Help needed Pls. Marriage on verge of divorce due to infidelity

[ssash]

Hello All.
I was married to my wife on March 17th 2013 and bought her to USA shortly.
Since then we are having problems and fights due to her picking fights for almost everything. She initiated fights for everything with me and my family. She would get angry even if i talk to my family. We were separated for 1 year from November 2014 to August 2015 where she left to India due to fight and got into illegal affair with a guy in India. I was in USA. Then she came back to USA in July 2016 to live with me after convincing.I did not know about her affair that time.
That time she continued affair with that guy after coming to USA to live with me and I found out with proof she has illegal affair .she continued cheating on me even after my warning. All of this cheating was accepted by her.
She left to India on March 2017 in hopes of trying with the guy she cheated on but i am not sure what is happening and till now we are separated and did not come back to me and we didn't talk about divorce too even though we have frequent quarrels over phone. She is in India now.

My birth details:
Male
Date of birth - February 25th 1980
Time of Birth - 1.23 AM
Place of birth - Chennai, Tamilnadu,India

My wife birth details:
Date of birth – May 19th 1983
Time of Birth -Not known
Place of birth – Chennai, Tamilnadu,India

Can you also please do BTR for my wife.
Important events:
1.)She Went abroad for work in 2011,2012
2.) we got married on March 17th march 2013 and came with me to USA
3.) Separated from me due to a fight about my parents and went to india and stayed in india from Nov 25th 2014 till aug 2015 (she started extra marital affair in this period) and returned to me to USA on August 2015 saying we will work out .
4.) Continued extra marital affair with the guy in india while with me in USA
5.)She got pregnant from me on November and natural miscarriage in 8 weeks on Dec 31st 2016
6.) Left to india again on March 10th 2017 in hopes of working out with that guy as mentioned by her(but i think it has not ended well with them now) but has not returned to me till now or initiated divorce

It would be really helpful to get inputs as i feel hopeless and confused on the next steps to do.I did not even share this to family/friends yet as i am ashamed.I am frustrated by the cheating repeated even after warnings from me. Reason she said for cheating was she needs more love and attention and that i am close to my parents. I want to get astrological advice.

My Question - I wanted to know if I will get divorce .I am feeling scared or weak on initiating a divorce . I am not sure why . Will i get strength to give divorce soon or will i get divorce from my wife or Will i be reunited with wife.. I wanted to know if divorce is present in my chart or in wife chart and .. if so when will we initiate divorce? if i get divorce, is there 2nd marriage for me. and also for her.

Please kindly give inputs. Sorry if i have typed so much.

[ssash]

Can someone give inputs on my situation

[Nora]

Hi

I'm not an expert or anything. Just learning and so below are only some observations I made

1. You have grahan yog in your chart. Anytime Sun is conjunction with Rahu or Ketu it's considered Inauspicios as it hides the light of the sun. You have sun with Ketu in 4thhouse that symbolises your family/ house. So, naturally there are some tensions.

2. Venus is placed in 5th house is kinda good it's in exalted state in Pisces forming malavya yog (panchamahapurusha yog) but Pisces is a dual sign and watery hence venus placed here can indicate separation or divorce. Your Venus receives aspects of Saturn and Mars which will cause troubles in marital life. In your Navamsa chart, Rahu is in 7th house (house lord Venus) so naturally it confirms marital troubles. Your 7th house in rasi chart (house lord Venus) receives no good aspects from any benefic planets.

3. Your 6th house in rasi chart (house of divorces legal proceedings etc) receives aspect from Jupiter. So, in a way this is good and can be in your favour if it goes that way...

4. 10th house you have jupiter Rahu (guru chandal yog).
And mars here too. This can be good for profession and you will get some riches, property, good position at work etc. But not good for personal things I guess.

5. Your moon is placed in 8th house again in dual signn(gemini) and 8th house is 2nd from 7th house which is seen for divorces etc. Moon here is not happy and it's not good for marital life. Also, moon is aspected by Saturn so it causes stress.

6. Your Navamsa 7th house has sun moon and Saturn and Saturn will definitely reduce the good effects of sun and moon and give stress. But good thing is it's aspected by Jupiter.


Overall, seems separation and stress from marital relationships is likely but like I said I'm not an expert on this forum. So, maybe wait for someone to respond further.

Your wife's horoscope you need exact birth time to predict. Sorry!

Kind regards

Nora

[Lex]

Hi Mate,

Sorry to hear about your spouse's extra-marital affairs. I am surprised, while with you in U.S., she was engaging affairs with another guy in India? She acknowledged her affairs.

You have very interesting horoscope.
I see chart through K.P.System of astrology.
Your time of birth is correct.

You said, there was miscarriage happened to her, I looked upon in your chart, I am sorry to say, Progeny blessing is denied in your chart.

Let me see, is there any divorce in your chart?
Analyzing your 7th cusp tells me.. You will go for divorce

Lets see when it is happening?
You are running Shani Dasa- Shani Bhukti- Guru Antara
Legally separation seen at the end of year 2022

Do you have more than one marriage?
Nope. Sorry to say.

[ADC]

My wife birth details:
Date of birth – May 19th 1983
Time of Birth -Not known
Place of birth – Chennai, Tamilnadu,India

Without the time of birth it is very difficult as n number of permutation and combination are possible. BTR is possible with some T.O.B given as reference point.

[ssash]

@nora - Thanks for the analysis. I have another question below for general analysis.

@Lex - Hello thanks for the analysis.
Yes she continued affair thru chat/phone/video even when staying with me. And thats how i found about it . And she accepted that and i also had a talk with that guy after finding out and he said he didn't know she was married. But even after my warnings to him, both continued.

Question :
Also Is divorce confirm in my chart? or is there chances this marriage could be saved, if so when will separation end? I am running my saturn maha dasha and mercury antardash is starting on August 9th i believe. Will the separation continue or chances to join in this period? I have saturn in 11th house which is the house of mercury. How does that look like. Or does the separation continue until 2022 and end in divorce?

I am not aware of her tob. But i just checked with putting random time online and saw her birth chart. I saw that Rahu+Venus conjunction in any house was present no matter what tob i gave. I researched and found that this combo can make the person to cheat. Is that true? Also sun+mars combo which makes one very arrogant. Can a general time like 5am given and judged to get a general overall idea of her chart even though not exact details might be known .

@adc - Her Nakshatra-Magha ,Rasi-Simha so tob will be between 12.20 PM to 11.59 PM.

If progeny is denied for me, Is there possibility to be blessed with child if there is child yoga in wife's chart?

[Nora]

Hi

Random time I don't think works in astrology. Yes, venus and Rahu makes one cheat but depends which house aspected by whom etc. Venus Rahu can also make one very rich I think. So, same combination gives totally different meaning when we apply different timing.

The chart looks like either it can lead to permanent separation without divorce or a divorce and even if staying with the spouse then not a happy married life. Whichever way you look at it.

Yes if the spouse has possibility of a child then even if husband has no child possibility in his horoscope, they can still have a kid. It's only when both husband wife have strong indications of no kid in their charts that they are without kids.

Saturn Mahadasha and Mercury Antar does not mean that things will get better because Mercury is sandwiched between sun and ketu. An eclipse is happening and the smallest planet in our solar system is trapped between the two and that too in the 4th house of home/family.

Mercury in fact can kindle love affairs when it comes under malefic influence, which in this case how good or bad is to be judged by the native only.

You said most of the affairs happened by internet. Rahu in 7th house Navamsa in house of Venus. Rahu represents tenchnoligy/internet etc.

Kind regards
Nora

[ssash]

Thanks Nora ji for the clear response.
You said mercury can kindle love affairs . Is that for me or my wife?
Also can u point about remarriage. Will there be a remarriage if things end in 1st marriage. If not, Am I destined to be alone or separated rest of my life and live a sanyasi?. If i have no remarriage, i would like to know the astrological reason behind that as I'm learning about my own chart too.

I seem to be very bad in making decisions and taking actions. These many yrs ,I am not getting strength to do divorce even though im unhappy with my wife and confused/fearful about it. One day I strongly feel i want to divorce. Next day i feel i dont want to .I'm having fluctuating thoughts and indecisive nature .. Does that have to do something with my moon in 8th house.. or what puts one to such a indecisive nature..

[ssash]

Lex,

Posting this again as i did not directly reply to your comment.

Yes she continued affair thru chat/phone/video even when staying with me. And thats how i found about it . And she accepted that and i also had a talk with that guy after finding out and he said he didn't know she was married. But even after my warnings to him, both continued.

Question :
You said - Analyzing your 7th cusp tells me.. You will go for divorce
Can you mention little more astrologically abt what was wrong in 7th cusp u mentioned above as i am trying to understand the astrological reasons about my own chart. Also Is divorce very inevitable in my chart? or is there chances this marriage could be saved, if so when will separation end? I am running my saturn maha dasha and mercury antardash is starting on August 9th i believe. Will the separation continue or chances to join in this period? I have saturn in 11th house which is the house of mercury. How does that look like. Or does the separation continue until 2022 and end in divorce?

If no remarriage, am i destined to live alone in life divorced or even with first marriage but only separated?
Wanted to know the astrological planet/reason behind why no remarriage.
Also i feel at times i dont want to divorce and sometimes i want to divorce even though im unhappy with my marriage. I am frustrated with my indecisive nature and fluctuating mind .Is that something to do with my moon in 8th house which makes my mind unstable and indecisive? if so,when will i overcome it

[ssash]

Nora ji.. I have replied you above. With some query

[Nora]

Hi Ss

Well yes 8th house is the house of sudden death, occult learning etc. You have moon which is perhaps the most delicate planet out there in terms of navagrahas. It's also aspected by Saturn. Now, again, I'm not an expert like others in this forum but whenever saturn aspects moon it creates a kind of a strange situation, sanyasi kind of mindset but not able to let go of the worldly life either.

But your indecisiveness is not only due to the placement of moon...it's also Mercury caught up in an eclipse. Mercury is for logical thinking and reasoning and day to day decision-making and intelligence etc.

I think you could benefit from chanting Hanuman chalisa daily because that will give you a steady mind. Pray to Hanumanji. For moon you could also pray to Lord Vishnu go to Tirupati.

Regarding second marriage, I'm not so sure. Perhaps other experts can guide you better. But Mercury and Venus placements tells me somehow that you might end up meeting someone. However, not sure if it'll materialise into marriage. So, love may be possible without marriage.

For grahan yog you could donate money to someone who is blind who needs eyes. When they get eyesight, your grahan yog will get less malefic. Someone told me this remedy long ago. Also, chant Gayatri mantra several times a day to get the blessings of the sun and chant Ketu's Mantra so that it reduces its grip on the sun.

Kind regards

Nora

[Lex]

Lex,
Posting this again as i did not directly reply to your comment.

Question :
You said - Analyzing your 7th cusp tells me.. You will go for divorce
Can you mention little more astrologically abt what was wrong in 7th cusp u mentioned above as i am trying to understand the astrological reasons about my own chart. Also Is divorce very inevitable in my chart? or is there chances this marriage could be saved, if so when will separation end? I am running my saturn maha dasha and mercury antardash is starting on August 9th i believe. Will the separation continue or chances to join in this period? I have saturn in 11th house which is the house of mercury. How does that look like. Or does the separation continue until 2022 and end in divorce?

[/quote]

You have a right to know about the reason
Unlike Traditional astrology, K.P.System of astrology, doesn't deal with yoga and dosha etc.
Only Our Sages can interpret such yogas and predict with more than 100% perfection, they have blessed by Almighty.

As a human, we have to invent a system of which can give successful predictions to the tune of 95 % to 98%, just like Humans scientifically invented Allopathic branch of medicine ( from Ayurveda) with precise techniques of mode of action, efficacy, side-effects, adverse-effects etc

Your 7th cusp longitudinal depositions in Rishabham in Mrigasirsa nk and in sub of Rahu, general characteristics of person ( as this Lagna your 7th cusp, incidentally your wife).. bad manners and resort in aggressive/ rough tactics.

This Rahu in your chart in 10th nirayana rasi but in 9th bhava. Rahu doesn't own any sign in Zodiac chart. Rahu is a Chaya graha

In your Chart, Rahu represents Kuja, Guru,Ravi, Budha and Ketu, and while Ketu represents Kuja, Guru,Ravi, Budha and Shani


In your chart, Guru and Kuja in rapt conjunction, joint results of Bhavas... i.e. lagna, 2nd, 5th, 6th,.

March 2013... you got married... Guru dasa- Rahu bhukti.... gave you marriage


She left you you said March 2017 ( I am taking the 2nd time she desrted you).. Shani dasa SShani Bhukti Ravi period
Shani in 11th in nirayana rasi but in 10th bhava, and in Uttaraphalguni nk
Ravi is 10th cusp lord in 4th nirayana rasi but in 3rd bhava
Your Chart,these in and out of your spouse is Orchestrated and amplified by Rahu- Ketu ( Chaya grahas)

When periods of 6th and 10th Operates ( in newly married life or even marital status folks... challenging situation for couple... Seperation/ Divorce happens, should be connected to dasa period)

Your Shani in litigation sign of normal zodiac and goes to Simha house, which is Karma bhava
Shani is in Uttaraphalguni nk and in sub of Guru
( I told earlier Guru and Kuja in rapt conjunction.. 1, 2,5, 6, 9,3 bhavas results )

Your 7th cusp. Rahu relation with ts sign lord and aswell aspect on Rahu is very adverse
Your Budha, 11th cusp lord with respect to 7th cusp.. spouse/ opposite person interaction is very adverse
Unless 11th cusp gels with 7th cusp... legitimate(2nd) asset cannot be formed

Ketu represents Shani, Shani in litigation sign... Shani aspects natural karaka of Justice Shukra in your Chart, Ketu is karaka for Govt, Lawyer etc and gets aspect from Guru, another Dharma karaka

Till Budha Bhukti gets over In Shani Dasa... you folks will be seperated... Ketu Bhukti... as I said earlier.

In you Chart, 7th cusp longituinal depsoitions... doesn't contribute to a pluralities ( Plurality) sign... and 2nd cup longituinal depsoitions and 2nd bhava significators not related to 7th cusp/bhava
... More than one marriage is not promised.

[vedam33]

I casted the chart and as sixth lord is in tenth house it is love marriage and against the wishes of parents moon in scorpio speaks very harshily .sat aspecting Venus sat aspecting luminaries . happiness of marriage gone .native might be very adamant .at present mercury antardasa running so chances of divorce more during the current antardasa

[ssash]

Thanks Vedam. can you say about remarraige prospects for me.

[ssash]

Thanks Lex and Nora for the analysis

[ssash]

Any other learned members who can provide analysis for my situation?

[AstroDrAnjna]

you should control your anger and listen to your wife also otherwise divorce is there

[Racing]

I'll start by saying that Astrology isn't about fate entirely; it's also about free will.

So, it all depends on what you want and what your wife wants. Your dashas are not good at the moment for relationships.

There is a chance of union with a woman but that's only after 2021/2022.

Until the end of 2020, I'd suggest you stay away from any new relationship or even if you and your wife could focus on each other's individual lives, without quarreling with one another or making each other miserable, it would be good.

Your dharma right now is to focus on your work and your karma. Offer argha to sun every morning and fast on Thursdays. And you need to be devoted to Adi Parashakti's Katyayani form to have a good life yourself and the prospect of a good married life.

[FortuneTeller]

Hi, you have an interesting chart.
Your birth details are accurate.
Your chart reflects strong separation mindset - you yourself have separation tendencies - not your wife as much...
..that might be a reason that you may not get divorce.
Quarrels, doubts, suspicion and negation of romance also affecting family bliss and desires.
At least your chart doesn't show progeny.
Second marriage, if at all, will be unsuccessful.