Should i take this proposal further ??

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raji
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Dear members,

Its late for me, yet havent given up my search for a life partner. I'm in touch with this guy off-on since about 10 months, but confused about his nature. Not sure if i should take it further. Need advice from learned members on our compatibility and possibility of a long-term relation.

My details:
1st Aug 1968
time: 4.17 pm
place: trichur (Thrissur), kerala.

His:
16th Dec 1969
time: 00.05 a.m. (12.05 a.m.)
place: Palghat (palakkad), Kerala

He was married in 2000, divorced in 2002.

Requesting members to please analyse both our charts and advice.

Thanks
Raji
Lex
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why you are confused, is that he is younger to you?
If you are Hindu..let me know Gotra
raji
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Thanx Lex.
No, i'm not concerned abt his age. I'm a hindu but dont know gotra of eithr of us. My concern is, he is not committing, inspite of telling me that he wants to marry me. He plans meetings n forgets to turn up or inform me. My impression abt him is tht he is insensitive n self centred. He is too busy at work. I feel, if i push him a little, things will move further. Before that, just want to know astrologically whether our relation will be smooth if we do get married. I have read that planets in 7th house is not good for marriage. He has 3 planets in 7th house (Rahu+moon+mars).

Please advice.
Raji
Lex
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I read your reply to my earlier query.
You said you dont know about Gotras
Now you requested for compatability test of your and his chart.
This is Vedic site,the first filtering of horoscopes matching takes place Gotra, Nakshatra....
so on
If same Gotra happens than it is akin to Brother and Sister relation.

Iam sorry and regret I maynt proceed further on comlatability of charts.
raji
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Thanx Lex.
In my community, we dont match horoscopes based on gotra.
I do know our Nakshatras. Mine is Swati (Tula Rashi), His is Purvabhadrapada (Kumbha rashi). Hope that helps.
Requesting other members also to analyse.

Raji
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His divorce is likely to have come about towards the end of 2002 if his time of birth is correctly mentioned.
He may not be able to marry till 2020 even if he tries to. Firstly, he himself will have no inclination to marry at least till 2020. Even if he tries half heartedly, his efforts for marriage may not fuitify till 2020.
You may take your own judgement.
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Raji,

Looked at your chart. The planet Saturn is debilitated and Mars in 8th is not allowing your efforts to bring results. Further all your favorable planets are in the dusthana.
You have started the dasa of Mercury in the sign cancer will bring challenges / changes to your profession.
Marriage related developments is possible in your chart during 1st half of 2015.

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raji
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Thank you SGoswami (yes, his divorce came thru in end 2002) , Sujit and Gold for your analysis and advice.

Regards
Raji
raji
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Dear Sujit/Sgoswami /Gold,

To update.... As predicted by SGoswami, this guy is just not inclined to marry... keeps buying time. There is no progress in the above proposal.

Raji
raji
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Dear members,

As predicted by Sujit/Gold, i have got another proposal now.
Would be grateful to know if we are compatible. I checked the gun milan. It works out to 13 only.

His details : 23rd Dec 1972, 19.25 hrs., South Delhi
Mine : 1st August, 1968, 16.17 hrs, Trichur, Kerala

Thanks
Raji
raji
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Thanks Gold.
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