Dear all,
One of my best friend got married to a girl on nov 2013. He is very unhappy about his marriage as the girl doesn't seem to be normal who yells and shouts at him. It's been nearly 2 years she is living with her parents. The wife has got really wild temper an instance of hitting her on father. My friend has been threatened for a police case as well as the wife wrote to his employer and now he can't go abroad on on site assignments, they have got a son 1.7 yes now n the wife doesn't allow to meet him.( there is more appalling behaviour I am afraid to write deemed invasive)
My friend wants to find out if the wife is medically sound however she doesn't comply. He is willing to be with her despite of her aggressive n abusive behaviour if the cause of such behaviour is due to medical reasons.
Could any of you please see his chart and suggest what lies ahead for him.
1) divorce/ separation: can a second marriage happen to him
2) he loves his son: could he get custody of his son
He is looking for answers to above n based on what reflects in the chart he needs to make his decision either to divorce or not.
His details: 12.5.1982, 10:45 am, janakpur (Nepal )( for lat n long jaleswar also could be considered)
I really request to pls help my friend. I really are for him and can't see him in such state.
Thank you for your time.
Divorce or separation for my best friend
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Hello Diptir
It appears that he got married November 2013 - is that a typo error ?
Also, if possible, it is helpful with the dob of wife; and, a member will
find it better to see allround and respond.
Regards
It appears that he got married November 2013 - is that a typo error ?
Also, if possible, it is helpful with the dob of wife; and, a member will
find it better to see allround and respond.
Regards
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Hello Diptir
Can you say the following in simple english :
"....an instance of hitting her on father....." This is not clear.
2. Why was friend threatened for a police case ?
3. How long have they been separated ?
4. For how many years was he going abroad for jobs and the wife had to stay alone and
how long were his breaks for working abroad ?
5. From the time they were married did they live on their own ?
6. Was the marriage a love marriage ?
7. If she is of unsound mind, how do you think the child can be safe ?
8. Now its 3 years since marriage - and has the shouting and yelling been all along ?
9. Do you think your friend is a good husband without any misconduct ?
10. Do you know his wife personally ?
It is difficult to assess without a birthtime, but will look into it.
Regards
Can you say the following in simple english :
"....an instance of hitting her on father....." This is not clear.
2. Why was friend threatened for a police case ?
3. How long have they been separated ?
4. For how many years was he going abroad for jobs and the wife had to stay alone and
how long were his breaks for working abroad ?
5. From the time they were married did they live on their own ?
6. Was the marriage a love marriage ?
7. If she is of unsound mind, how do you think the child can be safe ?
8. Now its 3 years since marriage - and has the shouting and yelling been all along ?
9. Do you think your friend is a good husband without any misconduct ?
10. Do you know his wife personally ?
It is difficult to assess without a birthtime, but will look into it.
Regards
AS ABOVE, SO BELOW. ***Pls check my post Mantras for Planets***
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Dear Pem ,
For your clarification :
1) she hit her father once; I guess punched his face or whatever
2) she keeps blackmailing she would file 498.
3) she went for her pregnancy so it's like 2 yrs now that she hasn't come back to him but he keeps visiting her at his I laws ace.
4) he hasn't been yet. There was SB opportunity to go to America for 3 yrs. it was third week of his marriage n the wife didn't approve of him going to USA saying he has plans to leave her or he has a girlfriend there etc.
Though he wanted to take her as well with him.
5) the lived together for 1 yeAr . Out of which few months with his family and rest few months in a diff city,
6) it was a purely arranged marriage
7) she is mistrustful n abusive ( verbal n physical). She has been harmless tithe child so far.
yes! They have barely lived together. She is fine for a while but then gets very aggressive at some times.
9) indeed this guy is a gentleman. I know him for 10 long years. Very affectionate n caring person.
10) no I don't know his wife personally. Well once she wrote me email saying if I love him she will get me married to him and she will bear the expenses. ( I was stunned at this! It was 2 yes before) ( yes I liked my friend v much but it was all platonic we were good friends before he got married)
We didn't keep in touch after his marriage was fixed ( nearly 4 yrs ) I came to India n last week I wrote a email to him, he responded and we met again and he told me his story.
Unfortunately there is no birth time for his wife.
Thank you so much!
For your clarification :
1) she hit her father once; I guess punched his face or whatever
2) she keeps blackmailing she would file 498.
3) she went for her pregnancy so it's like 2 yrs now that she hasn't come back to him but he keeps visiting her at his I laws ace.
4) he hasn't been yet. There was SB opportunity to go to America for 3 yrs. it was third week of his marriage n the wife didn't approve of him going to USA saying he has plans to leave her or he has a girlfriend there etc.
Though he wanted to take her as well with him.
5) the lived together for 1 yeAr . Out of which few months with his family and rest few months in a diff city,
6) it was a purely arranged marriage
7) she is mistrustful n abusive ( verbal n physical). She has been harmless tithe child so far.
yes! They have barely lived together. She is fine for a while but then gets very aggressive at some times.9) indeed this guy is a gentleman. I know him for 10 long years. Very affectionate n caring person.
10) no I don't know his wife personally. Well once she wrote me email saying if I love him she will get me married to him and she will bear the expenses. ( I was stunned at this! It was 2 yes before) ( yes I liked my friend v much but it was all platonic we were good friends before he got married)
We didn't keep in touch after his marriage was fixed ( nearly 4 yrs ) I came to India n last week I wrote a email to him, he responded and we met again and he told me his story.
Unfortunately there is no birth time for his wife.
Thank you so much!
Hello Dipthir
Thank you for the answers.
I am glad to hear that your friend is a well behaved man.
What religious practices does he do daily for help in this situation ? and,
do you think he will follow a proper religious and spiritual path if you
tell him what the planets have in store for him and what they are doing
to him in his life ?
Or, are we wasting our time ?
I will have a look at his wife's chart although it will not show me the best picture.
I just wonder how they did this arranged marriage - do you know how they did it ?
Regards
Thank you for the answers.
I am glad to hear that your friend is a well behaved man.
What religious practices does he do daily for help in this situation ? and,
do you think he will follow a proper religious and spiritual path if you
tell him what the planets have in store for him and what they are doing
to him in his life ?
Or, are we wasting our time ?
I will have a look at his wife's chart although it will not show me the best picture.
I just wonder how they did this arranged marriage - do you know how they did it ?
Regards
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Dear Pem,
Thank you for bring so kind and patient!
I am not sure of the religious practices followed i guess he was still thinking that he should get his horoscope done before i gave him an idea to just go and do it but I am pretty confident that my friend would religiously follow the remedial measure.
This was arranged by his father. Typical indian thing well he was not forced in to it he definitely courted the girl for six months before the wedding,
I also request other astrologers to please throw some light on this matter. It will be really of a great help. I trying to help in every possible way!
It means a lot to me to help someone on such a traumatic situation.
Thank you for bring so kind and patient!
I am not sure of the religious practices followed i guess he was still thinking that he should get his horoscope done before i gave him an idea to just go and do it but I am pretty confident that my friend would religiously follow the remedial measure.
This was arranged by his father. Typical indian thing well he was not forced in to it he definitely courted the girl for six months before the wedding,
I also request other astrologers to please throw some light on this matter. It will be really of a great help. I trying to help in every possible way!
It means a lot to me to help someone on such a traumatic situation.
Hello Diptir
Its too late now, but I wish you could have helped this close friend before he married
this girl in a dark and blind arranged marriage.
I advise all males and females not to settle for an arranged marriage unless the accurate dob details
are know. If it is a love affair and marriage follows then it is the responsibility of the couple with
horoscope compatibility. I ask all readers to avoid such arranged proposals.
Not knowing the time of birth can have good reasons, but with Indian traditions and culture it is the
usual practice to note the time of birth. Sometimes, some querists have doubts about their time and
this is a better reason with a few minutes difference.
The girl's chart:
I have to tell you Diptir that it is not due to any medical reasons, but this girl just cannot
help herself from the frustrations caused by the planets and malefic influences caused by
malefics on the mind and emotions, and other reasons. She is just venting herself in this
manner. She is best left alone.
She started her Rahu Mahadasa in January 2012 and this will run for 18 years which will be
quite an eventful period.
continued on next....
Its too late now, but I wish you could have helped this close friend before he married
this girl in a dark and blind arranged marriage.
I advise all males and females not to settle for an arranged marriage unless the accurate dob details
are know. If it is a love affair and marriage follows then it is the responsibility of the couple with
horoscope compatibility. I ask all readers to avoid such arranged proposals.
Not knowing the time of birth can have good reasons, but with Indian traditions and culture it is the
usual practice to note the time of birth. Sometimes, some querists have doubts about their time and
this is a better reason with a few minutes difference.
The girl's chart:
I have to tell you Diptir that it is not due to any medical reasons, but this girl just cannot
help herself from the frustrations caused by the planets and malefic influences caused by
malefics on the mind and emotions, and other reasons. She is just venting herself in this
manner. She is best left alone.
She started her Rahu Mahadasa in January 2012 and this will run for 18 years which will be
quite an eventful period.
continued on next....
AS ABOVE, SO BELOW. ***Pls check my post Mantras for Planets***
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continuation...
Now the boy is thinking of 2nd marriage and now he is telling you.
Ask him to forget about it that the dasa is very difficult until it is over in February 2018.
He needs to take astro remedial measures for alround protection.
He needs to get up and move himself as a proper man and be more streetwise and not
be dependent on others for the cushioning of his life.
He married at a wrong time in the Moon dasa which began in 2008 February.
His Moon lord of lagna is in 6H of disputes. His worst malefics are Jupiter and Saturn;
Saturn is right on the 4H in transit disturbing the domestic peace and harmony.
Now is running Moon/Saturn.
His 4H is harmed by Natal Rahu and at present in Transit with Saturn and so it is like
hell for him. Also 12H, 2H, 8H are harmed by Rahu and Ketu.
He has exalted Venus in the 9H but her mooltrikona house is suffering
with an enemy, Jupiter in it causing misery in domestic peace and marital harmony.
Jupiter owning house of Disputes and is a functional malefic.
Ask him not to think of 2nd marriage, to leave his wife alone and take a rest till a few
years pass and according to the law of India ( I am not sure) he should have divorce after
separation after a certain number of years.
He now needs to turn to the Creator and get closer in that spiritual direction.
Now it is all in your efficient hands and not spoil this friend but be firm with him and observe.
Regards
Now the boy is thinking of 2nd marriage and now he is telling you.
Ask him to forget about it that the dasa is very difficult until it is over in February 2018.
He needs to take astro remedial measures for alround protection.
He needs to get up and move himself as a proper man and be more streetwise and not
be dependent on others for the cushioning of his life.
He married at a wrong time in the Moon dasa which began in 2008 February.
His Moon lord of lagna is in 6H of disputes. His worst malefics are Jupiter and Saturn;
Saturn is right on the 4H in transit disturbing the domestic peace and harmony.
Now is running Moon/Saturn.
His 4H is harmed by Natal Rahu and at present in Transit with Saturn and so it is like
hell for him. Also 12H, 2H, 8H are harmed by Rahu and Ketu.
He has exalted Venus in the 9H but her mooltrikona house is suffering
with an enemy, Jupiter in it causing misery in domestic peace and marital harmony.
Jupiter owning house of Disputes and is a functional malefic.
Ask him not to think of 2nd marriage, to leave his wife alone and take a rest till a few
years pass and according to the law of India ( I am not sure) he should have divorce after
separation after a certain number of years.
He now needs to turn to the Creator and get closer in that spiritual direction.
Now it is all in your efficient hands and not spoil this friend but be firm with him and observe.
Regards
AS ABOVE, SO BELOW. ***Pls check my post Mantras for Planets***
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Dear Pem,
Thank you so much for your massive favour for such a deep analysis.
I will convey my friend about it. Could you pls advise any remedial measures for him.
Well, he isn't thinking of second marriage but it was me who thought that he should go for it thinking that someone nice should come in his life to take care of him.
Well Pem, could you pls analyse my chart for my marriage; 24.12.82,Mumbai, 23:35.
1) when would I get married: month/ year
2) arranged/ love: would I know someone or marry a stranger
3) qualities of my husband( any hints that would help me to identify : education, nature etch whatever you could see)
I would be really great ful for your time!
Thanks,
Dipti
Thank you so much for your massive favour for such a deep analysis.
I will convey my friend about it. Could you pls advise any remedial measures for him.
Well, he isn't thinking of second marriage but it was me who thought that he should go for it thinking that someone nice should come in his life to take care of him.
Well Pem, could you pls analyse my chart for my marriage; 24.12.82,Mumbai, 23:35.
1) when would I get married: month/ year
2) arranged/ love: would I know someone or marry a stranger
3) qualities of my husband( any hints that would help me to identify : education, nature etch whatever you could see)
I would be really great ful for your time!
Thanks,
Dipti
Hello Dipthir
I appreciate your thanks.
You may give me the feedback from him on what has taken place so far.
Following this we need to know his reaction and if he sincerely wants
to do astro remedial measures. We can then go the next step.
Have I not done one of your queries before on some manglik matter ?
Was that for yourself ?
Regards
I appreciate your thanks.
You may give me the feedback from him on what has taken place so far.
Following this we need to know his reaction and if he sincerely wants
to do astro remedial measures. We can then go the next step.
Have I not done one of your queries before on some manglik matter ?
Was that for yourself ?
Regards
AS ABOVE, SO BELOW. ***Pls check my post Mantras for Planets***
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Hi Pem,
Thanks for your response .
Well, I haven't had the feedback yet. Will update you once I get it.
The manglik thing that was done I guess I am outgoing ahead with that proposal and now I have to look forward for other proposals. I just wanted to understand the time frame as if marriage is not on cards then I am seriously thinking to pursue a PHD abroad
Thank you once again.
Dipti
Thanks for your response .
Well, I haven't had the feedback yet. Will update you once I get it.
The manglik thing that was done I guess I am outgoing ahead with that proposal and now I have to look forward for other proposals. I just wanted to understand the time frame as if marriage is not on cards then I am seriously thinking to pursue a PHD abroad
Thank you once again.
Dipti
