Hi All,
I am a Software engineer with an ivy league degree in computer science. But struggling a lot and no satisfaction in job. Is it advisable for me to start my own company?
The alternative for me is to go abroad, when is the right time?
Need general feedback on my career prospects and whether I will study abroad for an MBA.
Female
April 30 1985
Time : 00:10:00 am
Place : Mysore Karnataka India
Thanks
Rupashree
Career and foreign travel
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I think i replied your other post . You said there that your husband has Ananta kalasarpa dosha? Who told you and how to verify it? Seems like this is advanced astrology knowledge but without support of some proof or evidence of facts, how is one suppose to believe?
And you are in divorce - Divorce it self depends on where you married (india? foreign land?) and where case is filed, isn't it? Indian courts can take long time to grant but mainly when the husband-wife are disputing property rights, children and custody, and all that. Is this also theh case for you? In that case, you agree that your ex husband will also have a family beside his side, fight for him , and then hus lawyers will also fight with your lawyers and whole thing will be big mess and go on for long time.
When I saw your chart again with AM not PM, it shows you will succeed in career more than relationships. Possibilty of "settled life" is there but it not as per expectation, not enjoyable and many compromises. Yes you should try for higher degree. Whar is Ivy league, where did you study computer science? I know it is USA, but which city/college is it. Just curios.
Pratik
And you are in divorce - Divorce it self depends on where you married (india? foreign land?) and where case is filed, isn't it? Indian courts can take long time to grant but mainly when the husband-wife are disputing property rights, children and custody, and all that. Is this also theh case for you? In that case, you agree that your ex husband will also have a family beside his side, fight for him , and then hus lawyers will also fight with your lawyers and whole thing will be big mess and go on for long time.
When I saw your chart again with AM not PM, it shows you will succeed in career more than relationships. Possibilty of "settled life" is there but it not as per expectation, not enjoyable and many compromises. Yes you should try for higher degree. Whar is Ivy league, where did you study computer science? I know it is USA, but which city/college is it. Just curios.
Pratik
@Pratik,
Thanks for your response again. I will try for getting MBA.
I agree with comments about lawyers. They unnecessarily drag things.
Kalasarpa dosha is a debated thing in vedic astrology. If all planets are essentially hemmed in between rahu and ketu then its kalasarpa dosha. If Rahu is in the first house and ketu in 7 it is called ananta kalasarpa dosha. Feared by most people. And yes, prior to all the troubles in marriage, i was an atheist and when my family astrologer asked me to refuse the match and not marry my current husband , i refused saying i don't believe in this nonsense. But life has taught me otherwise. I have started learning vedic astrology and scriptures.
One good thing to come out of all this marital troubles is that i have become deeply spiritual and progressed enormously as a person.
Ivy league is universities like Harvard, MIT, Brown, Yale etc. Top US universities and needs excellent academic credentials to get in.
Thanks for your response again. I will try for getting MBA.
I agree with comments about lawyers. They unnecessarily drag things.
Kalasarpa dosha is a debated thing in vedic astrology. If all planets are essentially hemmed in between rahu and ketu then its kalasarpa dosha. If Rahu is in the first house and ketu in 7 it is called ananta kalasarpa dosha. Feared by most people. And yes, prior to all the troubles in marriage, i was an atheist and when my family astrologer asked me to refuse the match and not marry my current husband , i refused saying i don't believe in this nonsense. But life has taught me otherwise. I have started learning vedic astrology and scriptures.
One good thing to come out of all this marital troubles is that i have become deeply spiritual and progressed enormously as a person.
Ivy league is universities like Harvard, MIT, Brown, Yale etc. Top US universities and needs excellent academic credentials to get in.
You are highly educated so take everything with pinch of salt yes? If not, then life will become too difficult to live and full of problems . And then negative things like depression, mood disorder, etc. set in and you becomes the candidate for mental health "professional".
I personaly don't believe in Kalsarpa dosh, Kemdroom dosh, etc. as these are inventions of modern astros trying to sell their stuffs!! What is a mangalik dosh? Means person is really strong in his temperament, ego, and physical and mental strength!! If you cannot match that, then DO NOT MARRY HIM. It will be disaster. We can see everyday in wrestling and boxing, some win and some lose. Why?? Because one is stronger than other. Same situation in marriage, and most other relations.
I am remembering the song from a film Tridev 30 years ago, which is the tune below:
Gazar ne kiya hai ishaara, ghadi bhar ka hai khel saara
Tamaashaee ban jaaenge khud tamaasha badal jaaey gaa yeh nazaara
Everything is momentary in life. Once your life is the same dimensions as the blinking of cosmic eye of lord Shiva then it all becomes meaningless!! But how to explain in simple terms to everyday man and woman?? that is the biggest challenge and which is why we have all these problems . But anyway, I wish you all the best with your future studies and MBA degree from USA>
I personaly don't believe in Kalsarpa dosh, Kemdroom dosh, etc. as these are inventions of modern astros trying to sell their stuffs!! What is a mangalik dosh? Means person is really strong in his temperament, ego, and physical and mental strength!! If you cannot match that, then DO NOT MARRY HIM. It will be disaster. We can see everyday in wrestling and boxing, some win and some lose. Why?? Because one is stronger than other. Same situation in marriage, and most other relations.
I am remembering the song from a film Tridev 30 years ago, which is the tune below:
Gazar ne kiya hai ishaara, ghadi bhar ka hai khel saara
Tamaashaee ban jaaenge khud tamaasha badal jaaey gaa yeh nazaara
Everything is momentary in life. Once your life is the same dimensions as the blinking of cosmic eye of lord Shiva then it all becomes meaningless!! But how to explain in simple terms to everyday man and woman?? that is the biggest challenge and which is why we have all these problems . But anyway, I wish you all the best with your future studies and MBA degree from USA>
