Second marriage

[meetnmhere]

Hi,

My DOB is May 8th, 1979 1.35 pm , Gokak, Karnataka, India and my wife DOB- Feb 16, 1985 at 12.05 am in Jamakhandi (or Bijapur), Karnataka, India. How is our married life? Any problems this year or future?
We have two kids, 8 years old and 2 years old.

[Sujit]

I have time to study one chart only.

Ref: dob: 8th May 1979

Your ascendant is Leo. There is strain and stress in marriage, family life due to malefic Moon placed in 2nd house and Venus in the dustana.
Current time is ruled by maha dasa lord Jupiter in the 12th will bring conflicts, emotional problems, losses in investments and current antara of Mercury in 9th is also weak which can bring unfavorable relocation, travels. The weakness of Mercury could also affect own health, family life and professional life. Current time is stressful for married life and health of spouse.

Good luck.

Sujit

[meetnmhere]

Thanks Sujit.

How about my wife?

What are the remedies?

[subramanianp]

Dear meetnmhere
gone through both the charts.
Your wife is very talented and capable.
No serious issues seen.
Be happy.
All the best

[meetnmhere]

Thanks

[meetnmhere]

Hello,

Do I have chances of second marriage? If yes, when?

DOB- 8th May 1979, 1.35 PM
Place- Gokak, Karnataka
Thanks

[Sujit]

Second marriage will not happen easily for your chart.

[meetnmhere]

Thanks for the response.

What is the reason? Solution?
I lost my wife in an accident & my kids needs mother & I need a life partner.

[vedam33]

Can you share when married year and month , wife death year and month

[meetnmhere]

Married- Nov 2009
Wife death- June 2019

[ReformedVivek]

@meetnmhere
Could you please tell us why did you ask about your married life on July 28th when your spouse have died (as per your previous post) in the month of June?

[meetnmhere]

Any update?

[meetnmhere]

@priya12, a good question..
my lovely wife left us suddenly in an accident in the US. Such incidents never happened from at least 20-30 years (people who are living here told me). We are still wonder why it happened to her, when she was just crossing the road? She was such a lovely and innocent lady and great wife & mother. My lawyers says, it is one in multi million incident. Why are we so unfortunate? We follow God so regularly and religiously but why he did injustice to us.
Just wanted to check whether the astrology come back with a question- is she still alive or are I still married?
She was just 34 and we are still recovering the shocks with parents and two little kids..
We just wonder why no astrologer not cautioned us before or after?

Now trying to get the future path for kids and I.. hope this clarifies

[New2Vedic]

Meetmehere - it is not about injustice or astrologer not telling you. It is about you LYING and asking about future of your wife when she already dead. Why do you do that??

thousand of people lose someone or other daily. Can be young chiuldren under 12 years, aged parents, wife or husband, sister or brother, so on on. Do you think they should lie to a panditji and ask about deceased [erson's chart? Will you go and offer prayers, puja, homams, etc just for good fortune at your temple, and will your pujari accept it if he knows the wife is gone??

First be honest with yourself. Then try to reason with the nature and god. in first post itself, you should be clear - "please tell me why the early death of my wife, thru her chart" But you didn't, you lied.

You still haven't told Sujit on the other thread your wife is dead. And asking about 2nd marriage here?

[meetnmhere]

New2vedic,

Who are you? You should know how to talk to others? Did you forget the manners? Be respectful to others first! If you attach someone like this, don’t think other go to defensive. I can do counter attack as well.
You understand the pain, once you loose the your loved one in an unfortunate incident.

I don’t know you whether you are an astrologer or visitor, if you are not an astrologer, then mind your business.

We do Pooja etc. to happen the good things, not to bad things. We feel he is superior and he will save his followers from unfortunate incident when you are young.

I have seen the astrologer (he passed away now a few years ago), used to tell the real facts..
Did you hear the story when a boy holding a bird within his hand and asking to guruji whether it’s alive or dead?

Based on my & my wife chart the prediction was good married life, then what went wrong? Why no sees the danger?

I am not expecting any response from you and mind your business. If the astrologer doesn’t have the answer to my questions, let it go but I am not expecting you or anyone make it as debatable ground.
Thanks for understanding

[Sujit]

Thanks for the response.

What is the reason? Solution?
I lost my wife in an accident & my kids needs mother & I need a life partner.

In your previous post I have clearly mentioned time is difficult for family life and health of spouse.

Good luck

Sujit

[meetnmhere]

Thanks and appreciate!

[New2Vedic]

Want to know real reason for early death of wife? Your horrible chart. You have SEVERE MANGALIK DOSHA. you're mangalik from surya lagna, chandra lagna and shukra lagna. There is a strong shrapit dosh in the ascendant itself with retrograde saturn and rahu, where saturn is rogesh lord of 6 house. That means many number of mental illness that can happen any time for no reason. You also have a daridra yoga and it will show you due results soener or later. Not only D1, but your D9 and D10 are also damaged. lord of 10 house Venus is in 8th and hemmed between Kethu and Mercury, Sun, Mars. Shows problems with job and will have issues with seniors, coworkers. Lack of manliness will cause issues with all female members in the family, that is how damaged the venus is in your chart.

If you have any sense at all, you will keep quiet and not ask about second marriage. Because looking at your chart no one will suggest second marriage for you. With Saturn , rahu and ketu on your 1-7 axis how is it even possible for one marriage to succeed. Forget about another one.

[Nitin21]

meetmehere - your navamsa is off by quite a few minutes so readings can go wrong by people. but looking at Rasi chart and UL one can say it was unfortunate.

UL is scorpio. Lord mars(wife) in 6th from ul with 8th lord mercury and aspected by Rahu.

so in jup - merc(8th from ul) the event took place and rahu's aspect shows an element of suddenness and unexpected.

Enitre june the 2-8 axis from UL was afflicted by sat ketu rahu mars. and with natal showing problems, transit did the damage.

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[meetnmhere]

Thanks Astroduffer & Sujith. Was the death can be prevented by any Pooja or Havan or something? She was very nice, humble & great human. Kids & I miss her every minute of the life.

I need to move on & trying hard.
What can done next to prevent any problems.
Thanks for your time.

@New2vedic-as I clearly said, I am not expecting any response from you. I can read your intention & mind. Please be professional & humble to others.

[ReformedVivek]

@New to Vedic
Please take it easy & be kind to yourself thus it'll reflect on others as well. There is no point in being rash at everyone's post.
& mind, your given explanation is highly superficial. Your words are judgemental, do it so if you are really eligible, then you will do it rationally. In the last post you are not.
take care of your emotions.

@meetnmhere
as you have mentioned that you will pray, so please continue, prayers always heals.
take care of kids & yourself.

[meetnmhere]

@priya12,

Thanks. It was very unfortunate that I lost my lovely wife. Being in the US, I never go out without my prayers & many times continue in the car, it includes Gayatri mantra, Hanuman chalisa, Venkateshwara mantra, maha Mrutyumjay manta, Ganesh strotam etc. on daily basis.
We do shiva abhishek on Monday evening, Hanuman abhishek by coconut water on Tuesday & my wife never forgets Mahalaxmi Pooja on Fridays.
Mostly visit Saibaba temple on Thursday & Hindu temple on weekends with additional prayers.
Yearly do the navagraha abhishekam & donations & Pooja’s on special occasions .
Being so followers of god by us, and my mother in India strictly doesn’t eat anything before the Pooja & follow many fasting, Pooja, reading etc.

We did what all we could but the god didn’t save my wife & mother of 2. The accident was really mystery, such thing never happened before & many quote is one in many millions. My little one just turned 3 & looks for his mom everyday. My daughter asks what her fault that she never going get mom’s love for rest of her life? Why ? I really have answers.
We loved so much & when you live outside India, it’s always you & your spouse and one day suddenly loose her at young age is really unfortunate & extreme bad luck and very hard to get over & manage the kids along with your work.

I ask god, you created the problem & please fix it.

I hope things will change.

Thanks for the support.