Relationship future

[dhaval911bunty]

Husband
9.11.1983, 20.45 pm, Bardoli (Gujarat)

Wife
2.2.1986, 13:10 pm, Valsad (Gujarat)

Married on 2014 & have one 4 years boy.

[dhaval911bunty]

Can anyone please reply and help me with his knowledge in this matter...?

[subramanianp]

Female chart:-
(Saturn+Mars) in the 7th from Lagna may prove to be fatal.
7th from Moon also is afflicted.
Sufficient neutralizing placements are not in the male chart.
However Mercury in the 9th may give a bright married life with kids,status,wealth etc:.
But there is no guaranty for its duration.
Mercury /Sun period ( Dec 2025 to Oct 2026 ) will be very turbulent and can cause threat to the married life.

[dhaval911bunty]

Thanks for your valuable reply. But at present we are separated from 2015 and she refuses to come and want trap me. Divorce case is going on in court. We have one baby boy and she did not take care well. That is why I am asking that what is the future of this relationship..? As per your reply i think no future, so when i have get divorce. Please help me in this matter because lot of predictions are done astrologers but nothing happened. My chart is difficult to pridict. Fill free to tell me about this matter because I am ready to face the karma. Waiting for your reply.....

[vedam33]

Which month in 2014

[dhaval911bunty]

Marriage date: 28.01.2014

Separated from 19.04.2015

Court case is going on from 2016.

[dhaval911bunty]

January

[dhaval911bunty]

vedam33 wrote:
> Which month in 2014

January

[dhaval911bunty]

Female chart:-
(Saturn+Mars) in the 7th from Lagna may prove to be fatal.
7th from Moon also is afflicted.
Sufficient neutralizing placements are not in the male chart.
However Mercury in the 9th may give a bright married life with kids,status,wealth etc:.
But there is no guaranty for its duration.
Mercury /Sun period ( Dec 2025 to Oct 2026 ) will be very turbulent and can cause threat to the married life.

Dear sir....mars & Saturn conjunction indicated fatal in female chart....means her earlier death..?

Divorce case is going on in court.

Waiting for your kind help...

[Sishya]

Hi,

Request you to kindly let us know what (specifically) you might be seeking here - I mean in this forum.

On the sidelines, please let us know if this was a love marriage and if love still exists.

Sincerely...

[tylorechandra]

Who has filed the divorce case? Is money a cause for the same?

TKC

[dhaval911bunty]

Hi,

Request you to kindly let us know what (specifically) you might be seeking here - I mean in this forum.

On the sidelines, please let us know if this was a love marriage and if love still exists.

Sincerely...

Thank you sir for your interest.....it is arranged marriage. I had tried for reunion for 5 years and when she refuses everytime...then i filed divorce case.

I want to know that when I have get divorce....to live peacefully....is there any scope to get my baby as per astrology because I want to save him from them.

[dhaval911bunty]

Who has filed the divorce case? Is money a cause for the same?

TKC

I had filed the case to overcome from this situation. After spending lot of times finally i realise that this relationship has no future. Please light on future happening.

[Sishya]

Hi,

There seems to exist some connection (perhaps faint) with your wife - might be through your son and I'm inclined to think you still have some feelings for your wife. Please bear with me, for I have a bias against breaking a holy relationship or couple being separated (unless there are concrete reasons to part ways) and encourage a reunion.

In my humble opinion, the timing of marriage was perhaps not the best (either you didn't consult a knowledgeable/experienced expert or you might have been guided wrong)... for Maha-Dasha was that of Mars/Kuja, the 6th lord of Legal/Court cases and Antara-Dasha was that of Ketu (who has a notorious reputation for inducing separation, detachment etc.) and hence the relationship was perhaps doomed from the very beginning. To make matters worse, 7th lord and Kalathra-Karaka Jupiter/Guru is associated with Ketu (who is in Mrithyu Bhaga and within Trimsamsa degree), by conjunction - although being posited in the Lunar Constellation of Jyestha Nakshatra, ruled by Mercury/Budha gives me a feeling that you wife also might have some feelings for you (and a faint hope to me, for a reconciliation).

Now, current Maha-Dasha is that of Rahu, who is placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses and posited in the Lunar Constellation of Mrigashira Nakshatra, ruled incidentally by Mars/Kuja - remember the 6th lord!?!

In my understanding, Mars/Kuja is being influenced by Rahu for you to continue pursuing the case and is probably also giving you an illusion. But then, I'm inclined to think the odds might be stacked up against you.

All said and done, your Udaya Lagna is posited in the Lunar Mansion of Mrigashira Nakshatra, ruled by Mars/Kuja might also be driving your decisions and Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha is torched and hence Buddhi or Intelligence might be deceiving you into pursuing not the best option.

If interested in reconciling/rapprochement, I'd suggest that you seek help and guidance from knowledgeable and experienced experts (either within this forum or elsewhere) for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies for early relief.

In the interim, it might not be a bad idea for you to consider offering special prayers to Lord Ganesha and Goddess Durga/Chamundi/MahaKali with faith, devotion/bhakti and a strong sankalpa - along with reading/hearing/chanting of Shri Vishnu Sahasranama.

PS: Please bear with me and ignore anything that is not to your liking and/or interest.

Sincerely...

[dhaval911bunty]

Thank you sir for kind guidance...

Let me tell you first that i have no issues with my wife....even she has no issues with me & my family. The main problem for all this is her mother and brother. They influence her and misguided.

I am chanting following things regularly from 1year.
1) kunjika stotram
2) vishnu sahstranama
3) Ganesh sankat stotram
4) Aditya hrudayam stotram
5) Devi kavach
6) Asht laxmi stotram

If other remedies suggested by you for reunion then i am ready to perform....but my prime focus is that my wife should understand that her mother and brother is not well wisher of her family life....you can tell me remedy which is solve my this problem then it is very helpful to me.

Again i tell you that i am not interested in separation...but after reunion still my wife completely follow her mother's order then this relationship has no future.

Please guide me...

[dhaval911bunty]

Please note that I had also chanting Lalita sahastranama stotram regularly from last 3 months.

[Sishya]

Hi,

I'm glad both of us (you and me) seem to be on the right track/path. No doubt you are a noble soul...
The one suggestion (if I may take the liberty) is that you ensure whatever you do is with full faith, devotion/bhakti and importantly with a strong sankalpa (without worrying about anything/anybody else) - I'm sure the Good Lord is aware of your pain and hopefully he'll soon bless you with his grace.

PS: In your place, I wouldn't necessarily complicate things for myself - instead, I'd try to simplify and make it easy... in doing so, Mantra Sadhana will probably become effortless and perhaps a way of life.

Sincerely...

[dhaval911bunty]

Hope so all things done positively....for peaceful future.

Any other remedies suggested from you.

[subramanianp]

Dear sir....mars & Saturn conjunction indicated fatal in female chart....means her earlier death..?

Divorce case is going on in court.

Waiting for your kind help...

Dear dhaval911bunty.
Sorry for the delay to respond your query. I was away due to some reasons.
1. Saturn +Mars is treated as Kalathra nasa yoga in male chart and Vaidhavya yoga in female chart.
( the results can get altered if strong benefics aspect, if planets have shubha vargas etc...etc..)
2. There is no threat to life of the female native since male chart don't have serious afflictions.

All the best.

[dhaval911bunty]

@ subramanianp
Thank you sir for your kind help...

So per your view...that it is dangerous to my life...may be death like situation or else....free to tell me sir...i am not afraid of that.

I am on the path of karma...and i have to fulfill it...so...my prime focus is to try for reunion...but all is in god's hands.....so if reunion is not happen then only two things can happen.... divorce or death of me/my wife.

Please explain in details....to face my karma....

[dhaval911bunty]

Dear dhaval911bunty.
Sorry for the delay to respond your query. I was away due to some reasons.
1. Saturn +Mars is treated as Kalathra nasa yoga in male chart and Vaidhavya yoga in female chart.
( the results can get altered if strong benefics aspect, if planets have shubha vargas etc...etc..)
2. There is no threat to life of the female native since male chart don't have serious afflictions.

All the best.

So...as per your view...there is theats to my life due my wife chart...

Now what can i do ? Can i save my life and get divorce ?

Please guide...

[dhaval911bunty]

Ohh....you want to say that there is danger to my life.
So, what can i do? Is divorce save my life?

[dhaval911bunty]

But sir...in my chart conjunction of venus and mars occur...and venus is in dual sign also....even 7th house has dual sign....7th lord is in 6th house (12th from 7th)...i think it sufficient to get divorce....saturn in 5th which give me long life....i hope so.

While in my wife chart....mars in 7th house of both lagna & navamsa charts.

That is my view.... please explain.

[subramanianp]

1.When I said the girl is safe, how you presumed that the boy is in danger. I didn't say that.
2. 7th lord in 6th will cause ill health to the spouse.
3. Rest is up to you to continue the relation OR go for divorce. There are compatibility issues in the charts.
A long married life is doubtful.

[dhaval911bunty]

@subramanianp

Thank you sir for kind reply...

I just assumed that....may be danger to my life because of 7th mars in both chart of my wife.

As per my knowledge....i have concluded in matter that this relationship has no long future....and therefore I had already filed divorce case in 2019....after putting 5years efforts for reunion.

I also found that my wife has extra marital affairs yog....as per her chart....and thus she may not be ready for continuing this relationship.

So... please can guide me when i get divorce....