Possibility for "normal" relationship

[Hellohello]

Wow! Thank you very much. Yes I see.. Actually longing for getting older, right now its just sucha Buzz about "doing something with your Life". Heard on other ways as well that ketu and rahus effects starts to "dissapear" at 35-40 years of age... I hope this is true, especially i hope my sun and rahu conjunction will stop give me fear and anger that i dont understand towards my father and towards taking order from "upper persons"... Its messing things up, my mind gets blurred and since i am a pisces moon i also want to please others, but with sun rahu it makes me hate that i need to please others, kind of havoc and makes me sometimes extremely egoistic(i Think im not sure). Even my mother and father told me they are more at Peace nowadays since from they were younger... But i Think the mystery of rahu and all the frack rahu and ketu can cause in a persons life, its just strange they exist! Why do they exist? I Heard that without rahu and ketu there would be no.. happenings really, no forwards developement of the Lifes and in society on earth. Is this correct? But still they make one so hungry and ugly...:/ strange. When one stops feeling this "hunting" tendency one can be more at Peace... I long fot that! but i guess its years a head of me. Take care revribhav! And thanks for your wisdom!/ from a sunny in Sweden.

[revribhav]

Rahu and ketu are shadows
They exist not the same way like 7 others
They are like equator,there is no physical line
They are like demons because they can give any gift
suddenly
and
take away more than what given to one ruthlessly.

They are illusory (called maya in india)
We all live in each one's own house of illusions.
For a rich man it is an illusion that he keep millions
For a preacher the illusion is religion
For an ignorant like me it is illusion that I keep knowledge.

Their peak years are 42nd and 48th respectively.

[Hellohello]

Hi! Interesting explanation! I liked the description of rahu and ketu:) I can see it really makes sense. But if the other 7 planets are real and physical life is an illusion, rahu and ketu should be prior importance in this plane since their also illusions? Or...? I think of the concept of the Arudha lagna, that is supposed to show the actual manifestation in this life, in the manifestations of the dimension of maya/illusion. Because the planets exist even as we go back to source, but the illusions of rahu and ketu dies as we no longer are a part of the maya dimension, is it then so wrong/strange that we act upon it...( just thinking for my self as I my self through the ketu years have observed different rahu behaviours with a bit of dislike and sadness)..Is this why the Christians mean devil is ruling earth, because rahu is a key player? And rahu is karmic backplayer? Isn't he? But why is it so obsessive ? Is it because we come here not to forget about what we came here to accomplish? Do you believe we choose to enter this plane with pure intentions or just partly because it more fun here? As well how important is Arudha lagna In comparison to birth chart moon chart and navamsha? Haha sorry I just blend it all:) thank you again for your answer. It make my day:) / hellohello

[revribhav]

It is because of illusion that we feel existence in physical world,vedic mythology says.

Rahu and ketu,2 shadow planets,represent the two aspects:
The illusion of dark (lack of light,black) is represented by Rahu.
The illusion of light,(the basic 3 colours of tv/monitor,7 of rainbow) is that of Ketu.

[Hellohello]

I want to thank you emensly for having this discussion with me. Im very thankful of having been able to speak to you.
Great love!/Frida