Marriage should continue or terminate
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Girl
8/1/1986
6-45 am
Ranchi
Boy
26/7/1980
4-0 pm
Munger (bihar)
Date of marriage 3/12/2017
Girl is highly educated, belongs to a noble family and teaching from 12 years.
Boy completed 8th standard education, faced a lots of struggle and job changes during 25 years in career life. Lastly he worked in telecom sector but no regular work.
He was extravagant and fond of luxurious life. He used to spend all the money he earned in month and in last days of month, he took financial help from father.
In short of "No saving" inspite of 25 years work
Their marriage was arranged marriage.
Marriage was good in starting 3-4 months. His job was terminated then he became jobless.
He started to take money from his wife and in-laws. They found it's not good but hope for coming good future. They thought it's a matter of 1-2 months and finally all things will be good when he will join new job.
problems has started when her pregnancy was confirmed in family in 14 July 2018. Next day He announced he is going to take a bank loan of 2 lakhs ₹ for buying an e-ricksaw.
She opposed him for this decision and advised him to search and join new job in telecom sector But he was too much firmed on this decision.
Girl was too tensioned for their non-secure future life . She came to her mayke for her exams for 10-15 days along with her husband.
Shamelessly he took all financial help from in-law family and making quarrel. He threatened her to cut all connection from her family if she wants to live with him and shamelessly said that he will marry 10-15 times who will restrict him to do so. During these tensioned environment her BP was very high and abortion was happened on 6 aug.
Now she is too much tensioned for her future.
He never support her financially and due to extravagance he took all her saving and still depends on her.
Please suggest what she should do .
What's her coming future regarding marriage life and career?
8/1/1986
6-45 am
Ranchi
Boy
26/7/1980
4-0 pm
Munger (bihar)
Date of marriage 3/12/2017
Girl is highly educated, belongs to a noble family and teaching from 12 years.
Boy completed 8th standard education, faced a lots of struggle and job changes during 25 years in career life. Lastly he worked in telecom sector but no regular work.
He was extravagant and fond of luxurious life. He used to spend all the money he earned in month and in last days of month, he took financial help from father.
In short of "No saving" inspite of 25 years work
Their marriage was arranged marriage.
Marriage was good in starting 3-4 months. His job was terminated then he became jobless.
He started to take money from his wife and in-laws. They found it's not good but hope for coming good future. They thought it's a matter of 1-2 months and finally all things will be good when he will join new job.
problems has started when her pregnancy was confirmed in family in 14 July 2018. Next day He announced he is going to take a bank loan of 2 lakhs ₹ for buying an e-ricksaw.
She opposed him for this decision and advised him to search and join new job in telecom sector But he was too much firmed on this decision.
Girl was too tensioned for their non-secure future life . She came to her mayke for her exams for 10-15 days along with her husband.
Shamelessly he took all financial help from in-law family and making quarrel. He threatened her to cut all connection from her family if she wants to live with him and shamelessly said that he will marry 10-15 times who will restrict him to do so. During these tensioned environment her BP was very high and abortion was happened on 6 aug.
Now she is too much tensioned for her future.
He never support her financially and due to extravagance he took all her saving and still depends on her.
Please suggest what she should do .
What's her coming future regarding marriage life and career?
Re: Marriage should continue or terminate
Nishu the girl presently undergoing Saturn antar dasha in Venus main period! Venus isn't favorable for Dhanurlagna natives. I strongly suggest her to pray to Shiva-Parvati by performing Abhishekam to Shiva linga!
Coming to the boy's chart. 5th Lord posited in 10th house by displacing 6 houses, that is the main reason for an unstable job! The same is repeated in D-10 chart too! Though Venus is in Moolatrikona. Don't think of terminating relationship! It's not a good idea. Charts have a fair match.
Coming to the boy's chart. 5th Lord posited in 10th house by displacing 6 houses, that is the main reason for an unstable job! The same is repeated in D-10 chart too! Though Venus is in Moolatrikona. Don't think of terminating relationship! It's not a good idea. Charts have a fair match.
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Then what's her future scope ????
Will they always depend upon in-law family. If a person can't take responsibility of his own family , then when will mayke wale support them financially
Will they always depend upon in-law family. If a person can't take responsibility of his own family , then when will mayke wale support them financially
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I rectified the time of birth of girl as 7.00 am ,at present she is running sat antardasa till 2020 April .so she might be facing lot of misunderstanding unnecessary expenditure toothache tension etc she might be moody might be speaking harshily never allows injustice ,having good memory and might be facing problems at work front also .she should have lot of patience till antardasa of sat over
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why she chose a person who is not well educated, employed. It is a mismatch. Then he aborted her child and prevented her from meeting her family. This is too much. How can she live with him with such an attitude? She will not have any freedom. She is rather leave him.
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This is complete arranged marriage.
She is not aware of his illeteracy and job instability. After marriage all these things are revealed one by one. He took some kind of training in telecom sector and get job that's why his illeteracy in hidden.
She is not aware of his illeteracy and job instability. After marriage all these things are revealed one by one. He took some kind of training in telecom sector and get job that's why his illeteracy in hidden.
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Till 2020 lot of struggling is seen for her
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So what she should do ??? She has too much self respect, she can't survive on other's alms.
Should she simply wait till 2020 which is a very long time
Or,
Take some legal action against him for divorce
Or,
just hope for better life after 2020 and live with him on the loss of dignity and self respect and "no money on hand to survive ".
She resigned from her job for marriage and shifted in-law city. Now she is also searching for a job.
Should she simply wait till 2020 which is a very long time
Or,
Take some legal action against him for divorce
Or,
just hope for better life after 2020 and live with him on the loss of dignity and self respect and "no money on hand to survive ".
She resigned from her job for marriage and shifted in-law city. Now she is also searching for a job.
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I know it is arranged but she should have checked everything before since she is the sufferer. As far as I have seen, lot of male domination is seen in many of the family quarrels affecting the female especially in the north but in the south, there are equal number of females who ruin the family life and cause divorce ie for every one male, one female is there responsible.
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So what she should do ??? She has too much self respect, she can't survive on other's alms.
Should she simply wait till 2020 which is a very long time
Or,
Take some legal action against him for divorce
Or,
just hope for better life after 2020 and live with him on the loss of dignity and self respect having "no money on hand to survive ".
She resigned from her job for marriage and shifted in-law city. Now she is also searching for a job.
Should she simply wait till 2020 which is a very long time
Or,
Take some legal action against him for divorce
Or,
just hope for better life after 2020 and live with him on the loss of dignity and self respect having "no money on hand to survive ".
She resigned from her job for marriage and shifted in-law city. Now she is also searching for a job.
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She will get job shortly.but struggling is seen in her chart till 2020
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She should leave him I feel.
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Divorce is doubt
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but then her life will be hell.
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Then what she should do ???
It's not the state of just wait and watch or just being confused
Please rest of all members , I request you to kindly look on their chart and give your precious advice
Please
It's not the state of just wait and watch or just being confused
Please rest of all members , I request you to kindly look on their chart and give your precious advice
Please