My birth date : 01-Oct-1980, 10:42 am
My Husband birth date : 10-Sep-1980 - 10:45 am
i am married since 6 years with no kid so far (my hubby has sperm count problem), had undergone many treatments
We always have fight and we don't have healthy relationship, and recently
i have come to know my husband is going to call girls,and is over friendly with other girls.
My husband blamed me for the same and is not guilty.
I think i cannot proceed further with this relationship, please guide me to decide should i get legally separated or is their any hope in this relationship? Also, why is this happening with me?
please help me.
When relationship will improve or divorce
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AstroDrAnjna
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some place must be there where u both were born
Thanx
Where did you born in Pune specify the area, like Sadashiv peth, Gymkhana, khed, Saswad, Talegaon or Pimpri etc
(phakt tumcha puneyala Janma jute Kala, mala detail pahijet. Bharga.)
You guys never had healthy relationship. why
I am analyzing your 7th cusp... tells me pointing to 12th bhava, 8th and minuscule 11th bhava... happiness missing inmarital relation
No kids so far, after marriage, why
Analyzing your 5th cusp... tells me connected to Ketu ( representing Kuja, Guru, Shani), but 5th lord in 10th bhava, that too Simha
Shani dasa is on, Shani also in 10th bhava
Late blessings of Progeny with medical intervention... year 2021 or even before that around mid of 2020
Take care, he is having intimate relationships with other sex workers... Run him periodically HIV test and you also too. Check with your doctor
You will be separated with him till 2nd quarter of 2019. There is no legal divorce happening
I am analyzing your 7th cusp... tells me pointing to 12th bhava, 8th and minuscule 11th bhava... happiness missing inmarital relation
No kids so far, after marriage, why
Analyzing your 5th cusp... tells me connected to Ketu ( representing Kuja, Guru, Shani), but 5th lord in 10th bhava, that too Simha
Shani dasa is on, Shani also in 10th bhava
Late blessings of Progeny with medical intervention... year 2021 or even before that around mid of 2020
Take care, he is having intimate relationships with other sex workers... Run him periodically HIV test and you also too. Check with your doctor
You will be separated with him till 2nd quarter of 2019. There is no legal divorce happening
As suggested earlier we will be separated till 2nd quarter of 2019, can you please let me know till that time how are relationship will survive as now only its on stake. In India society does not encourage girls to stay alone and secondly is there any onsite (out of India) for my work, atleast that will help to kill time or change of mind. please suggest any suggestions for the same.
Hi gurus
My birth Date: 01/Oct/1980, 10:42 am Chinchwad, Pune, Maharashtra
Husband birth date: 10/Sep/1980, 10:45 am Ahmednagar, Maharashtra
Marriage date: 12/Feb/2012
I am unable to get along with my in-laws, because of that my relationship with husband is not good. Few of elders have suggested to separate out from his parents for few days and give a try for the relationship. But he is not ready to separate out from his parents. Even we have looked a apartment nearby to his parents apartment and it was in same society, but he has backed out.
Will he be ready to separate out ?
As he is not ready to separate out, now we have decided i will be moving out of my parents house(i was staying in my parents house from past 6 months) to another apartment nearby to my parents house, should i break up with him and go for divorce or he will agree to stay separate from his parents and will our relationship will be good after that or divorce is there?
Please help, thanks a lot in advance.
My birth Date: 01/Oct/1980, 10:42 am Chinchwad, Pune, Maharashtra
Husband birth date: 10/Sep/1980, 10:45 am Ahmednagar, Maharashtra
Marriage date: 12/Feb/2012
I am unable to get along with my in-laws, because of that my relationship with husband is not good. Few of elders have suggested to separate out from his parents for few days and give a try for the relationship. But he is not ready to separate out from his parents. Even we have looked a apartment nearby to his parents apartment and it was in same society, but he has backed out.
Will he be ready to separate out ?
As he is not ready to separate out, now we have decided i will be moving out of my parents house(i was staying in my parents house from past 6 months) to another apartment nearby to my parents house, should i break up with him and go for divorce or he will agree to stay separate from his parents and will our relationship will be good after that or divorce is there?
Please help, thanks a lot in advance.
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Chandrashekar08
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Hello Kim!
I worked on a Prashna chart considering the time and date you posted the question.
Lagna- Pisces
Bhadhaka house - Virgo (Sun and Moon posited)
8th house - Libra ( Jupiter, Venus and Mercury)
6th and 12 are empty.
What do I consider for the analysis ?
Bhadhaka house, Dustanas, Mandi and a lot of other combinations of planets depending on the chart.
What is the analysis of your prashna chart?
- Lord of 5th (Suka stana) and lord of 6th (Kalaha stana) have moved to 7th house marriage. This shows a dispute and unhappiness out of the union.
Lack of peace of mind is confirmed by the aspect of Mars on 5th and 6th House from 11th house Capricorn.
7th house Virgo- is a badhaka house for Pieces. What is causing badha is Pitru shapa and Matru shapa.
8th house- the lagna lord Jupiter has moved to 8th house which says "Swayam kruta Aparada".
Mercury- Being the 4th lord and 7th lord (Badha lord) has. Moved to 8th house( which is for depression, defame, delay, dissatisfaction and defeat).
It's shows "Dharma daiva badha", this appears on the chart to remind the queriest that he/she is not worshiping the Grama devata or Isata devata which is a form of Vishnu.
Venus and Jupiter- in 8th shows Stree and Bramahan shapa respectively.
With this chart on mind, I would not say you would get a divorce.
At the same time, I would like to recommend some remedies to fix things up and get the union back again.
Remedies
Tila homa for Pitru and Matru shapa.
Feed Bhramanas at the time of Tila homa and take their blessings to ward off Brahman shapa.
For Dharma deiva badha- you need to visit your Kula devata or Gram devata which is not being worshipped by you. Perform Pooja at the temple and take blessings.
For Stree shapa- Durga Deepa namaskar or Durga home would be the best remedy.
If you would complete all of these remedies with devotion, your family life will be back on track.
All the best and wish your problems or indifferences get resolved.
I worked on a Prashna chart considering the time and date you posted the question.
Lagna- Pisces
Bhadhaka house - Virgo (Sun and Moon posited)
8th house - Libra ( Jupiter, Venus and Mercury)
6th and 12 are empty.
What do I consider for the analysis ?
Bhadhaka house, Dustanas, Mandi and a lot of other combinations of planets depending on the chart.
What is the analysis of your prashna chart?
- Lord of 5th (Suka stana) and lord of 6th (Kalaha stana) have moved to 7th house marriage. This shows a dispute and unhappiness out of the union.
Lack of peace of mind is confirmed by the aspect of Mars on 5th and 6th House from 11th house Capricorn.
7th house Virgo- is a badhaka house for Pieces. What is causing badha is Pitru shapa and Matru shapa.
8th house- the lagna lord Jupiter has moved to 8th house which says "Swayam kruta Aparada".
Mercury- Being the 4th lord and 7th lord (Badha lord) has. Moved to 8th house( which is for depression, defame, delay, dissatisfaction and defeat).
It's shows "Dharma daiva badha", this appears on the chart to remind the queriest that he/she is not worshiping the Grama devata or Isata devata which is a form of Vishnu.
Venus and Jupiter- in 8th shows Stree and Bramahan shapa respectively.
With this chart on mind, I would not say you would get a divorce.
At the same time, I would like to recommend some remedies to fix things up and get the union back again.
Remedies
Tila homa for Pitru and Matru shapa.
Feed Bhramanas at the time of Tila homa and take their blessings to ward off Brahman shapa.
For Dharma deiva badha- you need to visit your Kula devata or Gram devata which is not being worshipped by you. Perform Pooja at the temple and take blessings.
For Stree shapa- Durga Deepa namaskar or Durga home would be the best remedy.
If you would complete all of these remedies with devotion, your family life will be back on track.
All the best and wish your problems or indifferences get resolved.
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Chandrashekar08
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Let's take up a new question.
Please ask a close end question and mention the time & date of your question.
Thank you.
Please ask a close end question and mention the time & date of your question.
Thank you.
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AstroDrAnjna
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u look like from good family father into medicalprofession ?
u r from technical field?
u r from technical field?
Thanx
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vedicmaths
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hello kim,
He is quite unlikely to move away from his parents in the long run. Even if he moves to a separate
apartment, he is likely to spend more time with his parents.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
He is quite unlikely to move away from his parents in the long run. Even if he moves to a separate
apartment, he is likely to spend more time with his parents.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
Hi Vedicmaths,
Then whats the solution, i want to separate out from in-laws as there so many issues and his parents also don't want to adjust. When i was staying with in-laws they always tried to create problem between me and husband.
Me and my husband had went for flat searching and we liked one flat also, but after 2 days he backed out. He has backed out several times on several things.
Thanks a lot in advance
Then whats the solution, i want to separate out from in-laws as there so many issues and his parents also don't want to adjust. When i was staying with in-laws they always tried to create problem between me and husband.
Me and my husband had went for flat searching and we liked one flat also, but after 2 days he backed out. He has backed out several times on several things.
Thanks a lot in advance
Hello Guru's,
My birth date : 01-Oct-1980, 10:42 am, Chinchwad, Pune, Maharashtra
My Husband birth date : 10-Sep-1980 - 10:45 am, Amednagar, Maharashtra
Marriage Date: 12-Feb-2012, Pune Maharashtra
Since marriage i and my husband are not able to get along, we always fight and i have left his house several times, but returned again. His parents and his sister creates more problem. Even we tried for baby, but no success. After fight my husband and his parents has told me to leave the house.
I am not sure what to do next and secondly will our marriage last.
My birth date : 01-Oct-1980, 10:42 am, Chinchwad, Pune, Maharashtra
My Husband birth date : 10-Sep-1980 - 10:45 am, Amednagar, Maharashtra
Marriage Date: 12-Feb-2012, Pune Maharashtra
Since marriage i and my husband are not able to get along, we always fight and i have left his house several times, but returned again. His parents and his sister creates more problem. Even we tried for baby, but no success. After fight my husband and his parents has told me to leave the house.
I am not sure what to do next and secondly will our marriage last.
Kim,
Had time to study your chart. There is weakness of Mercury, Mars which will bring separation in marriage and loss through conflicts.
Avoid confrontation. Improvement will take time, later in 2020.
Good luck.
- Sujit
Had time to study your chart. There is weakness of Mercury, Mars which will bring separation in marriage and loss through conflicts.
Avoid confrontation. Improvement will take time, later in 2020.
Good luck.
- Sujit
https://www.facebook.com/astrologer.sujit
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
Namaste Experts,
My birthdate : 01-Oct-1980, 10:42 am, Pune
My Husband birthday : 10-Sep-1980 - 10:45 am, Ahmednagar
Marriage date: 12/Feb-2012, Pune
i am married since 7 years with no kid so far, had undergone many treatments with no sucess.
We always have fight and we don't have healthy relationship, and no love no care no respect, no communication.
We always have fight and his parents also don't support our relationship and he and his parents demands i should leave their house, language he and his family uses is abusive, i really cannot take that, so i have no option other then leave his house, and go to parents places. Some time later he calls and start talking as if nothing had happened and i also forgive him and go back to his home or sometimes he does not even call after several days, i go back to his home after my parents suggestion, girls have to adjust. For few days its either cold war or just communication only if required. This is happening from past 3-4 years. There is no bound or love left between our relationship.
This time also his parents used abusive language and when i called husband to support me, instead of supporting he said you deserve this. After that again i left this house, as happened many a times.
Now i am feed up with this relationship as its just dragging the relationship instead of living or enjoying the relationship. i have decided to move into rented apartment or PG, but no luck yet, have not found any place yet.
Can you please guide me moving in rented apartment alone is a good solution ? And when will i move into rented apartment ?
I am not sure about divorce, i have not made my mind yet, is the divorce happening ?
And if not divorce how many days i will stay alone and what's the future or our relationship?
Thanks in advance.
My birthdate : 01-Oct-1980, 10:42 am, Pune
My Husband birthday : 10-Sep-1980 - 10:45 am, Ahmednagar
Marriage date: 12/Feb-2012, Pune
i am married since 7 years with no kid so far, had undergone many treatments with no sucess.
We always have fight and we don't have healthy relationship, and no love no care no respect, no communication.
We always have fight and his parents also don't support our relationship and he and his parents demands i should leave their house, language he and his family uses is abusive, i really cannot take that, so i have no option other then leave his house, and go to parents places. Some time later he calls and start talking as if nothing had happened and i also forgive him and go back to his home or sometimes he does not even call after several days, i go back to his home after my parents suggestion, girls have to adjust. For few days its either cold war or just communication only if required. This is happening from past 3-4 years. There is no bound or love left between our relationship.
This time also his parents used abusive language and when i called husband to support me, instead of supporting he said you deserve this. After that again i left this house, as happened many a times.
Now i am feed up with this relationship as its just dragging the relationship instead of living or enjoying the relationship. i have decided to move into rented apartment or PG, but no luck yet, have not found any place yet.
Can you please guide me moving in rented apartment alone is a good solution ? And when will i move into rented apartment ?
I am not sure about divorce, i have not made my mind yet, is the divorce happening ?
And if not divorce how many days i will stay alone and what's the future or our relationship?
Thanks in advance.
