PLz help, broken and failed relationships throughout my life

[rjk1111]

Hi all,

I am aged 32 and until now, i have never been in a serious, solid and stable committed relationship at all, absolutely none. I mean, i have fallen in love a few times, but there has always been something to block it and make sure that nothing progresses. In fact, over the last six years, i have undergone several, deep heart breaks and fell into deep depression due to longing and yearnings of not being able to be with the person i loved.
But, i have always dreamt of a fairytale married life, and having kids and a family of my own. And now i wonder, if all this going to happen at all? Please help me by letting me know, if, astrologically i have some blocks in my personal/love life?
I dont understand why i have always been searching for and looking for a true committed partnership, but never got one, until today.

Name - Ranjani.K.
Dob - 17th November 1986
Time - 16.11 (or) 4.11 PM
Place - Chennai

[LR2017]

You sound like me. While I will leave the predictions to those who are more skilled, I will tell you that I lived an 18 year nightmare like you and astrologers told me it would not resolve until I was 36.

Well I am 36 now and I have finally met someone. though we are not quite at the finish line yet, he is the best person I’ve met and if someone told me I’d have to endure the pain of the last 36 years to meet him, I’d probably do it all over again

I too had no hope, only devastating disappointments, horrible / humiliating break ups and despair for years and years.

Sending you wishes for your luck to change

[joyd]

your BT err by 5 minutes.Rectified.Rahu-mars triggers the relationship at the end of 2019-october.jup-jup-jup-venus[17-11-2021 to 29-11-2021] or mars or rahu gives the marriage.It MEANS,at the end of your 35th year of age and starting of 36th year,will gives you marriage event..By that time your 11 and 12th houses re very active for giving the desired event.THe would be a known person to your family or he is from your distant relatives circles.

joyd.

[rjk1111]

Hi
Wow, i can totally empathize with you and i understand the agony of all that wait, not knowing what's going wrong. But, i am very happy to hear you have finally met your man, gives me a lot of hope and faith, that good things do come for those who wait, thank you so much

@Joyd, thanks very much, but what is meant by you BT has been err by 5 mins?

[joyd]

Error in your recorded birth time.

joyd.

[Beautiful12]

Joyd,

Can rahu mahadasha mars antardasha give marriage? Rahu Moon has been a very bad period. So what are the chances of Rahu-Mangal being good enough for marriage prospects? Thanks in advance.

[rjk1111]

@joyd, yes but I don't understand that...error in my birth time ? I mean I thought I was born at 4.11 pm, so is that wrong ? So, what is the right time , thanks

[joyd]

4-06 pm..

joyd.

[rjk1111]

Joyd, thanks but how can we come to this conclusion, I mean all these years I have been thinking it's 4.11 pm, do these few minutes cause a big change ? In the position of planets and all that ? And why 4.06 and not 4.07 or something ? Please request you to help me understand, thanks so much

[Sujit]

Ranjani,
Weakness of Sun gives obstacles in your emotional relationships.
There is promise of marriage in your chart. You did not find any proposals in 2018 ??

- Sujit

[rjk1111]

@Sujit....oh okay but is there any way to make the sun stronger ? I mean, if it's always going to give me obstacles in emotional relations, how can it give me a marriage ? Though, a promise of marriage is shown, will it be a good one, happy with children and a close unit together ?
And in 2018, I did meet a couple of men who were interested in me, but I didn't reciprocate, as one of them is an already married man ..it's very complicated isn't it and I just don't want to get involved in such complexties...
Do you really see that the promised marriage is a happy stable and committed one ( with love included of course ) ? Thank you very much

[rjk1111]

Hi, I would really like any more inputs on the same plz, thanks so much. I really would like to know, if this marriage, that would happen after all this wait, would actually be worth it? I mean, would it be a decent marriage, loving, stable and happy ? Thanks again, would love it if others have anything to say about it too.

[astrolover2017]

Name - Ranjani.K.
Dob - 17th November 1986
Time - 4.06 pm
Place - Chennai

Your lagna is Mesha, rasi is Rishaba (you are in ashtama sani period so till 2020 its tough). Venus is retro and own house, moon is exalted, sani is vargottama, mercury is retro. Sun and moon in pournami yoga which is very good for you. You will have mental and physical strength to face and overcome all struggles. you life will shine soon.Mars and sani in parivarthana so it make lagna lord strong. so you will fight and get what you want.

Lagna lord is with Jup in 11th house which is good. venus is retrograde which will mean you have to clean all karma regarding relationships in this birth finally find the right person. 5th lord for love is sun and it is weak and powerless in 8th house with sani so thats why its hard to get a relationship to work.

You are in ragu dasa and ragu in 12th house will take you abroad.Maybe after marriage you will go or find NRI. sun and sani seeing moon, mars seeing moon so if you are stubborn or have anger issues pls let go. More you are kind and nice, better life is.

Your mars bhukt in 2019 will give what you want as its your lagna lord. Pls keep yourself busy and work on being the best version of yourself to get a good partner.

Dasha Start date
Ra-Mo-Sa 11-26-2018
Ra-Mo-Me 02-21-2019
Ra-Mo-Ke 05-09-2019
Ra-Mo-Ve 06-10-2019
Ra-Mo-Su 09-10-2019
Ra-Ma-Ma 10-07-2019
Ra-Ma-Ra 10-29-2019

[rjk1111]

#astrolover2017
Thanks so much for your kind reply. But I notice you have also taken my birth time as 4.06 pm...can you please let me know how ? All these days I have really been using 4.11 pm. Do you think this change can completely recreate the meaning of horoscope ?
And yes, sun has been giving issues, is there anything I can do to make it better and will I ever get a love based, emotional and satisfying marriage or will it be just a normal one, as sun is poor ?
Thanks a lot

[astrolover2017]

i tried both 4.11 and 4.06 and no change in placements and lagna. i just followed what the other seniors suggested.

[astrolover2017]

Sun and sani are bitter enemies and Sun is hidden so you have to put a lot of effort in finding right person and succeeding love. If not it will cause agony only. Your Mars bhukti will give you clarity and what you need in life.

[AstroDrAnjna]

retrogration of venus also causing problem
but marriage for sure but delay for marriage indicating

[rjk1111]

@Astrolover....i understand, but i am an overthinker and i wonder if my mars (that didnt help me so far), would suddenly be able to overcome the sun and help me in relationships.....
@astroanjna....Yes, thanks for that input

So, overall i see a lot of issues in the love/relationship. And these are in my natal chart and not a transit or anything, so how can it suddenly help me? I mean, that which it didnt for so long !!!

I really want to know if this marriage would be a happy, love based one or am i just gonna end up marrying, cause of the time getting passed and i simply 'settle down', just because i have to marry?

Please help me to know what type of a marriage it is, because that is important too, as this is something i have been waiting for, literally all my life....a marriage that is so love based and happy and all that.

Thanks everyone for being so kind to help me know more on this..

[astrolover2017]

You are 32-33 years old. Usually all severe doshas will nullify and end by 33. 2019 you will get the person who will be loving and mature. All the life lessons you learnt so far will help you succeed in marriage.

goodluck, 2019 your life will slowly have clarity and find the right person and 2020 you will be well settled. Ashtama sani will give mental stress but it will give clarity and settle you well

[rjk1111]

@astrolover, thank you so so much....indeed it gives me peace to hear that good things are in store for me
And yes, you are right. I have had way too many lessons....
And kind of happy to hear, Shani is likely to help me in future yayyy for some reason, I think it is just a steteotype I always used to think Shani would jus create problems for me.....

[rjk1111]

Hi everyone,
Again, not trying to overthink or something, but like i said, there is this block that totally stops me from having a relationship, at all. I mean, let us forget marriage, there is no ' romantic relationship' that has ever happened to me. As soon as there are signs of something nice starting with someone, either they block me off completely (for reasons completely unknown to me) or some event happens in their life, that causes them to not start a relationship with me.
Before i get hyper, am i cursed? The reason i ask this is because, yes, like astrolover, Sujit and Joyd mentioned, astrologically, my good time is probably coming up, as far as relationships are concerned, but maybe there is some block, that can even cause the good times to go? I mean, i remember very well, in 2012 and 2013, i was told that my Rahu-Venus (from 2014 till 2017) would be magical and the best time for me to get married. And well, to be honest, yes i did meet a wonderful man at this period and had deep feelings for him, still do. But, it didnt work out and instead gave me severe depression and pains.
Just, any piece of advice or opinions would help truly. Am trying not to get really confused about this, thanks.