Hi All,
I am almost given up on my life, my husband had relationships after marriage.
I want to know if a divorce is possible. Its been quite a few times i have forgiven him, but this time i don't want too. Its been almost 8 years we don't have any kid too.
My details are :-
13.03.1984
time :- 10:35 AM
Ganganagar Rajasthan
His details are :-
17.11.1984
Time :- 10:30 PM ( 22:30)
Ajmer Rajasthan
Date of marriage is 28/11/2010
Cold anyone show me some light on what do i have in my life further or its gonna be a hell with him like this
Thanks in advance.
Infidelity of husband will i get a divorce
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vedicmaths
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hello preeti,
will he contest the divorce ? or will he give his agreement ?
It your apply, you may get after nov 2019..
truly yours,
vedicmaths
will he contest the divorce ? or will he give his agreement ?
It your apply, you may get after nov 2019..
truly yours,
vedicmaths
@vedicmaths
Thanks for your reply.
He will agree to divorce.
The problem is for me, I am not sure will i be able to get married again or not.
When the 1st time things happen like this i was scared and didn't take action on it.
But i want to take an action i cant live like this.
Thanks for your reply.
He will agree to divorce.
The problem is for me, I am not sure will i be able to get married again or not.
When the 1st time things happen like this i was scared and didn't take action on it.
But i want to take an action i cant live like this.
Hey Preeti,preeti_ wrote: 03 Jul 2018 Hi All,
I am almost given up on my life, my husband had relationships after marriage.
I want to know if a divorce is possible. Its been almost 8 years we don't have any kid too.
Cold anyone show me some light on what do i have in my life further or its gonna be a hell with him like this
Thanks in advance.
I use K.P.System to decipher the chart, when I looked up at your lagna sputa cusp... you look very graceful, and cheerful/zeal. You are fair too with prominent features.
You had love marriage.
In your chart, Divorce is seen, Rahu Bhukti is on. Guru/Shani Bhukti.. around could be April/ May 2020
Apparently, your chart shows more than one marriage, but I am sorry to say, more than one marriage is not written in your chart.
Take care.
With the time given your husband lagna is cancer . marriage occurred during jup antardasa who is sixth lord so happiness from marriage is less .jup is with Venus which is good but that combination is aspected by sat maleficallly .so spoiled .with outside appearance he looks soft and humble .in his chart sixth lord jup aspecting second house so multiple relationship or marriage seen.But with blessings means if he seeks or follows elders advice marriage can have sustainability but will he follow elders advice
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AstroDrAnjna
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divorce indicated, infidelity of husband also
more than one marriage indicated in your chart
more than one marriage indicated in your chart
Thanx
Hello Lex,
Thanks for replying.
Cheerful yes, but i am not fair not with any prominent features.
I could not understand your last few words, you mean i have a divorce seen in my chart but i don't have a another marriage. So no 2nd marriage is what you mean ?
Thanks
Thanks for replying.
Cheerful yes, but i am not fair not with any prominent features.
I could not understand your last few words, you mean i have a divorce seen in my chart but i don't have a another marriage. So no 2nd marriage is what you mean ?
Thanks
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Thank you so much to hear from you mam. I respect you a lot.
Is the infidelity indicated from my chart or did you happen to see my husband's chart also.
Could you also please share when will be divorce fulfilled. I am totally tired of this.
Thanks Mam
Is the infidelity indicated from my chart or did you happen to see my husband's chart also.
Could you also please share when will be divorce fulfilled. I am totally tired of this.
Thanks Mam
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utkarshshekhar
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Hey Preeti,
The obtained point of Bhakoot in the Guna milan is "0"..Between you and your Husband..That means there is no love in the relationship..The Mercury-Jupitar time : 26/12/18 - 02/04/21..In this period you will file for divorce..Your Alimony will get confirmed and your gains from this relationship..Since Jupitar in its own sign in 8th house of other's money..Its quite stressful time but will be positive in terms of inheritance..But Mercury-Saturn time : 02/04/21 - 11/12/23..You will get divorce..Since Saturn in 6th house exalted leading to victory in legal cases..But the time after divorce is not good for 7 years during Ketu Mahadasha..By looking at your husband chart..He also wants to get separated.. His Rahu mahadasha has started and Rahu is good for him..Related to his dreams and hopes and wishes..He wants divorce..His moon chart shows its time that he is involved somewhere else..8 house is strong in both of your charts and 8th house is the house of hidden relationships..Om Namo Bhgwate Rudraye..
Take Care
The obtained point of Bhakoot in the Guna milan is "0"..Between you and your Husband..That means there is no love in the relationship..The Mercury-Jupitar time : 26/12/18 - 02/04/21..In this period you will file for divorce..Your Alimony will get confirmed and your gains from this relationship..Since Jupitar in its own sign in 8th house of other's money..Its quite stressful time but will be positive in terms of inheritance..But Mercury-Saturn time : 02/04/21 - 11/12/23..You will get divorce..Since Saturn in 6th house exalted leading to victory in legal cases..But the time after divorce is not good for 7 years during Ketu Mahadasha..By looking at your husband chart..He also wants to get separated.. His Rahu mahadasha has started and Rahu is good for him..Related to his dreams and hopes and wishes..He wants divorce..His moon chart shows its time that he is involved somewhere else..8 house is strong in both of your charts and 8th house is the house of hidden relationships..Om Namo Bhgwate Rudraye..
Take Care
Divorce is indicated from both the charts was yours love marriage .feed back is appreciated on my analysis
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Hi preeti
Infidelity and lies suck big time. Hope you come out of this mess! I'm not an expert as others in this forum so my two cents are just from an observer point of view not an expert point of view but I had a look at both your charts and observed somethings:
In Husnand's chart
1. 7th lord (venus) is in 6th house of conflicts and legal matters, conjoined with Jupiter (lord of 6th) and this combination is aspecter by Saturn so it shows that there will be separation. Also, Shani has good shadbala.
2. Seven planets are in 5 raasis so this person is unreliable, liar as his character got affected due to such placements.
3. Grahan of Sun by Ketu and Kuja dosha confirms problem in his character as well as his role as a good spouse.
In your chart:
1. Rahu is in ascendant and ketu is in 7th house with mars hence its natural to have troubles in married life and mental stress. Also, kuja dosha noticed.
2. Saturn is in 6th house of conflicts and legal matters looking at the 12th house of loss. In Navamsa, the 12th house has saturn which becomes the ascendant there. In Rasi chart, saturn looks st 10th house which has moon so again gives mental stress. Plus cancerian moon will make you extremely fragile and emotional, which may also impact on your career. So, accept reality and let go. Pray to god and meditate to get relief.
3. In 8th house Jupiter is not good to have. He is 6th from moon forming an inauspicious yog giving marital troubles) but he is in his own house. So, if you pray to any God who you consider to be your Guru then you'll get better relief.
Also pray to Hanuman to tackle Rahu and Shani.
Kind regards
Nora
Infidelity and lies suck big time. Hope you come out of this mess! I'm not an expert as others in this forum so my two cents are just from an observer point of view not an expert point of view but I had a look at both your charts and observed somethings:
In Husnand's chart
1. 7th lord (venus) is in 6th house of conflicts and legal matters, conjoined with Jupiter (lord of 6th) and this combination is aspecter by Saturn so it shows that there will be separation. Also, Shani has good shadbala.
2. Seven planets are in 5 raasis so this person is unreliable, liar as his character got affected due to such placements.
3. Grahan of Sun by Ketu and Kuja dosha confirms problem in his character as well as his role as a good spouse.
In your chart:
1. Rahu is in ascendant and ketu is in 7th house with mars hence its natural to have troubles in married life and mental stress. Also, kuja dosha noticed.
2. Saturn is in 6th house of conflicts and legal matters looking at the 12th house of loss. In Navamsa, the 12th house has saturn which becomes the ascendant there. In Rasi chart, saturn looks st 10th house which has moon so again gives mental stress. Plus cancerian moon will make you extremely fragile and emotional, which may also impact on your career. So, accept reality and let go. Pray to god and meditate to get relief.
3. In 8th house Jupiter is not good to have. He is 6th from moon forming an inauspicious yog giving marital troubles) but he is in his own house. So, if you pray to any God who you consider to be your Guru then you'll get better relief.
Also pray to Hanuman to tackle Rahu and Shani.
Kind regards
Nora
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FortuneTeller
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Hi Preeti,
Your husband has a propensity of leaving.
Divorce seems likely now but..
Situation will get favorable from November 2023.
Regarding matters of child birth - lot of precautions are required...abortion/miscarriage indicated.
No second marriage on your chart.
Second marriage in your husband's chart but it's likely to fade out into a loveless one.
Your husband has a propensity of leaving.
Divorce seems likely now but..
Situation will get favorable from November 2023.
Regarding matters of child birth - lot of precautions are required...abortion/miscarriage indicated.
No second marriage on your chart.
Second marriage in your husband's chart but it's likely to fade out into a loveless one.
preeti_ wrote: 03 Jul 2018 Hello Lex,
Thanks for replying.
Cheerful yes, but i am not fair not with any prominent features.
I could not understand your last few words, you mean i have a divorce seen in my chart but i don't have a another marriage. So no 2nd marriage is what you mean ?
Thanks
As you had enquired ,you have a divorce,and also, you don't have a second marriage in your life journey.
Take care.
@Lex Thank you for clarifying it for me, appreciate your time.
@FortuneTeller Thanks for looking into the charts, I have to wait this long to get out this mess.
@Nora Thank you for spending your time and typing it all there for me. I will act upon things you have suggested. But then i think whats the point of it if its destined.
@vedam33 I am sorry i could not reply back to you. Thank you so much for spending your time. Yes it was a love marriage Sir.
@utkarshshekhar Indeed there is no love in marriage. Thank you for looking into the charts.
I realize that the mistake of not doing kundli millan before marriage.
@FortuneTeller Thanks for looking into the charts, I have to wait this long to get out this mess.
@Nora Thank you for spending your time and typing it all there for me. I will act upon things you have suggested. But then i think whats the point of it if its destined.
@vedam33 I am sorry i could not reply back to you. Thank you so much for spending your time. Yes it was a love marriage Sir.
@utkarshshekhar Indeed there is no love in marriage. Thank you for looking into the charts.
I realize that the mistake of not doing kundli millan before marriage.
Dear Preeti
A few things how I interpret the msg of others...1. Period from 2023 may be favourable but it doesn't mean you'll come out of the mess only then...recovery is a process and what this means is that by 2023 you may have healed 100% but it doesn't mean 2018 you won't feel the recovery..time heals everyone and this process will make you come out as a new person and thinking towards life...so, don't frown that it seems like another 5 years..
2. About my points of prayers etc...what you are saying "what's the point if it's already destined" is invalid. Anything spiritual that you do is not fully part of destiny, whereas almost all materialistic things are...for example, a person's spiritual pursuit can only be deciphered to some extent by looking at his or her chart...by looking at position of Jupiter in the chart etc...but it goes beyond the chart and many times it's unpredictable...whereas all materialistic things can be predicted easily by looking at someone's chart...so, prayers and meditation are not part of destiny but it is to change destiny and finally to get rid of your so called destiny or karma (karma is the basis of destiny) so that you are ultimately liberated.
3. If your destiny had to cause you a certain suffering in life then no matter what others tells you you won't listen to them. For example, if someone had told you 10 years ago, follow astrology and make sure you check kundali before you marry someone even if it's love marriage..would you have done it? No! Because, your destiny had to bring you here to cleanse you out of your karma...even if you had checked kundalis before your marriage, perhaps things would've gone wrong in other ways to cleanse your karma...
So, we can regret for pretty much everything in life (even I can regret my birth) but we have to break this cycle of illusion and guilt trips. That's the purpose of life.
The role of your husband or anyone in your family or friend circle or whom you meet at work etc is only to cleanse your karma...your husband's role is over here...
Objectively, we may say what he did is not right but spiritually, he didn't bring an easy chart and neither did you (like 99% of beings on this planet) and that could be due to any past life event that you owe to him or him owing to you...
Spiritually you can be glad that your karma are getting less and less with every misery you face. Provided you don't end up accumulating any new karma, that's why I told you prayers and internal cleansing is a must each day.
Kind regards
Nora
A few things how I interpret the msg of others...1. Period from 2023 may be favourable but it doesn't mean you'll come out of the mess only then...recovery is a process and what this means is that by 2023 you may have healed 100% but it doesn't mean 2018 you won't feel the recovery..time heals everyone and this process will make you come out as a new person and thinking towards life...so, don't frown that it seems like another 5 years..
2. About my points of prayers etc...what you are saying "what's the point if it's already destined" is invalid. Anything spiritual that you do is not fully part of destiny, whereas almost all materialistic things are...for example, a person's spiritual pursuit can only be deciphered to some extent by looking at his or her chart...by looking at position of Jupiter in the chart etc...but it goes beyond the chart and many times it's unpredictable...whereas all materialistic things can be predicted easily by looking at someone's chart...so, prayers and meditation are not part of destiny but it is to change destiny and finally to get rid of your so called destiny or karma (karma is the basis of destiny) so that you are ultimately liberated.
3. If your destiny had to cause you a certain suffering in life then no matter what others tells you you won't listen to them. For example, if someone had told you 10 years ago, follow astrology and make sure you check kundali before you marry someone even if it's love marriage..would you have done it? No! Because, your destiny had to bring you here to cleanse you out of your karma...even if you had checked kundalis before your marriage, perhaps things would've gone wrong in other ways to cleanse your karma...
So, we can regret for pretty much everything in life (even I can regret my birth) but we have to break this cycle of illusion and guilt trips. That's the purpose of life.
The role of your husband or anyone in your family or friend circle or whom you meet at work etc is only to cleanse your karma...your husband's role is over here...
Objectively, we may say what he did is not right but spiritually, he didn't bring an easy chart and neither did you (like 99% of beings on this planet) and that could be due to any past life event that you owe to him or him owing to you...
Spiritually you can be glad that your karma are getting less and less with every misery you face. Provided you don't end up accumulating any new karma, that's why I told you prayers and internal cleansing is a must each day.
Kind regards
Nora
I am sorry to hear your ordeal. Hopefully, this time shall pass too!
You said you had a love marriage and then actually, there wasn't any love once married.
Was your father more like a mother to you? I think your spouse is kind of womanizer , aggressive personality (in terms of impressing other people). I believe, you fell for him because you show in him traits that you considered manly!
You said you had a love marriage and then actually, there wasn't any love once married.
Was your father more like a mother to you? I think your spouse is kind of womanizer , aggressive personality (in terms of impressing other people). I believe, you fell for him because you show in him traits that you considered manly!
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FortuneTeller
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Hi again Preeti,
I hope you understood what I meant in my earlier post.
I meant that if you seek a divorce now (till November 2023) - you're likely to get it.
However, if you don't go for a divorce now, from November 2023, the present problems will simmer down and reduce..the situation might be better..and hence you may continue with your marriage then.
I hope you understood what I meant in my earlier post.
I meant that if you seek a divorce now (till November 2023) - you're likely to get it.
However, if you don't go for a divorce now, from November 2023, the present problems will simmer down and reduce..the situation might be better..and hence you may continue with your marriage then.
Hello Nora,
I believe in what you have shared and said, from past 2 years that's where i am spending all my energy into.
Work and meditation is Major part of my time.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Hello Supernova,
Yeah, you are correct my father is more than anything to me. He is close to me.
Well i can say love was there for about an year and then it started deteriorating.
My husband is aggressive at times yes and being a "womanizer " !! All i can say is yeah, did you see that from his chart ?
Preeti
I believe in what you have shared and said, from past 2 years that's where i am spending all my energy into.
Work and meditation is Major part of my time.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Hello Supernova,
Yeah, you are correct my father is more than anything to me. He is close to me.
Well i can say love was there for about an year and then it started deteriorating.
My husband is aggressive at times yes and being a "womanizer " !! All i can say is yeah, did you see that from his chart ?
Preeti
Thanks for the feed back blessings are seen in the chart means if they follow the advice of elders means families of both sides then marriage sustainability is seen .As seen from the chart both are adamant in Nature .will they follow the advice of elders is my doubt
@ Preeti Madam
Thank you for the feedback. Helps me to verify my analysis and find mistakes.
You and your husband both have Mars in 7th house denoting aggressiveness. However, his 5th Lord Mars is in 7th hence, indicating love marriage. Yes, womanizer attitude could be seen from his chart, debilitated Venus in 6th. May be too personal but I believe he is Kinky if you understand what I mean!
I think his mother was a stern personality or was absent in his life and probably he did not receive motherly care hence, I believe, he is pyschologically compensating it for trying to find same in other women. Additionally, his father could have been aggressive personality as well. Overall, he probably did not have a happy home which makes him to find solace elsewhere.
I am not yet proficient in Jyotisham hence doesn't know if things will get better or worse. Since I don't know these aspects, will prefer to keep quite!
I am sorry if anything above offends you, I only interpreted what charts showed!
Good Luck. I wish things will work out for you.
Thank you for the feedback. Helps me to verify my analysis and find mistakes.
You and your husband both have Mars in 7th house denoting aggressiveness. However, his 5th Lord Mars is in 7th hence, indicating love marriage. Yes, womanizer attitude could be seen from his chart, debilitated Venus in 6th. May be too personal but I believe he is Kinky if you understand what I mean!
I think his mother was a stern personality or was absent in his life and probably he did not receive motherly care hence, I believe, he is pyschologically compensating it for trying to find same in other women. Additionally, his father could have been aggressive personality as well. Overall, he probably did not have a happy home which makes him to find solace elsewhere.
I am not yet proficient in Jyotisham hence doesn't know if things will get better or worse. Since I don't know these aspects, will prefer to keep quite!
I am sorry if anything above offends you, I only interpreted what charts showed!
Good Luck. I wish things will work out for you.
