Is Manglik dosh the reason of my terrible break up?

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After more than 3 years of a brilliant relationship we broke up on terrible terms amidst abuse and bad mouthing. What lies ahead in my life?

25 Jan 1990
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Kolkata (Calcutta), WB, India
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papan1990 wrote:After more than 3 years of a brilliant relationship we broke up on terrible terms amidst abuse and bad mouthing. What lies ahead in my life?

25 Jan 1990
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A relationship is between 2 people - so where is the other half ?I
It can be then explained better by a member.
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29 June 1992
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papan1990 wrote:29 June 1992
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Do you recall date when relationship started ?
And, date of breakup ?
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It started with casual talk on 4 Dec 2012 (strong relationship started on 13 Dec 2012)

The last fight was on 6 March 2016, and the last time we spoke was on 8 March 2016 afternoon. There has been no contact whatsoever then after.
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Dear Papan
The female chart given by you is little confucing.
29 June 1992
17:40
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It is recalled that on 2nd Oct 2015 I had had answered a query from you regarding

"Cause for delay in marriage? "
and the horoscope given was the same .
During Oct 2015 you asked cause for delay in marriage for this native.
Now you say that "After more than 3 years of a brilliant relationship you both broke up"
Will you please comment on this?
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Yes, everything written is true. We have been wanting to get married since we got into the relationship and hence the query was written for the delay in getting married. However, over the past couple of months, the relationship has gone through a lot of downs, and hence this new query.
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OK fine.
Now the problems in the relation was caused by Mrs in the 8th from Lagna and the Kethu in the 8th from Moon.
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Is there any scope of a better relationship in my life? This relationship had a sad break up.
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Have you broken up finally. I can still see chances of its revival soon if you both think maturedly. Do some soul searching. You have more agression in your chart. If you realise the trigger could have been created by your anger leading to bad mouthing, you can take the first step to reconcile.
I do not see any major problem of fight or separative tendencies in both horoscopes.
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[quote="sgoswami40"]Have you broken up finally. I can still see chances of its revival soon if you both think maturedly. Do some soul searching. You have more agression in your chart. If you realise the trigger could have been created by your anger leading to bad mouthing, you can take the first step to reconcile.
I do not see any major problem of fight or separative tendencies in both horoscopes.[/quote]

Dear SGoswami40, will it be worthwhile going for reconciliation? Is there any divorce tendencies or cheating in the horoscopes? And what about childbirth? Because we have Nadi dosha too. All along with Manglik dosh and Sade Sati is creating a lot of issues. Kindly answer as your reply seemed the most optimistic.
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sgoswami40, kindly give your expert opinion and further evaluation
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Yes, I had not seen from kundali match making perspective. Since you had mentioned about breaking up, I saw both the kundalis separately and I was unable to find any separative/divorce tendencies.
Yes there is Nadi dosha as also Manglik dosha and since majority of the people these days consider it as a Dosha, I would not comment on that. The school of astrology I am from considers child birth more from the perspective of 5th house and karaka strength which I find good in both the horoscopes. Moreover, with advancement of medical science, I have personally experienced that many such minor doshas can be well taken care of. Sade Sati and Manglik doshas are a matter of faith. From my personal belief and astrology school I belong to, specific planetary signification is the only consideration. If Mars or Saturn signify good results in ones horoscope, how can they give harm.
The only thing I would consider is that upon Gunas matching the score is just average. So compatibility is going to be average. But I do not personally believe in any harm from Manglik or Sade Sati or Nadi doshas alone.
Regarding cheating of partner, if anyone has a chance of cheating it would be you and not her. This is my personal view and you may consult other learned astrologers as well.
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Thank you so much for you detailed reply. I am really indebted to your reply.
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Respected sgoswami40

We have not found a revival in the relatioship yet despite efforts as it has become completely sour. Also, my career has taken a huge turmoil. Please advise what to do.
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