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Aanya2010
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I've been in an incompatible marriage for 22 years.For the past 2 years I've been trying to leave , but have been unable to do so.
DOB 20/10/1970
06:15 am
Mumbai

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DOB 11/03/1968
22:40 pm
Mumbai

I'm on the brink of desperation.Could you advise.
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DOB 20/10/1970
06:15 am
Mumbai

Saturn Sun 31 - 10 - 2011 13 - 10 - 2012
Saturn Moon 13 - 10 - 2012 13 - 05 - 2014
Saturn Mars 13 - 05 - 2014 22 - 06 - 2015
Saturn Raghu 22 - 06 - 2015 28 - 04 - 2018
Saturn Jupiter 28 - 04 - 2018 09 - 11 - 2020
Mercury Mercury 09 - 11 - 2020 06 - 04 - 2023
Mercury Kethu 06 - 04 - 2023 03 - 04 - 2024
Mercury Venus 03 - 04 - 2024 03 - 02 - 2027
Mercury Sun 03 - 02 - 2027 09 - 12 - 2027

Your lagna is mercury and is exalted and vargottama. Your lagna lord is strong so overall life will be good. You will be very intelligent, funny, writing skills etc will be good.

Mars in lagna and seeing 7th house can cause anger issues for you and your spouse. 2nd house has debilitated Sun and aspected by debiliated Sani which is good for marrriage life. 7th lord is Jupiter and he is with deb sun in enemy house of Libra. Mercury has the kendrapathi dosha.

Your running saturn dasa who is lord of 6th house (6th house of legal issues, disputes etc). raghu is sittig in 6th house too so there are chances of legal separation and divorce by 2020. Mercury dasa will be good as he is your lagna lord. You will have happy life from 2020. Since Jupiter is aspecting 6th house, you will win the divorce case and get what you want. Jup also aspecting 11th lord too

Your 11th lord is moon and its in kendra to lagna and rasi and it will give good and peaceful second marriage from 2020

Come out of the marriage and god will guide.


DOB 11/03/1968
22:40 pm
Mumbai

Your husband is Libra lagna and katagam rasi. He will be close to his mom as katagam is mother sign and its in own house. His mother will be a strong presence in his life. 7th lord is mars and he is stuck with ragu and sani. He can be stubborn and have anger issues and will do what he wants without thinking. He can be detached in sexual life as ketu in 12th. Now moon dasa is going on and moon owns 10th house so his career can be his top priority.

God bless you with good life and happy future. Follow your heart and find your peace. You have cleaned all your karma, time for a new partner who will love and treat you the way you deserve.
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Thanks for the above. Though I have been told that there is no divorce or second marriage in my chart.

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I dont see your husband changing. Your 7th lord (husband) is weaker than 11th lord (Second spouse) so remarriage is present.
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Will suggest you to wait till this year end before taking any final decision. If possible, pray to Goddess Maha Gauri or Maha Laxmi to help you in getting right direction in your life.
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Thanks for the advise. However it's a very toxic marriage and a reconciliation would only
Mean a lifetime of misery. So what is the way out? Sometimes it is inevitable and necessary to end it. Is this possible. Please advise.
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Yes its very much possible
Find courage and file divorce, your second marriage will be happy.

God doesnt want you to suffer, you make that choice
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