Respected sirs in this forum,
We have got our sister married on Feb 14th 2013 at 4:14am in hyderabad. My sister's date of birth is 7th may 1988 at 9AM and she is born in Kaikalur (Andhra Pradesh). My Brother in law was born on 12th April 1987 at 3:15AM in Kakinada (Andhra Pradesh). We were not told that this guy is suffering from mental disorder(Schizophrenia) prior to marriage. And it came again during last week of August 2013. Only then we understood that he has that problem.
Request you all highly learned people to please help us get answers for below:
1. Should we continue marriage? If yes, how would my sister be ? Will she be happy (or) she will be unhappy because of my brother in laws health situations.
2. If we break this, is there any chance of second marriage? If it is there, when will it be and how will be her married life during second marriage.
This issue is burning all our family members. Request an immediate help from all you learned people. Please help.
Thanks,
ask2512 (changed the name as we don't want it to be public. Hope you all understand).
Should we continue this marriage
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dear ask,
--a shani moon conjunction called vish-yoga exists in the 7th house making the marriage a big mental stress
--and 7th of navamsa is also Moon in the 12th house of losses and conjunct with Ket.
--And Mars is in the 8th the mangalya-sthan in both Rasi and navamsa....atleast in Rasi it is exlated.
--although Venus is well placed in both Rasi and navamsa....there is suffering fated in the marital relation hsip.
--a separation and 2nd mariage is possible, but as Revribhaav stated...not now.
--what astrology can suggest here is "there is suffering due to marriage"
what the girl and her family needs to decide is what is less suffering.....living throuhg the situation or walking out of it.
regards
--a shani moon conjunction called vish-yoga exists in the 7th house making the marriage a big mental stress
--and 7th of navamsa is also Moon in the 12th house of losses and conjunct with Ket.
--And Mars is in the 8th the mangalya-sthan in both Rasi and navamsa....atleast in Rasi it is exlated.
--although Venus is well placed in both Rasi and navamsa....there is suffering fated in the marital relation hsip.
--a separation and 2nd mariage is possible, but as Revribhaav stated...not now.
--what astrology can suggest here is "there is suffering due to marriage"
what the girl and her family needs to decide is what is less suffering.....living throuhg the situation or walking out of it.
regards
1हनुमान2अंजनीसुत3वायुपुत्र4महाबल5रामेष्ट6फाल्गुनसखा7पिंगाक्ष8अमितविक्रम9उदधिक्रमण10सीताशोकविनाशन 11लक्षमणप्राणदाता12दशग्रीवदर्पहा
Thank you Shipa Madam for your help. We have almost decided to quit the relationship. But we have a major concern if the second marriage would be fruitful. Else, it would be again a big pain for the girl. Could you please help me understand if the above reasoning would be applicable for the second marriage too (or) dosha gets nullified with the cancellation of the first marriage.
Thanks,
ask2512.
Thanks,
ask2512.
Dear ask,ask2512 wrote:Thank you Shipa Madam for your help. We have almost decided to quit the relationship. But we have a major concern if the second marriage would be fruitful. Else, it would be again a big pain for the girl. Could you please help me understand if the above reasoning would be applicable for the second marriage too (or) dosha gets nullified with the cancellation of the first marriage.
Thanks,
ask2512.
most of the doshas related to maglik yogas and the 7thn house are nullified with the end of first marriage.
because the second house rules the 2nd marriage.
In her case 2nd lord is Moon in Rasi and shani in navamsa......and both are afflicted...however the Manglik yoga is cancelled out.
so the second marriage will have it's share of stresses but will be far more stable and will last.
I suggest she starts propitating Lord shiva immediately.......chant "Om Namah shivay" 108 times daily...offer milk on shivlings, listen to shiv stutis and fast on Mondays.
^This will make the exit smooth from 1st marriage and finding a good match easier.
also let her visit shani temples on saturdays and offer oil on sahni idols
regards
1हनुमान2अंजनीसुत3वायुपुत्र4महाबल5रामेष्ट6फाल्गुनसखा7पिंगाक्ष8अमितविक्रम9उदधिक्रमण10सीताशोकविनाशन 11लक्षमणप्राणदाता12दशग्रीवदर्पहा
Dear Shilpa Madam, Revribhav sir,
I have a small question. I remember our sister marriage happening when me (Tula rashi) and my brother (simha rashi) were under sadae sathi. Also our sister's husband was in sadae sathi (kanya rashi). Currently, I understand my brother is not under the influence of sadae sathi. I have read some where that having more than one person under influence of sadae sathi in a family can impact the family in a worse way and the best remedy would be to keep one out them away from family.
Currently I am in sani/sani dasha in conjunction with sadae sathi. Do you think me staying away from my family for certain period of time would help our family get out of this trauma and regain our happiness. We also are lacking proper understanding within us (This has been there since I knew, surely long time. But it adds up to our pain now. Everyone is good. But we don't have coordination). Kindly suggest if me moving away from family would help us.
If required : my dob details
pob : Kaikalur
tob : 11:45 am
dob : 25th july 1985.
Thanks,
ASK
I have a small question. I remember our sister marriage happening when me (Tula rashi) and my brother (simha rashi) were under sadae sathi. Also our sister's husband was in sadae sathi (kanya rashi). Currently, I understand my brother is not under the influence of sadae sathi. I have read some where that having more than one person under influence of sadae sathi in a family can impact the family in a worse way and the best remedy would be to keep one out them away from family.
Currently I am in sani/sani dasha in conjunction with sadae sathi. Do you think me staying away from my family for certain period of time would help our family get out of this trauma and regain our happiness. We also are lacking proper understanding within us (This has been there since I knew, surely long time. But it adds up to our pain now. Everyone is good. But we don't have coordination). Kindly suggest if me moving away from family would help us.
If required : my dob details
pob : Kaikalur
tob : 11:45 am
dob : 25th july 1985.
Thanks,
ASK
Saturn is having extra strength in your chart.
It is exalted and retrograde.
Seven and half years are bad for those who sell their soul to the devil.
I may suggest you to be more practical than choosing the escapism.
It is exalted and retrograde.
Seven and half years are bad for those who sell their soul to the devil.
I may suggest you to be more practical than choosing the escapism.
Sir,
thanks a lot for the above readings. We are proceeding towards divorce. But the boy's family is not responding properly. We have been in discussions since last december. They have agreed to pay the dowry amount alone for which we agreed. They agreed to pay by feb end which they did not do and now are behaving in a crooked way.
Could you please suggest if this divorce process is going to be smooth or is it going to be tough. Birth details of girl are posted below for your convenience.
Date of Birth: 7th May 1988
Time of Birth: 9AM
Place of Birth: Kaikalur (near Eluru, Andhra Pradesh)
Thanks,
thanks a lot for the above readings. We are proceeding towards divorce. But the boy's family is not responding properly. We have been in discussions since last december. They have agreed to pay the dowry amount alone for which we agreed. They agreed to pay by feb end which they did not do and now are behaving in a crooked way.
Could you please suggest if this divorce process is going to be smooth or is it going to be tough. Birth details of girl are posted below for your convenience.
Date of Birth: 7th May 1988
Time of Birth: 9AM
Place of Birth: Kaikalur (near Eluru, Andhra Pradesh)
Thanks,
Dear ask,
This is not an astrological reply. I would like to know,what is your sister's stand on this? Whether the whole thing is primarily family concern or your sis is the first one who wants a separation? I suppose it's an arranged marriage and the family is also responsible for not fully inquirying about the guy. As a girl, I feel getting soon after ready to live with another guy will generate double mental agony for your sister. So better consult with your sister and see whether she is mentally prepared for this or not. My father who is having Schizophrenia, has talked about his condition to my mother before marriage and my mother has taken a decision to be his better half. It was a tough time for her, at times she was desperate. But nevertheless, the bond between them was strong and survived 28 years and going. Personally, I've always felt he is the best man for her and they are made for each other, except for a history of illness.Recently, my mother was doing this mother to daughter(unmarried) talk about spouse selection and I've discovered that in her memories happy times prevail over the early years emotional turmoil. I'm not asking your sister to continue life with a mentally unfit person, but to seek your sisters opinion first because she may already know the answer.
This is not an astrological reply. I would like to know,what is your sister's stand on this? Whether the whole thing is primarily family concern or your sis is the first one who wants a separation? I suppose it's an arranged marriage and the family is also responsible for not fully inquirying about the guy. As a girl, I feel getting soon after ready to live with another guy will generate double mental agony for your sister. So better consult with your sister and see whether she is mentally prepared for this or not. My father who is having Schizophrenia, has talked about his condition to my mother before marriage and my mother has taken a decision to be his better half. It was a tough time for her, at times she was desperate. But nevertheless, the bond between them was strong and survived 28 years and going. Personally, I've always felt he is the best man for her and they are made for each other, except for a history of illness.Recently, my mother was doing this mother to daughter(unmarried) talk about spouse selection and I've discovered that in her memories happy times prevail over the early years emotional turmoil. I'm not asking your sister to continue life with a mentally unfit person, but to seek your sisters opinion first because she may already know the answer.
