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@san-before going to navamsa chart i like to see the mars intensity in both charts.Boy mars is both disturbing and enhancing the 12th house main signification[sexual matters] in married life.In girls chart mars spoiled the 4th house signification[domestic peace].Mars is more powerful in girls chart when compared with boy.The difference of mars potential in both charts is 14.5 points.so there is a way to solve this problem as the points are below 18..

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@san-

Girl’s navamsa-

1-sun in 7th / 2-mercury in lagna / 3- Jupiter in 5th.. /4-No influence of nodes../ 5-jupiter-venus link/ 6-mer-venu in 3-11 axis../7-out of 6 parameters 2 are favour for divorce and balance 4 are against the divorce.

Boy’s navamsa-

1-sun in lagna../ 2-No influence of nodes/ 3-Moon in 7th/ 4-sun-jupiter not connected/ 5-venus trines a benefic. / 6-Among 5 parameters moon is partially negative and not for divorce but other things in married life..

So intensity of divorce is negligible. Couples personal issue is the main reason for these misunderstandings and to their irritations. we will check the possible remedies for it in my next post..

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@joyd mars position definitely affecting the couple life. As it's aspect on the 7th house in the girls birth chart alleviating the anger issues to the husband.

Thanks!
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@san- As it's aspect on the 7th house in the girls birth chart alleviating the anger issues to the husband. ... / the actual[personal] problem of the couple is this..

1-Mars 4th aspects has to teach a lesson to both of them.So it is treated as a protective aspect.Mars wants high discipline of his 4th aspected bhava,i.e husband.Indirectly, she always wants and insists that hubby must listen to her in each and every aspect.Here the actual ego clash rises.why i calculated her mars dosha points is to confirming it only.she wants to be the leader of the house & family.Both boy and girl are hiding their financial matters from each other and this is the 2nd reason for misunderstandings.The 4th from mars is pleasure seeking house[which is the 7th in her case].Nobody wants/likes/impose on limited pleasures in life but in her case she is imposing some restrictions to her partner.THis is the 3rd reason for misunderstandings.

2-Boy concentrating on career but neglecting the wife.Girl also focusing on career[i mean some kind of accumulation in financial reserves]and neglecting the relationship matters.All these points are contributed to mars in both charts.

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Thanks for your valuable inputs joyd.

Girls navamsa
Though mercury in lagna is delibilated it's depositor Jupiter is exalted in 5th house and it's ninth aspect is on the lagna itself. So it doesn't seems to be issue.
Mars placed in 8th from the lagna in navamsa chart and in 7th from the moon in navamsa is major issue.

Dasha periods of the couple.
1) Girls Venus MD Saturn AD was very bad......As you pointed out as it's second Lord Saturn is stressful.
2) Girls ongoing Venus MD Mercury AD is on going also seems to be stressful?
3) Boys Venus MD Saturn AD as well as Mercury AD was worst.

Could you please shed some light on how will be 1)mercury AD for girl and
2)Sun mahadasha for both the couple. Sun Mahadasha seems to be a major influence on couples future.
a) Sun is in amavasya yoga with moon and grahan yoga with Ketu in girls lagna chart. Also girl lost her father early in life. Also it's posited in 7th house in navamsa chart.
b) Sun is in purvaphalguni nakshatra in Leo giving ego issues to the boy. Sun's aspect on 2nd house of family relations in the birth chart is also negative. Also Sun is in navamsa lagna in its own sign.

So overall how will be the Sun mahadasha for the couple??

Thanks joyd and eagerly awaiting for your remedies post! :)
joyd

@ san-remedy to girl-Has to please her guru or family priest near ganges or at temple mandapam and she has to read aditya hrudayam for 6 months continuously on everyday morning once...

remedy to boy- kuladevatha pooja at his birth town will remove all hurdles in this present problem..

By doing the above remedies they can safely come out from this divorce problem..

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@san-Girls ongoing Venus MD Mercury AD is on going also seems to be stressful?..yes this is the major AD of such tensions and stress too.Don't worry about their sun dasa as it is far of 4 years from now.THere is no amavasya yoga.

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Thanks joyd for your time and analysis on the birth charts and providing the remedies for the same.

Boys Sun dasha will start next year.....so how will be his Sun mahadasha?? What are the effects on navamsaka Sun??
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Hey joyd also just found that the main stress for such situation was Rahu Ketu transit August 2017 to March 2019.

Rahu was transiting natal moon Sun Jupiter mercury and Ketu..........Ketu was transiting natal Rahu which elevated the stressful period for the native. All in 1/7 axis of the girls birth chart.

It was 1/7 axis for kark rashi makar lagna.

Hopefully next Rahu Ketu transit in March 2019 would be better.

Thanks!
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Hi joyd!!

Problems with the couple Shooted up last month in the mid of February. They left their parents home and are in a huge problem.

As you predicted correctly this mercury AD of girl started in November and the problems started to rise exponentially....

Now boys Venus MD and ketu AD will start from 15th March ...ketus placement in the boys Lagna and navamsa chart s also seems to escalate the issues. Further Rahu Ketu are transiting in 6/12 axis from both lagna as well as moon sign. Can you provide some insights on the current dasha of both boy and girl and provide some remedies, as Remedies mentioned above doesn't helped a lot!!
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I shared my analysis and how it will be pl go through once again and revert
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till antardasa of mercury i.e up to 2020 jul sustenance of marriage is Difficult,if that period is over then all be well .involve elders for sustenance ,otherwise very difficult.will the boy and girl hear to elders ? Think over . She might be only child or eldest in the family
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Remedies will not work ,change in attitude of individual is utmost importance,involve elders .
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THe marriage longevity pereoid as per your given birth info is very good.THese kind of occasional clashes between them has to solve by themselves or by elders interference.I can say this much only.Dont place repeated question on the same matter by mentioning the transits and bla..bla..sir

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