No Marriage?

[shweta_554]

Hi,

My birth details-

10 august 1985, Bhilai, Chattisgarh, 00:12 A.M(midnight)

I am interested to know what fate lies for my love life and marriage.
I am by heart very romantic and soft in nature, patience has always been a virtue which currently I am running out.
I had been a relationship in my college days, which ended in 2008, ever since then I never got into any relationship. Either the guys interested in me were not someone I needed or were right, or the right ones were never available for me. It has been too long and now I am tensed on loosing my chances of happy marriage life and children's. My parents are seraching groom for me and there also the same case, I am unable to find a guy who I will like to settle with. All I want is a simple guy with loving and caring tendency as emotional bonding is very important. So far the kind of partners I have attracted are either very cold aloof, having physiological issues or aggressive, self centred and passive abusive.

Given the trend I am currently in dispair. Earlier also I have turned to this forum, and people have been very compassionate providing the support and guidance. I have tried all the remedies, monday fasting, even did 16 somwar, aditya iridium reading, puja in trambakeshwar, but now have lost all my faith in remedies. When I speak to astrologers for marriage prediction with paid service, I end up being scared. What is told is reality or a way to scare people and get money for remedies is tough to know for me at this point.

I want to know the truth and reality, I have endured without giving up with hope and faith, but if there is no hope I need to know.

Looking for some answers, which I hope I can get here.

What are my chances of getting love, marriage and children?

Regards,
Shweta

[vedicmaths]

hI Shweta,

Just to confirm the birth date, were you born during 9th/10th midnight ?

Did your college relationship break sometime during Feb-Jun of 2008 ? ( you said it is 2008 )?

regards

vedicmaths

[shweta_554]

Hi vedicmaths,

It is 9 August midnight. Since it is past 12 in night as per as English calendar it falls in 10th august.

Yes nearby, June-July it will be of 2008.

Thanks for the response.

[asha123]

hi shweta,

i am also a learner in astrology.just few questions for my reference
Have you a got a degree in M.b.a?
Are u currently working?

regards
asha

[shweta_554]

Hi Asha,

I am currently working.
I have not got a degree in MBA but I have started my MS in correspondence from this year July.

Before that in June month I caught chickenpox, just for reference.

Thanks,
Shweta

[shweta_554]

Plz reply

[aussie downunder]

Dear Shweta,

I went through the previous thread where a few astrologers have already pinpointed the troublesome planets and other afflictions.

Silver lining in the cloud is that venus is unafflicted. Venus antar dasha starts in Aug 2016. Please keep praying the almighty even if you are not able to perform very rigorous prayers or fasting.

I understand your pain as I went through similar situation in my younger days. I was eventually married after three years of searching, at the ripe age of 23! It was considered as slightly late marriage in the 80s.

Please concentrate on your career or other interests to keep your mind occupied. Believe me when it happens , it will happen so quickly that before you know it, you are shopping for wedding items.

You may also check with your parents if they are doing ancestor worship and worship of family deity. These two are very important for their children to be happy and prosperous in life.
May the lord shower his blessings on you.

[shweta_554]

Hi Aussie downunder,

Thank you for your kind words and understanding my situation.

I hope with all the support and prayers I can have enough patience and strength to go through this phase.

Thank you,
Shweta

[revribhav]

I predict happy news in your present year.

[shweta_554]

Thank you Revirbhav ji that's good news, though can't see it happening as no prospects in horizon and year is about to end.

I have a query just out of curiosity. It's open to everyone and will help a help lot if experienced astrologers can share their experience on it.

1. I see saturn currently occupying my 7th house in transit chart and not leaving it before 2018. In natal chart saturn delays marriage or any area of life it is connected with being a slow moving planet.

How it plays a role in transit chart occupying 7th house, it blocks progress, gives relationships, etc? how is it impact and what are the others factors need to look into before coming to a conclusion.

2. A very general rule is ascendant lord and 7th lord in 2-12 relationship denies marriage. What are it's negating combination which actually gives marriage.

Thanks,
Shweta

[Sujit]

Shweta:
For your chart dasa of Sun, Moon, Venus helps to get married. Chances for marriage will be there towards middle of the year and some good prospects for profession and travels. Mutual aspects of previous Maha Dasha debilitated Mars and deb Jupiter is likely to bring problems in marriage.

Best regards,
Sujit