Problems in marriage within few days

[Meena44]

Since few days of marriage got separated ,divorce case going on. I don't know whether I should wait for matters to resolve or just leave . My personal life is badly affected since marriage .when will I get some relief ?
My birth details 4 December 1983 ,time 2245,place .Poona .
Please can someone help me ?Thank u

[ProfessorPyareLal]

Hello,

You may avoid divorce. But separation is there.
The positives and negatives in your marriage will fluctuate with the vagaries of different and changing Dashas and Transits.

Seems you had a romantic affair as per your horoscope..and this present Mahadasha enabled marriage.
The chart has propensity only for romantic liaisons.

You may wear gemstone for Mars. For technical details of Red Coral - you may please find yourself.

Thank you,
P.PyareL

[AstroDrAnjna]

female?

[AstroGuru108]

Hi,

Pls mention marriage date, divorce file date, and husband birth details.

[astrolover2017]

My birth details 4 December 1983 ,time 2245,place .Poona .

Moon lagna, Scorpio rasi. you came out of janma sani so everything will be good in 2019. Your moon is deb so please keep you mind strong and think for yourself dont get swayed by other people. its your life and others wont walk your path. People who tell you to divorce will not face the litigation and pain.

Think of the positives in your husband and reconcile and have good life.

[Meena44]

Marriage date 13/5/2013
Husband details . Birthday 15/4/1981, time 2310,Bombay .
Arranged marriage .

[iseek]

Meena44,

I didn't understand one thing, you mentioned in your first post that you got seperated in few days of marriage whereas the the marriage date that you have given is of May 2013, is the date correct? Are you guys staying seperately since the last 5 years?

[vedam33]

marraige occured during jupiter antardasa who is 6th lord and also 12th lord from 7th so no happiness from marraige ,chances of break seen

[joyd]

your BT rectified.If you can rectify your nature , you can avoid this situation.No Separative tendencies are seen after BT rectification.Your behaviour is the main cause for the present problem.your independent nature is also one more cause for it.Out of 12 houses 9 houses are under stress except the 7th,11th and 12th houses.THese 3 houses can bring harmony in your married life ,provided you change your nature and mentality.Peaceful and adjustable married life from the chart.say no to divorce and adjust with your husband for smooth future..Rest left to your decession.

joyd.

[AstroDrAnjna]

there is possibility of adjustments
sadesati can also be the cause of problem
native looks career oriented working with big mnc
she has past life connection with the husband
saturn being th lord also causing issues

[AstroGuru108]

Hi, Meena,

I suggest you pls introspect yourself, need to do some changes in your behavior and nature. In past 5 years your are affected by the Sadhesaati, it will continue for another 2 years more.
This marriage seems a bit difficult to patch up.
2nd marriage will only get successfull, if you improve in yourself.

Rgds
AstroGuru108

[Meena44]

Sir husband is insisting for divorce within few days.Actually mother in law was the one to create differences from beginning since marriage was fixed. She has advised husband that his first marriage is not going to work Pls let me know any remedies from my side . Also I thank u all for ur guidance.

[joyd]

If you insists on no divorce angle court cant issue it .contact me via moderators PM option to get the remedy for your problem..

joyd

[qwertyuiop]

its pune, maharastra?

where is poona?

[Lex]

Hi Meena...

Analyze chart through K.P. System of astrology...
Time of birth is very near to accurate... any chance you happened to be born in Army Hospital/ Cantonment in Pune ?

Analyzing your 7th cusp longitudinal depositions....
Not a love marriage
Your Dasa running now Shukra. Budha Bhukti


Divorce will happen... during 4th qtr 2019

Take care

[iseek]

I would like to ask you what is it that you wish? You have mentioned in the first post that your personal life is badly affected. Is your husband too dominant? Meaning he will do what he wishes and not discuss with you, just decide on his own? He sides too much on the mother side, too attached to her and influenced a lot by her?

In my view, divorce may happen, purely based from the husband's chart, especially with the dasa that is running now and coming up, coupled with the transits. Coupled that with your dasha and current dasha transits, chances are that there would be a divorce. If this dasha tides over and you are willing to adjust to the personality, the marriage will remain but I fear happiness from the marital life will always be missing.

[Meena44]

Sir , I should not resist divorce if it is going to happen?

[iseek]

You should do what you wish to always, but do think thoroughly. If you wish to remain in the marriage, you will have to adjust as already told by other eminents in the earlier posts. You haven't confirmed on the nature of challenges though.

[Meena44]

Sir , Any sane person will always try to save a marriage,but efforts cannnot be from one side always. Also I am unable to understand till date what kind of a person husband is ! Pls Can any of the leaned members on this forum analyse his chart ? Thank u.

[iseek]

I agree to that but at the same time if the diffucties are unbearable and with the kind of generation we are in, saving marriage is to be taken with a pinch of salt.

Learned members have already advised that you have to adjust. I had said a couple of things about your husband and asked for the nature of challenges that you two are facing. If it fits or not you can confirm on the same, it will help in analysing further.

Purely, looking at your husband's chart, he should be a family oriented person, steadfast, makes his own decisions, doesn't like to consult, at times comes out as dominant or aggressive too. Is his work related to IT industry?

Please let me know on this, I'll then be able to comment further.

[Meena44]

@issek..Sir .. Husband is steadfast , aggressive,also works in IT industry . Is influenced by his mother ,she was the one who had insisted ,adviced him to initiate divorce . I am ready to adjust but as I said earlier efforts cant be from one side. Also if divorce is destined as predicted by Lex will my efforts be of any use?

[iseek]

Adjustment here would be mostly one sided, he is not the kind of person who can adjust. Simha rashi, Sun in mesha and Mars in 4th house makes him a little higher side of arrogance and aggression, especially in matters of home.

Hence, the choice here honestly now lies on you. Yes, divorce is predicted, but if you are willing to adjust on this personality then it won't happen. However, with his attitude, it is highly possible that your rejection of divorce will only add to more difficulties in your relationship with him and this will just be a marriage for namesake with both people ending up staying seperately.

I empathise, do give a thorough thought, about everything, we do say a lot that there's destiny and there's freewill as well but a lot of times, what is in fate will always happen, the appearance may change but the suffering cannot be avoided. Do take care.

[Meena44]

@ iseek.. Thanks for the analysis and advise Sir.
@ Joyd ..I cannot send u a on the way u suggested Sir ,any other way ?

[kunsikaram]

Honestly i dont see a possibility of Divorce. Its not divorce horoscope in my view.

[Meena44]

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