MARRIAGE AND KETU DASA - Have reached 30

[maviswa]

HI
My DOB is 26-08-1983 and TOB is 09:35 AM - Place of Birth is Salem, TamilNadu.
Right from my childhood i have had enough problems. My Mom passed away in the age of 3 and my father remarried. Did not have a happy childhood at all. Now my father is least bothered about my marriage, There are no proposals at all.
When will get married? How wll my marriage life be. I have moon in seventh house/
Also Ketu dasa will start from AUG 2014. PPL said No marriage can happen during Ketu dasa. Is that true?
Please help in asnwering.Also will it be love or aranged? cause i dont see any possibility of arranged marriage in my life since none bothers.
Thanks

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
1.Kindly confirm the accuracy of your dob details;
2. Have you used these details for astrological consultations at any time ?
3. Please explain or rephrase your sentence:
"cause i dont see any possibility of arranged marriage in my life since none bothers".
4. Are you wearing any gemstones ?
5. What is your religious belief ?
6. Do you believe in and worship the Creator that owns you ?
Regards

[powerboss]

One of my friend married in Ketu dasha and doing good with his life.

[maviswa]

Yes I believe in God and in fact very very religious. My sentence meant since none of my family members are bothered arranged marriage seems to be difficult.
MY exact DOB details are the same: 26-08-1983 POB Salem Tamil Nadu and TOB is 9:35 AM.
Natrachtram is Uthharabadra. Any other details requried sir?
I m a deep believer of Both Shavism and Vaishnavism. I am not wearing any gem stones.
Yes one astrologer scared me saying "get married before Oct 2014 else it wont happen after that"

Please help me.

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
I do understand your situation and you have my sympathies.
Yes, your chart configurations are not much to your advantage and so we
need to work to uplift you spiritual level which will remove obstacles in you way
to the maximum and bring your happiness and peace within yourself.

Firstly, you are having many functional malefics that need to be specifically
appeased through prayer and mantras daily. Your method is fine, but what I have
recommended in my post on Mantras for Planets does work without fail if done
seriously. I know that you are a religious type of person and searching for brightness
in your life s path but you do not seem to be sure where you are going.

It is true Ketu is a dramatic period of all the dasas, but lighting a lamp, during this
period everyday as a rule, to Lord Ganesha can only put you in line or with the flow of
Ketu. Other changing sub periods also can be taken care of with mantras and prayers.
Getting married in Ketu MD can miraculously take place with blessings and what people say
can be ignored. You need to find a compatible partner yourself. Do not depend on parents,
brothers or sisters or any one. You must look after yourself and build up courage. When you
start the prayers and mantras you will find a big change in your life. Pray to Mars for courage.
Go to agencies, and other reliable match making media. Only do things rightly in the sight of
god and mankind.

The planets causing problem is not the Moon in the 7H, but your Lagna is in the nakshatra of
Mares who is the worst enemy of this chart and placed poorly.
Then comes, Venus, for happiness/comforts/marriage
is combust. The house of the Moon is ruined by malefic aspects and hence your mother s early
departure, with a fallen Mars and aspected by malefics Ketu and Saturn.
Rahu and Ketu are causing lots of stresses and strains in your life. Jupiter too is a malefic for
your chart. Sun and Saturn too are functional malefics for your chart. So father is not of great help to you.
Mercury your lagna lord is your only saviour and best planet, is in infancy stage, and aspected by
malefic Moon. So difficulties for yourself.
So now you know something about your chart. It is not possible to give a probable date for marriage as
only a miracle has to take place with prayer and mantras and when the deities decide that you deserve
your wishes to be granted.
I hope you understand and acknowledge this position.
After you have read and understood and also read and familiarised with my post on Mantras for Planets
in this Forum, please come back for further guidance on the No. of repetitions and the specific
Planetary deities that I will prescribe for you.
This is a lot for you to take in in one go , so one step at a time.
Regards

[maviswa]

Prem JI

Thanks for the reply. I owe my gratitude to you.
Yes i am prepared to do any mantras and japam as guided by you.
But before that let me tell you what i am doing currently.
I recite Vishnu Sahasranamam, Hanuman Chalisa and Thirupavai(Andal's Hymn) everyday.
I do fruit and milk fastings on Ekadashi and the same on Mondays for Lord Shiva as well.
Please let me know what else i need to do to have a blessed and a good marriage life.

[maviswa]

Also Pem Ji one thing - Will i get married in the first place? I am very religious in fact very very but not religious enough to forgo marriage and life an ascetic life. Not having a mother's love definetly i want to get married to compensate for the affecton i have lost all these years. I have analysed myself well through all these years and have no doubt that living alone is not something i want to. hence want to know if marriage will happen (by god's grace) or if possibilities are very less. Please be frank sir.I have gone through many hardships in life that i can accept what you say.
Also how will my mariage life be if at all get marrried. This is again because having waited for so many years and going through all this pain, i want the marriage life to be smooth.

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
You are just a normal person and you are missing love, care and attention.
You do not need to be fanatical about religion or be an ascetic as
the Almighty only wants is your daily 10 or 15 minutes devotion and thanks and to respect
creation.
Do not overdo anything. You may sacrifice to a certain extent in some areas of life.
Pls tell me :
1. What is your level of education ?
2. Are you able to live and work and be independent ?
3. Are you in good health ?
4. Are you expecting to find a partner who is brand new or are you ready to make compromises ?
5. Do you use your heart or your mind more when dealing with people ?
Regards

[lightlamp]

Hello Sow.maviswa,

A chance for marriage occurs during july-aug for this year. Since you have no support from others, you may have to cut down your expectations. If you opt for a marriage with a widower with a son or daughter . you will be doing a great service and at the same time fulfill your desire who would shower love on you.If this suggestion hurts you, I am sorry.

Lightalamp

[maviswa]

Hi Pem Ji
I have completed my graduation and am working.Yes in good health. I decide things based on my heart rather than my mind.
But sorry to ask why are these questions beng asked?

[Pem]

HI
My DOB is 26-08-1983 and TOB is 09:35 AM - Place of Birth is Salem, TamilNadu.
Right from my childhood i have had enough problems. My Mom passed away in the age of 3 and my father remarried. Did not have a happy childhood at all. Now my father is least bothered about my marriage, There are no proposals at all.
When will get married? How wll my marriage life be. I have moon in seventh house/
Also Ketu dasa will start from AUG 2014. PPL said No marriage can happen during Ketu dasa. Is that true?
Please help in asnwering.Also will it be love or aranged? cause i dont see any possibility of arranged marriage in my life since none bothers.
Thanks

Hello Maviswa
So that advise and guidance, apart from astrological remedies, can be given.
I see that you are capable of finding your own partner through social media and
you seem to be quite independent and strong mentally and physically.

Astrologically:
You need to pray to all 9 planetary deities, including Lord Hanumanji, and recite
the mantras as per my post. This will help pay your past karmic debts and help you
to be at the correct place and time to meet the right people.

Independently:
If you widen your search criteria with regard to age of partner and be willing to also accept someone
who is a widower and who is experienced, kind and intelligent, to understand your needs and give you love, care
and attention it will speed up the process, and is a sure way to secure marriage with spiritual help.

So your chart suggests that you can get married with some sacrifices.

Regards

[maviswa]

Pem Ji
So u mean to say my marriage will happen ONLY after sacrificng..I mean as u said to change the search criteria..If there is a strong ndicaton of that in the chart i will modify my search criteria as per that. I have no concerns in that. But my main concern is my marriage should be decided only from my heart. No other criteria is important to me since i go by my heart always. Please let me know on the same.
Also Pem Ji all the mantras for the navagrahs how many times a day should i recite all? Please let me know on that also.
Thanks in advance for the help Pem ji. Thanks much.

[maviswa]

Hi Lightalamp Ji,

I dont mnd doing the same since i myself have gone through tough periods with my step mother. Hence i know what i should not do. But is the same indicated in my charts? Please be frank Ji.

[maviswa]

So does it mean my marriage will not happen through help from my parents and only I need to go forward and search for a guy. Please confirm since i feel i am very unlucky when i try to search myself. Whatever i searched and opted myself earler n my life failed miserably.I mean i had a love falure many years before. SO hence the questiom
Please guide me on whether my chart indicates love marrage?

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
Can you say more about the love failure many years ago - at what age, why,
how long was it for; the age of man; who was the victim; how you found him, etc
was he able to radiate love as you require; did he want a lot ?

[maviswa]

it was 7 years before at 23 and it was for a very short perod 6-8 months but the mpact on me was very huge since i am always a very true hearted girl.He was a psycho and was parallely following 2 girls at the same time. He was my office collogue then. Never do i think about him now since i have taken him out of my mind completely for the pain he gave me.

[maviswa]

Also he finally said he never loved me and that he cannot marry me at all.
SO that is the reason i am scared to search on my own. So what does my chart say Pem Ji? Please be frank. Does it say love marriage or marriage to a wdower or does it say anything else? Please answer.

[lightlamp]

Hello sow.maviswa,

Let me be frank.

Astrology, we know, does not provide a clear cut answer in all cases. Yours is one of them.

Loosing of your mother is due to your past janma. The reason is unknown. So how do you wipe out your
past sins ?.. Serving as a ' REAL' mother, for a girl/boy , is the best parihara and the sins can be compensated.
You can wipe out the sins only through service and not by spending few hundreds or thousands of rupees.

Think calmly and take a decision. This is not the only way, but it is one of the best.

Lightalamp.

[maviswa]

Thanks for the reply lightlamp. have a doubt here..just for my knowledge on astrology. When i have lost my mother at the age of 3, does it not mean i have already wiped out my past sins since i have lived without here all these years and that itself is a punishment for my past janma karma. This is just for my knowledge. I have never minded marrying a widower so that is not the reason i am asking this question, Just that i thought the other way around that i have already repayed my sins.

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
I trust you have gone through my post on Mantras.
I intend concluding your query with your last question on number of repetitions to
planetary deities:
Sun : 108 times daily
Ketu : 108 times daily
Rahu : 108 times daily.
Venus : 9 times daily
Moon : 9 times daily
Jupiter : 9 times daily
Mars : 9 times daily
3 times to the other remaining planets;
Target the required no of total repitions; and once reached, one a day to all deities and
pray to Hanmanji, for life.
When your Karmic account is in Credit balance you should start receiving fulfilment of your desires.
There is no measurement with a yardstick, but when you see blessing showering in you will then know
that debts both past and present are being paid up. Continue until you buld up a credit balance for
your next life.

Go to temple at least one a month and do archana for a navgraha pooja.
Your rashi nakshatra is : Uttarabhadrapada;
Your Ista Devata is Lord Vishnu.
I wish you luck and happiness
Regards

[maviswa]

HI Pem JI
I know i am asking a lot of questions i am sorry for that and i sincerely thank u for the answers u have given me. Just that i am very vexed with life to the maximum..no words can say what i am going through.
I still have 2 questions to ask u. Please reply ji.
a) the mantras that u have told me to recite 108 times daily, how many days should i recite them daily 108 times?

b) Present karmas i have not done any sin in my present life, did u mean the love i had 7 years before? That was not a mistake of mine. ALso u have not mentioned me whether my chart has strong indications of me marrying to a widower?
Please help in answering me.

[lightlamp]

Hello Sow.maviswa,

You wrote " lost my mother at the age of 3, does it not mean i have already wiped out my past sins "

No. it is only the start. What about the pains that you have undergone and yet to undergo without her love ?
The experience is the destiny prescribed for the sins.

No question from any one can be denied an answer by any one , if they are asked with the sole purpose of knowledge.

Lightalamp.

[Pem]

Hello Maviswa
Can you check up and tell me the no. of repetitions for example : Ketu : and then
you divide this figure by 108 and the answer will be the No. of days or sessions, which you
must make a note.
Do this for all the other planets and keep a tick, as a unit , for each nine or multiples thereof.
There is a beej mantra that has 108 beads for reciting and helps in counting.
Do what you can and reach the targetted amount for each planet.
Also pray from your heart and light one tealight with care daily and make a little altar for all the 9 +1 Deities.

Your break up is not a mortal sin and do not worry.
Pay respect to father, whatever he may be, this is the greatest blessing to receive from parents and elders.
Take care of children and treat them with love and understanding.
Do charitable acts, by donations to the temple, and helping others in time of need.
Be clean in your thoughts, words and actions.
Try and be more of a listener rather than a talker, especially to your husband or partners.
You may use your heart at first, but always think twice and use your mind when dealing with
your husband and close family, as this can prevent any misunderstandings. Try not to treat your
husband and partner in a very special way and think very carefully before speaking.

There is nothing that says that you will get married to a widower in your chart, but do not expect to
get it direct from a factory outlet. If and when you get it after your sincere astro remedial measures
then you can consider it as a special blessing to override all the obstacles in your chart.
You must learn to accept things to a certain extent and not be better about your life as this is very negative
and will not do you any good.

I wish you happiness and like to hear that you have started the prayers and mantras with fullest devotion.

Regards

[maviswa]

Thanks Lightalamp for the reply.

[maviswa]

Thanks pem ji for the reply.
Here is my understanding:
a) For Ketu as per your post on Mantras for Planets the prescribed round is 17000 times , u have asked to recite 108 times daily which means i need to recite for 157 days and from the 158 'th day should say it once daily.
Similayly i need to recite for each planets based on what u have mentioned in the forum and what u have prescribed for me specifically. After i reach the target count for all, i need to recite once daily for all 9 deities followed by hanuman chalisa till i die.
Is the understanding correct? The above i can sit at home and do it after lighting a lamp. Correct?
Also what about the days when a girl is not supposed to pray to god. Should i discontinue for those days and continue from where i have stopped after those few days. Please confirm Ji.

One last thing - Take care of children, whose children did u mean generally? Also one line where u have mentioned "not be better about my life as that will not do any good" what s the meaning of that sentence?

Thanks Pem Ji.