathra-Karaka is very closely positioned in the 8th (Dusthana) house in the sign of Simha Rasi, with the 8th lord Sun/Ravi who is powerfully placed in his Swashtana and Ketu.
5. Current Maha-Dasha is that of Rahu (who is posited in the 2nd house in the sign of Kumbha Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purva Bhadrapada Nakshatra, ruled by 12th lord Jupiter/Guru) and Antara-Dasha of Mercury/Budha (who is very strongly placed in his Uccha-Sthana in the sign of Kanya Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Hasta Nakshatra, ruled by ill-placed Moon/Chandra). So, the next year may not be beneficial. The subsequent Antara is that of Ketu - again not too conducive.
6. Current planetary transits are putting more stress on inherent afflictions and hence the current situation/thoughts etc.
In summary, your current thoughts and inclination are quite evident there is delay in marriage (as evident already) - not denial. But then, it would make sense to seek help/guidance from knowledgeable and experienced experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies for early relief.
In the interim (while waiting for expert guidance), it may be beneficial for you to consider offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha and Goddess Durga/Chamundi/MahaKali, with at most faith, devotion/bhakti and a strong sankalpa... along with dedicated Dhyana of Mahadev Shiva by way of chanting "Om Namah Shivaya" (and perhaps hearing/reading or chanting of Aditya Hrudayam), at your convenience.
PS: In my personal opinion, there is more to look forward to...than to look or run away. And, you are still quite young. So, do consider the option and possibility of getting married and experiencing the ills and odds. Hopefully, life is long enough and you'll have time for spirituality.
Sincerely...
I've had a chance to cast your birth-chart and observe planetary positions and their conditions. Below are a few notes that are relevant for your situation and this thread:
1. Udaya Lagna is placed in Makara Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Shravana Nakshatra, ruled by Moon/Chandra - the 7th lord is awkwardly placed.
2. Lagna being hounded by malefics (including low profile miscreants Mandi and Gulika who seem to be chasing Lagna towards the dreaded Rahu) is not a good sign.
3. Lagna Lord Saturn/Shani-dev is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya or Losses in Dhanur Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu - who has a notorious reputation for inducing detachment or triggering spirituality and yogic thoughts. For the records, he is in Sandhi/Cusp and caught up in transition.
4. Moon/Chandra the 7th lord or Kalathra-Karaka is very closely positioned in the 8th (Dusthana) house in the sign of Simha Rasi, with the 8th lord Sun/Ravi who is powerfully placed in his Swashtana and Ketu.
5. Current Maha-Dasha is that of Rahu (who is posited in the 2nd house in the sign of Kumbha Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purva Bhadrapada Nakshatra, ruled by 12th lord Jupiter/Guru) and Antara-Dasha of Mercury/Budha (who is very strongly placed in his Uccha-Sthana in the sign of Kanya Rasi and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Hasta Nakshatra, ruled by ill-placed Moon/Chandra). So, the next year may not be beneficial. The subsequent Antara is that of Ketu - again not too conducive.
6. Current planetary transits are putting more stress on inherent afflictions and hence the current situation/thoughts etc.
In summary, your current thoughts and inclination are quite evident there is delay in marriage (as evident already) - not denial. But then, it would make sense to seek help/guidance from knowledgeable and experienced experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies for early relief.
In the interim (while waiting for expert guidance), it may be beneficial for you to consider offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha and Goddess Durga/Chamundi/MahaKali, with at most faith, devotion/bhakti and a strong sankalpa... along with dedicated Dhyana of Mahadev Shiva by way of chanting "Om Namah Shivaya" (and perhaps hearing/reading or chanting of Aditya Hrudayam), at your convenience.
PS: In my personal opinion, there is more to look forward to...than to look or run away. And, you are still quite young. So, do consider the option and possibility of getting married and experiencing the ills and odds. Hopefully, life is long enough and you'll have time for spirituality.
Sincerely...
What is your education and profession? Have you moved away from birth place, may be to a different state?
The Rajayogaraka for your ascendant is placed in 7th house of marriage and partnership. There are definitely delays and challenges in harmony after marriage, but marriage can be a positive trigger for profession. Even in D9 7th lord Sat placed in 10th. Consider remedies for Rahu and Moon.
The Rajayogaraka for your ascendant is placed in 7th house of marriage and partnership. There are definitely delays and challenges in harmony after marriage, but marriage can be a positive trigger for profession. Even in D9 7th lord Sat placed in 10th. Consider remedies for Rahu and Moon.
Note: I am a student of astrology, please take my advice with a pinch of salt and consult experts as appropriate
Thank you Sishya and Nimme for your time and effort to helping me.it seems both of you predict some problems in marriage.can you tell does the marraige survives.
Nimme ji i didn't complete my degree. done the jobs here and there until recently(2018) joined in IT.yes i am working in different state and living there from last 5 years.
Thanks
Om namah sivaya
Nimme ji i didn't complete my degree. done the jobs here and there until recently(2018) joined in IT.yes i am working in different state and living there from last 5 years.
Thanks
Om namah sivaya
