Sir,
I am a female, got engaged on 26th Dec., 2017. But now I am really disheartened and want to break engagement. Before meeting we talked on phone thrice, so I said Yes for meeting. But I didnt know my Yes at meeting for carrying the talks forward will be taken as Yes for rishta. I got stuck and couldnt say anything. Now I have talked more to the guy, and all I feel is irritation , dread and fear. I feel there is huge difference in our maturity and intellectual levels. Kindly guide me if I should accept what happened or should go ahead and break engagement.
Details Mine: 23.06.90
21:45
Bikaner Rajasthan
Details Guy: 16.06.86
00.15
Jalandhar Punjab (in a small village)
Engaged but want to break
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sreemohan36
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Yes, you should break. You will get a better alliance that matches your interests later. You are suggested to do abhisheka to Goddess Durga on five Fridays to find a better match later in life.
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vedicmaths
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hello DILECTUS,
It is better to marry with a CLEAN slate of mind. Before i give you any astro reading,
it is better you consult a COUNSELOR in this regard.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
It is better to marry with a CLEAN slate of mind. Before i give you any astro reading,
it is better you consult a COUNSELOR in this regard.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
Sir,
After deep retrospection of my own feelings, I have asked this question. There are too many people involved, and I don't want to be hasty and hurt them all. Hence I request you to please guide me by astrological point of view.
Thanks and sincerely,
Dilectus
After deep retrospection of my own feelings, I have asked this question. There are too many people involved, and I don't want to be hasty and hurt them all. Hence I request you to please guide me by astrological point of view.
Thanks and sincerely,
Dilectus
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astrolover2017
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Details Mine: 23.06.90
21:45
Bikaner Rajasthan
Dasha Start date
Sa-Mo-Ke 12-08-2017
Sa-Mo-Ve 01-11-2018
Sa-Mo-Su 04-18-2018
Sa-Ma-Ma 05-16-2018
Sa-Ma-Ra 06-09-2018
Sa-Ma-Ju 08-09-2018
Sa-Ma-Sa 10-02-2018
Your rasi is Gemini and lagna is Capricorn. Lagna lord saturn is retrograde in rasi and navamsa which is not good at all. bad planets do more damage in retrograde since since he is your lagna lord he might spare you a little.
Your ragu ketu is in 1-7 axis which is not good. Lagna lord is hidden in 12 house which is not good. Your Jupiter is hidden in 6th house which is not good. 7th lord Moon is hidden in 6th house too which is not good.
You should be very careful and get into marriage after fully knowing the person or else life will be miserable and painful. Your already feel this guy is not suited for you, cancel the engagement or you will put your life in misery only.
The elders of family might be mad but they will be ok after some weeks but if your life is lost nobody else can save you and only you will suffer. Your venus is in own house so you might be someone who is romantic and want love very much. so think and decide. Since your badhaka lord mars is in 3rd house you might not have courage and lose your life. So please pray to god to give you courage.
21:45
Bikaner Rajasthan
Dasha Start date
Sa-Mo-Ke 12-08-2017
Sa-Mo-Ve 01-11-2018
Sa-Mo-Su 04-18-2018
Sa-Ma-Ma 05-16-2018
Sa-Ma-Ra 06-09-2018
Sa-Ma-Ju 08-09-2018
Sa-Ma-Sa 10-02-2018
Your rasi is Gemini and lagna is Capricorn. Lagna lord saturn is retrograde in rasi and navamsa which is not good at all. bad planets do more damage in retrograde since since he is your lagna lord he might spare you a little.
Your ragu ketu is in 1-7 axis which is not good. Lagna lord is hidden in 12 house which is not good. Your Jupiter is hidden in 6th house which is not good. 7th lord Moon is hidden in 6th house too which is not good.
You should be very careful and get into marriage after fully knowing the person or else life will be miserable and painful. Your already feel this guy is not suited for you, cancel the engagement or you will put your life in misery only.
The elders of family might be mad but they will be ok after some weeks but if your life is lost nobody else can save you and only you will suffer. Your venus is in own house so you might be someone who is romantic and want love very much. so think and decide. Since your badhaka lord mars is in 3rd house you might not have courage and lose your life. So please pray to god to give you courage.
Update: talked to parents and brother, everyone is taking my concerns lightly. There is no hope left for me, I was shouted at, emotionally manipulated and decision was justified. Moreover marriage date has been fixed in March first week. Life is going in drains.
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astrolover2017
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Sometimes when Saturn wants us to learn tough lessons we are cornered and pushed into life situations that will make us endure pain but in the end we will emerge strong and clear.
Try to make your marriage work through compromise and love. God bless you.
Try to make your marriage work through compromise and love. God bless you.
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astrolover2017
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Nobody can help you if you dont help yourself. If you dont have courage to chase your hopes and dreams then no use blaming others.
God bless.
God bless.
Often right MD and AD brings us close to the event. But, we should not ignore transits, specially of Saturn. It's now on your birth retro-saturn. I don't think it is easy one. It's the phase of dilema. Some thing is in your deep inside and something else out side.Saturn creates trouble but greatly protects us. So, if mind is saying no, you should think twice. No great event like marriage can happen half heartedly (either bride or groom atleast).
Above lines are written based on personal experiences. Rememeber Saturn is great teacher and protector.
Regards,
Above lines are written based on personal experiences. Rememeber Saturn is great teacher and protector.
Regards,
Sir/s
I agree with all your suggestions. The thing is, it is such an important decision of life, and I have zero support in my life right now. Hence I wanted guidance from astrological point of view. I want a direction. When astrolover ji suggested that it isnt right, I got a gist that I should try to get rid of this decision. All I want is an astrological study of my situation and conclusions based on that, as right now I only have support from God and if I have to fight, I have to do it alone.
So plz guide me.
Sincerely
Dilectus
I agree with all your suggestions. The thing is, it is such an important decision of life, and I have zero support in my life right now. Hence I wanted guidance from astrological point of view. I want a direction. When astrolover ji suggested that it isnt right, I got a gist that I should try to get rid of this decision. All I want is an astrological study of my situation and conclusions based on that, as right now I only have support from God and if I have to fight, I have to do it alone.
So plz guide me.
Sincerely
Dilectus
Update-
I think I am the first girl who is happy to inform you all that the engagement has been broken mutually . I thank you all for your time and request you to guide me about marriage and life partner. I made a mistake this time and suffered greatly but thankfully no long lasting harm was done, but I don't want to rush head first again. So any help/guidance/suggestion will be highly appreciated.
Thanks
Dilectus
I think I am the first girl who is happy to inform you all that the engagement has been broken mutually . I thank you all for your time and request you to guide me about marriage and life partner. I made a mistake this time and suffered greatly but thankfully no long lasting harm was done, but I don't want to rush head first again. So any help/guidance/suggestion will be highly appreciated.
Thanks
Dilectus
