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Hi everyone,

I am 32 years old female who is really trying to find a soul mate but having no luck in relationships. Since last month, I feeling lots of mental pressure. Sometimes, it feels like that I wont be able to find him or I have to do very big compromise in this big decision.
I would really appreciate if someone can read when and how will I find my life partner? What would be his basic qualities?
My birth details as follows:
Date: Jan7, 1979
Date of birth: 4:55 AM (As per my mom but not quite sure)
Place: Punjab, INDIA

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Senior Astrologers, please help....
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Thanks Dinesh,

I was born in a village and the nearest known city(5km away) to that village is TANDA or URMUR TANDA. I am not sure if you will be able to find it and the time for birth is 4:55 AM. What is D9?

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Is my horoscope ok? Not a single reply.
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no luck here as well:(
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Hi

Basically in your chart Moon is creating issues. It has become the lord of the 6th house. 6th house denotes celibacy. Now the dasa of Moon is going on from 2006-2016. it is also placed in the house of diseases hence issues with regard to mind would be there.

You antara is of saturn from 11.7.2010-08.02.2012 and retrograde with Rahu and is placed in the 5th house. When the antara planet is in trines to the Maha dasa planet it should give good result as Moon is a friend to all the planets. But saturn is not so. It is the enemy to the Moon hence it would create confusion in your mind.
and being retro it would also delay the results

The next anatara of mercury is coming from 08.02.2012 and it is the lord of the 8th and 11th house being placed in the 2nd house and with UL (bringer of marraige prospects) and from Maha dasa it is in the 9th house the house of dharma.

During this time in the Tithi pravesha chart the lord of the UL is Mars and is exalted in the capricon and in the 5th from TP lagna and 3rd from the Natal lagna.

Jupiter which is the Hora lord at that time is placed in the 9th house the house of dharma.it is the lord of the 7th house (house of spouse)



I have taken the date as Feb 8 2012 11:55 AM.

I feel during this period the desires of your would be fulfilled

God bless you

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aliens19672004 wrote:Hi

Basically in your chart Moon is creating issues. It has become the lord of the 6th house. 6th house denotes celibacy. Now the dasa of Moon is going on from 2006-2016. it is also placed in the house of diseases hence issues with regard to mind would be there.

You antara is of saturn from 11.7.2010-08.02.2012 and retrograde with Rahu and is placed in the 5th house. When the antara planet is in trines to the Maha dasa planet it should give good result as Moon is a friend to all the planets. But saturn is not so. It is the enemy to the Moon hence it would create confusion in your mind.
and being retro it would also delay the results

The next anatara of mercury is coming from 08.02.2012 and it is the lord of the 8th and 11th house being placed in the 2nd house and with UL (bringer of marraige prospects) and from Maha dasa it is in the 9th house the house of dharma.

During this time in the Tithi pravesha chart the lord of the UL is Mars and is exalted in the capricon and in the 5th from TP lagna and 3rd from the Natal lagna.

Jupiter which is the Hora lord at that time is placed in the 9th house the house of dharma.it is the lord of the 7th house (house of spouse)



I have taken the date as Feb 8 2012 11:55 AM.

I feel during this period the desires of your would be fulfilled

God bless you

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Thanks a lot, Uma Shanker Ji for taking the time and explaining me why I am feeling so confused? I felt more confused last year in July while taking a big decision of life. Since then, I was in a confusion period. But now after getting some help, I am trying to get the control of my life.

I really appreciate your efforts. Thanks:)
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Any other opinions??
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Dear curiosity,

thx for the PM.

1) your lagna lord Mars is combust...which will affect your overall confidence and sense of purpose, esteem in life.

2) However your 2nd and 5th lord Ju is exalted in the 9th house of Bhagya and dharma.....and Ju is quite strong in your higher divisional charts also....pulls you out of all problems eventually.
Ju in Dharma sthan makes you too much of an idealist also.

3)7th Lord Ve is also the karak of marriage is conjunct with lagnesh in friendly 1st house and aspects it's own house....good placement

4) Shani from an innimical sign of Leo aspects the house of marriage...causing delays

5) In the Navamsa 7th lord of marriage Me is in a friendly sign of Ve, but Ve is in enemy sign of leo.

6) Navamsa is on the 1-7 axis of Ra-Ke..whihc causes pull / strain on the marriage after it occurs.

7) you are running Moon-Shani Dasa.....Moon is the Lord of your Bhagya sthan so it will assit marital prospects.....but at the same time Mo-Sa period will continue to create mental conflicts. Further Mo sits in the 6th house...creating general hurdles in all areas of life. Hence you find this a rather mixed and somewhat disturbing phase.

The Mo-Me starting Feb 2012 will see you getting married....and overall life will also improve relatively

You should pray on Tuesdays and Saturdays....be generally religious / pious.

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Still no luck. I have no clue whats wrong in my chart? May be, i dont have any marriage written in my destiny.
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jupiter transit in virgo conducive for marriage
there is marriage yoga next year
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Thanks Dr. Anjna!
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Thanks Dr. Anjna!
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curiosity wrote:Still no luck. I have no clue whats wrong in my chart? May be, i dont have any marriage written in my destiny.
Hi Curiosity,

I can understand your pains and frustration and I hope that you will find answers very soon.

The D9 (Navamsa) will change lagnas within a minute and this is a vital divisional chart for questions concerning marriage. Is the birth time accurate? I typically do not use the divisional charts if the birth time is not very accurate since it can be misleading then. If your navamsa lagna is moved to Saggitarius, then one has Ketu in 7th house of D9 indicating detachment from married life or marriage partner. Your moon in Ketu's nakshatra (ashwini) in the Rasi chart also indicates some mental level of detachment. Hence Moon MD did not give you marriage. You should be honest with yourself and see if marriage is something that you really want.


However, ignoring the D9 (since I cannot be sure about the exact birth time), and looking at just your D1 (main rasi chart), the Mars MD -Jupiter AD is a very good period for marriage since Jupiter (karaka for husband in female chart) is exalted in the 9th house of Dharma. Jupiter will also transit into the 7th house from your moon in Sept 2017. I use 360 days for MD calculations and hence relevant Mars-Jupiter period comes out as 2017 March to 2018 Feb with higher chances from Sept 2017 onwards.

All the very best to you! :)
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Sorry to bother again:( how will i meet the one? Do i know him?Is there any way to find out to characteristics of the person who is destined to in my life? How will i know that’s him? Thanks
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Date: Jan7, 1979
Date of birth: 4:55 AM (As per my mom but not quite sure)
Place: Punjab, INDIA

Your Rasi is Mesha, Lagna is Scorpio. Lagna lord mars is with Sun and Mercury in friend Jupiter house. Jup is in 9th house of fortune. Your overall life will be good. Venus is in first house, you will be very beauty conscious and want all to appreciate your beauty and skills.

Your Jupiter is exalted , which will make you learned and intelligent and good person. Jupiter is husband, so your husband will be very wealthy and highly educated. Your Mesha rasi just came out of Ashtama sani, so now is good period for you. Also see your dasha and bhukti for good time.

regarding relationships, your 7th house is Rishaba and lord venus is in enemy mars house and aspecting 7th house. your 2nd house for family has Mars and Sun in it so thats causing delay in marriage.Sani is aspecting 7th house. Better to marry in 30s. sun is 2nd house with mars and both are 2 fire planets, so you should reduce your anger and deal very lovingly to family.
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Thanks AstroLover for your precious time. Your predictions are almost right regarding me. I do pride in my work. Thanks! God bless you:)
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How and where will i found him? Will it be arrange marriage or love? I am really confuse.
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Dear curiosity,

Any luck in getting marriage proposals as predicted by the esteemed astrologers?

I am new to the astrology field and I was just going through this post. I read almost all the post by Shilpaji, Dr. Neeraj and others.

Here is my analysis:

-You are a scorpio ascendant female. Venus the karaka for marriage is aspecting the 7H. Good placement except it is an enemy sign. In Navamsa too 7th lord Venus is in enemy house of Leo.

- Jupiter lord of 2nd and 5th (and also a karaka for husband in a female chart) is exalted and aspects the 1st house and Venus.

The major problem in your chart is Sa-Ra conjunction in the 10th house of Leo. Shani is inimical in house of Sun and aspects your 7th house causing delays. Rahu is increasing the malefic nature of Shani and causing further delays. However, Shani is exalted in the Navamsa, so some relief.

I see the period from 2019 will bring in the good news and especially the period of Ma-Mer (as per KP system too). This is time when Jupiter will be transiting your lagna and Venus and so aspecting the 7th house and the natal Jupiter.

Also for further analysis can I ask you few questions:
Are you based in your birth place or far?
How has been the relationship aspect in the past - If any when?
Career and money part as 2nd lord is exalted and 11th Lord Mercury in second house?
Any remedies you have done so far?

Regards,
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