Hi I am working in US since 2000 but still there is no proper settlement and peace of mind. My husband doesn't have a carrier and still struggling to find a job or income source. Have a single daughter who is in high school. My married life is not happy and peaceful mainly because of my Husband's inability or lack of effort to find a carrier for himself and all these years didn't take any financial responsibility other than domestic support. He is not a bad person but at the same time never took the responsibilities of the family. I started reading about astrology and realized he is going through Rahu mahadasha and I am going through Ketu mahadasha currently and have read lot of scary things about these mahadashas. I want to buy a home and nothing seems to work out. My husband's date of birth is October 10, 1967, 7:30 AM in South India (Vijayawada), my date of birth is May 10 1971, 10:30 PM South India (Hyderabad). My daughter's date of birth is December 24 2002, 3:55 PM Mountain View, California. Could you please analyze my family situation. Since I got married I was constantly troubled about my husband's carrier, stressed out balancing work and home, and emotionally depressed. I even had thyroid Cancer in late 2009 and recovered by god's grace. Since then I started on getting to be spiritual and ardent believer of Hanumanji, I read his chalisa almost everyday. I strengthened myself a lot compared to earlier years but still feel very restless and always worried. After finding about the rahu and ketu dashas in our charts I am even more scared. Please analyze out charts and kindly suggest any remedies that I can follow to help ease my situation.
Regards, Siri.
Rahu and Ketu mahadasha
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Suresh_Chauhan
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Hello Sir-ji, you have not mentioned your date of marriage, helps to confirm the chart events.
If possible also mention date of first earning (job - you, husband), date of travel to USA (I assume you are not born in USA?), and other significant dates. So key events can be verified.
If he is undergoing Rahu mahadasha: last part of Mangal (Mars) mahadashs OR at beginning in Rahu/Rahu OR some time in Rahu/Sun, OR during Rahu/Moon... native could lose his father, mother or both. Esp. if Rahu has aspect on Sun/Moon. Rahu also causes a person to travel a lot, unstable career and job changes, house moves, relocate to different city or country etc. It is is hitting him in mid-life so more likely.
Has one or more of these events happened with your husband and you?
If possible also mention date of first earning (job - you, husband), date of travel to USA (I assume you are not born in USA?), and other significant dates. So key events can be verified.
If he is undergoing Rahu mahadasha: last part of Mangal (Mars) mahadashs OR at beginning in Rahu/Rahu OR some time in Rahu/Sun, OR during Rahu/Moon... native could lose his father, mother or both. Esp. if Rahu has aspect on Sun/Moon. Rahu also causes a person to travel a lot, unstable career and job changes, house moves, relocate to different city or country etc. It is is hitting him in mid-life so more likely.
Has one or more of these events happened with your husband and you?
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joyd
2018-Nov,11th onwards time is good for buying a new house.Before this date you have a chance also for buying house[3-01-2019].ketu x saturn x venus [from 16-04-2018 to 24-06-2018] and ketu x saturn x moon [from 15-07-2018 to 19-08-2018] periods are also favourable for buying a house too.This is based on your chart.Transit rahu now over natal ketu.so you ca see bright light gradually from the next april of 2018.
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ACC. TO YOUR HUBBYS CHART,HE IS ALREADY IN GOOD PERIOD of Rahu x venus.His chart also showing 9-8-2018 to 13-03-2019 period is very favourable for purchase of a new house.your husband is very pious internally and he has having some GOD,s amsa in him and bcz of ot you and your child are lucky and blessed.
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Thank you Suresh ji and Joyd ji for responding to my post. Its really a ray of hope to see your response.
I got married to him on May 6th 1999 and we both are born in India. My husband came to USA in 1997 or 1998 and I first came in 1999 for a short period and again in 2000 and since then working in USA. I don't have details of his first earning but over all he didn't succeed very well in education and his carrier. Yes he recently lost his father in 2014 Summer and luckily he was able to spend few days time with his father before his father expired. His mother is suffering with Parkinson's for a while but other than general old age health issues she is kind of stable and is in India. My husband is youngest son and has two elder brothers. I have one older sister and parents who live in India.
My husband is definitely nice at heart, if not for him and belief in hanuman ji I wouldn't have survived my thyroid cancer phase. The memories still scare me but I try my best to forget and move on. However I loose my cool often and get frustrated over my husband's carrier and his lack of aggression to make a living and support the family. If not for his carrier aspect he is good and supportive in every way. But I'd like to have him a carrier of his own more for himself and respect in family than finances. I am worried about his health as well as he is having blood pressure, started on medication and also is under pressure of finding a job. I am going through my own stress balancing job and home but sincerely want to help him if there is anything that I can.
Regards,
Siri
I got married to him on May 6th 1999 and we both are born in India. My husband came to USA in 1997 or 1998 and I first came in 1999 for a short period and again in 2000 and since then working in USA. I don't have details of his first earning but over all he didn't succeed very well in education and his carrier. Yes he recently lost his father in 2014 Summer and luckily he was able to spend few days time with his father before his father expired. His mother is suffering with Parkinson's for a while but other than general old age health issues she is kind of stable and is in India. My husband is youngest son and has two elder brothers. I have one older sister and parents who live in India.
My husband is definitely nice at heart, if not for him and belief in hanuman ji I wouldn't have survived my thyroid cancer phase. The memories still scare me but I try my best to forget and move on. However I loose my cool often and get frustrated over my husband's carrier and his lack of aggression to make a living and support the family. If not for his carrier aspect he is good and supportive in every way. But I'd like to have him a carrier of his own more for himself and respect in family than finances. I am worried about his health as well as he is having blood pressure, started on medication and also is under pressure of finding a job. I am going through my own stress balancing job and home but sincerely want to help him if there is anything that I can.
Regards,
Siri
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Suresh_Chauhan
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He was running Rahu/Mercury/Rahu in the 2014 situation. Mercury is 9th lord (represents father according to some, as also dharma and future karma) in lagna with ketu, and under direct aspect from Rahu in 7th. This was the likely period 10 years after the start of his Rahu MD.
For different people it is different. Some may have Rahu dashs in early childhood, and so might not impact any immediate family member. President of USA Donald Trump lost his fathter during Rahu/Rahu in 1998, his Rahu engulfs his Sun in 10th house. Close conjunction facing off Moon/Ketu in 4th.
Buying a house , the 4th house significator in his chart is Saturn, whereas natural karaka is Moon (mind). From Feb 2018 to Aug 2018 might be a good time during Rahu/Venus/Sat, where Venus signifies luxuries, homes, and other possessions. But more important - you need to make a PLAN along with your hubby - I want to buy a home in the next 1, 2, 5 years; I want to buy such-and-such property in this area, in XXXX year; and so forth. This will help you channel your energies to that effort. It indicates preparation on your part. Yoga means nothing , time has to come for a particular action or event to bear fruit.
Start planning from now itself, gather all your documents and paperwork, do the research, may have to sell off assets to raise money, etc. Begin saving in earnest for down payment. Talk to real estate agents, find out what is a good price. So when the time is right all you have to do is say yes, and make the agreements with concerned parties.
For different people it is different. Some may have Rahu dashs in early childhood, and so might not impact any immediate family member. President of USA Donald Trump lost his fathter during Rahu/Rahu in 1998, his Rahu engulfs his Sun in 10th house. Close conjunction facing off Moon/Ketu in 4th.
Buying a house , the 4th house significator in his chart is Saturn, whereas natural karaka is Moon (mind). From Feb 2018 to Aug 2018 might be a good time during Rahu/Venus/Sat, where Venus signifies luxuries, homes, and other possessions. But more important - you need to make a PLAN along with your hubby - I want to buy a home in the next 1, 2, 5 years; I want to buy such-and-such property in this area, in XXXX year; and so forth. This will help you channel your energies to that effort. It indicates preparation on your part. Yoga means nothing , time has to come for a particular action or event to bear fruit.
Start planning from now itself, gather all your documents and paperwork, do the research, may have to sell off assets to raise money, etc. Begin saving in earnest for down payment. Talk to real estate agents, find out what is a good price. So when the time is right all you have to do is say yes, and make the agreements with concerned parties.
Thank you Suresh ji for all your inputs. I have already initiated the plan and expressed interest to buy a home as soon as possible and started searching for the homes. My biggest concern is if I am taking the right decision and scared if I'll run into any financial crisis as my husband is not in any job for years and not sure if he gets successful in finding a job anytime soon. I am concerned to go ahead with the decision completely based on my single salary as my daughter is in high school and ready for college in 3 years so have to be ready to take those expenses as well. Given his dasha and antar dashas do you see any carrier prospects for him. My main goal is to buy home before my daughter leaves for college so that I can give her some own house experience before she steps out for college as all these years we lived in a dingy apartment compromising many things. So with this pressure he is currently trying to find a job in IT and I can see he is relatively putting more effort than before, should he continue with that effort or should try something else? Could you please analyze and provide some guidance.
Regards,
Siri
Regards,
Siri
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annadata sairam
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madam sorry to predict this , your husband has tendency to detached life from life partner, there is possibility of him self getting hospitalized, most likely with psychiatric illness, or some thing of that sort, excuse me if i am wrong , contact me annadatasairam@[No Personal Contact Details on Public Forum].co.in,if my prediction is pointing towards that end,detailed explanation and remedies will be given
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Suresh_Chauhan
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Siri madam, Moderators aren't doing the job properly. I sent an earlier post, but it never got posted. Let me try to remember what I wrote and will respond again.
Siri ji,
I will get back to you on answering your question related to your decision.
Meanwhile, Please download all Chaganti garu Ramayana from his website and start to listening to it, preferably both you and your husband.
42 days, daily 1hrs is what it takes.
You will know, why i told you to do so.
I will get back to you on answering your question related to your decision.
Meanwhile, Please download all Chaganti garu Ramayana from his website and start to listening to it, preferably both you and your husband.
42 days, daily 1hrs is what it takes.
You will know, why i told you to do so.
Thank you Surya ji for your suggestion.
I have had him started reading hanuman chalisa 11 times on Tuesdays and once other days. I myself am very much into hanuman ji and do chalisa every day since many years. I'll definitely try your suggestion also as time permits. He is a soft person and doesn't resist to follow but when it comes to carrier he is neither street smart nor aggressive. I am ready to support but don't have capacity to work with him and micro manage him as I have my job and its pretty demanding. I am trying my level best to stay composed, help him and give one last try to change things for the betterment of family.
Sincerely appreciate your time and interest.
Thank you & Regards
Siri
I have had him started reading hanuman chalisa 11 times on Tuesdays and once other days. I myself am very much into hanuman ji and do chalisa every day since many years. I'll definitely try your suggestion also as time permits. He is a soft person and doesn't resist to follow but when it comes to carrier he is neither street smart nor aggressive. I am ready to support but don't have capacity to work with him and micro manage him as I have my job and its pretty demanding. I am trying my level best to stay composed, help him and give one last try to change things for the betterment of family.
Sincerely appreciate your time and interest.
Thank you & Regards
Siri
