Pleaseeee help...I'm in high distress...

[saumyaa]

My DOB is 19:03:1985
My TOB is 12:05 PM
POB: Delhi

I'm going through a very bad phase of my marriage. In fact I have a court case against my husband going on. I want to know if I have a divorce. Do I have 2 marriages. I have consulted many astrologers. Some say that I have 2 marriages. Some say I have 1 marriage only. I'm very confused. I had a love marriage and married secretly in a temple.

Please help. I really need to if my horoscope shows divorce...

[Pem]

Hello Saumyaa
For better assessment of your chart, please answer the following:
1. Is it yourself who initiated divorce action ?
2. What is the reason ?
3. Have you now changed your mind, and do you want to save the marriage ?
4. How long have you been married and do you have any children ?

Regards

[saumyaa]

Answer to your questions:

1) No, it was my husband who deserted me for no reason.

2) there was no reason. I don't know anything why did he do such a nasty thing to me..

3) Yes, I want to save my marriage.

4) it has been a year. I have no children.

please tell me does my horoscope shows a divorce

[Pem]

Saumyaa
Looking at the planetary configuration at the present it shows that the
house of marriage/happiness is under severe stress caused by transiting malefic planets.
The Ascendant lord is very weak, fallen, The planet of love and happiness ,Venus, is
sitting with it and also suffering, and the lord of the Marriage house is fallen in 8H.
So all the odds are against the lord of the 7H, Jupiter.
You are at present under the planetary period Jupiter/Rahu and this period could not take the
stress and blows from the most malefic planet of the chart - Ketu - aspecting 7H.
Saturn aspecting 7H, Rule of malefic Rahu and the extreme weakness of Jupiter 7L and Mercury 1L& 4L.
Venus is also at present fallen in transit. Obviously the domestic peace and marital harmony are
disturbed.
So all these planets put together need to be strengthened by prayer to the respective deities,
mantras, donations and poojas, if you really want to save the marriage and speed up the
process of healing.
I can see a ray of hope of his return if spiritual remedies are done seriously and faithfully.
Ketu will move out in about 9 months, Saturn in about a year or so, Venus wil also gain strength,
and Jupiter will be relieved of the load of stress. But do not leave it hoping the planets will do
the work for you on its own, but it is your dues/debts you have to pay to these planets in this life.

Do not make hasty decisions, give it the time required, accompanied by a Spiritual approach.

If you require further assistance as to the Deities, mantras etc, do not hesitate to come back and ask.
Regards

[saumyaa]

Hi Pem,

Thank you so much for your quick reply. This gives me a sigh of relief as your reading is giving me an idea that I do not have a divorce.

I myself want to do spiritual remedies. I would be highly grateful to you if you can suggest me the mantras and the pooja I require to perform.

[Pem]

Hello Saumyaa
Could you please send me the birth details of your husband ?
In the meantime, I ask you to go to my profile and read my topic :
Mantras for Planets and get prepared, before I give you remedies.
Regards

[saumyaa]

Hi Pem,

My problems have increased now.. I have got to know that he has married another girl a month back.

I don't know what should I do in such a situation. His birth details are:

DOB : 23rd September 1983
POB: Delhi
TOB: 2:05 AM

He is a cheater.. please see what is going on in his life... did he have 2 marriages?? I have got the shock of my life. Now I want to see him behind the bars for spoiling my life... please tell me if his fate calls for jail.

[Pem]

Hello Saumyaa
How reliable is this information about what you say ? I have doubt.
According to his chart, he strongly attracts and is strongly attracted to the opposite sex.
He is a nice chap otherwise, except for this weakness in his chart.
Both of you were attracted to a love marriage not knowing that he is manglik and
withthis weakness. I do not see him going into isolation. He feels this way already in his
life as he is subject to Kemadruma dosha - loner/loneliness.
Your facing this rough ride due to the weakness in your chart and difficulties in the
house of marriage in your path of life. We really cannot put the blame on another
totally and have to take half the blame. When he came to you, he came the correct way.
I know we are in a present day culture of 'blaming society'. It could have been him or
someone else.
He is also going through a malefic period of Ketu which will be finishing end of January
2014.
Now you must try to forgive and accept. I cannot guarantee if he will change as this is his
trait, now that I have seen his horoscope. It shows that he is a victim of divorce unless
he marries a compatible partner.
I advise you at this stage to be 100 pc sure of what you say.
I am glad that you do not have any children with him.
Pray for strength, be patient, and let it pass the required time, after which you can take
necessary action.
I cannot see him changing his spots.
You deserve a better new life.
Pls do not hesitate to contact us in case you think we can be of any help in the future.

Regards

[saumyaa]

Hi, I could not understand what you have said... Are you saying that he is or he is not married to another woman?

Does his chart show divorce or second marriage?

Is there any chance that he will go behind the bars. The information that I have got about his second marriage is absolutely correct.

Please clarify.

[Pem]

His Chart shows divorce with the manglik influence.
There is no indication of him being put in isolation.
He has divine support for some reason.

[amithsriram]

Agree with Pem. I see more problems in your chart than the boy's. Looking at the charts, it will take a lot more effort from your side to maintain a relationship than from his side. Apologies if I hurt you or if I'm wrong but either way you should be prepared emotionally to face some hurdles like these. Pray a lot. It sure works.

[saumyaa]

that means I will never get justice.. it's so easy to spoil someone's life and enjoy... He will never go to jail for what he did to me. he spoiled 11 years of my life and then also he wont get any punishment. I didn't do anything and I m the one who is being punished. I hate God!

[amithsriram]

Can understand the amount of stress and frustration you are undergoing. As pointed out, it's better to remain composed and get involved in prayers. Forget about vengeance. For now, it's better to forget the past and look ahead. Thoughts like getting your ex jailed would only add to your worries. When those who earnestly replied to your queries have offered all their support to see you jump back to normal, purely out of the goodness of their hearts, you should use it to see the spiritual solution and recuperate rather than wishing for retribution. Do not give up hope.
Take a bit of time to recuperate.
Pray regularly. Keep a strict timetable for it and stick to it.
Don't sit holed up in your den. Keep company of friends. They sure can help in keeping your mind off your troubles.

[saumyaa]

hmmm.. thanks for your good words Amit. But I won't leave him till I get him into jail. No matter whether his chart shows imprisonment or not, I will make sure that he lands up in jail for spoiling a girl's life. If there is God, then my so called husband will definitely go behind the bars... I'm anyway doing my best to get to collect documentary proof about his second marriage and will get them soon too. And then I will file bigamy charges against him and then no one can save him.

[amithsriram]

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[khushi]

Hope and wish lord support you n be in your favor.

[amithsriram]

@Sweenym and Saumya: This is not a forum to vent anger against someone or instigate vengeance. Do keep some decorum while posting such comments.