punarphoo dosha : Taking full family to court or sucide

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Ankita294
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hello,
Esteemed astrologers,

Boy
date: 21/6/86
tob: 1:40 pm
place: katni (mp)

girl
date:22/2/88
tob:9:40 am
place :gwalior(mp)

date of marriage :23/feb/19
Guy married willfully but from the second day of marriage, he just want the girl out of her life.
Girl is willing to do everything but guy is not listening to anyone. Can this marriage be saved.
kundlies where not matched, Girl is feeling cheated and both of them are in dangerous state of mind.
I think can harm themself or the other
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I casted the chart of boy and it seems the time of birth is not matching , how sure are you about the time of birth ,marraige occurred during ketu antardasa and it represents Venus and Mars , both are weak for marraige now sun antardasa running which is also weak for marraige happiness involve elders for sustenance of marraige other wise think over , I took time of birth as 1.55 pm not 1.40 pm ,based on feed back will analyse girls chart
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place katni [MP] exists with 4 different kind of coordinate values.so please specify the correct coordinates of boys birth place like it is katni junction or some other different location at katni etc needed..

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Thanks Vedam33
time is correct, they are punjabi people, didnt believed in kundli
guys sister is my friend
he is not listening to anyone
is there a chance, by the time dasha changes for any of them.
Family is in desperate condition, they cant choose, they know there sun is wrong but are helpless
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Ankita294,

Had time to study one chart only .
The boy's chart is weak for marriage. The current time is likely to become more difficult when he starts the next antara of Ketu from June 2019 onwards. There will be conflicts leading to separation. Mother's health and home atmosphere is likely to become stressful. Even change of place is seen.

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hey
Joyd, its katni junction
Sujit
Thank you,
seperation will be lawful or simply living apart, as girl is not ready at any cost to leave and boy is not ready at any cost to entertain the relation.
joyd

@ankita-try to hold the process of filing divorce paper just for 45 days from today onwards.Mars gemini transit is very troublesome and unfavourable at present.Boy chart denotes divorce but not girls.so this is a tricky case for astrologers.I like to study these 2 charts leisurely.But remember hold the boy just for 45 days from now.This is very important both for girl and boys married life.

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Thank you
Joyd
I will pass the message to the family
Do take time, but tell me, can boy harm himself
For rahu in 8th, with saturn and moon together, also mars as 8th lord in 4th
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joyd
I talked to my friend
things have taken ugly face now, girl has gone into destruction phase
And threatening to make things ugly for everyone
she is making calls to distant relatives, and threatening them too
after all this drama, will they be able to make it work
joyd

No such things happen to him.Both boy-girl both knows why he is behaving like this but she wont disclose it to anyone.Elders has to enter in to the scene and make them calm at least for 45 days.mars in 4th doesn't matter much for relationship issues.so leave that point aside.when a girls self/ego hurted then she will be like a nuclear weapon.so first pacify her.

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Very difficult now
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Thanks Joyd

Elders are already involved, girl is expecting that if guys parents will want he will make this marriage work

on the other hand, guy is feeling cheated, from his family, that no one is understanding him, so not ready to listen to anyone.

Parents have tried, every way to make the son understand, but nothing working out.
girls family is also involved, and now instead of trying to cool things, they are threatening, to put wrongful law charges on full family

Joyd,
guy was in a relationship earlier, which parents didnt supported, he came around himself to get married according to parents will, is there a chance that, he is still involved in his past relation.
He and his ex, both are denying for the same

Thanks @Vedam , Can you plz elaborate.
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I casted the chart of girl and getting Aries as lagna ,jup is in lagna and malefically aspecting 7th house so chances of divorce more.or happpiness from marraige less.some issue cropped up it might be about past love life and difference of opinion started till may ending very crucial
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In the girl chart 6th lord is in 10 th house generally it shows love marraige but you are telling it is arranged marraige . How sure are you about girl time of birth
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Thanks @vedam

Thats the time provided by family of girl
and its complete arrange marriage
guys family took them for counselling too
But, non of them are listening or ready to budge on what they want.
guy want her out of her life at any cost
Girl want, him to come around immediately.
Its complete mess, guys mother is in a sorry state, out of worry

Hey @Joyd and @Vedam
Is there any chance of survival of this marriage, after mars transits move to next house
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Is it possible that the time of birth of girl can be 9.40 pm instead of am ,some past events of girl will be better for cross checking the time of birth
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hey Vedam

Little information, I was able to collect is:
her father got a paralysis attack 3 years back
her elder brother in in between divorce battle and 2 children's custody at stack
she did distance MBA and working in bank
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Ok thanks I will analyse and get back pl
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When he does not want her in his life and is not willing to reconcile, she should go for divorce since he is not going to give her love. Then whole life will be in a mess.
Horoscope also would indicate the same.
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Hey astrologers
Just a update, girl is in destructive phase.
Saying, I will go back widow but not divorce.
Not ready to listen to anyone from guys family
Plz, analyze the girl chart too, how and when they should proceed with future plans
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I took time of birth of girl as 21.55 pm instead of 9.40 am .the following were my observations.there is delay of marraige due to sat .6th lord jup is in 7th house and malefically aspecting 2nd lord mars .so happiness from marraige gone.she is having 36 points in lagna ,so she is adamant ,in telligent,hotheaded. Will blame others if some one points out something then they will have a strong reaction and might even walk away or in words they have a hard time adjusting with others ,this might be a boss at work or colleagues, friends,or even spouse.they also have a trait of not being able to understand as to why all this is happening to them and it is very difficult to make them understand either as they will argue,so many people don’t want to associate with such a person and might want to break things rather than deal with it on a daily basis.you have to manage such a person very delicately and for that the opposite person must have patience and care.
The above were my observations ,as with original timing of girl it is showing love marraige and not much delay also in marraige.so i rectified time may be i am wrong
Feed back is appreciated
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Can you specify what is the exact problem the guy has with his wife?
What is the reason he tells for not wanting her in his life from 2nd day of marriage?
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@ankita-ask boy to keep a strong brownish coloured horse picture as his cell phone wallpaper image.Also ask him to have that same horse picture/small poster in his personal room.Like the same way ask girl to have a light green coloured hare picture[both in cell and in living room].THis is my first experimental remedy giving to the couple.It should pacify and patch up the things between them.why i am giving this experimental remedy this is, based on the famous proverb that "marriages are made in heaven".Boy chart indicating the divorce but not the girls.so it is controversial to say about divorce.so let me see/confirm the truth in the proverb.Hope this remedy saves this marriage.Dont tell anything about this pictures to souple and just ask to keep them.Dont tell them it is a remedy for patch up the things.Both sides elders has to take initiative in this process.NOTHING WRONG IN EXPERIMENTING new KIND OF REMEDIES.If you have faith do it or not just leave it.

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Hey Vedam33

I am still not sure about the time, that cant be verified from the girls family, too much misunderstanding

But whatever You said about her, by rectified time, is what the guy was complaining about, which no one in his family believed earlier, but now as the parents have moved in the same house, they realized everything you said is the problem. As guy in question is the calm and introvert, brought up in joint but peaceful environment, as his mother and father are too much respectful and polite people but girl is very loud and adamant, too much ego about her maternal financial condition.
Although guy too belong to strong financial background but its not into his head

Jigkoshti, reasons are as mentioned by Vedam33, as parents started believing there own son now, he narrated, that they got into very ugly fight the very next day of marriage, which made him take such a strong hatred, yes tats the term he used, for her

Plz suggest, the approach, the family should take, can divorce happen, as girls family is threatening to kill, if needed, and they are capable of the same. that has something brought worry to parents, and they too are, now conflicted that they should support the divorce now
Thank u
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hey Joyd
Thank you, I will suggest the same, but the thing is guy is at least listening little bit now, and may be he will do the same, but the girl in question is not entertaining any prospects
Just for ex: family suggested for marriage counselling, for which the guy was ready but girl outrageously denied, saying I am not the mad and at the need, go get your bloody son counselled, after first counselling session, as guy felt, it can be helpful.
Girls family is acting same
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